Attract Love Why Desperation Kills Your Marriage Chances #podcast#kabbalah #thestruggle

But people that are desperate to get married are very unattractive, right? No one wants to get married to someone that's desperate to get married. A person says, "I'm actually I'm not desperate. I'm actually fine. I'm excellent. I'm beautiful. I'm have a great life." Oh, that's very attractive to me. Right? It's the same thing with the sparks. You want to attract things in your life. Feel complete. Thank Hashem for everything you are. Be very grateful. Be very wholesome. Feel that you your life is amazing. So what you're saying that's where the rah is going to be diminished.