Rosenberg Bar Mitzvah 3 15 26 FILM

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Say cheers. I will keep holding tight. I won't get lost in the dark of night. I believe I don't care how long I will hold on. I will hold on. I wish my go. I will hold on. I will hold on. I will keep holding tight, but can you please come soon? It's been a long, long night. Shenm, we need you more than ever. We can use some light. I will hold on. I will hold on. I man of all. The only thing that I know is I will never lose hope. I will never let go. I will keep I will get lost in the dark of night. I believe and I don't care how long. I will hold on. I will hold on. >> Okay. First of all, I'd like to say thank you to Kaj Baru for giving me a family. For giving me everything, for giving me everything in life, giving everybody everything in life. I mean, as we know, without there is no world, there is no nothing. He recreates the world every single moment. every single moment from one to the other it's being recreated and in the perfect way. We only see that perfection when we look backwards. I look backwards right now 13 years and that time we had a baby we had a baby boy and I remember it's just poor Pesak and I'm wondering how to hand them to make pesak now when cleaning the house and making a brisma and everything else and then we we came up with a name also and the name itself shows how kajbar was beautiful his name is Yehuda Yehuda means I give thank you to Hashem and there's a difference between to and to means it is good to means it will be good. So when I say to it means I that Hashem will be good. So's name means that I give thank you to Hashem because Hashem will be good and we all know that. And so therefore I say thank you to once again for everything in life, my family, myself and friends, everybody here when people as far as Nashville as close as Brooklyn has come here and say thank you to all of you for coming because this is not just my sim. This is as I said yesterday this is all of your sim too. Without you people there's no sim. There's no sa is no sa and we have to have I have to have I have to have to be in a b that he's going to continue to push everything in the right way no matter how hard it is for me to see I have to know that when I look back in three years in five months that everything's going to be perfect no matter how hard the situation was and my hood to couple of months about a month and a half ago was standing at lands and were dolphining. I think it was Ma and they were giving out little Mishnayas for aum that they're going to be doing in a year from now and want everybody together to put to do all shish Mishna for a Y site for Rlando for for next year's yard site looks at me and he says should I do it I said look you're taking on a big undertaking by doing this you do it I'll sign you down. I'll put the phone my phone number down and you're going to have to be to finish this. You have a year but you're going to be to finish this. And he said fine, he'll do it. Thought a little bit about it, but yeah, he said in the end he'll do it. So, we put our foot we put our phone number down and he got his Mishnayas, which is right here now. Same Mishnayas. couple weeks ago he comes up to me and tells me he wants to finish this Mishnas to make a sem at his bar mitzvah and not only did he do it himself he incorporated a friend of his friend Lazar so therefore I would like to introduce the two of them right now come up and make this and make this on mission on mission dharma I say but yeah wait men however the part of nea remains and thus she will he'll be removed from all other Jews if she's divorced or widowed. >> Congratulations. What am I saying? >> What? >> Oh, >> I have to explain it. >> Ah, >> I'm embarrassing. >> Um, do it. The Misha was talking about um if somebody says a false um a false and then his or her husband had cancels it. Um but it was only in effect after he after um 30 days which is when they were going to get divorced. So the the bisha says that um you're that the ner is the the husband's allowed to make the nar um but um uh he's able to make it a not working thingy. >> No, no, >> whatever. Um, and then and then it doesn't work. >> Thank you everybody for being here and I got back for letting me reach this and >> and have a good time. Woohoo! Woo! Super. You hat your hat on. You know the home you hung on the holy Hey, Yes. I'm going to go to let the fire down. You Lord, you Don't be a man. High Oh no. Baby, it's all Yes. I see my sh I I need the cycle. I going. You shall you shall you shall I shall I my show. You got shore. My baby. Hey, hey, hey. Hey God, Lord know I Hey, hey, hey. Down. I said I don't Jimmy watching. There's no sh We in the leg on straight on. Here we go. Here we go. Connect it. Try to connect. Try to connect. Need more people. More people. Here we go. Get on the train. 