THIS WEEK'S BROKEN HAVDALAH SPREAD OVER TWO NIGHTS - Tisha Bav Shiur by Rabbi Nachum Scheiner

These are [Music] that gives a simmon when all the y of the year of the year is going to fall out and that's based off pesar says the days of pes the first day of p is tish b the second day of pes like this year was Monday to Pes fell out this year. famous year of pes. So Pesak, the first day of Pesak was Sunday. The same as tishov as well. Also this year tishab falls out on a Sunday. Something that's not not common. Tishab could be on a Sunday. That happens a lot. Meaning to say is if tishab is on a shabas it gets pushed to Sunday. This year that tishov is on a Sunday is not common. I don't want to say the next time in 20 years Mashiah's going to come before but alapon tishb this year is on a Sunday. I would like to speak about in today's shar the changes that come about to have for this matzah shabas and let's begin with havdah on a regular matzah shabas on a regular matzah shabas every other month shabas of the year every other matzah shabas we make two halfdolls the by dingu that'sd And if a person forgets, [Music] he doesn't have to d over. Why? Because he's still another. If a person knows that he's not going to be able to make, he has to d over. So one Abdullah is abdu before we go to tish tomorrow night and Sunday night first let's speak about a regular shabas and then we'll see how to apply it on a on a shabas of tishov we'll see how that works. So there's one in if you forget to say that you don't d over. Then there's another abdah or is made out of four braas and the abd that we make it out is and that's The first if you're going to make you say the ofen and as we're going to see in a minute has its reasons not really connected the todah has nothing has not nothing to do withdah and really you can make thear speaks about it if you do it separate or it's in abdullah Gabra says that we wanted it to be so we put it into but really it has its own reasons and it's important to speak about it because we're going to see the reason we smell bis either because you say leaves so to calm ourselves down to relax so you smell bam or another reason is because ganim the fires of ganim start again and To counteract the smell of the fires of G and we smell Bam. Two reasons we smell Bam. Not connected to the mitzvah of Abdullah. Like the Gomorrah says was created. Mat Shabas created the Huarish came about to make the fire with the two rocks happened. Mat Shabas. So therefore we also shabas again really and doesn't have to be indal and if a person didn't make during he can make it later it's not connected but it was put in so it should be really maybe it should be a heik you make hagoffen in middle kdish if you make hagoffen and then you make Bum in the middle it's a heik fordah it's not a heick because that's they put it it should be they put it into says that you can even make if you forget to make bim before you can make bim after before you drink the k but anyways that's how how they mak and then the garra says that we do both why two abdas one ad is enough. The Gmorra says that Abdullah was then hi when Clius became poor and couldn't make it alumar says we do both. It's a gar we do both. So that's Abdullah on a regular week. A regular week. These two Abdulas, these Abdullah al-Hak and these also as we began these Abdullah. And now let's move over to Abdullah ondah by Davening there should be no difference and there is no difference. is if a person forgets tomorrow night you do not over it's a shabas you do not d over even though the is that on a regular shabas if you forget by ding and you're not going to be making you have to ding over here. If you forget, you don't have to dive over. Why? Because you're going to be making as we'll get to Sunday night. So if a person tomorrow night forgets, you don't have to dav over. If you did forgetd bying you should make sure to say if after dvening before you want us to do you want to get into your car you want to appear for you should say of course ladies if they didn't it's like every say ladies so they'll listen to so sometimes if they don't say but on if there will be No, they should say. Now we'll go over to the right. We said these two havedollas that you make every month of Shabasda andd it's a regular. It's regular like every month of Shabasd as we said before is made out of four parts and no why no because we're fasting. So you can't make because we're fasting. [Music] >> We're going to get to you. Very good. Do you want to know if you could give it to a cotton? Now in a case where you need to make which we'll get to your gift but that's not the time to make just like what not particularly for this but just like you don't make and a cotton should drink it is a yam you don't make kdish and give it a cotton because anyways you don't you don't make you don't make abd and is like this those two like we said before you could really make it withoutd furthermore the only time to make bas and is only shabas if for whatever reason you didn't make matzah shabas and we'll get to it these is only. So you make tishov by night you do not you do not why not because bum you smell to relax yourself and tish is a so therefore you do not smell bings tokim it's really the the from the and the of the z the says he's a if not smelling bim is only a shabas I'm sorry because you're smelling b for the purpose of to relax yourself that's why you don't smell b or it's not to smell bam the whole tishov Is it only that we're not we don't smell the if somebody wants to smell the throughout could you or could you not bring but one thing is clear we don't make clear the would be and the brings this