Be Happy! Every Day Is A Gift - Rabbi Aharon Pessin Shlita

Hashem shame against your thermostat like to welcome everyone to tonight's year from person Wolfson for sponsoring tonight foreign er.com speaking the topic of be happy every day is a gift it's my Covenant corner of fashion for tonight's Russian request [Music] it's okay it's a great honor to be here once again I want to give up have a simple thing be unimportant in your eyes for the organizers and the facilitators of this wonderful project of iron should give you Koya Hashem to continue with this unbelievable so many people benefit from it in so many different places that you should marry to do this for many many healthy years to come in military I want to dedicate this year to my dear friend I love Yakov David who is present here and also for somebody who came very far I don't know how far you guys came from but somebody came all the way from Los Angeles and that is my dear friend that came all the way from Los Angeles just for tonight's year after tonight you must Hashem they go back in Mississippi should have a wonderful life full of heavenly blessings abundance from above in both the title selected for tonight is Don't Worry Be Happy and try to make Every Day Count so if you don't mind I'm going to be speaking to myself out loud if you want to listen to a private conversation go ahead you're welcome to do so and we're going to try and touch on different pointers perhaps we'll be able to come out of tonight's sheer with some new understandings new insights I don't really be able to make Every Day Count I want to start with a question you know we have 365 negative Commandments in the Toya 248 positive ones what if they came to us and they said you know what for the next few hours you get a freebie you get one of the 365s lifted no restriction no limitation you pick what would you have picked you don't have to pay for it later no punishment involved one of the 365 I see the imagination is being stretched now to all kinds of different directions I don't know 365 different Commandments that's all said an unbelievable thing if they gave me the option to pick one of the 365 different Commandments in the third I would pick one that's in our Pasha once there's no Besame Dash yes sadly there is no way submitters today you're not allowed to bring a Copa you're not allowed to build Obama to build a Miss bayach outside base ammunition to build a coma said if there was one freebie that you don't have to pay for it I would run build Obama and bring a Coleman to akodes saying thank you for all I have think about it we have so much [Music] so much to be thankful for to bigacoba I know it's a major transgression but if only if only we were allowed to do this perhaps that is the way we should steer our emotions that should be the direction to be able to find new ways to thank you you know there was a mice in the time of Stalin where 24 students we're taking to Siberia and over there they had nothing with them they weren't allowed to bring anything to learn the only thing that the Russians allowed for the family to send prisoners in Siberia was cheese and the only way to send a cheese is to wrap it to the newspaper to wrap it with something so the 24th medium of the Novato kishiva sent a message to their respective families each one should rip a Duff from a circle is 24 we're 24 tell me in this way wrap the cheese with a page from a secret makois and will happen in time of seconds brilliant the problem was in our parasha the person says you're not allowed to erase hashem's name it's a disgrace to wrap the cheese with a holy Duff from Pokemon can you do this this child went to gidoli Islam among them of a sign said of course you can this is called bitula sometimes you have to nullify to uphold the Toya and of course you can that tell me them are going to be there without anything to learn of course you can but then they asked him so which camera should we use a used one or a new one said use a new gamale because in the old one that was already used there's more kadusha in the new one that wasn't used yet this is so if you have to rip the dapping from use the new one what's the connection to our topic of the night look at the tall medium of the Novato kishiva what they would do in order to learn what can we do nobody is restricting us no one puts any limits on us except for the limitations that we place on ourselves nobody says don't learn the opposite we are encouraged by all go and learn we are millionaires and as such we have to be elated we have the opportunity to connect with on the highest level possible to learn is Holy and sweet who can be happier than us since there is a crowd of some of you are know personally I want to ask you Shyla next month we're all going to be in shoes and we're going to call each other shimunagaboysai esteemed judges and therefore I want to ask you a question there's a China that came from adafioimi I think it was in the city of batyam you know what he saw it well there was a guy that comes every single day to the shield starts at nine and exactly at 902 he's already snoring away sometimes in one minute and a half after the beginning of the show but usually it's exactly at the two minute Mark after the beginning of this year and he scores he knows that it's north and it's loud and it's bothersome to all the other participants in this year he's obviously not getting anything from this year because he wakes up only when he hears the chair is moving when the shear ends an hour later so the participants in this year wanted me to come here to Brooklyn New York to ask should we tell him listen you don't gain anything go back home go on your bed and have a nice sloof maybe get a