Rabbi Yoel Roth - Building a Relationship With Your Kids

revenue are approving asked we should talk about how to get close with kids build the relationship mirage gives out a lot of a lot of booklets for Jenna he Lou them all session a file of the mother says come up the ADA candidates almost an applicant is the same not a Dogma the DC person spending time to build up his business to make money but this all things is not a it's not for sure that all the time you're spending for your business for you for the ideas you're gonna work out its aspects FICA yes person spending time with this and this every minute a father sits with the kids for Brent spent the time with the kids every second every word every smile every sentence what the kid said and you're listening in the Rustom at the histor malls you showing inch interesting this is a zipper or vocal it is for it's not a sofa if you're gonna make something rival from this minute what you spend it's it's a vada vada vada are vocal not now now you can see it can't see it kill the small kids are Inc because young after the day's the kid grow up healthy because you have a card you know how a car works you know there's a you have to put in oil in the engine and you have to make an oil change if a person has the beautiful scar and he cared for his car and watch the car and wash the car like the OL every Sunday it's in the streets they're polishing the car and this is the whole life from people but if you're not making oil change makes to the shunts the car you could have the nicest car but the guy car gonna die kids you think that kids are gonna dress them nicely and I'm gonna find the kids to to be matching and I gonna give him the toys and I give him this all what the kid needs there are parents that think that what the kid wants what the kids cry you have to give him this is Ramona so this is a good father there's nothing nothing about dressing nothing about giving prizes and provide some presents there they want the kids has a mind the Moyers in you have to put an oil Oh in like a machine if that is not oil can't work won't work Oh what is the oil for child's brain above Emma modern a father's in Kabul there says the Mortimer equal to says the moisten this is the above Emma I don't know if you know this all names there are cracks even regular says that there's five per season we're campaign this name wooden sampans I dumped in a Bahama Bunnicula five parts if I'm not allowed to think that a sham is a gift blessing Hema see again but we should understand so the most calls and Kabul aspre above a massage services this is Kabul you want to build up the kids mind you wanna have a healthy kid the kid has to have other Emma that talk to him schmoozing with him Martin books pictures no small kids tell them stories from books with the pictures in play with them I have a special special Mother's my mother every night she plays with me again I come home from yeshiva and I was free booklet I was in a favorable not a from guy but the fries with our framing I thought I was hot mitzvahs in the body to see them there are plenty of cylinders very extreme so my mother want to mother plays with me every night again it was 70 years 60 years it was a boy I'm blaming though I doing is sheer I'm the oldest come play stump didn't even we don't have game she makes games with a not tic-tac-toe Tito's more first also tic-tac-toe many times but they make a make a holla games master size volleys and doctor that I stopped my line I stop alive say both of this these healthy for kids the mother plays with kids in our days their parents they don't have patience to kids so they think how I can you can put a written up of our shoots why get rid of them rid of them so they buy a gameboy a timeout or a xbox a tablet Kindle this all things in the kids sit in the room for hours of hours of hours and the mother and father have Manisha but it's not the right thing because a kid not allowed to to play with digital games with screen games it's not healthy for a kid yesterday I have a interesting question the people sending in questions and answers so a mother from Israel called Samuel letters that I have an 88 8 year old kid 8 year old child and I'm giving to watch for Mike I have a computer nothing with Internet nothing with games only your douches that change my life changed my husband's life and my kids from eight years looking the druce's and he starts anguish nice then she wrote me one sheet I heard that you said it's not good for kids to watch on screen so I stopped that's why give only to her on the phone but it's not so clear so I want to ask if this is okay so I wrote it no way no way a kid it's not good for kids to see anything it's not a matter if it's good things it's from subdeacon the kid like a mirror a mirror you know small kids and not allowed to look and admit it you get from this what I said is because Wow let's walk the minute it's not what I say can easily end up with small kids two years three years a day they didn't they don't know how to take it so I I do the same thing I hate for my mother and I'm not a I'm it lost me I know I don't let the kids one day till they not Smokies three four five no I'm not making a big issue because I don't have mirrors in my house where I have mirror one medicine chest in the in the bathroom I wanna mending the bedroom from me my wife so wait kids not playing in my room usually the kids they know the father's room is not a place to come in only if your middle the night you wake up or thumb stumble it's not not for father or mother but a king among Konya know what to do - even every day my my my son goes to hide it so he says for my wife I wanna I wanna say I want to say goodbye for my friend mother know what's going on here is a friend so the mother sees son without any