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Blindness, Blessings & A Brother's Deceit | Rabbi Shmuel Goldin | November 18th 2025
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move in parastolos,
skipping over yeets on some in some on
some level and go straight to Yakov and
because the Torah does that. The Torah
in Paris toldos focuses not on Yeetsk
but on Yakov.
Um there are very very wonderful lessons
we can learn from what the Torah does
tell us about Yitzk, but we'll leave
that for another time.
We're going to look at the very famous
event very the event that we're all
familiar with where Yakov
deceives his father apparently in order
to receive the braha. If you take a look
at the first page, let's set the stage.
Setting the stage for this event is
Setting the stage for this event is a
statement in the Torah concerning
Rivka's awareness concerning her two
sons before they're born.
She apparently she's having twins and
the Torah tells us that they struggled
in her womb. There are all sorts of
explanations for that. And then the
Torah says that she goes, she says,
"What's going on here? This I don't know
why I'm having so much trouble. What's
happening? Why am I in such pain?"
And the Torah says, "Vate Lidros." She
went to find out somehow from God. And
there are all sorts again
interpretations how she does that.
And she is given the following prophecy.
Take a look at the top page.
Take a look at the second line.
Understand Rifkov she's told understand
that there are two not only two children
in your womb but two nations. Two
nations. And these two nations ye paredu
they will separate. They will not
necessarily they're not going to be
they're not going to be fellow
travelers.
best.
>> What? To put it
>> not going to be best friends.
>> No, not not going to be best friends.
Correct. To put it to put it mildly. And
one will always be stronger
and the older will serve the younger.
So let's focus on that middle statement.
The rabbis say something very very
powerful that really is very appropriate
for our time as always.
Gamarra says the following
one will always be more powerful.
Looking at the second second uh quote on
your page
concerning Cesaria
and Jerusalem
alam
if somebody tells you that both of these
cities are destroyed
don't believe
If they are both flourishing and there
are citizenry within them and they're
they're functioning, don't believe them.
Again, Cesaria in the in the Gomorrah's
quote here is representing what? Rome,
right? Quesario.
Yes,
if Quesaria, if Cesaria is destroyed
and is flourishing, you can believe
that.
And God forbid
if God forbid is destroyed and Quesaria
Cesaria is flourishing, you can believe
that
in a nutshell, what's the rabb what are
the rabbis telling us? that these two
very clear
views of life and philosophy cannot
coexist.
We've had that before. We had that with
load if you'll remember where where load
tries to become to stay the nephew of
Avam in Saddam. And we said they're
irreconcilable
positions
here too. We're being told she's being
told that they will be irreconcilable.
And she's told Vavia
she's also told that the younger
will rule the older or lord over the
older.
So these this is she's already told this
before the children are born, right? So
she has this in her head. She knows that
this is a prophecy that she's received
and it probably guides her subsequent
actions as well.
Go to the next statement. We're looking
at the events or at the situations that
set the stage for the major event. We're
going to look at
as
now he's very I very carefully
translated this
loved Asave
of his game and Rifka loves Yakov
doesn't say Rifka or says Rifka
loves Yakov. So along come the rabbis
and they tell us, you know, there's
there's something powerful in this
statement. What's the difference between
love and and Rifka's love?
>> Conditional or unconditional love.
Correct? If if it is dove or if it's on
something, then it's not that strong.
And Yitzk is clearly
favoring
Asov because he provides for him. Rivka
loves Yakov and and that statement of of
oh Have as Yakov loves Yakov again is
very powerful. It's a love that is not
conditional. And not only is it a love
that's not conditional, it's a love that
what? Endures. It's constant. Next.
Meos
Ben
love was as Yitsk grew older and he had
trouble seeing
trouble seeing his eyes dimmed and he
called Asov and he says Asov and Asov
says here I am. Now what does it mean
when we say that Gitsk was blind? This
very interesting question. Take a look
at the next statement on your page.
Basically, this is a famous medish in
Medish Rabb. And what it says is that
when Yeetszuk was tied onto the altar
during a
angels cried
>> and the tears that the angels produced
what?
>> Went into his eyes and blinded him. All
right? Now, we could take that again.
