TISHA BeAV ON SUNDAY - DINEI HAVDALAH WHEN HAVING TO EAT ON THE TAANIS - Rabbi Nachum Scheiner

In this morning's shar I would like to speak about havalah for somebody that needs to make havdah on tishabove. Somebody's going to eat. Now of course a very clear disclaimer. This is not about if someone could eat when they need to eat on tish or not. Somebody should speak to consult. If somebody's going to be eating on tishov how to go about withdah. Now just to recap the previous shir that's relevant to everybody on a regular shabas there are two havdas these that you say that's and then these al that has four parts and and every month is who have dollars and this shabus for everybody. If you say we are not going to do we are not going to do at all is only relevant. So bama we're not going to do at all exactly when you can listen to the previous year and those that havedah is done Sunday night. That was just a quick recap of the previous year for everybody how to break up the havda this matso shabas and Sunday night. I would like to focus on people that are going to need to eat on tishab a man, a lady, children. How does it how do you go about with Abdullah? Obviously the everybody you d you say it by and if you don't and you're not ding you have to say to what's the sh about the says that somebody that's going to eat on tishov should make before he eats. He should make before he eats. When to make that? When should you make that? Should you make the mat shabas regardless of when you eat? Even if you're going to eat Sunday afternoon, you know you're going to have to eat. The doctor said you must eat, but you don't have to eat matzah shabas. You can eat one o'clock Sunday afternoon. Should you make the right away says it's that maybe you should do it right away says no whatever you're going to eat that's when you should make if you make the right away obviously it's going to be and if you're going to make the Sunday afternoon It's only and it's a it's a another thing if you make the by night and you're only going to eat the next day. So you're not going to drink the So you should give the ofd the is to make the when you eat. This is the let's call it the simple para a person that's eating you make a you make a dollar poses before you eat whenever it is. What's about ladies that have to eat? There are three shittas what they should do. One shittita is a lady that needs to eat, she should make abdullah. Just like we spoke till now somebody that needs to eat to makeah the lady should make abdullah. Yes some go as much as possible that the lady should not have to make abdullah. The next shittita is and with this shittita you gain that the husband should make abdah. Obviously the husband if he's fasting so he's not going to drink the kais his wife or or a child or drink the but the husband the husband makes shi and there's yet a third cheetah the third cheetah is that a lady that needs to eat can eat withoutd why and this is mour and a few of the pkimb pain brings vashm the stipler in Shamay from the kash my good friend Ram greenblot gives me this and he says this as well also that the reason why they can eat withoutd even though you can eat before is because it's a ladies is a shin at the end of It's a sh and even ifdah a regular there's another which we spoke about in the previous year is this shabas the says that no refer back to that she to understand it but he says that there's nod so it's a first of all are the ladies and that Maybe this shabas nobody's so they don't have they could eat without abdah threeas either they should make abdah themsself their husband should make abdah or they could eat without abdah this third cheita that they could eat withoutdah however the say that they should still make sure to hear abdah from their husband why even though we just said that it's av and really. But the truth in the matter is is that the second suffix the suffic if the if these even though it's that says that there's no it's not brought there's a full it's three lines the whole sim the sim is that falls out on a Sunday now it's relevant even when it falls out on a shabas this year it falls out on a Sunday which is extremely uncommon the next time is going to fall out on a Sunday it's not going to fall out it's going to be a yam is it 20 years but the just says clearly that so even though it's a we use this that a lady could eat withoutd but she should still make sure to here abd. So what did we speak so far? A person that needs to eat on tishab should make sure to make abdah sh if he makes abdah right away or he makes it before he eats. For ladies we said there are three shittas she makes it herself her husband I'll make for her or she eats without abdullah. What's about a child? A child that's going to eat on tishabove. A child that eats on tishab does he need a mar discant says that yeah the lady quotes this marel discant and he says he should make if he's a cotton that's a and we need to be that shabdah and you don't eat beforedah he should make abdah now even though you're going to tell that it's not so applicable this ofdish because when he's a he's not going to make Shabas on because he's not going to eat. However, it's still applicable that you should know that every shabas before you eat, you have to make however in a later cha says that even though the marel disc says that a cotton should make abdah, it's not lisa and that's the a cotton doesn't make abdah. So a person making a you make before you eat ladies is a shila. A cotton does not make avdah. Lastly, when you're gonna make a what are you making avd on? But when you make a dollar, there's a preference to make a on wine. But lice over here, it's on tishab on tishov. Even of tishov not this year but a regular of tishov not to drink wine by the sudis is not just a minute it's dash not to drink wine this year but you're not supposed to drink wine for sure on tishov for sure you shouldn't drink wine say if somebody is going to make onto he needs to eat if he's gonna make others say to use Medina use Medina coffee beer and they bring in the name of the to make it on grape juice. Now even though our min is also to not drink grape juice in the nine days but the whole minute comes off the dinas of not drinking wine. Really the dinas is only wine that was separate discussion why not to drink wine cuz we we don't have the one of the reasons is wine grape juice is not so if somebody's making on tishov either medina or grape juice if a person does not have not kamar medina and not grape juice. Of course, you should make Adala on wine. I how could you drink wine on? Let's say the the person who's making the is going to drink it. If there's no tuk, the terret says, of course, if there is a tin, it's better when you make Abdul to give the wine. If you're going to make a wine to give it to but if the spells that out but if there is no to give it to the himself is making the and he only has wine you make ofdah on wine and you drink the wine I how do you drink wineish the is because it's mitzvah as we know just like on the nine days of course you could drink wine so in the middle it's you could drink wine we should that we're speaking about the of Abdul in general and now in this year the somebody who can fast which should be that as said is going to become a y and like I mentioned in the previous year that the samba's his first father-in-law before the war tishab in the afternoon the samurba remembers he said how he was under a tree humming the kush of yam as tish is going to be it should be withdu have a wonderful shabas