Ari Goldwag - Vayetzei - Complete Trust

you listening to the weekly partial podcast with our Eagle lag recorder with the shims never running assistance in room option which is real 57 79 2018 this week's purchase partially eight say and in our partial they were beginning of the partial we have a great challenge which reclined Freelander brings the question that he asks I'd like to explore his thoughts try to understand the idea that he shares he says like this it's very interesting if we know the difference we look at the difference between Yaakov he knew Jacob he is leaving he's running away from his family's house he's running away from his father's house because a sub is following after him to kill him and he runs to Horan he runs to the land where his uncle lives were loved and lives and he's going to find his wife his wives ruffle layout and but he as he's going he's going in a way which is very different than Eliezer if we remember from last week's parsha previous purchase so we saw that Eliezer had gone in order to find a wife before you suck he went to the same exact place went to Karim and her clan food and it points out what an amazing contrast that is between Eliezer who went in order to find the wife there he came there as cuz I'll tell us with thisis America he got there in a very quick very quickly in a very short amount of time and he came there with many camels and he came there with much wealth and jewelry to give to rifka and everything was exactly the opposite it seems of the way you move in with NACO business leaders tell us he had lost everything he just had a stick keeping Mike Lee apart this yarn you're damn right he passed over the the Jordan River on the way to Horan with just a stick that's all he had he had nothing else here no wealthier no camels everything was taken away from him and he went and it wasn't just a simple thing to get whereas Eliezer agami of you know had a hole myself yes douche my of God the divine assistance in order to find the right girl and in order to get her right away the family agreed to let her take her that very day Yaakov gets Sarah takes seven years before you can even marry the woman that he would like to which is rock aluminum and there was a mixup and you know loves doing all kinds of tricks and by the time he gets out of there it's 20 years later so it's an extended stay there and it's an expanded story when it comes to Yoko you know Jacob why is it we need to understand that's the question that he poses for us why is it that when it comes to early as they're going together to get a wife Frey gets look it's an easy deal it's just one two three chick Chuck it's not your fingers everything's cool but when it comes to Yaakov avi know why is it the Jacobs experience is one of much greater challenge much greater difficulty nothing seems to run smoothly what is the idea here what is the Torah come to teach us with this concept so he brings he quotes Cazale our sages say it's a magic machine rune above our papa pasa the pick us in the name of Munna Papa began okay then whenever we have the introduction of our sages when it comes to a partial need to know that that introduction is going to lay down the foundation for how to understand this parsha so he started as follows the verse says I was tailor haveta Darko the verse tells us that then you shall go with bet up with assuredness you're going to be assured when you go on the way etc into Chicago to 5k the verse tells us if you go to sleep you won't be afraid I was telepath atop say Yaakov this is my tteok of going with assuredness that's Jacob that's versatile yeah Jacob went to Chicago to Farid maysville oven when he's going to go to sleep he's not going to be afraid of Laban and from Asaph shock after our mission etc Sosa's you should go to sleep and show sweet sleep by Chicago Malcolm whose verse tells us that he went to sleep in that place so that's what our sages say what is the idea it continues like a small barn alcaman pass off Sheila Melissa Sinai horeb verse tells us that King David sang a song in a sense I will raise up my eyes to the heavens first I'm sorry he says I reason my eyes to the him to the mountains assign neither hiring I will go I would look to my my parents Horan which means a mountain can also be read as hovering which means parents I mean lafon i lamothe day me to those who are performing to those who to those who forming Maiden the annual esri where will that come where would that help come from and the Ezra Shore show all that so the message tells us this contrast teaches us this amazing contrast Elliott was Russia Hall Olivia Smith max Eve Bay what does it say one regards Eliezer when he went to get riff go to get Rebecca by Kaka Evan I saw him Allen did with him ten camels have we said my knee loin has an echo blade summit a flood Jacob says to himself look at look at me compared to the previous generation I don't have anything to bring my my grandfather's slave had ten camels had all this wealth closet me over Matt I know move on Superman breathe but then he said to himself and this is a process and we're gonna see you kind of freedom it's gonna explain to us that there's a process that goes on here he said after he said what do I have it nothing he set himself what I'm going to lose my hope lose my hope from believing and trusting in my Creator do I believe that Hashem is not gonna help me Koster Sean listen I move on to Superman breathe my Creator has not I don't have to lose my hope in my Creator su-mei Michelle as the verse says my hope I'm looking back so now the heart I'm looking back to the way things were with my parents and things don't look good you know I know movie three where am I now I'm gonna come from you may Hashem help Yaakov set himself Jacob said my help is gonna come from God No so he says I'm gonna read and some time for you then they ask the question it started the earth if he Suffolk height of the Yakima be no my shadow my husband she'll need to understand what's going on here does it mean to say that Jacob had a question if you should trust in God it can't be it can't be that he had a question whether or not to trust in a she'll be Ramana Martin agreed leavening