plate and go to a later Duffy or me oh get up earlier but this way it's not working it's been a few months that you're not getting anything out of it but you are bothering us it's bothering the sheer should we say that and obviously this will embarrass him or maybe you know he comes to this year he falls asleep he falls asleep what can you do uh what do you say oh not everybody together one by one I can't hear you when you're healing with me and leave him alone if you sleep you could sleep but if you snore we wake you up but he didn't know of this room and should we impose a new rule now I'm sorry [Music] it's a message a message to the kids and what if he doesn't have kids or they're all out of the house we need some kind of documentation I mean a nice it's nice to hear about Victor Miller as it sounds remarks but we need some kind of a documentation shots boys came something in order to decrease is amazing a little louder so you're saying let him snore and what about all the people that it's bothering in this year they for sure won't fall asleep but it's hard to hear the market cheer nobody say what do you say should we wake him up or not that's the essence of the mitzvah you should dwell in the sukkah like you do at home at home you go to sleep so you should sleep in the sugar in fact there are many opinions that when you go to sleep you say yes once he's already sleeping but you have to go to sleep in the Suka so can you pull them out a lot it's a shame maybe Mr circus we'll speak about that in this year but that's going to be an episode not here we should not wake him up but why first of all if he does have small children at home or even adults the tremendous comes first what do you say a little louder written is it in uh I tell you a secret there's no such thing as Castle China I just told the secret people tend to think that gazelle Shayna is a hazal there's no such thing is an invention of the great ethical Masters and it makes a lot of sense but it stems from there and that is already from the Toyota you wouldn't want to be woken up don't wake others but if you would want to be woken up by others you should wake up others as well so three reasons why we should allow them to continue sleeping first of all message to the kids when they see him at nine o'clock or 8 50 whenever he leaves the house schlepping that big going Mercy was snuffish he's after a long day at work and he's tired and they know it and yet he goes to learn tremendous message to the kids more than that tells us staying in basic nurses just being in the shoe in itself is a mitzvah even if you don't have anything from the sheer you don't get it but being in the show is a missile you want to take this person's Mitzvah away more than that very surprising we have the comment of of Paris Paris is one of baliato is one of the reasoning and he says an amazing thing when a person learns and he falls asleep on this game already and sometimes he drools a little who takes that jewels and with that is going to be him and Trias amazing that will awaken him that will allow him to arise to beat amazing from where says from that drooling that you have when you fall asleep who uses that so you want to take that away from him amazing but wait a second if that's the triassa may seem of men how do women get three years amazing you're sending us but that's a different question over there the camera asks with what do they go to the oil answers the fact that they send their children to talmother and they wait for the husbands when they come home late from learning but that's their ticket to Islam how about what's their ticket one was tall Toyota will be able to get here as amazing but they don't they're not committed and learning to you this is asked mind-boggling answer a woman has to dress modestly sometimes it's hard especially in the summer it's hot and she sweats oh she has a moisture this is the Dew of Toya that commanded her to dress modestly this is her tal Toya she sweats this is the moisture that she needs that's her ticket to Trias amazing the same thing that commands us to learn is the same to you that commands her to dress modestly same thing so she has the duo of toyo apparently you need some kind of a moisture is it it's a drooling that we have when we fall asleep on the game or dressing in its near stick way why am I saying this what's the connection connection to this topic now boys say we are millionaires you go to learn you didn't learn you fell asleep and yet you have a mitzvah says that even when you're sleeping you're having a midst of heaven when you're in Asuka yeah you're sleeping when you know this how can you not be happy who loves you he shares you with so many opportunities sometimes even when you're sleeping I want to share with you uh Rabbi somewhere in the states I'm not going to tell you where he told over the rabbit have a big show one of his congregants is an old man a holocaust Survivor and he noticed a very interesting thing ashkenazique jury name foreign but this is doing they only do it a few times a year yeah this is about Rabbi noticed that this old man the Holocaust Survivor every single time before belkas koyanim two minutes before he falls his Talis and he leaves the show Pele can't understand it what does he have against our koyanim and this went on for a few years one day this Rabbi decided I'm gonna make him stay so he goes to shul the morning and he goes to this fellow to this old man and he says to him listen maybe you would want to come they have with us at home wow thank you very much that'll be beautiful he said what at least today's thing however two minutes before because the old man takes his Dallas off he falls it and he leaves the show the