I've told you before that that medrashim
need not be taken literally. We can we
can say okay that makes sense that but I
believe there's something else that the
medish is telling us. The medish is
telling us I believe that the yako was a
formative
event in Yeitzk's life that colored the
way he saw the world. And you can see
that if you look I said we're we're
skipping over a little bit but I don't
want to leave him entirely. If you look
at the text
is never comfortable where he is. It's
always lagur. He's in the he's the only
one to leave cananan but it never says
vesv. It never says that he's settled in
cananan. It's always god even says to
him guros
you're unsettled. That gives rise to the
tradition by the way that that when we
count the 400 years that the that the
hag refers to in terms of
um being subservient to a strange
people. It begins say with it begins
with and the the answer is only because
he was never never comfortable. So this
all this is setting the stage because
one of the questions we're going to have
to ask is why does Yitzkak not see the
truth? Why doesn't he see? And I'll tell
you a story a truth an event that I that
I that was very formative for me when I
was in before I was in Englewood I was
in PTOIC Maryland and they had in
Washington the first survivors
conference and this was survivors from
the show. I went as a rabbi. I felt un
un
not not not uh worthy because I thank
God my my parents were not were not in
the show and my grandparents were not in
the show but I went
at one point we were in Kya the stadium
I think it was I forget what it's called
>> and we were being spoken to by
politicians and I want you to picture
there are the whole stadium is full
every time someone mentioned
the land, the state of Israel,
the entire place stood up and cheered
every time.
>> And it was unbelievably moving. And what
it cemented for me was that survivors
need something concrete to be able to
move on. And thank God God provided us
with that. that he provided us with the
fact that that the people could move on.
But not only the people could move on.
These survivors could could move on
because there was something imagine
survivors who see members of the IDF.
You know it to see that to to to see
Jewish people defending themselves in a
state this is it's it's unimaginable to
them.
Yeetszk is the first survivor.
Is the first survivor say that and I'm
suggesting the following that one of the
reasons he gravitates to Asaf
is because Asov represents that strength
that I told you we find in the state of
Israel. He's he he's not going to
gravitate to the to the son who sits and
learns. He's going to gravitate to the
sun that is out there and powerful and
strong. And as a survivor, perhaps
that's what he needed. Perhaps it's one
way of understanding why he does not
see. And therefore, when it says
his eyes were dimmed, it may not only
mean that he wasn't able to see. It
means he didn't see the world. he didn't
see what was happening or he wasn't able
to interpret it the way that it should
have been interpreted.
Okay. So, all of those events set the
stage. Everything there sets the stage
for what's about to unfold. And we're
now at the major event. And take a look
at the plan. All right. So, you know
this. Take a look at page number two.
Rifka turns to Yakov. Says, "Yakov,
bring me food. I'm going to dress you
up. You're going to go and deceive your
father. You're going to go and tell him
that you're Asov because he's about to
bless Asov and I want you to get the
braha.
Now,
does that mean aside from the morality
of this? Is there anything that that
bothers you? A really fundamental
question here.
>> What wouldn't
>> Right. Right. How does a braha work? You
know, if I if I give a braha to my son
AI thinking that he's yasi, does he get
the braha even though it's not the braha
that I meant for him? I mean, what's
it's not magic simply because I I say
the words, right? So, what's going on
here?
Even if Yakov receives the brah, he's
receiving the brah that was meant by.
So how how does that braha affect him
and how is it possible
and what is the power of a braha when
you think about it now that we're
raising opening that door that Pandora's
box hold on a minute you say we say mish
for people who are sick
God is going to decide on the basis of
whether they deserve to get better or
not how what is my
going to do what do we believe about the
power of Abra. So an answer can be found
at the bottom of page number two. And
the first words that Baraku says to
Abraham when he sends him on his journey
among the things he says
the braha,
you will be a blessing. And the rabbis
say, if you turn the page to number
three,
the rabbis say, well, actually, I don't
have it. I'll just say it. I'll say it
out off the page. The rabbis say that
what does it mean? You will be a
blessing. Until now, God says, I was the
one who delivered blessings.
I am retreat. I'm giving you the
opportunity now to have the strength of
Abra. And what does that mean? I mean,
it really talks about file in general.
