Beshalach - Be Better or Be Bitter

i was once checking out a school for my son and i go into the school building and i go over to the first kid i see i said tell me what are the guys like in the school the old losers okay what's the food like it's gross it's inedible what are the rabbis like the rabbis they're so boring they don't care about the kids i said thank you very much i moved on to the next kid excuse me what are the guys like in this school they're awesome they're such great kids what's the food like it's delicious every single day the food is so good okay what are the rabbis like the rabbis they're unbelievables they're so interesting to listen to they care about every single kid i said thank you very much i walked out and i'm thinking two kids the same food same rabbis same friends and totally opposite views how's that possible the way one is inside that is how we view things it is human nature when someone isn't he views everything negatively it's like if someone looks at somebody and he says hey that guy's ketchup on his shirt and he looks at somebody else and he says that guy also has ketchup on his shirt and he looks at a third person he says that guy has ketchup on his face until he takes off his glasses and he sees that he has ketchup on his glasses when somebody is positive the food's great the rabbi is great when someone is in bitter everything is negative when the jews came tomorrow the verse says they came tomorrow and they couldn't drink the water for it was bitter in this simple sense it means that the water was bitter and they couldn't drink it but the cuts forever translates homolytically the jews were bitter and that's why the water tasted better instead of one living his whole life condemning and complaining and seeing false with everything else the easier way and the healthier way is to fix himself internally to work on himself then everything is positive be better or be bitter you