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I want to say thank you very much to I know from Mahames he's pushed us through in the correct way. He's made it this sa great. He's made my whole family great. So this person I want to say thank you to is my father-in-law as we all know him in English as a Gregory Weiss. He was an amazing man as I learned when I which one during my shabus. This is a man in a wheelchair. While in a wheelchair and in the snow would push his wheelchair to get to Shu. He would push his wheelchair to do things that he needed to do. It didn't matter the weather. It didn't matter it was snow, it was cold, it was hot, if it was raining, it was hailing. As long as he didn't get struck by a bolt of lightning, he went. And things that I even found out later on the things he did for me before I was married was incredible. I found out from my rebi was who was Rabbi Herps. So I say thank you to him also. And as always, thank you to Kaju. Thank you to my wife for setting all this up day in and day out for months. my daughter Estie also ting day in and day out for months make this thing beautiful and on top of it I also wanted to say thank you to a great rushm I meant because I started doing and a good man who's here today bothered me every Friday saying you're late you're late go to this other minion it runs later you'll leap minion and he would even come to my house and knock on the door no you're Eight. Go. >> Exactly. Thank you. >> Thank you, Avi. But through the through this friendship with me and this man, I was able to to be part of a Kahila and M who's an amazing man, highly intelligent and highly good with midos and everything and put a great together. I'd like to introduce Rabbi Albasham. Mazlev Mazlev Rosenberg family all the mishtatim and she should help should be able to participate in simas and be glad with each other's simas. That is the day by such mitzvah. My is that uh I come and I say maz I dance a little bit then I go but um mi asked me to say something. I can't say no to mati because how can you say no to someone who doesn't say no to anyone? So I can't say no to mi. I think if I may be so bold that uh also because I think that could also have such a how could you say no to someone who doesn't say no. I think maybe just a a short thought. Who's in the says So the recognized that are contradictory thoughts. Means you should force him to sacrifice and means he should do it by his own free will. So which one is it? Do we force him into the sacrifice or does he do it on his own free will? Asha talks about it. Force him until he says that it's his own free will. What does that mean? You force him until he says it's his own free will. You're forcing him. You give him patch until he says he wants to do it. He says he wants to do it. But you're giving him patch. I think perhaps could say I heard a story from my great uncle the hold over the story. He told the story about his namesake his grandfather first was kudes pim he sadly learned entire day from the first people to have yes sent all over the world sent from Hungary to learn by But he grew up by the by his grandfather and sons because he was aim from a very young age. So he grew up by the in sons and over there he learned the and I heard a story once from my great uncle. He said that the first BB was sitting and learning and someone said that there's a guest in the city that's very sick and he should please go and see. He was still a young man living in Sans by his grandfather. He should please go and see what's going on. So he comes in. He sees this man is laying there and he's coughing terribly. He's coughing up blood. very sick and he's laying on a bed. So he tried to get him to eat something to drink something but he was so weak he couldn't even eat or drink. So in the time there was a doctor he was not a but he was a yeet. His name was Dr. Vman lived in s and he was considered an expert doctor. So they went to call him. So he ran to call him. He said Dr. please come, please come and and check out this person. He's very sick. So he came to check him out. And he he listened was put his ear to his chest. And he said, "This man has no lungs. He has tuberculosis. He has no lungs. He cannot survive. There's nothing to do." He said, "What medicine should you prescribe? What should he should he any foods he should avoid?" He said he can eat whatever he wants. tell him that he can eat whatever he wants. That's the worst thing for a doctor to say. There's no point. And he left and they were sitting with him and he he was struggling on. And the next day he was still alive. So he ran again to this doctor and he said, "Please come and heal him." He said, "There's nothing for me to do. I can't heal him. He's he's completely there's nothing. It's not physically possible. He has no lungs