And it's a much deeper uh event, a
deeper um
deeper thought that we need to to
explore that we have time for. But what
we believe is that God retreats
and gives us the power to affect what he
does. And therefore, if someone is ill
and and
we're praying for that person,
is going to listen no matter what the
what the situation is with that. That
adds to that person's merit. And what we
do makes a difference. when we pray for
ourselves
is saying I'm giving you that chance.
I'm giving you that opportunity. Yes.
>> How do you see the
in that context? Padakanim in that
context is a fact I I won't go into it
at length but just very briefly
piratanim comes in the Torah at a time
in a parha where the entire parha is
dealing it's a very staccato para it's
dealing different themes it's dealing
with harmony within the camp and what's
the greatest shalom so it's the kanim
are blessing the people that you will
achieve the harmony
within your camp and within your people
and that is giving them the power to
bless us that way.
>> But
again, we're not saying
they they will place they will place my
name on the people and I will bless
them. Of course, that's what we believe.
Again, it's not that I believe that my
blessing is going to miraculously
accomplish something. It's going to
move,
which is exactly what we're saying. And
think about it for a moment and I'll the
make is an extremely unusual
before they say
what do they do? They don't say
the per God who created the uh puta
in our ancestor
is what's the last word.
I I believe that what the Torah is
saying is that when we have aavo
that the shalom doesn't just depend on a
he on hashem's efforts depends on our
efforts. So that's the way I would view
it. Much more to talk about there. All
right. Anyway, so we we got real
problems when we look at this. Now let's
take a look at the other problems which
are obvious. The morality
deceiving your father. Is that the right
thing? Is that correct? Uh stealing a
braha from your brother. How do we
explain that? How do how how do we
interpret these events in a way that
that we can sit easy with what's
happening? And it's very hard. So take a
look if you will at a very interesting
there are all sorts of interpretations.
All sorts of interpretations.
But there's a very fascinating point
that is made in the Torah.
Let's take a look first of all at the
bar that Yakov gets when he is
masquerading as it's on the top of page
number three.
>> Page three,
right? It says
Yakov comes close to his father. He
kisses him.
blesses him
a
say this is part of the but it's also
mirroring what I said before you know
this is the son that's out in the field
this is a son that's doing things this
is a power all right next
and now look at the in essence
yes
>> the way I interpret this is evidently
he didn't the prophet
he knew which thing the word
>> it could be
>> by the end he al whether he's suspecting
anything now by the end of the event
he's certainly not sure right all right
because
I don't understand you're not talking
like as
let's take a look at the
May God give to you from the de of the
from the the rain of the heavens and
from the fatness of the land and much
visiro and much uh grain and and produce
nations will serve you.
and your the children of your mother
will bow down to you. Again, this is for
mirroring again that prophecy that that
Rifka received.
Those who curse you will be cursed and
those who bless you will be blessed.
Anything strike you about that braha?
>> It doesn't sound like the braha that
connects the all.
>> Yeah, I wouldn't think it does.
>> This is a braha that is all
material physical wealth. Right. In
other words, is there any spiritual
dimension to this braha?
>> I don't see it. Yes.
>> Okay. All right. That's true. But one
could argue that that is those who curse
you will be cursed, those who bless you
will be blessed is part of the statement
that nations will you know that you're
going to be able to succeed on the
physical level because those who curse
you are going to be cursed. They're not
going to succeed and you will it
other than that maybe it's a hint of
some spirituality but there's no comment
about God. There's no comment about
tradition. There's no comment about
spirituality. It's totally gashmos,
right? It's totally now
>> nothing,
>> right? Nothing about that. Not all all
correct. That's the braha.
>> Now remember, keep in your mind that
he's saying that
thinking that he's speaking to.
Now take a look at another brah which
many people don't pay attention to. This
is a brahov that Yitsk gives to Yakov
when he knows it's Yakov. All right.
Where where what is the the scene? Rifka
is afraid that Asov is going to kill
Yakov. She says, "Why should I lose both
of my children? If he does that, I'll
lose him. I'll
say go to your father and tell him that
you have to go back to Aramar to find a
wife and to get to go away.
blesses before he embarks on that
journey. Take a look at that. Number
three, the second paragraph.