is it so should he therefore by the last six miles to be talking he quotes Rev leavening who says that this is the way that a person develops trust how does the person develop trust how does a person get complete trust so he explains that this is the way it goes Shona may have our Lots Mascola Suffolk person needs to clarify for himself the entire the entire subby the entire question in the airship shorts a harassment matter become a Michelle are there other ways that I could do this myself is there on some of the way decides for me trusting in God relationship I really absolutely sure Rosh Hashanah fellows are by proving to himself that it's only God who can help him brienna shorts are first azula's ice there is no other choice there is no other option the calculate gamma cannot have Brewer Mouse we talked mich limbs that's how a person reaches the recognition that there's no one for me to depend on except for God it's only possible for me to do this the only way that I can succeed is by trusting in God I've got gonna be viewed a bunch of us like Adele Hollywood there's oh so Jacob when he was trying to trust in God he went in this way the very last machine me show you how he loaded laser to clarify that he recognized inside of himself there's no one else is going to help me besides for God Rochelle oh I don't have any possessions heard of a McLaren loss is really but much so easy if his parents can't help him in this situation roughly watts and you can't even help himself yes when I might so Vichy near LeClair the lytic fo he thought about his situation when she seems to be hopeless Ilana show me smart eyes of women ammu hood super even Bri if a sham would also if God Himself was not going to be with him what he sets himself could it be that I can't depend on God could be that I can't that my creators not gonna help me on the days that Aguila easily be tough my show my meaty engineer my sham special Emirates that's how I got to that complete and absolute understanding and trusting God that there's someone else who can help me the only one is God and God is not going to forsake me let's go to Morocco for theofilos Hiroshi only God can help him and save him Arabica ishida because a Kazakh only after he reached this powerful trusting God more voices passion which was founded on God supple as Gossage Emmy Lou : what happens immediately after that what happens is that he has an amazing revelation which occurs when he goes to sleep and he sees the latter he sees the ladder with the angels climbing up and down and he has an awesome experience of God but recursively natural meets of all of as verse says God was standing over him if toughest Hashem and God promises him smarty Kailash your family because you trusted in me Shem says I'm going to protect you in all the ways that you go okay the feyza i'm moving on come on a submissive a no now i can understand the intent of the measures which we've brought in Tishkoff the verse says if you will sleep you're not going to play for the Chicago saga if Jamie was not afraid to sleep in the field I've taught grace to me so right so of Anna my fear solution and a good with Hashem he's not afraid to sleep there even though he could be afraid of those who are running after him and he said was running after him because he trusts completing God he's not afraid kindly left off as a sham so it's so doing so then he knows that he has the promise of a son that's how he merits the promise of a show loads of don't be afraid may someone we love and not from a 7-eleven but a solution and the email but our closeness a club and he has a pleasant sleep you can sleep well so to speak but both figuratively and literally you can sleep well because of the fact that he's trusting in God no you said something amazing just an amazing thing and this is the this is where this is what I want to focus in on was this the foundation of the idea here came a shot - Yakima doc willoughby slogan of a show so show me or he's so lucky Leslie my smiles to be tough for me now since Jake what was he doing here what was the point of what he was doing the entire goal here was to attain levels of be tough to attain levels of trust in God that being the case or solutions - to be done back in Syria a sham costume the stress at service to that cover baseball why did I shall give him these challenges why did Jacob have to go through all of these difficulties as opposed to Eliezer in other words the measure she doesn't ask the question which would come fill in the rest the question but it's a question that pops out because he's looking at his abuse generation and it was so easy for him he had everything Eliezer came with all of these all of the different abilities and you had all of this wealth that was with him but but Jakub didn't what was the reason tells us from kind feeling an amazing idea and that is that the challenges were there for him to realize that he can't trust anything he can't depend on anything the fact that he has well the fact that he has camels the fact that he is there's nothing to trust him there's only one person to trust it and that's a sham himself only God Himself Kim can help out that was the reason why he had to have all these challenges Jiali additional you got a cluster cold but oil because by the fact that Yaakov had nothing yo I give the show must be tough question that enabled him to be able to develop a level of trust in God took a culture autumn emerged across the ice or mushroomy coal to the extent that a person feels that he doesn't have that he can't do himself that he really needs God's help Holly a so the Gila Kirsch Lannister Akash in your philosophy when a person recognizes and realizes that he can't do himself he's tried his best he has he's run out of options at that point when he's run out of options and he turns to God that that's the thing that helps him to turn to God and nobody turns to God because I'm actually myself he beat up my ship that's how he attains a true level of trust in God he realizes that are there no other options he turns to God completely I shouldn't helps him okay I'm skipping a little bit of what he talks about here because I don't want to get into a different idea