left. There's nothing to do. So he was very distraught. So he ran to his grandfather the he said there's a yeith here in the city that he's very sick and the doctor gave up and my great-grandfather began to cry and he said if he would have a family here with him in the city he's a guest. if his family would be here, they would come and they would run to the Reb and they would cry and they would beg. But his family is not here. They don't know he's sick. So, I'm going to cry instead. And he began to cry profusely. Crying and crying. Please Z, you have to do something till finally he said he looked up the looked up and he said, "Why are you crying for the doctor said there's no hope?" He said the doctor creates creates he can make new lungs. Doctor creates creates go and give him something to eat. So he ran and he got a cup of milk and he began to feed him milk and he was able to take it. And then he got some bread and he put butter on the bread and he started feeding him piece after piece and he was able to eat. So he saw he was able to eat. So he ran back to the doctor and he said, "Come, you need to come to this guy." He said, he said, "I already told you there's nothing to do. He's he's finished." So he said, "Come now. He's eating. Baby, come and check. Eating." Okay. He come and check. came and he checked and he put his head his ear to his chest and he said I was mistaken. He seems to be that he does have lungs and there's hope for him. So he said you were mistaken. I went to my Zida and my Zida said that he's going to have new lungs. So he got new lungs. So he said he looked at said you think that your za can make new lungs. So he said yeah that's what happened. I went he said no no no no this can't be. She said but yesterday you told me I was mistaken. If your z can make new lungs how come he can't if somebody's missing a foot how come he can't make a new foot? How come he can't make a new eye if someone's missing an eye? I heard from my great uncle Damas. I never forget. I still hear his voice in May. He said, "If my grandfather would make a new foot, then what would you do? You would have to become a believer. What would you do then? So new lungs he can make because you could say you were mistaken. But a new foot then what would you do? You'd be stuck. So that's why it doesn't do that. I think that the difference why is it that some people can have an experience and they seem and other people can have the same experience and they don't necessarily see this yadashm. I think perhaps you could say that those people who are only in every experience thinking of themselves they don't really have the experience of the other individual so they just see they come in they see a story yesterday I thought like this I can be mistaken because everything is about them whether they said like this or whether they whether they were right or whether they were wrong, it's all about them. But if you come in and you see another yeet is not here and then the next they see is here. How you going to deny that? If you focus on another yeet, then you can't make that mistake. If you think about what this person is going through, then you can't make that mistake. Then you seem person wants to bring a wants to get closer to the says you have to sacrifice yourself. Get rid of yourself. The self is in the way. It's the self that's stopping you from being close to the focus on the self. If you get rid of yourself, then you're going to be then you're going to have his roots. But you got to get rid of the self. Get rid of it. come to the that you have to do for someone outside of yourself with m and he's a big of what's alland. And I see how he raises his children with these ideals. We just had the Mal from the and his son said, "I'm the youngest member of the of Shabas. I give the first day of the new initiative. I give the first $5." This is doesn't happen by itself. This doesn't fall out of the sky from nowhere. This comes from of being devoted to another yeet to get rid of the self and to only focus on another yeet. And that's the sod of that's the s of a person becoming close to the want to be close to the think a little bit less about yourself and more about the or more about another yeet and you'll find that you're very close to the She should help me the children in the of the you exemplify. You and your should have kayak and mo and zint to be able to do what's right and to keep in mind be an example for your children to show them to lead the way how to of yourself and be able to focus on someone else. of your death. Ready? Here we go. Hands up. Hands up. Wait for me. My last your Go. Here we go. Everybody follow. What do we got? What do we got? What do we got now? Pass it on. Pass on. Who we got next? Here we go. Here we go. We got What's your name? Who are you? Follow you. You. What do you got? What's your