Rabbi Yoel Roth - Don't be a perfectionist

I was shabas in B Park cuz my wife is still was shabas still in in hospital so I was going D the bre they they they asked me I should talk there I should talk so I told I said by the she there was a student here in Yesa I I was over toldo the the the when he made a go told me this is my biggest when a comes to me mar I finished second time is the third time is the 10 time is told me this is my whole my whole this is my whole that I had to go further that that that b come told me I finish I finish M I finish so first ofal I told them that there was a man here they told me wased oh I didn't say from my because I I I was waiting to tell the the the H time there is there is something you know what I mean there is I tell every day I may I see him I may I see him there is a special number 100 time 50 time there's so there's a in B Park they told me o I'm holding now by the 98 97 and passed away so I told him Festival you you could you could go to Maran and tell the tell thank you marash I finished 100 100 one timeas thank you like marash was saying when you when we going to Oman you have to bringa for the theab the teach thank you I finished this year thank you I finished so there was a the wait it should go three years should go over three years every day day after day he he learned 18 so he wait till the the three years finish then he goes to Mar it says Mar now it's pinkler exact three years I didn't miss even one day if I not feeling good so Mar told him what is if you're going to missing one day so he comes out very very upset why marash didn't didn't give him a kiss a kiss or something wow you're so special three years every day you you wow hungarians they they like they see a child to give a so he comes out very upset don't give me didn't give me so I tell him this is the the the biggest physic because you're not a machine p is not a machine so only if every day I'm learning every day I'm going in Shool so if I going to miss one day okay so I didn't have the the drive the mo motivation to to come next day so ask him let me ask you something if you didn't eat yesterday breakfast you didn't e you don't you don't going to eat today breakfast if you didn't have supper yesterday you come home your mother don't have she told you I don't know today no supper eat something look uh take something so so I'm finished I'm not eating every day meat and stop it I'm I'm I'm I'm looking what I what I can what I can what I can I have to find something something so if I'm I'm not able today to learn 18 MN so I'm not opening the Mish even something if a person don't have what to eat you go you're going you're going to sleep H right hungry you're going to sleep hungry so if your wife don't have to make supper what you eat usually my my my wife I don't eat everyday supper my wife told me I don't I don't have K so I'm taking cereal this the best supper for me best up two two two two plat three PL car flex Rice Crispies no one one plate two plate three plate I'm full no the best thing you're not F you can't drink after after there are there are G are so so so no stupid he needs his supper supper if not his creamy or I'm looking in the cabinet I see there's rice cake or some crackers this What's happen what's what's what's was what's so bad usually there are cans so I take a a tuna fish can I open it up I eat it what what's what's so so there a person comes to my house and see what what's now eating crackers with with with with M carrots so this is my supper this is supper this is not saer I I I'm going to tell you what I'm eating for sa I have a steak and I have a sushi and I have a uh and I have a laa then I have a schnitzel so what what now so what I'm you want you want to bring me a schnitzel you want to bring me a a sushi I'm not going to go and sleep in hungry I'm taking something what to eat the same thing what you saying mishas this is not learning this is nothing what what I'm learning every day so what's now so what so I should go sleep I'm hungry I have to eat something for my I'm thinking so and then we see this B was learning here he got married and then he not a machine so one day he has time he learns 18 one day he don't have time he learn a so he tell me now I see marash save me so if Mar will will say wow every day every day every day the same thing what what what this this is not this is not the the way to to to to to set up yish K I'm every day and if you're going to miss one day and if you're going to miss one day you have to to to to skip a day with but if you I can't say I put T every day in my life so so what now no so I G to put no so I didn't put every day I missed I skipped one day from so now I should I should didn't put fil of course I going to put fil this I you ask me a story watch watch I tell you I don't I don't I don't I'm not into this things with with with no yesterday someone bought me a cipher I look the whole it's not I believe that can do everything you understand this is a teach me how I should be mic even it's not going my way how I'm thinking even it's not going the way how I I I imagine and I dream no it's not going there's a boy Yesa he don't know nothing what's waiting for him is in his life he thinking all day I can to have a house three floors and a backyard and a front yard I can to have a eye I going to look who's coming knocking the door and then I going to and then I going to take um people SU is going to I going to I going to I going to I give hundreds for peoples then I going to have a radio what's going in the business and then and then what didn't go and then when the sh comes it's it's like yeah know it's not not like like he dreams and then he don't know what to do the wife told him please don't come home anymore here play please please I'm going home to my to my mother what what what what what I'm doing now what I'm doing now then he has a wife but the the kid is not healthy and this and this thousand I don't have money I I I'm feeling like like I'm got I'm got I'm I'm I'm getting a nervous breakdown every minute from so much pressure pressure no what now this is a mo I have a rabber that the re told me push it push push it through it's going to be better tomorrow it's going to be better better next week it's me out from my from my