and I want to read to you that what happens what happens what country leader says when a person indeed gets to this level what happens when a person reaches the level they'll be tough enough trust in this way the result is that there's a really not only on his own part that Asha was helping him but those around him also recognize that God is helping him let's see inside because your other might give Ashley miss we'd be talking about chef Thiago when a person reaches this level of trust in God as the jacob miss nakimura neither can i give me the brush Kaka we see you a gully Lane called an amazing thing happens when a person trusts in Hashem and he gets the other the Schlage gets an amazing level of godly assistance the result also is that everybody around recognizes and sees and acknowledges even a great Russia even someone who's evil can see and recognize that this person is getting special attention special help from God shaaka Russia right I've got a shaman write a book even someone who's evil sees that it's God doing it and he admits to it when she might see my cell yeah colette you find by jakub should love in her Russia plated Leela what happens Laban the evil one who serves idolatry even he had missed Natasha's number kind of Shambala he says through my magic I was able to see that it was God who is giving the blessing which spilled over to me I was blessed because of you by God oh no I'm on a caste right but what does he say he said I was able to see through magic shakeela Guillen's ice rock holiday Niels you only was able to recognize it through his magical magical divinations I thought about my deliverer finishing with lalafell nevertheless he admitted that it was God who was blessing him and he means another example of this we find by you see photonic as well the Joseph one of the reasons that he had success was because of his constant contact we got his constant prayers to God he was always God's name was always on your six lips he was always saying I shall help me some help me I shall help me I shall give me a success he recognized that he couldn't do anything on his own and as a result he had tremendous the other dish find an amazing divine assistance to the point where variety assure me my the verse tells us that his master saw pota far who was a Russia who is evil he saw that God was with him I changed my shirt with fifth Rashi tells us the message tells us because he was constantly mentioning the name of God okay so this is something that Yaakov had this is something that also Yosef italic developed and learned from his father now I want to show you one more concept from a clan Friedlander I don't see how much we can get through of it we find or Klein tells us that we find it there's a there's an idea that generally speaking our sages teach us things many times very deep ideas in in seemingly simple contexts okay let's see he gives us the following idea kappa mo shan this is what cause i'll say to us home on a rough up the rabbit bar mori rather said to rob a bar mori the following idea Nina I'm Elsa Darian chic kind of a non Zoot really got bro Raja negotiation on the dirty key because I'll our sages are telling us over here said Gomorrah God become another case on page 92 that there's an idea that the people there there are certain phrases that people say and we can actually learn a deep understanding not per se from actual phrase but we can see that there's a depth that can be explained within that kind of statement people say when I was young I was a man I was strong now that I've gotten old I've become like a baby that's what people say when I was a baby I was strong when I got old I was like a baby what is the idea so he says like this I'm really neat Kharak see if I show my little neon yellow but close to my death neither my mana issue holy life amazing idea this is foundational really try to to understand this idea it's really just beautiful so important to understand originally it says the verse tells us that Hashem himself God himself would lead the Jewish people his his divine presence was seen in I'm gonna on him in the in the cloud which was leading the Jewish people the land of um of Asia hire him and at night they were they were led by a pillar of fire Willoughby Sykes him so God Himself was the one who did it originally originally when we were young we were strong so to speak he's gonna give us an even deeper depth in it so listen carefully we'll have a sexy but in the end we were old and we got we got we were like babies we were we lost us our strength what does it say he nanika sure if my locker for necklace Rock Madera originally I showed himself God Himself was the one who is leading us and guiding us but what happens in the end we lose that direct guidance and instead God sends a model of an angel now the garage explains something amazing here listen to this depth qu come up too much accustomed I'm a Jewish this is a foundational idea when it comes to the constant they'll be tough on of trusting God like it says in the magician of a parabola Marshall attorney Bayless she katana Imazon Oso when I centerfield it's comparable analogous to a chicken that when the baby when you have a baby chick so they Beach it comes to its mother the mother gives it the worm the mother takes care of getting whatever the whatever the baby the chick needs question it's got Nellis avala Halima but when that chick is already grown up and it comes asks for food from its mother Maki I saw the feed for your clothes on a socks mo so the mother chicken hits the child chicken because it can already feed itself it's not necessary for me to feed you anymore kanga Shawn now now we're gonna flip this on his head listen to this carefully can cushaw hagen cuttin the tail by Ramy odd when a person is young when a person is is not yet developed to the point where he thinks he can do it on his own when a person is young a certain mind of a certain advantage that he has he doesn't think he can do it son Shem does it for him okay mannequins for America had some practice when a person is young he gets an incredible amount of a Chicago practice of divine providence machinist got about half bad so what happens when he grows up he