ATTENTION LADIES Struggling with Dressing Tzniut (Modestly) - R. Yehoshua Zitron - TorahAnytime.com

um there's so people think that it's very hard and it's very difficult and i know it's very difficult so i was driving uh i was driving uh you know about a few weeks ago back was me my wife and uh you know someone who's very close with my wife a woman and she has a very very hard struggle with with modesty so start speaking about modesty um get a nice shoe in the in the car and um and and we started speaking about madison and then you know and she kept on saying she knew she's not like i want to be more modest and almost every single girl wants to be more modest there's like a one friend it's not a want it's like a one-to-one it's like there it's like you know it might be at 14 000 miles away but it's like it's a goal maybe if i'm 85 i'll reach you know it's like at least something in the future but um so she's like listen i want to do it so i'm like so so do it what's up it's like that's so hard it's easy you know this like i really i would love to do it i would love to be modest i really i and this is our words i feel prettier when i'm honest and i'm like so let's do it and you know so um she's like yeah but you know this and that i thought i said you know what you're you're right now willing to be my be more modest we're going to go right now i was dropping off anyways my wife is very close with her my wife will go up with you put all your immodest clothes in the bag and um and and i'll just hold them it will be in our house if you ever want them back it's yours i'm not going to throw them out i'm not going to burn them not going to do anything just give them to me and i'll put it in the house and it says this way it's going to make you more modest and i'll tell you and i said i know what i'll arrange for you that you'll be able to get to buy a lot more you know modest clothing and i was able to work it out for her so she's like you know what fine you know i got a little pumped up and i'm like fine all right if you know anybody who's in business the way that you're supposed to go in business is the abcs and businesses always be closing abc always be closing if you have a client that's ready to sign you don't wait till tomorrow we'll go for coffee and we'll sign no your client's ready to sign i don't care if it's 11 30 at night you're signing 11 30 at night because that's when you're going to close don't wait till the next day so see over here her heart is warming up her heart is wants to do the right thing we're closing tonight it was it was literally 11 30 we're coming back from a wedding and um or a chevrolet or something so i'm like you know what we'll go right now look oh we'll do tomorrow like no it's okay it's okay it's like no it's late we have a babysitter you're like no don't worry about it don't worry about it we'll come now and we'll do it so she goes and she she you know she goes and she takes i have maybe 30 pieces plus of clothing this is what i slept all the way over here i want i used the camera to see this entire by the way it's a garbage bag full for everybody's listening a garbage bag full of immodest clothing that i'm holding in my hand right now from a woman who decided that she's going to dress more modest not because her parents force her parents couldn't get less she could do whatever she wants doesn't matter her parents don't care like only because she wanted to do and if you say it's very difficult i know it's difficult but here's proof if somebody was able to do it somebody who was going through a lot she was able to do it if she was and by the way this is a you know immodest clothing you can fit a lot because it's not a lot of material so it's a lot of even though you know it's a full garbage bag but it's a lot of it's like almost you know 30 i don't know what the terminology is outfits uh you know over here uh you know the there's a lot of stuff this was very heavy to walk over here i wanted to bring in here to show you inspire you about what this is and also that we're going to be selling no it's kidding joking i'm joking no no i'm still keeping it i'm still keeping it in my in my you know in my house if she wants it back it's hers it's this and this is what i recommend modesty is very hard i know it's very hard use that method use that method find a friend and be like listen this is all my modest modest clothing hold it for me don't do anything put it in anything and you know you can do that and and all of a sudden it's not in your closet anymore you're not going to have that temptation to actually go and do it and and it's an unbelievable it's an unbelievable you know idea that you could actually go and it's like people have a very hard time throwing everything away if you're able to don't don't don't donate it burn it burn it you know by the way after 120. because why is it modest why nobody else is [Music] well i guess so the um but you know after 120 what they're going to do for this one for the they're going to come and they're going to bring all the meat spots on one scale all that i bought in one scale they're going to take this and this is heavy by the way this is very heavy you know they're going to put it on the side of meat spot it's going to sink all the way down it's going to make one of those sound because the scale is just going to break because that's how much it's worth the smooth is worth so much it's literally going to break the scale uh regardless of what you know sins and i thought this news is so important they're going to be able to she's going to be able to accomplish so much by just doing what she just did you don't know how much you know and i asked her i asked her like a while back uh you know like back to that i'm like are you regretting it yet you're like you know like where are you right now like you know that we have to like we're gonna and she's like no no i'm fine i'm good you know it gets you know obviously there's the tests and the temptation that comes back but she was able to do it and this is a woman that had no pressure from parents that no she could have done whatever she wanted to she you know she was brought up you know dressing you know whatever she wanted to do and yet she went and she did this that means that everybody here has the same ability that she did you should take it as an inspiration as a thing to do don't wait till tomorrow if you're listening to this online don't wait till you wake up do it tonight do it tonight this is going to bring the mashiach this is going to bring the redemption the redemption is to come just like the first word by the way the first redemption was a merit of of the woman the holy righteous woman is was the merit of the of the redemption of the egypt so to the last redemption is going to be in merit of the woman the merit of the woman is going to bring it come on guys we're waiting you