rabbi said okay I guess I I wasn't successful what can you do fine the end of davening Rabbi leaves the shul and he sees the old man standing on the corner of the street he says oh you are coming to my house to eat sure you invited me no oh beautiful beautiful the rabbi was so intrigued they came home they start eating they drink a Bissell and you know as you drink the hearts open up so the Rabbi says to him can I ask you a question sure Rabbi no no a personal question sure you know I noticed that every single time before because you'll take your Talis you'll fold it and you'll leave the shoe what do you have against our granny did someone upset you do you not like bilka's going honey what is it would build a sky any menu the old man becomes pale and he is silent for two minutes after two minutes he starts shivering a little and he says to the rabbi listen I didn't tell this to anyone but if you ask me I guess I have to tell you you know I'm a holocaust Survivor in the camp we were 800 guys in a small little Shack we used to sleep 10 guys on one wooden plank somebody scratched his back smashed his nose quaffed the whole thing shook some people would fall they barely gave us food 10 ounces of bread a day if we were lucky sometimes potato peel soup it was so hot life was hell but you know in the camp in my shack there was an old man who was like a rabbi he had a long beard that somehow he was able to hide with a scarf and the Nazis didn't instruct him to shave it and he would always speak to us encourage us to do more it would give us nihama he would try to make us happy with whatever he can't whatever he could and one day two weeks before pesach he comes to us and he says guys you know in two weeks it's Pizza we have to bake matzah and we all looked at him Mata you in a concentration camp one matcha and he says but it's in two weeks at space we have to improvise we have to be creative let's do something and we thought he lost it but the guys started speaking among themselves and there was one guy who was who used to clean the house of the Nazi officer every single day so they all looked at him and said maybe you can do it you have a kitchen at your disposal crazy you guys gonna kill me but then you thought about it then he thought about it he says you know what between two and four this officer goes to sleep maybe I can do it there so the rabbi taught him the oven and what to do how to bake the matzah it took him a week and a half and a day before pesach he had one big round Mata Philippine Layla said they all sit on the ground 800 men and they start saying the hagada the old man the rabbi knew the hagada by heart everybody else joined in those parts that they knew and they had the matzah they're saying that Agatha and they're so excited and in the middle suddenly a Nazi officer comes in and everybody jumps back to their beds and the officer grabbed ayed it was right next to him and he says who organized this doesn't open his mouth who organized this if you don't tell me I'm going to shoot you five seconds four three two and before he gets to one the old man the rabbi gets up and he says I organized it leave him alone he ripped his shirt and he pointed to his heart and he said if you want to shoot shoot right here don't touch them the Nazi officer yeah walks over to the old to the old man to the rabbi and he comes over to him and he puts the gun right to his heart and it counts three two and then he stops and he smiles and all the Jews knew that when the officer Smiles it's going to be much worse it's going to be much more cruel than they thought it would be and the officer says I'm not going to shoot you I'm not going to shoot you now no we're gonna do it tomorrow at 12 o'clock we're gonna put you on a big stage in front of everybody in the camp not just the 800 guys here in the shack and you're going to tell everybody what you did your grave sin and then I'll shoot you and that's what happened following day 12 p.m a big stage they put the old man the rabbi on the stage took his clothes off all the inhabitants of the camp were there thousands of Edens the officer tells the rabbi tell them tell them what you did and he told him what he did his terrible sin then the officer comes he puts a gun to his head and he counts five four three and the rabbi stopped him and said wait a second it is customary in all nations that when one is executed he has his last request I want my last request as well and the Nazi Maxim and he says why would you like a little more bread a little soup a little piece of meat what would you like and he says I don't want any food so what do you want and the Rabbi says I want to give something to my brothers and sisters here what can I give them don't have money I don't have food to give them I don't even have clothes but I'm a Korean and I want to give them your name and he raised his hands the way the kohanim do and he started saying they didn't have muggle there the classic but they had a lot of bitterness they didn't have four cups of wine but they had four cups of boiling tears the ground that was saturated with blood was now saturated with their tears foreign somehow I survived and I moved to the states after the Holocaust I wanted to run away from anything that even had a smell of your diskite I wanted to marry a shiksa but I couldn't the old man kept coming to me appearing to me with his hands and it didn't let me I wasn't able to marry a chicks So I Married the Jewish lady I had some children I wanted to send him to a gorgeous school I couldn't the old man His Image carved on my heart came appearing to me again I couldn't so I sent him to a Jewish school so he says Rabbi you understand now it's on my heart I don't want to