How to handle hate from jealous people.

good morning good morning sweet people i want to talk to you about something that i've been struggling with and if i'm struggling with it probably means that hundreds of thousands of other people are struggling with this too let me tell you what it is the bigger you get the more you're going to get people that are not going to be happy for your success the bigger you get you know they always say the more haters that you're going to get i never understood what it meant but the more i realized that i'm trying to really go for my potential the more that i'm trying to aim for greatness the more that i recognize the people some people not everybody and on the most part actually people are actually very happy good people but there's so many people you'd be shocked so many people who just don't want to see you succeed it's a crazy thing you know i put a post out the other day that unsuccessful people hate on people that they're jealous of and successful people run towards the people that they're jealous of in other words when you stay close to a successful person you're able to ask some advice you're able to learn from them you're able even if you just stay far by the way you just admire them you're able to you're able to open that possibility up for yourself if you've already you know i hear some people talking about rich people and i hear them talking about them in such a negative context if you think that rich people are negative then you're never going to be rich if you think that successful people are the worst people in the world self-serving whatever it is you want to call it it's impossible to ever become successful because you have already labeled that in your mind to something that is bad so if you are going for the gold if you're going for if you're going big like i am with god's help because i'm going for big i've decided that i'm using my potential in this world for greatness and nothing less if you're anything like me you've experienced this negativity from people so here's how i deal with it first you have to recognize where it's coming from you have to recognize that it's not coming from a healthy place it's not coming from love it's not coming from anything inside them there's anything good so you just got to put up a barrier i put up a barrier say you know what this is the border that i draw for myself you keep your garbage on this side and i keep my garbage on my side thank you very much i have a hand group a handful of people including my wife including my coach including my rabbi and including my best friend those are the people who i take opinions from if they believe that something is wrong with me i will ask them if i if i need advice i will ask them if i need a check on myself if i'm doing the right thing i will ask them everybody else's opinion everybody else's opinion does not matter and the second that i started doing that was the second that i was able to strive because if i always waited until i had the approval from everybody on the outside i would never do anything because no one's giving me approval approval no one's giving you approval and in life you just gotta go for it and that's what i've decided so if you have experiences please take this advice to heart and don't let anything from the outside stop you from going big on the inside god bless my name is barrel solomon if you're not following me already please hit that follow button so you and i could be friends and i could have the honor and privilege to be part of your life every day god bless