HILCHOS TZEDOKO: INVITING THE POOR FOR A SHABBOS MEAL - WHAT TO KNOW - Rabbi Nachum Scheiner

sim the sim we're learning now in besides speaking about the prom of saddaka there's also of course the essen and the lavven of not giving saddaka or like we spoke in previous shimm when already giving saddaka if you give it not in the right way you could be over alive But yet even if a person is holding by giving saddaka however as we're going to see he makes a to give saddaka and he doesn't give it right away it's possible that he's over alive thera in paras somebody who makes a nether or by carbon a person says I'm going to give a carbon to the b mikdash to the misba So the says person makes a that he's going to give a carbon and he doesn't give it right away. Thear says not right away. doesn't give it he's from giving it within that means a whole three he's the says a person makes a that he's going to give a carbon and he doesn't bring that carbon within the right time within he's over and alive zigmor it's It's Russia. The garra says in Russashana the garra dashes these many other cases that a person could be on this not only by carbon and one of them is the says that everything else is and theor says that a person's if a person makes a that he's going to give saddaka That means we're not talking about if a comes and you do give him if you don't give him if you say asks for money or even if he doesn't ask for money you call you tell the I'm going to give you money I'm going to give you money that's and he doesn't give the money he's over he's over However, however, this that it's not it's a lot more than a carbon. A person says he's going to be a car into the mdash to the he has up until three not to be over on the bon starts if he makes the nether now and he doesn't bring it till after then he's over alive but saddaka if a person makes a net he tells the I'm going to give you money I'm going to give you $100 if the is that means you're telling Di it's not just that you say I'm going to give a or but if you ride away you ride away so the Gar says what's the when the says when when it says the it says only after three is the he needs the money right away you have to give it to them right away and if not a person's Again, nothing to do with the asking, sending them away. These are you tell the you're going to give him money. You don't give him the money right away. You're even alive. Even alive. What happens if the is not which that also is nega the you're not talking to the directly. You say you know he's a poor person. You tell somebody you say I want to give this person I'm going to give this person $100 or the is not are you ever alive by not giving the garra says if the name right away my is not then it goes back to like what's by if there's no army a person says I'm going to give $100 to ani he has three yum to give the money to ani after that he's That's the you have in front of us. You don't have to go find the but three that pass then you better make sure that that it's almost about three regal to pass. You have to make sure to find the honey to give them the money. you're going to be over the says that what says that because and therefore you're over if you don't give it right away that's the time for however if there's no there is no longer if is the here and you say you're going to give him money and you don't give it to him but if there's You're not over anymore. Not over anymore. So this what we're learning over here in this week is that's the says right away that's only if there's no if there's no longer the or brings it or the goes back to like by carbonas after however even though I say that there's no more but that you have to be that you do have to do you have to give the money right away there's no more you have to make sure to give the you have to the money and The Raom says in Of course you have to give it right away. However, if there's no to give it to you find the concept of being in the says if there's no army the way the explain and then You give it whenever you give it you're mafish even though no but you have to be mafish. However, the Bach the Ram from the Bach says you don't even have to be mafish like if there's no you don't have to a person said he's going to give it he'll give it whenever he's on and if there's no honey for 10 years he doesn't have to give these a discussion later on we're going to learn about item and about a week or two if these when somebody has in mind that he wants to give yeah person has in mind he didn't say I'm going to give money to this cause he wants to give he has in mind he's going to give so the brings the rais It's considered an if you have to say it and says maybe this will be the topic in two weeks about says to be however in this is before but the says like this even even if you'll say that it's considered a nether however when it comes to the that you're not over I theor says he's and should be Like we began at the beginning say of being the Torah says it's only what you speak out. So even if it's but it has to be if a person makes a to give to that itself is not enough could be it's enough for a that he's to give it but if he doesn't give it he's not going to be he's others that are like that in the Rambam that raom that we said before the The is if you say it, but if it's just you're not if a person doesn't give it that it's different than carbonis or but the gammor says that a person's When it comes to a person's so if a person as we're going to soon see in one of the we'll soon see but if a person gives a person is active from giving the sedak now that we went through this D of making a and not giving it. Let's try to go through one or two examples. Where's it? Where's it? Though it could be pract and then he he doesn't get to it. A po a poor person comes by and he says, "Okay, I want to give you. I'm going to give you." So over here says that a person is supposed to make kdesh right away. But can right when he comes home right away should make kdish right away. The explains cuz he's supposed to write him kinesis. She supposed to make kdesh even though we already even should be as close as the beginning of Shabas as possible. What happens if a person is not so hungry and he wants to eat the sudov say that overrides that even though there's a mile of making kdish right away but you want to eat you can't make kdish and then wait so maybe you could take a you can wait you could wait however you