substitute it with any other birkas koyanim that's why I leave the show I'm not saying if Allah is correct or not I'm saying let's not judge other people who asked you to judge you know the directive of you should judge people favorably that's by the evid there's something that comes before that don't judge people until you reach their place will you ever reach anyone else's shoes did you have their exact upbringing exact family exact family exact friends exact School exact teacher no you will never be able to reach somebody else so therefore don't judge if somebody comes and puts a gun to your head and says You must judge him then comes the new directive judge people favorably when we do judge people many times that brings anger it brings sadness it brings bitterness all those things that we want to avoid today we're saying every day counts don't worry be happy don't judge people you'll be much much happier you know there was a melamed Arabi have little children I think fourth grader in yerusha line who took the children on a little trip to you to Tel Aviv and he told them the day before we're going to get off the bus it's a neighborhood that has a lot of dogs you know many kids don't get along with dogs there's not too many dogs in the usual in Tel Aviv there's many dogs so he was worried that the kids will be nervous they were going to be scared so he told them don't worry and you know it's a school of what to do if you see a dog you say let's practice it and he says to the kids and they all say no no say it again I can't hear you louder louder I said it 50 times they all know it by heart great he says you know there's another school you meet a dog you say apostle um the dogs didn't bark and he tells me time you say this it works let's say it together this is a few more words they took them a little more tries and they said it I don't know how many times 75 times 100 times and they all know it by heart let's repeat both goulos and the password and they all know it great the following day they traveled to Tel Aviv on the bus they get off the bus as soon as they got off the bus three gigantic dogs stand right in front of him and start barking all the kids run away and the rebe ran away first and jumped in the highest tree [Music] it took 10 minutes and all the dogs went away the kids all came back and the rabbit slowly made his way down from the tree the kids look at him what happened to the uh anode milvado what happened to the apostles no no no no no no no the scooter works the school that works then if works in the past request I just noticed that these dogs are not familiar with the puzzle you know some people talk about emuna some people live in Muna you know what it means to live in Muna in Taft ten years ago the Magid of neighbor passed away I heard the following from his son kidney function 40 years before he died that means he was 35 years old a young average seven children in Nebraska can't use his kidneys he went to New York hoping to get a kidney transplant didn't know a word of English sat here in New York for two years a wife seven children doesn't know a word of English and nothing one day after two years his friend from Israel who is the grandson of the diva yatif calls him and he says you know move in I heard that there was a hospital in San Fran the West Coast San Francisco there is a hospital that specializes in that I think you should go there there's much more of a chance you're going to get a kidney over there he said you're kidding me how am I gonna go to San Francisco you can barely get along here in New York I don't know a word of English I don't think I can do it the bowl system don't worry I'll come and I'll take you there and that's what he did he flew to New York and he boarded the plane they get to San Francisco 3 30 A.M they both both call their wives to say we made it everything is okay and then they go to hotel 7 30 A.M 7 30 a.m who's knocking on a hotel room they opened the door police officer police officer what do you want are you albashtam are you calistine yeah wait if you're downstairs you're the reception who's waiting for us you have a phone call who knows that we're here they go downstairs and they tell halberstam he has a phone call from his wife Suburban looks at his friend while he's talking to his wife and he saw that the conversation was heated it wasn't a very comfortable and nice conversation but it was embarrassed to ask him what what's going on with your wife they went to Daven they ate breakfast and felt there was an opportune time tell me I noticed before when you spoke to your wife is everything okay maybe there's something I can do so the Bible says I wasn't planning to tell you but if you already asked remember when we landed 3 30 a.m and we called our wives so sure it says my wife asked me where are we going to stay I said to her I don't know yet she says I need a phone number this is why do you need a phone number my dear wife in a few hours I'll get up in the morning and I'll call you or I'll give you the phone number where I'm staying she says no what if they call your friend from New York and they say we found him a kidney what am I going to do then the law back then was in New York that from the time they call you have three hours to respond if you don't they go to the next one on the list is a big waiting list and once you respond you have eight to nine hours to come to the hospital because they can only keep it for that amount of time so what if they call now from New York he says to he says to my dear wife it's been two years that he's here in New York and nobody called so now in the next four hours somebody's gonna call I don't know I can't I don't have the phone number I can't give