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One thing that you kept on asking people, what do you need? The the question, what do you need is so powerful is such a deep question because no men don't get asked what we need. We're usually the providers. And so what's behind that? The what do you need? >> Well, we've divorced ourselves from our needs. We really have. But as I mentioned, you know, a child growing up needs stuff. Like there are survival things that I need. It's just how it's who I am. It's like if I don't if I'm not attached to my caregivers, >> I will die. >> Right. You can't take a baby that's even even a 2-year-old, three-year-old, a four-year-old, and put them in the forest and say, "Hey, you're you're go survive." Like, it just doesn't work. >> Mhm. >> So, growing up, we have needs. Now, what happens if we don't get those needs? So, I have I have the need to for someone to take care of me and to provide for me and to love me and to tell me that I'm good and to understand me and to listen to me and to see me. But what happens when you don't get those things? So, if I don't get those things, the only way to survive is I need to create substitutes for those things. >> And that's why today people are addicted to their phones. They're addicted to substances. They're addicted to external validation. Pornography. >> Pornography for sure.