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Busiest Day Ever | Don Ghermezian
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Today, I'm going to tell you a story,
a very personal story,
but I'm happy to share it,
because I think it's important,
and I want everybody to know that
Shmirat Einayim is not something
that is easy for anybody.
I'm not embarrassed to say
that several months ago,
for the very first time in a long time,
all of a sudden, what was
generally an easy thing for me,
not looking at things
that I shouldn't look at,
try and keep my eyes holy,
ended up becoming very difficult,
overnight.
And it was a battle for myself.
So I decided, one night,
I was going to speak to Hashem.
I said: Hashem, I know this is not the way
the world works, but I need Your help.
I know that the world doesn't work
where I ask You to do
something for me first,
and if You do it,
I'll do something back for You,
but I said: At this point in time, like, Hashem,
I don't think I can do that.
I need Your help first.
Things have been tough.
Business is tough.
So tomorrow,
when I get to the office, Hashem,
if You could show me a deal
that comes across my desk,
out of the blue,
and show me: Don,
I heard what you said tonight.
I will realize: Hashem,
thank You very much.
You’re helping me.
It's going to give me the Chizuk
and strengthen me.
I'm going to go right back to where I was.
I come to the office the next morning.
At 10:00 in the morning, I get a phone call.
It was a tenant that I've been
chasing for eight years.
Eight years.
No response, no this, no that.
No reason why.
They called me, they said: Our CEO
was in your center, the other day.
The mall was packed.
Everything was great.
We'd like to take 4,000 square feet.
We'd like to open this year.
Can you send us the deal
and send us the location?
Yeah, I can do that for you.
I hang up the telephone.
I turn to the heavens.
I'm, like: Hashem,
that's about as big
as I could have possibly asked.
Thank You for doing that for me.
I really appreciate it.
Now I see I'm going to
strengthen myself and go.
That was at 10:00 in the morning.
I got a phone call at 10:30.
Hey, Don.
Our CEO was in the mall last week.
The mall was really busy.
We want 4,000 square feet.
We want to open this year.
Do you have a space?
Can you send us a deal?
Another tenant that I was
chasing for five years.
My phone rang at 12:00,
1:00, 3:00 and 4:00 that day.
It was the single busiest leasing day
we've had in Triple Five history,
from the beginning of our mall in Edmonton
until the day that this happened.
Every single one was a tenant
that I had been chasing,
and every single one
was a tenant that called to say,
We want space in your center.
Now I hung up the telephone
at the end of the day.
I went home.
I told my family the story.
I'm, like: You guys want to see,
When you really want,
and Hashem sees in your heart
that you want to protect yourself,
you really want,
Hashem can turn the world
around in one second for you,
one second.
Whatever it is you need in life,
Hashem can, like that,
you can get it all.
How?
You go outside of your
comfort zone for Hashem,
and you will see what
Hashem does for you.
And I'll add one more point to that,
which is a very important point.
Just because you do that,
or just because I did that
and strengthened myself,
it doesn't mean that the battle's over.
Absolutely not.
And the problem is
that after a week or two weeks
or three weeks,
the Yetzer Hara creeps into your head,
and all of a sudden, you start stepping down
and stepping down and stepping down.
And after two months,
you've convinced yourself
that it was a coincidence
and then Chas v’Shalom, Chas v’Shalom,
you fail again.
The worst thing you can do
is once you fail again,
is to let yourself believe,
I'm a failure.
What does it matter?
I'm just going to keep
going down that path.
That would be the worst outcome possible.
Because people will fail,
even after you get six phone calls
out of the blue in one day.
The key is,
Hashem, I made a mistake.
I'm going to strengthen myself.
I'm going to start back at Day One,
and I'm going to keep going from there.
And when Hashem sees
you pick yourself back up,
you'll see miracles
after miracles after miracles.