it I'll give it to you in the morning so the Bible says to removing you know what happened 10 minutes after we spoke to our wives at 3 40 AM they called from New York and they said they have a kidney for you so my wife started calling all the hotels in San Francisco looking for two Jewish people karelenstein and haberstein and she called and she called and she called and she called and it's 6 40 a.m exactly three hours after they made the call they called her again to say we're so sorry but your friend never called we have to give it to the next one on the list so my wife kept on calling until she finally reached us and that's why she was yelling to me at the the phone conversation and that that's what happened I'm so so sorry and he had no idea how Republican is going to react you imagine after two years waiting and this was his chance heard this he got up and he started dancing and about his friend looks at him and says I guess he lost it I guess he lost it it's two years he's by himself here no wife no seven children doesn't know word of English and now this I guess this was the straw the destroy the brook the camel's back he lost it and the woven is dancing and dancing assistant what are you sitting come and join me sugar what can you do he stood up and he started dancing with him he says don't you understand don't you realize he says realize what who loves me so much Hashem showed me how much he loved me obviously these kidneys were contaminated they would kill me who sent me six hours to the West Coast to make sure that they don't implant these kidneys in me who loves me so much weight I gotta call my wife and he says now I'm in trouble removing runs down to the reception and he calls his wife and he says two rabbits in we get a Mazel tov it's really what happened you found the kidney because she said your sister no it's great we have to throw a kidish insurance just then why he says because who showed me how much he loves me obviously these kidneys were not for me who loves me so much promise me he'll throw a condition show three days after this the two going got the two kidneys died the movement was right but at that time removing wasn't one of godalia's soil he was a 35 oh year old young Ave and without hesitation as soon as he heard the story from his friend he stood up and started dancing says 40 years later I still see in my eyes out he jumped and started dancing because some people talk about remuna and some people live in Muna and when you have such deep immunity every Junction you see him in every corner of the street you live with the kodesh boho you are happy yeah six and a half years ago there was a mice in patriotic father gets a call I think it was a Thursday before passion and they tell him you should rush to the balance in hospital your son was in a terrible car accident as he's not in good shape so the father goes there and in fact his son is really really not doing good and the doctors tell him you know there's only one doctor now he saw it that can operate on his head but he doesn't work in our Hospital we're trying to get a hold of him but we can't maybe you have connections make some calls try to get a hold of him and this guy in fact has some connections and he makes some calls and he got the private cell phone of the doctor and he calls him and doctor says yeah she says listen this is what happened to my son the doctors are saying only you can perform this surgery and they don't know how long he can make it can you please come to operate and the doctor says yes as soon as I'm done what I'm doing I'll be over there thank you so much doctor thank you half an hour later doctor's still not there an hour later this doctor is not there down and a half later doctor is still not there he picks up the phone again and he calls him doctor can you make it they don't know how much time he has he's between life and death the doctor says yes as soon as I'm done I'll be over there well thank you thank you doctor please please as fast as you can two hours later doctor is not there two and a half hours later three hours later three and a half hours later four hours later and the doctor's still not there he picks up the phone again doctor can you make it please the doctors are saying it's marriage it's imminent doctor says yes as soon as I'm done I'm going to be there thank you doctor but please please rush over four and a half hours five hours five and a half hours after six hours finally the doctor drives to the entrance of the hospital he Parks his car he walks right in doesn't say hello not to the nurses not to the staff not to the doctors he walks right into the operating room performs the surgery and normally when you finish the surgery you go out if it's a doctor you go to the family to tell them what happened this doctor goes out doesn't say goodbye not to the doctors not to the staff not to the nurses just walks out towards his car and he passed by the father and he doesn't stop by him and the father at this point was fuming so when he passed by him and he didn't stop the father looks at him and he starts yelling doctor if this was your son you would also delay six hours the doctor didn't even look back and continued walking out went into his car and drove away the father was so angry but only for a few hours because a few hours later he heard that this doctor's son was also in a car accident that morning somewhere else and he didn't make it he died the first two calls he made to the doctor was when the doctor was preparing his son's levia the third call was during the leviath of his only son and instead of going home to sichira for his only son he came to perform a surgery on your own son now we understand why he didn't say hello