he's if he's a bris on to make a boy. Do you make bum as well by a bris on the says that you do not but is being that you don't smell bum the whole it's to be of speaking about bishov to bring out a very important between tishab and yipper Even though they both may look the same in the sense of both are in the but they're bother it looks relatively the same. It's important to note that it's it's completely different. We spoke about it here at the morning a year or two or three ago. makeer is a you're supposed to make the English is like the explains because the theme of the day is to get closer to Hashem to do chuva and therefore when a person eats it's harder to connect he's feeding his gashmies it's harder so therefore we fast the is more to refrain from connecting to gashmas. That's what it's about. You you're for sure allow to smell bam. You may even be an Indian to smell is a yam. You wear big shabas these white tablecloths is not like that. Defing is to help us connect. It's a different story. It's a different story. It's important to note going into it's different than the reason why we have the gave us the it's for a person to be able to connect to the good. It's a question about if maybe only not but the idea of is to connectis. So what we have so far in in of a year like this yeard sayen you do not say you do not say you say you say that's the time to make you say it as we explained you can make even without and you're not going to make it without Abdullah. If you don't make it tomorrow night, important to note, if somebody forgot to make it tomorrow night, you don't make it anymore. It's only tomorrow night. If somebody forgot to make it matzah shabas when he's going to make matzah tishov you don't make >> oh where do you make when when do you make the bo when when you're making so you put it in abdullah if you're not making when do you make so the say the taz brings the taz the says that You say it before a after before. Why before? Usually in a regular month of Shabas you make Abdullah when you come home. So maybe it should be after to end why before. So there's two reasons. Reason number one we say in we say that the put us into the dark. So you say that the abisha put us in the dark and then you go and you light a candle you make it light. What kind of shot does it have to you said should put us in the dark and you're lighting candles. light the candle before that you should have light to be able to say to read the proper time to is before on a regular week there's a place where should be said the bruter brings the zy that alab after means after brings in however it's with the exception. So here it's to do it before we're going to say after but there's a reason there's a purpose to say it to do it before. Maybe we do it before. What's about doing it shabas before you go to my Yeah, man. Shabas you're about to go out put on you switched out of your shoes to weekday clothing then and there's even a why because you're going to go to shul and you're going to hear lisa the ladies if they don't go to shul they're not going to hear so and if you heard what they're not going to hear it it's pretty practical to make it at home but I let them do it themselves. These are Shilah. These are Shil if ladies are included in Bes means besides Shild which is a separate Shilah the Shilah if ladies are included in so in a practical you can make before you go out to sh and Emma says he says you could do that. He brings it's a practical good idea. First of all, even though we said before that you could make before which means before when quoting this he says buton it should be after which means after so in it's going to be before but it's after if you're going to do it at home it's before We do it for people that wouldn't otherwise hear. It's either do it after which we say >> one second. One second. Well, good. You're saying what's the one second? You're doing it for people that maybe can say it don't have it. Oh, good. Very good. Very good. But first, why not to do it before? First of all, we said is because you shouldn't do it before questions doing it early. says cuz the mig by clus is to do it in sh after me before so he doesn't like so you're doing it at home you're going to stop doing it in sh everybody's going to start doing it at home says after a asking what's about the people that let's say the ladies he says and em's other po say like that as well also raos the ladies could make my they could they could so he it's better to do it after my re and the ladies will make it themselves to say that it's to do before you go out can't say it's bring you could do it then sure for sure the time brought us before if you want to do it before you could do it before if you didn't do it before you didn't do it before even though we said reasons to do it before a person could do it if he missed it at he missed it before he didn't do it it's 11:00 that he didn't do can make all or shabas but again only matzah shabas after m shabas you can't so now we're going to move over to again m shabas and what part of abdah do you do from The four parts of you only do one part. You're not you don't say cuz there's no bim and also you don't cuz you can't drink the nod. Now we're going to go to Sunday night. You don't say cuz you already said mabas. Now even if you didn't say and we said you don't d over I think it's his own that you don't sayd even if you didn't say why there's a reason to say shabas so finish that's you missed it you missed it you can't start putting it into dinging Sunday night so if you forgot got to say you don't say it's Sunday night. Now we're going to go into we didn't make abdas. What's about now Sunday