Nissim Black במפגש מיוחד #2 — מה נתן לניסים את הכח להתגייר? | הרב שלום ארוש והאמן ניסים בלאק

foreign [Music] uh something uh beyond uh beyond anything that we could definitely say in this world is a beautiful gift book hashem i would say that this is the book i i don't think i would have finished my garris my conversion to judaism i definitely wouldn't have the the kesha to hashem that i have without this book the kharav says inside of here it's not a book really on marriage it's a book on a vote this hashem really and and learning really how to be bitter specifically with this book is not a book of read and do so read pray and do because the embassy is is that without tefila it's very very impossible to hear this i got this book in 2013 i think originally when i got this book life changing i seen amazing miracles and i ended up having to put the book down because it was so scary that i was seeing the miracles that was happening from i had to put it i had to put it down because i was i it was like magic you know i i literally saw the things manifesting themselves inside of my life from reading this book so i was like scared almost a little bit too scared now the difference was i started to see as i went on i see a lot of people who were telling me the same things they would have an amazing story the the emma says the truth is is that it's very very hard for a person to go against the nature the nature is not like that my nature i grew up unfortunately seeing my parents argue all the time i had no real concept of what shlom bias was or anything like that you know i thought you're supposed to argue i seen so many horrible relationships between siblings i thought the icker was to fight and to go back and forth because you you see that so much that you think is something that's normal so a lot of the concepts inside of here feel like they go against our nature and that's that's okay so by tefila by praying we can go above our nature and i really i really say this all my heart recommended reading any person who gets married that i know i i try to get them this book try to get them the woman's book but the truth is is that the life changer book i can't say enough enough about it never gets old it's advice for a lifetime [Music] um [Music] is that when i would like to say my personal journey when i was reading this book and uh maybe i'm sensitive maybe i'm not whatever but i found it to be so powerful for myself that after each concept i had to close the book and start diving to hashem right then and there i start to pray right then and there and and for that type of energy you have to be willing and you have to want to grow that's that's you know uh most of the time you know a guy sees something oh uh shalom by peace i wanna okay i wanna read a book that's gonna help me to make my wife shut up you know that's in his mind you know he's not thinking about himself at all but it's one of those things where you definitely have to be willing and ready to work on yourself and i i remember like yesterday reading this book and having tears in my eyes as i'm reading the book and i will close it and crying and and it's nobody's fault i just i didn't know i didn't know and as the the rob was revealing this to me this really made me a hustler to the rav because i reading this i said there's no way that anybody was able to be to be able to have this type of advice and bring this down that wasn't getting it directly from hashem after that we i went online and and was looking for reviews like as you always do and i seen groups of christians non-jews who were saying this book is anointed and if anybody knows what that means and these words are the words of god themselves and they're not jewish they're not jewish these are christian groups having study groups on this book specifically um so i was able to see the impact i had a friend who himself was not jewish she was in a in a felling marriage and for many reasons that marriage had to end it was very very hard on him but i what i did see was that at the end of everything he got this book and i remember at the beginning of everything he was telling me you know what my wife is nuts she'll tell you herself she'll write it for you or whatever she's crazy it was her the whole everything he started reading this book he called me a few days later with tears in his eyes saying that i can't believe i destroyed my marriage i can't believe i did this he started going out doing an hour of people to do every day this friend is a christian he's not he's not jewish he been to you know uh schools seminary to be become a christian and he said to me that i thought before that i knew god not until after i read this book and i started praying to god every day for an hour then now i feel like i know god like everything was a lie up until this point seen i seen that manifest himself into him being the most awesome and terrific husband today that that you know i've seen this book literally rescue people so um i really say you know but the the main thing is first know yourself if you're ready for real growth and real change then this is wow you