How to stop being so sensitive.

my whole life people have said to me barrel you are too sensitive when somebody used to say something to me the wrong way it would penetrate me in the worst possible way when they would say with the wrong tone with the lack of sensitivity i would not take it well at all my whole life people are saying to me don't be so sensitive i started working with a coach a while back it has absolutely changed my life let me tell you where i'm holding on the sensitivity thing by the way if you're sensitive to you're going to want to hear this he asked me what is your greatest gift innate gift that you think that you have what have you been doing since a child that has come very very easily to you and i answered that i have always had a unique ability to gather many people around me and to follow me in any particular direction when i was in elementary school i was a president of my elementary school when i was in high school and college before i became observant i used to promote a night clubs i would snap my fingers and 400 people would flock to any nightclub that i chose that night i got i went into politics in college i've always i made a social media following i've always had the innate ability it's for me it's like breathing to have people follow me and he asked me he said beryl why do you think that people follow you and it took me a second to understand i never thought about it and i said to him because i make people feel good and he said to me barrel why do you think you make people feel good i thought about it deeply and a tear streamed down my cheek and i answered because i am sensitive i'm sensitive to how other people feel i'm sensitive to their dreams their emotions their ambitions what makes them feel good what makes them not feel good i am sensitive towards that i have a hypersensitivity and i realized that this thing that i thought was my greatest enemy that i tried to destroy that i tried to bury that i tried to hide that i was ashamed of this thing the sensitivity is actually my greatest asset and the second i realized this i became like a bird you take that got the the weight lifted off of me it's like i had a hundred pounds chain a pound chained around my neck and i took that off and i'm finally able to now fly and i encourage you to look at yourself and whatever it is you find yourself if you have something about yourself that you don't like maybe just maybe that is your greatest asset in your entire life because it was for me i hope this brought you a ton of value my name is barrel solomon you could follow me on any social media channel i love you guys dearly i'm rooting for you i'm proud of you and don't forget to love yourself because you are beautiful just the way god made you