kicked and he goes in the room and she and he says by for the marriage so the mother says it's the joke and then the mother mom terminal kitchen I hide walked after name when he comes back from the side in the mother says it's something wrong yeah because in his mind and my daughter friends he thinks he has a friend he goes after hiding Iran's in the room the first I wanna I wanna I wanna I wanna say hello for my friend in what's its what there's not friends nothing he starts crying I have a friend I'm talking with a friend and I'm schmoozing with my friend so you see that so person what's wrong noth-nothing kids the mind from arcaded is not ready for this yes a screen is not good for them for kids I'm not playing it's not playing once the time I take my kids to to watch a play calamari we accepted them they're not that I gotta to get out your name they're sitting the vison is using around cinnamon not good not good kids but so what I do I'm going on I'm right up in heaven for my kids know enough patience for them is the best thing I have also on a saw him because my have kids they want stupid game timeouts falter boxes for now I'm stuck in his back says I don't know about this game this game is that again brick brick batteries you know what this simple game if they have to make a line with back sit down let's go down and then a plea hours of hours of this is super the end so the neighbors has it my kids want to say this I'm a mess honest it's not a good thing even my wife told me I allowed a lot of times maybe give it you know admony given gone the room for two hours but it's not good it's not healthy let me unless that's that's spend time to play play together let's go a little bit no walk I don't think what to do to be close with the kids do in to grow up in the case that ever said it's not good to be attached to kids too much does not mean that and I should not play with the kids don't be spoil them don't spoil the level of boo boo boo boo boo it's not healthy for kids every little things to happen the shuttle should appeal to the brain at Attica and grow and grow that's all vaccine understand this is build around him not a lot to Kish not allowed to slab suddenly doesn't matter it was it to get my quiche phallic in I'm not to kiss my kid but not not 100 times a day very good very good because this is after they have to grow up the fans minds over but this antenna it's very important to spend time with the kids spend time with kids now the other side under that the kid has to know the kids not get on are your friend you have to be endemic not your friend not doing the stuff father they start from click even of the it's a baby it's nothing but this is a frittata the expense out buddy but I'm a father - ladies activate the machine it's easy when you see that and you when you see this by youth parents so let's go naturally Marcel Mauss told me we have Neal it's very very hard for about achievers to raise kids they don't know I don't see it so they see get to be Muhammad so they come up they don't know when exactly you have to see it and you have to continue it what would with tiller cameras isn't it's my strength took some along them does not string string I said for the random delicious every day does not discipline the class like there's a noise yeah you have to you have to knock Kovacs a medium the second is a another beta I wish through the they have to like a business deal someone I want to open our business so you go online searching reading looking examples and have them sudden sudden not it's a ciggy barium it's a secure channel I want I wanna I want to have how how the way you could know all itís you can be the smart person what that out fella yours ventilated person can know everything all scalars and all Isis but it out failure without begging cash and please i want to wanted to be a good father I wanna I want to know how not to be extremely strange strict not to be a half-caste to the F sighs will you come here because there are someone like me a brief you are so so so much busy with barrage why the wrong come to have meals one copy of me embarrassing have Neil watch a man says but actually have me emerges a you know the 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I wanna I wanna be mahalik you about the spaciousness maybe I'm and do good maybe I'm not do go that if a person wants to raise a family and he came did what exactly name did you recognize the design from there No transfer the Sandman very smart to hop around a person no to to break a person sees LED energy they don't want to do since no movies no magazine no nothing nothing I'm an Irishman how they so much ma'am carry them I broke them vikas all these cycles doubt these drives crazy this is all energy even goes around vikas to get I don't know if I don't get this is and in their energy thinks that this is coming from the earth stuff so it goes more in a nice ficus and this pushed him down just kill in this case this doubt kills them i'ma like to become a tree Suffolk so fix so fix Vikas Vikas Vikas Vikas Vikas because the exes are you know this when a person I don't know if he doing good if not this kills the bottarga demands the rebus said from Newton everything I'm doing and oh my eyelids was a tea everything I'm doing is only then the Sun is only that in my head I don't know if this is the way to do if this is there to do but if I mean I know this is the way to do this there's no me me yes I can agree if I know the a sham says you have to go ahead there's money is that money is so harken and I'm not gonna kill myself over to to do mitzvahs but the strike is you have to figure out yes or no first I have to to assume cast finest very sure so how so how I could be sure I don't know this palace is badass as brothers this brings the outer Emma's okay