And he tells him, "Don't take a wife
from the daughters of Kanan. Go back to
Panaram to the home of Musuel of
I'm sorry. Go to the to the home of the
father of your mother, etc.
And God will bless you and make you
plentiful and many.
You will be a great nation.
And may he give you the blessing of a to
you and to your progeny
is
to to inher inher well it's not really
in to acquire to acquire the land.
Now that's a very different.
So there are those that suggest that we
have the story all wrong.
It's not that I mean Yah the Torah tells
us that that we that Yakov uh that Yitzk
prefers as but it doesn't tell us that
that was to the exclusion of Yakov.
Maybe he was a very good father on one
level. He looked at his two children and
he said
alo
I've got to teach and and urge each
child to reach the
success in the area that they will
succeed in. And therefore if I'm talking
to Asov, I'm going to give him what? I'm
going to give him of physicality. I'm
going to tell him to succeed. And if I'm
talking to Yanov, I will and my guy go
and my concept is the rabbis say that
the two of them will create a
partnership. Asov is going to take care
of Yakov. That's it'll be fine. Yakov is
going to sit and learn and Asov will
take care of.
What does Rifka
Why does she why does she object?
because Yakov needs to get both brahoot
for two reasons. Number one, because she
does says you can't make a partnership
with Asov. That's that that's that's not
going to work. You can't trust that. And
number two, you've got to succeed in
both worlds. You have to not just sit in
the tent and learn. You have to be able
to succeed outside in the physical
world. And therefore I want you to get
now as I said this is very relevant for
our arguments in our day here in Israel
whether or not what we I'm not going to
get political now but the fact is that
that she is basically saying you must
get both braot it's not enough that
you're going to get the braha that's
appropriate for you have to get the
physical braha as well yes
>> you're assuming that you can knew what
he's going to do we don't know
possible that thought
>> that was going that
was going to give the
>> right
>> and the problem could have been a lack
of communication.
>> Wait, look, there's certainly an issue
of a lack of communication here, right?
>> Just from the text,
>> right? Just from the text. Um, yeah, we
don't know. Weren't it weren't we're but
maybe upon hearing the braha that he
gave to I I I go further. I think that
she knew
>> just my I my gut is that she knew what
Yitzk was going to say to each child and
she knew that Yakov needed to get both
those and not only did he have to get
both those he has to see himself getting
those brahood he has to recognize that
that this is the only way I can succeed
in life is if I am studying and working
and doing what needs to Okay, I'm I'm
getting a lot of hands up. So again,
I'll take it unless it's immediate. I'll
take it at the end of the class. Okay.
All right. So therefore, what we're
suggesting is a possibility possibility
that it's not that Ysk doesn't like
Yakov. It's not that he only likes Asov.
It's that he prefers Asa for a variety
of reasons. But he knows his children.
But he knows his children. He doesn't
know what the children need. And Rifka
is the one who sees that. And just
remember that
Rifka
is the one who is able to see the world
more clearly. And I have a theory about
that if you read Torah tidbits this
month. um that Abraham
sends Elezar back to where he came from
which is counterintuitive
because he wanted someone who takes the
same journey that he took in the next
generation and that they she's he looks
at he looks at Yitsk he says I was able
to create this this bo this um balance
of gtov
I was able to define myself because I
came from somewhere else. He's born
here. Afra may not know. He's never
going to leave. He's the only one of the
patriarchs. Never going to leave. He's
going to be friends with uh Yonko Kanani
down the block. And how's he going to he
needs I need someone who's going to see
the world. And therefore he insists that
Eleazar go back and bring someone who to
make the same journey that he made so
that that person would be able to see
reality the way it needs to be seen. And
of course of the two Rivka does. Okay.
Now let's go on because there are other
issues here. Let's go to the morality.
All right. So let's that's a question
that's very critical. In other words,
even if we say that it's not that he's
stealing the bra, but he's getting both
bra whatever, the way it's done is
really problematic, isn't it? It's it's
so we find that there are various
different approaches as to how to
buffer. I don't think we ever really
answer that question, but we buffer its
strength. The first on page number four
is from hesitation to denial. What do I
mean by that?
The look at the first quote.