trusts himself he starts to believe that he can do it come I can - go on him at a smile love because he thinks that he can do it on his own that's why he starts to lose the divine providence this is it because if I can do it on my own if I don't trust in God's verses oh you can do it on your own do something do it on your own come I came here oh and that's how what's the Jewish people call him hyeyeon will you miss tiara man I miss my commercial I lead before the splitting of the sea before they got out of Egypt they were completely dependent on God they had no other dand all the way to succeeded they knew that they recognized that means oh ho and confidence says that's why they were exactly Mary - Emma asked me and I him you know I game I shall name you Elmo God Himself was the one who's leading them why because they knew that they couldn't do it on their own so therefore they put the full trust in God thank God directly help them and let them the Aqua captionist might between over what happens later they lose their trust in God why because now they think that they can do it on their own and smash Gotham Ellen as a result of that they lose the divine providence this is an amazing thing when we were young when we thought that we couldn't do it on our own God did it for us when we became older and more developed so to speak and we thought that we could do it ourselves we lost our trusting God that's what happened okay interestingly and beautifully I'm not going to get very much into this but he mentions that that's why the the kerubim the the angels that were on top of the are now bridges on top of the park of the Covenant those angels which represent were an analogy for the Jewish people to represent the relationship between God and us from God in the Jewish people they were they had faces of a child on them they had that youth that innocence because in the state of innocence that's where we have the true relationship with God when he completely trusts in God like a child trusts parents okay so the wrap up here if he'd I guess I spotless sure such gonna make some English according to the level of our subjugation are surrendered to God that's how much he Nets with divine presence was seen in the temple but semakin Lishman believer should call alphabetically and that that my presence would be found in the hearts of every single individual give it showed our shoe shall had to be safe from circling around the sacrum right the the divine presence dwelled in the hearts of each individual okay so now he quotes just the end of this metric and he says like this cap you're sure you saw me tomorrow around Shona when the Jewish people were in the mid birth in there in the wilderness of 40 years who among you are you I bear oil Elohim my slab Wetzel and during that 40 year period the Jewish people received the the miraculous manner and the water would come to them and whatever they needed the meat would come to them not me I cover my key business under the divine presence the classic Lord were surrounding them oh and I'm a silent man and the clouds of glory were leading them why because they recognized they saw themselves as young they saw themselves needing help and therefore they got that help chemistry Nicholas - Nicholas - starla Arts when the Jewish people entered into the land of Israel rmally my should collectively let me came yet to join makuu shey-bui convinced I - even each and every person was entering into a new place they were going to feel like they were depending upon themselves they were acting on their own there are the ones who were doing it they're working the land they have their own army they're doing everything themselves as a result what happens the way that God deals with the Jewish people when we get here to the land of Israel it's different - gotta practice divine providence is less obvious in the place where we think we're doing it god of my presence is less obvious but to the extent that we give up believing that we're the ones doing it that's where I shone starts to come in that's where God's divine presence is revealed when we are young again when we return to that state of youth of purity I'll just read the wrap up your MC aluminum hog assumptions Martha autumn that is do you cliffie between emission we come out here this is a kind few vendor that the way that God deals with us is precisely the way that we trust him but why some either show mark each other mask my a Milan to the extent that a person feels powerless Kahala hacker shock or apnea session is Bora then a person can recognize that everything is only from God made up and from the other side of it because your mortgage pleasure should simply shall I go when a person feels like this is his own mind I have my own understanding kind of his life were you say his health guru who shy shall I came it's as if they were his own the Hainan battery last machine he taught him hey Malloy me day ragga Mesa College Bob he doesn't recognize that it's something which has given to him from Shan so when he realizes that the inner my last machine time him lie me the regulates at the truth at every single moment is coming from God cotton with training machinist Bora so it lessens his trust in God desire with Sam : this is our apply that this is our the work that we need to do every single day behold Fela Bravo and every prayer regressing the hashers really main to to get into our hearts a little class we call a comment session just like a little baby right who knows what does she know she knows that there's only the parents are all the parents are there to take care of her right so she doesn't think she can do it on her own even though sometimes she does so that's the idea is it is it like yeah the mouse if he thought one cylinder through this we will reach the greatest loves are we talking I wanna bless you and ask you to bless me and my baby Hadassah have to help us that we should reach this level we should recognize you should have that youthfulness in our ballistics-gel you should have the recognition in our service of God that he is all there is and we can't do it on our own and with that concept I wish you all thank you so much for listening have a beautiful shot