night? If you're going to make let's just remember that you're not going to make bam and not going to make bares. for some and mares is only matzah shabas and it happens to just be you already made bores matzah shabas and even if you didn't you're not going to say it's Sunday night because the time to make those two are only matzah shabas so now our discussion is about and Sunday night so so who said you can make Sunday night let's take a look for a minute on a regular mat shabas What happens if a person didn't make some say it's only through Sunday and some say till Tuesday through Tuesday till Tuesday through Tuesday. So it's very clear we didn't make you can make Sunday night even though it's a we can make up until Tuesday afternoon till Tuesday night. So for sure you can make Sunday night. However, but again before every you can make and Sunday, Monday, Tuesday which is Sunday night we pass and you can make these are new and particular fetishabove the ram brings that even like him that say on a regular week you only have till Sunday here they will agree that you could eat you have Sunday night as well why why do they say there is on every m shabas you only have to you only have Sunday so they say because if somebody's he misses a ding he's there's no tash Schluman. So is it so is it withdah after Sunday a person's a we understand somebody misses sometimes matzah shabas you have Sunday for three days you couldn't figure out how to make abd you're a pa however and someday you couldn't make you're not a so therefore even there is that say that you only have till long day in a regular week. Here they will agree that you have Sunday night as well. So you can make Abdullah fine. So that's you can make Sunday night and even the that say you only have till Sunday will agree here you have Sunday night. These are that says like this even on a regular week that you have till Tuesday have these nodah no a why on a regular weekd if you couldn't make shabas these until Tuesday afternoon of this year there is nod because you can't shrink the there is no it's back to what the garra says there is no so if there's nodah it's not applicable to even like that say on a regular week you have up until Tuesday this nod there is no anymore so interesting this clearly there's one sim it's called which by the way it's not only a year like this year if falls on shabas and we push it to Sunday it's also It's it's three lines the whole and the speaks about the what do you do about so you make and clearly we pass and you make clearly again no bay even if you forgot no only the dog is madak from the maril. He says you make it in it says but maybe you should use other says that you make our you use wine you use wine but Sunday night when we're going to make our you use wine and their media using wine and the marel doesn't say to give it to like it's brought shabas why what's the last week shabas it's brought a lot of to give it to a kid to drink it's not brought to give the to drink that a kid should drink the is because or this this year it wasn't shabas but it Shabas of the in the nine days is not in the nine days. That's the in the nine days in the nine days you should give it to and of the nine days you could drink the k yourself even though the says and that's a that even after through the next day either or says the whole day because the mikdash started burning tishab in the afternoon throughout y when told in the afternoon says kosher not just masher to be no not to drink wine and meat and laundry and swimming till till the next day that's like that but it's when it comes to the nine days there it just says m and The Mishu one speaking about it says that it's user to eat meat in the nine days to say he's a between and here's the place just a very bit to bring out that we have to understand that he's a super clear between something that's medina for an example for an example learning on is the hash sitt Sitting on the floor is a m we could speak about it a whole year. There's a lot of things on that we do but m is only is the whole day. I get a lot of times questions in the afternoon. Could you learn? Could you put on shoes? Whatever is the whole is only but that's to understand that. So just to be makum sum up everything that we spoke up until now is only we also make is al and you make the no and and what we said also is another part we said is that if you forgot you say it you don't say it you don't ding over and you don't why because you're going to make Abdullah and then if you forgot you don't say it the iss of a good few more minutes to somebody that eats on the but that's going to have to be sometime later today. I must probably record it a separate. It's still going to take another good 10 minutes. So, we'll keep it as a part two. If it's relevant to anybody, it'll be available on the sh's website on Torah anytime. If somebody does have to eat, then he has to make Abdullah. When do you make Abdullah? Ladies making Abdullah. Do kids make Abdullah? If you make Abdullah, what do you drink? That's a separate discussion. Have a wonderful Shabas. And I just want to be Messiah. We spoke about making Abdullah the said said over that he remembers his father-in-law his first father-in-law before the war tishov in the afternoon under a tree humming the nusk of kdesh because a mashia is going to come tishab is going to be a yamtiff and he is connecting to the day of tishov sitting on the floor and a person supposed to bear but it's all with the connection with the understanding and with the hope of the mikdash so even though we spoke about we should be tishab is going to turn into a yam and he was huming the kdesh and we make kdesh new.