Yanakov turns to Rifka when she tells
him, "I want you to masquerade and go to
your father." He says,
"Perhaps my father will touch me and
realize and I'll be as a trickster in
his eyes." Now, there are two words the
commentaries point out. There are two
words in the Torah for maybe.
Uli
and pen.
Pen always means they say something that
you don't want to have happen. Uli
always means something that you do want
to have happen. So those commentaries
who say that suggest that this is Yakov
saying I I certainly hope my father
figures this out. I don't want to go
through with this. And the next sentence
also tells us it says
Look at all the verbs there. He went and
he took and he brought. So whenever the
Torah tells you a lot of verbs, it means
one of two things. It's either the
person is very doing with elacrity
or he's doing it with hesitation and
therefore that's the possibility. So
that's one possibility. And and what
we're saying is that that at least at
least it buffers the problem a little
bit by saying that Yakov knows that this
isn't correct and he wants he's hoping
he can get out of it next.
Then you have the the the text itself
and he and here's an example of
something I've told you before.
There is a great debate between the
commentaries and the rabbis across time.
Can we find fault
with the heroes of the Torah?
And can the commentaries find fault? So
there are two at the opposite ends of
the spectrum. There are two positions.
One is
you can't. They were great. They're
terrific. They're perfect. Everything
went they did everything right. And
there are those who say no, they're
learning. They're on a curve. This is
step by step. We're learning things.
This is and they made mistakes. And
there when you learn, you're you're
going to make mistakes.
How you see that debate colors the very
next sentence. Take a look at page
number four,
the third paragraph.
Arak
says to Yakov, who are you? And what
does he say? Ani Asov.
Wow. All right. I am As of your
firstborn. So if you take that
literally,
it's a lie, right? It's it it it's and
that creates very serious problems.
Along comes Rashi quoting earlier
sources and he says, "No, you're
punctuating the the text wrong. Anohi, I
am who I am and Asov is your firstborn."
So you see what is what is he doing?
He's he's saying, I cannot accept that
Yakov would actually say it the way
you're interpreting it. And therefore I
am forced to take a position which is
and it it does doesn't do justice to the
text. I mean that certainly is not the
literal explanation of the text but but
he you you sense the discomfort. I can't
believe that Jacob would say
so it has to be that he's saying I am
who I am and as all right next but but
again what I want you very often we
learn these these statements and we just
basically you know say how the answer is
he's moved by a very powerful force and
that is I cannot accept that kind of act
action on the part of the patriarchs I
have to I have to get out of that box
and Therefore, he's interpreting that
way. Also, it says he then he says
Jacobsk says to him, "Are you my are you
really?" And as we said, he's beginning
to suspect. And and he answers
ani I am. So the rabbis say those who
are on that end of the spectrum, he
doesn't say an he says ani. What the
difference is is not clear to me. But
but the point is that ani would be I
really am who I'm saying I am and ani is
I am who I am. So these are this is the
this is a struggle and you can feel the
struggle you can sense it and uh yeah
>> very
how is it in the Trump
>> in the in the Trump in the punctuation
it's
an
yeah no this is very very hard to to to
to to accept that as a literal
explanation of the text but I'm trying
to show you how why why Rashi and those
before him have to do it because they're
on that end of the spectrum that says I
can't accept all right next other
possibilities
all right when we deal with the morality
legally look at uh number two on the
page legally sale of the birthright
synonymous with braha question mark
there's an event that happens before all
of this, right? And that is Y Asov comes
in from the field and he says, "I'm
thirsty. I'm hungry." And and he sees
that Yakov's cooking up a soup. And he
says, "Give me from halitain law. Give
me from the hadome. Give me from that
red lentil soup, please." Not please
give me
cuz I'm tired. I Now there all sorts of
interpretations is what he's actually
saying. So what does Yako say to him?
All right, I'll give it to you if you
sell me. if you give me the birthright.
Again, that's
an amazing statement and and
problematic, but As agrees.
So, some of the commentaries will say
that Yanov is not stealing the brahov
from Asov. Yanov was already given the
brah and now he's just taking what he
already had. Now the it's a debate
because it's not clear that the
birthright and the braha are ex are are
synonymous. It's possible that the
birthright is one thing and the braha is
another. But those who say that that
this is the e an explanation of the
yakov's action say that it's they are
synonymous later or now. Okay. Okay.