name? >> What's your name? Everybody's full. Here we go. Get ready. You never know. You never ready. Take your right hand. Ready? Right hand and wave. Now put it like this. Right hand. Wave. Right. without money. Let's go. Ready? Here we go. Right hand like that. Ready? Here you go. And now Watch this. Watch this. Ready? Watch this. Oh yeah. I Heat. Heat. I'm going to get dirty. Watch this. Ready for down. Up. There it is. Here we go. Let's go. That's right. You got to get dirty. Let's go. Hey, hey, hey. There it is. There it is. Perfect. Here we go. All right. Here we go. On you. On you. What you got? What do you got? Here we go. What do you got on you? Whatever you want. Your move. What do you want? Hey, we see you. There it is. The way this Watch this handle. Go. Heat up here. Heat. Heat. Yeah. Heat. Heat up here. Heat up here. Yeah. Come get over here. Stay over here and say my DJ guys. Watch this. Come recover. Watch this. Ready? Come to come to come to go towards go up. >> We walk away. >> Ready guys? Here we go. When you walk towards now walk backwards and go down. >> Now up. Up when you go towards it. Good. >> Now down when you go away. Perfect. There we go. There we go. There we go. Silio. Look at the cloud. We got you. We got you. All you. All you. Yeah. There we go. Hands up, baby. We go up when we go towards up. And we go down. Up. Down. Move back. Down. Move back. Go towards. Move up. There it is. Yeah. Move down. Go back. Yeah, baby. There we go. Nice little wave. Go up. Swivel your arms. Your arm. Let's go. ain't no hand in play. Here we go. I know. He will be glory. Over here. Over here. Over here. Okay, here we go. Fore! Foreign! Foreign! for the hat. The hat. Here we go. Let's drop this world. Perfect. Right. >> Literally the hokey pokey. Here we go. Right hand. Right hand. Bring it in. Put your right hand in. Right hand out. Right hand in. Left hand. Left hand. Both hands. Get ready for this. Right foot, left foot. Get ready. Hey, now watch this. It's going to get hard. Right hand and right foot. >> Left hand and right and left foot. Get ready. Here we go. Go around. Go around. Go around. be okay. Here we go. Oh, one, two, one, two, three. We're going to switch. One, two, one, two. Now that way. Left foot back. One, two, one, two, three, four. Now that way, left foot, left foot, right, back. One, two, one, two, three, four. Now make some food. Here we go. One, two, one, two, three, four. 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This is the one when yes, what the rub was talking about before is they decided to go ahead and they'll they started a a money gam. It was still working out the logistics, but he had $5 in his pocket. just a $ five dollar bill. And he decided to be the first one to actually give in his pledge. So he comes up to me, he says, "Here's my I have $5 and I want to give this $5 to start this this fund, this money gam." And broken was beautiful. And this one comes to me every Friday. Gets off the school bus and first thing he says to me is when are we going to the Flappish fund? When are we going to the Flappish fun? Every 15 minutes to half hour. I keep saying a little bit longer. A little bit longer. >> And we have another Shimanosa here who helps him with it. And every And I keep saying f Give me a few more minutes. A few more minutes. A few more minutes. And keeps nagging me. Every 15 minutes. Where are we going? Where are we going? I don't want to be here. I want to go. I want to go. I want to go. And the moment we get there, he darts out of the car, heads straight in the door. I think he's inside before I even parked the car half the time. I don't know how he does that one, but I'd love to introduce my 9-year-old Shimro Rosenberg. Look at this beautiful mommy and daddy put together for Thank you for everything you did for me like taking me a while by playing with me. We are here today at this location and hopefully we will have more question and I just want to say a goodbye to you. I love you. So anyhow, I'd like to say thank you Shimon Rosenberg with a beautiful speech. >> But anyhow, everything everything comes down to the point and we always have to thank Kaj Baru withever whatever we do. What's the best way to to say thank you to Kaj Baru? as I've learned which maybe I'm wrong is to ask for something loves it when we ask him for stuff and yeah we say thank you also we have to say thank you but the same thing he loves he wants us to ask therefore what's the best way to ask for anything is to davin therefore I'd like to invite everybody to din with us within the next four or five minutes. Thank you everybody for coming. >> Thank you everybody for coming and please we would love to stop and mar now and >> bye-bye Avi and thank you once again. >> Maz to everybody. Heat. Heat up here. Heat. I'm fading. Heat. Heat. Oh, heat, heat. Heat up here.