to everyone because he was an apple he's a morning he can't say hello to people this goes with what I said before when you judge people you tend to get angry it's very hard to judge favorably so it's better not to judge don't judge only if you are forced to then judge favorably you will live a very happy life years ago one of God earliest soil was called he had a nickname the Shoemaker rubikov he was probably the greatest makeup in this generation this is the time of the khazunish and the khazonish used to travel to yaffo to see him we understand when the khazonish goes to visit someone that person is great he was a giant in negle in the revealed part of Toya and he was a giant in the concealed part of Toya he wrote spelling they call them the sunla the Shoemaker so one day shiman was marrying off his son who even his best friend comes to the wedding and we've insisted a stable and suddenly he sees the sunlight because of walking in WoW imagine you're sitting at your friend's wedding walks in he says wow it's unbelievable maybe I can get a brother from him and while he's thinking that suddenly this giant of giants comes and sits right next to him Bingo won the lottery so he looks at him he says maybe you can give a word of his you know sometimes we go through different challenges in life difficulties give me something that I'll be able to carry with me for the rest of my life who was known to be such a humble person looks at him and he says to him you want from me you want to look for me hey you know back where I come from in the village in Russia there was a guy who would pay 10 000 rubles just to see me and you don't want to kiss it for me can't believe it this is the person they say is so humble but I can't believe it I can't believe how he speaks who would do this and while he's thinking that he repeats himself he says so you are telling you where I come from there was a guy who would pay ten thousand rubles just to see me and you won't kiss it for me it's wow wait did I wait wait did I tell all my friends I just can't believe this and while he's saying this he repeats himself and he says I'm telling you where I come from back in Russia there was a guy who was blind he would be willing to give even ten thousand rubles just to see even a person like me so you want for me what do you need for me you are a walking Hazard machine you got up this morning your eyes were okay digestive system was functioning your shoulders your knee were bending machine from my own flesh look at your body and you can see I got this bottle so why do you need please look for me and when you constantly count your blessings and look at all the positives who showers us with you're going to be very happy it's an ongoing Facebook machine that we have it's called the human body it's called the connection since it's summertime I think it's a mitzvah to tell this mice I heard it in the winter I think it's a summer Miser was standing at a bus stop will they start me waiting for a bus a bunch of people there a lady comes over and she says excuse me what time is it the Bella looks at his watch it's 2 15. well thank you very much and she steps away exactly two minutes later she comes back excuse me what time is it 217. thank you very much she steps away two minutes later she comes back excuse me what time is it as much it's 219. oh thank you very much he steps away that tall media is getting upset every time she comes back you're gonna have to answer her there's no cheer to this there's no end every single time every two minutes tell me then he told him and who told you it's the same woman who told you it's the same woman I think it was kedai if I only came to America she's still dismiss it it's already good day who told you it's the same woman his grandson is a big boy sick in London he recently passed away he was once walking with his wife in the Streets of London and suddenly he crossed the street he went over to a married lady and he says to wow your shayta looks gorgeous it looked like a million dollars but that's amazing beautiful mom is beautiful and everybody heard it and people heard it were in shock what a bridge of sneeze foreign what an embarrassment how do you approach a married lady in the middle of the street and compliment Rana what are you doing what happened to you by the way your wife is here objection system do you know it's been 20 years that I've been working on this lady to start covering her hair and last week she finally did this is the first time I'm seeing her since I had to go over to compliment around Richard who asked you to judge you're already judging just preferably but don't judge when you judge people you're going to get upset you're gonna have enemies you're gonna be bitter why do you need it you know the Shabbat Israeli Secret Service comparable here to the CIA there was a guy when a call moving who was hired by the Shabbat he started working and he moved up the ranks and the major focus of the training was that if you fall into enemy hands no matter what you don't give over any secrets obviously job number one and one day Bali exactly what he feared came three Arabs captured him they knew exactly his position they put him in a dungeon and they tortured him for three days and three nights give over the information that you have and luvin refused he was trained to refuse and they told him look we know you're married we know you have four young children at home if you talk you walk Louvin didn't open his mouth three terrible days after three days they come to him and they say listen tomorrow 12 noon it's a deadline if you speak you walk you go home if you don't one bullet right here and your wife and children will never see you they left him and