Next.
That's one possibility. Another
possibility if look at section 2.2
all's fair in love and war. All right.
That's all right. There are those who
say, you know what? Well, let let me ask
you a question. If we're fighting an
enemy, do we sometimes use deceit?
We sure do, right? I mean, spies this,
that, right? Where deceit? Deceit is a
tool.
when you're fighting when you're
fighting a a monumental fight. So there
are those who say this is this is what
what happens here is critical to the
future and therefore he has the right to
use every tool at his disposal and Rifka
has the right to what to make him do
that. All right and therefore all is
fair and love and war. Finally, and this
is really powerful.
Another way to look at what happens here
is what go comes around goes around.
What do I mean by that? Yakov deceives
his father. What happens to Yakov
throughout his life
>> over and over and over again? Right?
Take a look. Right? Take a look at at at
Lavon who and again the bottom of page
four. Take a look at Lavon, right? And
Lavon puts has has um
Leo go and and you know and and
masquerade as as Rael when he is
confronted
by Yakov and Yanov says to him, "How
could you do something like this?"
What's his answer?
We don't do things like that here to put
the younger before the older.
So there are two explanations. One is
that he is and they're both right. One
is that he's hiding behind community
mores or rules. We don't do things like
that here. But what's he saying to
Yakob?
you you may put the younger before the
older, but we don't do things like that
here, right? And it's very clear that
he's basically, as you say, giving
basically saying, you know, you're
getting what you're getting what you
deserve. Let's go to the next. And this
is a fascinating medish. And this again,
the medish sometimes, and we've not
encountered this before, the medish
sometimes imagines conversations that we
don't have. and fills in the blanks
because the Medish is teaching us
something. So what what is happening
here? The Medish asks a fundamental
question.
What did Yakov say to Leo and Leo say to
Yakov when they woke up the next
morning? Right? What was the first
conversation of the newlyweds?
Right? That's that's the question that
that the Medish is asking.
>> But
and the madress. Take a look right. Take
a look at
all through the night she made herself
appear like
when he gets up and he turn rolls over
and he sees oh my god it's not roel it's
le what does he say he says
basis
daughter of a trickster why have you
deceived me. All right. So, in other
words, he kind of is he's kind of upset,
right? To which the kazal say, what does
Leo respond,
right?
Right.
And you said
she's not punctuated.
All right. In other words, well, who are
you to talk?
So, what is the medish saying? Again,
the medish wasn't there. It's imagining
the conversation, but it's saying, take
a look. What comes around goes around.
In other words, you maybe may it's
possible that Yakov had every right to
do it. But when you open up the
Pandora's box, right, it's gonna it's
going to come and bite you as well. Go
to the next. Now, this isn't obviously
isn't the only time that he's deceived,
right? Take a look at at uh a couple of
other things. Take a look at page number
five. He basically says to to Leo and
Rael
as your father deceived me over and over
again during my time here. Now we don't
see that in the text as it's happening
but it's just the testimony of Yakov
that Lavan you know Lavan would say okay
you get all the spotted sheep right and
then all sheep were born spotted spotted
because aeshbaru was favoring Jacob so
he says okay no no you don't get the
spotted sheep you get the striped sheep
so now all the all the sheep that were
born were striped basically but Asov is
but but love one is trying to trick him
to deceive him to to take away that
which is he is earning. So again that's
a possibility. Then the event with Shrem
what happens when he comes back to the
land of Israel and they he his Dina is
abducted
right Dina is abducted by the son of the
and and the head of the city of Shem or
the son of the head of the city of Shem.
And the brothers turn they they they say
the the Shemmites come to to uh to the
to the brothers and say look we want to
let's be friends.
Let's you know let's uh what let's uh
let's let's work together here. And the
brothers say, "Okay, we'll get we'll
we'll one one one one thing. You have to
have you all the males in your town have
to be circumcised.
