Balanced Leadership - Rabbi Jesse Horn

if you were responsible for giving aron a job in moshe job who would be the leader of the people and who would be the one who sits in the base that make dash of the mishka and kind of focus prada milan voters hashem would it not be the exact opposite of what hashem did is our own strength not his people's personality his unique ability to interact with people oh hey charlemagne oh every subreddit mccarthy target i would not be the one leading the people and mo sharabanu not sitting in a karasbara who's in the most intimate special way does he not speak to hashem honeymilk is that not his strength is he not the most spiritual man around and yet kasparov who doesn't do it that way so being that akash broke who's clearly not wrong what's the rhyme or reason what's the rationale why is it that arun is in charge of the mishkan to work there while moshe is in charge of leading the people the truth is if you wanted to see what it would look like if things were flipped if you really wanted again to get like peek through a small little you know a keyhole and get a glimpse into what life would look like if moshe had the ability to learn how to learn the people it actually just occurred in this past parsha the story of the horrific and one may wonder why the consequence is so so terrible why was the sin so great we thought this would have worked out just perfectly and perhaps the answer is profound and insightful when the parent who is strict leaves and the soft parent allows the children to stay up late every night need chocolate for breakfast at first it seems like it's a great idea at least for the kids but long term there's a mistake good jewish leadership in order to raise proper children a proper nation there needs to be a synthesis of love and flexibility and care and working with the children working with chrystal which with aaron's strength and most rabbenu strength which is being firm and strong and uncompromising in values and truth if you have only one without the other either become strict and rigid and inflexible and difficult the kid wants to rebel and he becomes overly flexible and let the kid do what he wants he ends up just choosing what he wants and not being guided towards the path of the rabona shalom not being guided towards truth and meaning and therefore the proper synthesis in terms of our selves and how to grow up in terms of raising cholesterol raising children is on the one hand to recognize we're supposed to do what god says because he's god a sense of truth a sense of din mish but ms you do what god says because he's god the message of motion on the other hand iron the sense of love and care and sensitivity