even tries to go to sleep and he can't and he says to himself why do I need this why do I need this do I really want my wife to be a young Widow my four children to be young orphans I give enough I suffered enough already and he decided that tomorrow morning he will reveal the secrets not all of them just enough to be able to be eaten and then hopefully there in fact they will release him following day 11 o'clock they come no move in what did you decide you have one hour and he says I still think about it living you have one hour and they left and he says you know it says sometimes decrees are canceled I'll wait to the last second and then he sits in his cell and he suddenly hears some voices he puts his ear to the wall and he hears his captors and they're speaking in Hebrew that doesn't make any sense wait a second that means they also work for the same service that I do it's just a test they want to see how loyal dedicated and committed I am to the service you know what so I'm not going to open my mouth my mouth I'm not gonna say anything and they decided no matter what he doesn't open his mouth 11 59 they come into the room the Arab puts a gun to his head and he starts counting the seconds Louvin you have one minute to go maybe the last minute of your life 11 45 11 59 45 seconds 46 seconds 47 seconds and 10 second countdown 51 52 he says to him seven six five four everyone is shaking but he decided he's not gonna open his mouth three two one and exactly 12 o'clock he puts down his gun he extends his arm he shakes his hand he says Mazel Tov you just moved up a rank and oven says the only reason I was able to withstand the test is because I realized it was a test what we say that's our life all the challenges all the difficulties that you have they're testing us to see how loyal or dedicated how committed we are to the service if an obstacle is like a hump on the road so once you pass it you actually find yourself a Little Closer it's all a test coming from a compassionate loving father so if he is the ultimate trainer who wants to make you an improved person are you not going to be happy you're in the best of hands there was a guy who was in the process of converting took him about a year and a half Eddie was ready he was by the base dinner very big business for you him so bless him felt that he is ready it was during the nine days reminiscent came over to him and he says as far as we're concerned you are ready if you want you can do it tomorrow you can join us tomorrow but everything says to him you know in a few days it's Tish above it's a long fast it's 25 hours and pray back it's really hot if you want we can push it off the next week the guy says to him fasting is not a problem for me I fast many times so health reasons it's not a problem for me at all but I have Allah I read that in Allah during this time you don't get married and we're all be available nine days the peak of the availus you can't have simra and he says to me to convert is the greatest simcha than my wedding day so am I allowed to get converted now we were already born Jewish it should be a wedding every single day more so than a wedding if they're going to accept it are we not going to understand it what gives us joy message took many years and he finally had one daughter he only had one daughter and she when she came of age she got engaged to the ilui of the garage bill was his name was so happy he's going to have this done with him as a son-in-law great he was expecting a life of simchayanagas they got married and shortly after the wedding his daughter became Michigan was the first one to go to his young son-in-law and said listen you have a problem a technical problem you can't marry another wife you also can't divorce her because she's not sane in order to marry another wife you need a header a hotel from 100 rabbis in three different countries I will be the first one to sign on that he says to him no I am proud to say you are my schwer whatever wants that's what's going to happen shortly after things became much worse so much so that the message had to move to the end of town so people won't hear her screaming and screeching and it would bother people things became worse and at one point she would take a knife from the kitchen and she would try to stab her own father the message and shortly after she died and everybody who knew the message testified that he always had simcha and shalva he was happy and he was always when you know the tests are coming from you are happy there's no coincidence in the world the word coincidence in Hebrew is mikre which is the same words same letters that make up the words Hashem the source is one the sources of say that is the same letters as because it's up to you it's in your hands it's in your makshava to be besimha foreign they both say is greater than performing the Mitzvah itself and you get greater reward for the simcha that you have for performing a Mitzvah then for the Mitzvah itself and we have so many Mitzvahs how can we not be happy but I think there is one thing that can really yield simcha ongoing Everlasting and that is because you know that iavil is our heart and the oven is simcha so I want to share with you something that when I first saw it I got so much simcha it is so sweet I call it a dietetic vote it makes you so satiated but zero calories just make sure you warn your wives you're not gonna need dessert for two weeks after this you can see how sweet the toy is fascinating everybody is going to be there at the end of this says why don't you bench who says I can't why not you know I had any smile I'm not suitable for the job you bench and it says I can't I'm not fitting for the job I had an ace of coming for me why