That's that's a preerequisite for us
being able to work together." Now, there
I I heard a sheer where where the the
the gruff said basically that they
probably didn't think that they would do
it, right? In other words, they probably
didn't think that that that because he
loves Dena or wants Dena that everybody
in in Schm is going to be willing all
the men are going to be willing to have
a circumcision. So, they were putting up
a a possibility that very well might
have been refused because they don't
want it to happen. What happens of
course is the themites
agree. They agree not because of the
love to Dina. They agree because the way
it's projected is we're going to we're
going to be able to benefit from this
friendship. We're going to be able to
become rich. We're so they do. And what
happens? Shimon and Ley
take advantage of the weakness of the
city. Go into the city on the third day
since the circumcision. And I think I've
told you before that having visited many
people in the hospital, I often find
that the third day is the hardest after
an operation. Maybe because you're you
maybe because at that point you're more
aware, but whatever. So that's when
they're weakest and they go in and they
destroy and slaughter the whole city.
Did Jacob know that's going to happen?
No. that he's deceived again by his
sons. And not only is he deceived, but
he says to them, "You shouldn't have
done that." But what's interesting, and
this is, you have to read the text very
carefully. What's interesting is how he
pouches that. Take a look at page at
five.
Um,
take a look at the second paragraph.
>> What? Page number five. Second
paragraph,
he says to them,
they're going to But what? What's he
saying? You shouldn't have done that.
Why?
Because you're making us vulnerable.
Does he say you shouldn't have done it
because it's the wrong thing to do? No,
he didn't say that. Says you shouldn't
have done it because what? Because
you've made us vulnerable and we are few
in number and they're all going to get
together and they're all going to
destroy us. How could you do something
like that? To which Shimon and Ley give
a a powerful answer. What do they say?
Una says,
"Are you willing to stand by and allow
our sister to be treated like a harlot?"
Period. And that ends the conversation.
And the question is who the Torah
doesn't tell us really who's right
there. In other words, there are two two
very clear number one, the Torah tells
us that Yakov is not talking about the
morality. He's talking about the
practicality,
right? and and the danger. And the
answer that Shimon Levy give is too bad.
We can't let that we can't let that
stand. And maybe they're right. The
Torah doesn't say Shim right or Yako's
right. Doesn't say with with that
balance who who who wins. Okay. Next,
finally, what is the not on your page
because you know we know it so clearly.
When does Yakov get deceived in the most
powerful way? When the brothers sell
Yoseph.
And what do they do? They take account.
They drip dip it in blood and they say,
"Is this the coat of your son Yoseph?"
And they deceive him. So poor Yakov
is deceived over and over and over
again. And is the Torah telling us, as I
said, you know, whether you have a right
or you don't have a right, when you act
a certain way,
it's going to have an impact. And that
seems to be what the Torah is stating.
>> What? A mother did it, too. Right. A
mother actually it made him do it.
Correct. We We're not talking about that
at this point. But all right. Finally,
in on page number five,
what I what I call God's verdict, right?
What is God's verdict? What does God
finally say about this whole thing?
He changes Yakov's name twice,
right? And each time he basically is
saying,
"You deserve what you're getting." In
other words,
you struggled for it. Maybe you
misststepped for it. I'm not going to.
But but
I agree that you should have this
blessing and that you should have this
success. And each of those times. Now,
what's fascinating, it's I'm just going
to give you a riddle. What changes twice
in the Torah and doesn't seem to change
at all? And that's Yakov's name, right?
Because he's called Yakov. And then as
soon as God go God calls him, you're
going to be called Israel, then it's
so we're going to talk about that. We're
going to talk about Yakov's name and
that switch and what it what it
represents. But again,
basically seems to be saying that Braha
ended up where it needed to end up,
right? It ended up where it needed to
be. And with all of the problems and
with all of the issues and with
everything we've discussed, the end is
correct. And Yakov
understands that. And by the way, one
other thing, and I'll we'll close
because I'm running a little late.
Yakov, when when I tell you that Rufka
pushes him to to succeed on the
even what she has him do with his father
is pushing him out of the tent. She's
saying you have to fight for that brah.
You have to and you have to act for it.
And she end and he ends up being a very
successful
uh merchant uh owner of cattle. He
becomes very successful because both
brahoot were necessary for his survival.
Okay, we'll stop there. Um I'm willing
to take any comments or questions but
unless the person