want to eat so maybe you want to wait But your wife or you have guests that are hungry. So then rather not don't be so on eating the be for your wife. This would be more like a you should you should make kesh rather make kdish right away than wait to eat. However, >> what >> if it's a then then >> so so we're going to get to based off the whole Indian very good but I'm saying from learning this it's not so claw that it's saying and you have it's not right to keep people waiting so better even though you're not It is it is only a >> Yeah. Yeah. However, that's the if I have the lotion over here. We're going to get you can't you can't hold up. They have they want to eat something like this in the first night is raining. If you still have to eat in the first night if the first night is a person should wait if he could. The person should wait till it stops raining at least before. Why? Cuz it's raining. You go into the sucker, you make kes, you get wet, you eat a kaz in but you can't make a cuz he's a potter even the first night can make a so it's better to wait till it stops raining and then you can go in and you can even make a sh as well also. However, if you have on a guest by you, then you shouldn't wait. Even though you're going to make she not going to be able to make a why now we're going into our a person invited a guest on that's instead of giving him money, you're giving him food. You're going to make him wait the first night cuz you want to go into the make. So you're going to make him wait till 11:30 at night. Don't wait don't wait till you be able to make you want to make you might be a lot of what we spoke about tonight of holding off by giving the money giving him money food. on this partic but he says if a person has a guest shabas or yam a person should be careful not to sit down to learn before the suda not to sing before the suda because as important as it is you want to learn before the suda you want to sing zirus When I see you're holding up the from being from you're holding him up from giving him to eat. So it's >> not every guest is ani ani. I said a guest. >> Yeah. But though in Evan he starts off by saying and then he says he goes into the >> so that he's >> what it I'm sorry. Invite you to the super. You can give you can give a gift to your friend. Give him a story. Somebody said the story beer in the car. They don't have money on food. >> So at that point he was a nun. It's a little bit the same discussion also I spoke about it recently in you invite somebody for shabas that's you invite somebody somebody lives in lakewood they come to me for shabas that's somebody needs it soie a person comes to you he's ani >> I know why he's ani he comes to you and eats eat the suda now what's he going to I don't know. >> He doesn't have You're right, Taki is relying on you, but he's on clump. You don't become only one ped. It's hard I believe to say that he's on it is not but just it's interesting in the beginning when he writes when he quotes this He doesn't say. So then he says uses the he doesn't say who else speaks about it in the also brings this but he says Shab you have. So that's regular classical typical to make right away to give him to eat because if not if you told him to come specific. >> Oh. Oh very good. I need to be it's fear to say that almost everybody is not miser to this that is known not to sing but somebody sing the normal is then you sing it even when comes also you sing it he says what's he says I need to be that it's not like what says and he says very good he says and says says this in one of the places that this that a person's is only when you say you tell I'm going to give you and you're going to give it right away. If you tell I'm going to give it to you in two weeks have to wait till funds come in. I'm going to give it to you in two weeks in a month. when you invite to like you're saying it's it's more than the way he says it is is that is you're inviting him to come eat when I eat the suda that's the time when I'm inviting him it's like I say I'm inviting you come home with me after the suda after the doning and 15 minutes later >> standard meal not if you decide to add another >> very good very Good that much if usually doesn't get stuck after daring and then he wants to smoo around. That's very good. That's you >> right. Very good. Very good. What whatever is at least whatever is the standard for him could be if a person's not to make between 6 and 7. So right that's his what he does the time. But very good. I like what you're saying because it comes out that is that is not saying that it's there's no the reason why is because of the standard to be careful to be not to overdo it. If you never go to a shir, don't go to Shir that Friday night, even if you like the topic. One more again it's any time a person tells I'm going to give you this amount and he says it means he doesn't tell him I'm going to give it to you in a month then he has to give it right away but one more one more where it's these many but one more the raitzvas In the of what we're speaking about the Rambam lists out everything and all the different cases that the Gomorrah says that is included in B notis and of course as well but when the Rambam lists out that means if a person pledges he says he's going to give money to that's also then he has to give it right away has a chuva they asked they they said that they're going to give money for more he's going to speaking about sending it and they asked if they would be if they don't give the money. So first wants to say okay that's money. So if you have to give it right away and if it's like says you have up until three and the and Iran says there's no more but first that it's the same thing like carbon he says like carbon there's no right away And there's no everybody it's always after and then he says like this and with this I conclude he says that everything that we spoke now is only when the to give a person makes byon to give a carbon as we learned even though it's to have candles lit in the it's not it's not so near but it's not where it's not there's no is speaking about and everywhere else where the gar makes to give to give these there's no just to sum up as we said from the a person's right away if there's no afterm or not at all and then we said that about if a person doesn't believe neither believe even though it might be a as we'll learn later when it comes to the dinner of has to bear. Yeah.