don't you bench I'm I can't I'm sorry I married two sisters and later on there's gonna be a Toyota that's going to say this is also moisha can you bench for us I can't I wasn't zoja to go in territor Yeshua can you bench I can't I was in circuit to have a son who's gonna bench says sure is [Applause] Yeshua they found some kind of gum but of it bring it on how is that possible the many answers the martial explains what is bilkas Amazon it's all about Breeze have a problem with Ishmael hey solve the problem with the Bliss Miller how can he say benching when we say thank you for the Toyota and he did something that later on the Toyota will say it's awesome Yeshua they didn't come in Terrace they weren't even though Yeshua did but to build base amazing that she was able to do all of these so he can do that's what the Masha says she has an interesting invention he says we learn the guest he benches he says about himself he's a stranger he's a foreigner well so he wants to help now comes the fun part foreign look what he does without delicious says was removed from him for six months that's what it says in yumaghav base and that is for 22 years and he would take his pita bread and dip it in ashes and he would cry every day a cup of tears and he would drink it to be me Pastor can tell him are you used to eat my bread with ashes and I drank my tears so let's do some math drinks a cup of Tears every day when we say the word a cup what does that mean when we don't have an exact number what is a cup in halacha leves a quarter of Luke great does this every single day for 22 years so how many days are there in a year 365 in a Solo year how about a lunar year our year 354 but we're going to use the 365. why because every 19 years cycle there are seven leap years you have to add another month and we're talking about a 22-year period so we have 19 years plus three years it's another leap year so it matches up and therefore we're going to use a 365 days so let's do some maths it should be easy a quarter of a Luke Ravis times 365 days a year that's wrong there's 63 days you can't cry whatever shop is yontef in order to cry so there are 63 days you can't cry over the course of a year so 365 minus 63 is 302. let's see who is good in math 302 days times a quarter is 75 is 300 plus two days so 300 days 75 and a half but this is one year he does this for 22 years 75 and a half looking times 22. 1661 lugim agree 1661 looking of Tears over 22 years great now comes the coffee base services from advice each grape will produce each grape will produce as a base school that's 30 has six cabin 30 times six is one hundred eighty each carve has four lugim 180 times four 720 look in each grape say just like it's going to be in the future it was in the past before Adam Harrison sin the word was perfect and the world is going to restore system restore to what it was before he said what was the sin of admiration what did he eat it depends who you ask an apple it wasn't that's not ours that's theirs the mother says Victory or it was wheat or the opinion of male it was Geffen it was great in fact or say the medicine says she squeezed grapes and she gave adam she squeezed grapes when we said the word grapes I love him and we don't say how many so how many are we talking about foreign if we don't know how much or plural we go to the smallest number and that is too so if the world will go back to where it was and each grave produced 720 look him and she gave him two grapes so how many Lucas did you give him 14 40. 1440 looking required rectification that was the sin his ranked liquid 4940 Logan you need to do a ticket who's going to do a taken for the American only one person why because all the people who will live throughout the generations foreign and only three hours were allocated to that nashama and other Malaysia says what such a high level nisham only three hours [Applause] that's what I decided tell me how does it work up here in can I donate some years from me says sure if you want was supposed to live for a thousand years the day you eat you will die he ate and he's supposed to die but according to live for a thousand years says I am going to donate 70 years of my life to David and he took us all signed it and that's why Adam origin lived for 930 years for 70 years in fact is the beginning of practice Vegas says the whole reason comes to the world his own life is only from other Malaysians it's only right that he is going to do a chicken you need to do a tikkun for 1440 looking of sin it's a liquid type of a sin comes and he cries liquid rectification atonement and he cries and he cries and he cries to rectify other Malaysian but he cried too much he only needed 1440 and we calculated that he cried 1661. look him up tears now he can understand in the future that we started 221 volume now this is [Applause] 221 but now we understand he only needed to cry 1450 you cried 1661. so you cried 221 looking extra here take the cup containing 221 lugim of wine I don't know how he's going to hold it it's about 30 to 40 gallons depends who you ask the prime numbers I don't know how sweet is it the toilet is nothing more delicious learn and you will be so happy admit session should all enjoy I laugh of being Hashem because all those who are here all those who are connected in any way shape or formed should enjoy him it's Hashem a beautiful summer and after tubev you can already start wishing each other [Music] for the inspiring Joshua the swarm of the robe and contraceptive are available for sale by the table near the door [Music] a boy selected dinner will take place in two weeks from tonight's perfect opportunity to say across our toes to 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