I am not a loser

what's going on everybody how you doing I want to talk today about something personal that I have been going through the past couple weeks which is feeling like a loser in business and let me explain I want to bring you guys back to when I first started this company I remember in like the second or third month where I had made a couple sales here and there and it just wasn't popping off the way that I wanted it to be and I was really trying hard to make things happen and I remember I was sitting on the bus one day and I was sitting next to one of my friends who was a successful businessman in the real estate industry and I said to him you know I just feel like a loser I said things aren't happening things aren't working the way that I want them to be I feel like I'm losing and I feel like a loser and you know as as people as businesspeople and our our entire mentality is an entire self-worth is so wrapped up in our businesses if our businesses or if our businesses are succeeding then we are succeeding as people and for businesses aren't succeeding then we're not succeeding as people and it's couldn't be further from the truth and the past couple weeks I had a situation in business that made me feel like a loser and you know what I'm not a loser I'm the furthest thing from it I try with my whole heart I'm a good guy I'm kind I'm good to the people around me I'm good to my employees to my staff to my clients by the situation that was outside of my control that was making me feel like that thank God I dealt with it and I took care of it but for two weeks who was grueling wasn't easy and the entire time my evil inclination was trying to convince me that I'm a loser I haven't been posting as much I haven't been involved as much my employees thought that I something had happened but really ultimately was just this denying inside of me you know what we all go through it here's another thing that I'm absolutely sick and tired of is everybody pretending like everything is perfect and that's not the case life is not perfect the world is not perfect business is not perfect people are not perfect and you know what I'm not afraid to admit that I'm not perfect so in those couple weeks how did I get through it that's what I want to share with you because I know that some people are going through this okay I came in every single day and when I walked in the front door of this office I put a smile on my face and when I spoke to my client I put a smile on and I put my best foot forward and you know what just for me to show up and be average like everybody else I had to try five times as hard just to show up and just put a smile on my face it's like everybody else but in those hard times and we all go through them so I don't care you want to judge me judge me that's your problem because you go through it too don't fool yourself in those hard times you try five times as hard but you know what happens when you come out of that you know what happens when you come out of the dip you're already x 5 X 10 X and when you come out you're stronger than you came in and you're ready to fight another day now when you put that smile back on your face and the life comes back to you don't forget that there's other people out there that are going through that and you never know you never know here's what I learned during this you never know what's going on somebody's mind and what's going on with some insight some of these hearts and sensitivity is so so important so to my sweet people out there don't let anybody fool you don't let anybody tell you you're a loser don't care what people think and most importantly don't think that you're a loser the most the only person's opinion that matters is what's between the ears and what's up there the big man up there besides that everybody's obsolete do what you got to do hustle forward hustle on can't wait to hear you guys succeed and win I'm rooting for you I am I'm here with you guys I'm in this just like you not more special not more significant no more anything just a regular guy trying to feed his family and try to build a business by the way thank God we are rolling we're doing great I'm saying so thankful to all the people up there that watch this and follow this I'm with you let's win together have a great day