Toldos - Turning Bad into Good

you're listening to the weekly partial podcast with Ari Gold wag recorded with a chums never-ending assistance in Rome on p-channel she's real 5780 2019 this week's Varsha specialist told us and we have in our partial of birth of Yaakov and a set of these two opposite forces Yakko of the each Tom Yoshi valhallen this simple man the perfect person but Sadiq sits and studies the Torah ace of the wild man goes out into the field does every forbidden act but let's look at the beginning because whenever we look at the beginning understand the foundation of everything but he says I want to make here where the verse tells us embrasures cafe hub pace that the the two babies inside of Rifkin side Rebecca's womb so they were fighting inside because of Rashi Rashi tells us probably seen with our shoe Russian Rita that they were running around what there was movement because she saw a very soft biscuit IRA she'll shame that everyone she would pass by the achieve of chemin Ava Yakov rut some afar hey says so Yakov would try to get out you move around and read a tremendous amount of movement or veresov peso Hawaii Sora when they were passed by a place of idolatry a sum of artists let's say so ASA would try to get out okay so we see at the very beginning stages of their existence it was already some connection from Yaakov to what's right to goodness and between a sieve and what's wrong Amma raha Maharaj soil tomorrow I'll ask the final question this is reclaim Friedlander bringing down the in time of the Paris Air Show yeah a submit Farkas let says if we won't understand what's going on here according to that's explanation that ASA was trying to get out at that point although you need Sahara automation eyelid we find this a heart is not inside of a person until they're born Shania Marla verses Lupita's Lapita hottest Ravens at the opening meaning at the beginning of a person's life that's where the sins begin to crouch look how fierce Rashi mean I mean I am Anna Freud his elevation of Attila to my father uh she says verse 23 which is the next posture that they went off in different directions from when they came out one went to goodness or one went to evil labor item abettin by the implication is that it's not true in regards to inside of the mother's womb so what is the idea here idea schlafen re it's likely rifka how you are Karim we need to understand that both Isaac and Jacob they were unable to have children actually spa Lucian a.m. till they both prayed it was a tremendous amount of Fela Kali Denise you've ollied been Russia through this amazing miracle a child's going to be born his wicked County I shall have an amazing fire Romulus i we also need to understand if ASA was evil from his conception from his birth and came out I know love then what is the expectation of him what is the problem Allah a case of the Li Yaakov Oh Elvis yeah Cuevas I saw Sonny see the PASOK says that college boy who says that I loved Yaakov even though y'all company super brothers I love Yaakov and I hated a soft what is that show me a days it's not his fault he was born that way Yahoo no the time of a seven mining me find that Yaakov was born more perfect and ASA was born red he was born with all these Tigers with all these desires seemingly uncontrollable vo tear tear us a kid sinus he Muhammad dice of Horus give you should are shoe even his outer manifestation even his outer appearance it shows us that there was something negative about him from his very birth from the very beginning and my knee POSIX says he was reddish already alibi kaneki the shape of diamond he looked red because he's someone who is going to be a murderer in Cannes Russ if it's a nice Abita Espinosa ha ha so comes out that is outer aspect was a was a manifestation of his inner aspect which was evil contains a tiny eshelov how can you have any kind of Tainan him what did he do I'm saying it's not his fault that's what it seems so now he tells us he lays down for us if one of the most foundational things that we could hear well the most foundational principles in reality without this there's no reason that would be on this earth he says like this color Kissimmee T'Challa Adam Haim Calum look he'll commit of Kiev a decision every single thing that a person has every meter every character trait every character flaw every positive thing a person has every negative thing everything that has to do with a person's personality they're smart they're not so smart they're spaced out they're spaced in whatever it is all the talents that person has everything that a person has is a CLE is a vessel is a utensil something to be used in his service of God so London watch Aquila HD Voice Isis Viva toy by me this type of shame Nuala autumn gala but it's a sham so we think that this means that a person isn't put into a certain predicament into a certain life situation and those things are what causing to be greater causing to be not so great then and it's all about his service of a sham if you see us my free eyes kiss fever oh I mean this rise and we think that if a person has a bad surroundings as bad character traits so that's something which is negative Shima Freeman la última but it's essentially like that they they distract them and prevent them from properly serving God in kami this type of rice says what I'm feeling it's not true it's a mistake there's no such thing as a meter oh there's no such thing as a bad trait there's no such thing as having something intrinsically bad the me dice the character traits of a person are not intrinsically bad rather Coulomb hey Natalia's vena rice all of them whether they seem on the surface to be good or bad a miser sumo-sized love it's a sham can be used to aid a person in their service so show me the Coulomb got me for this Lee is my free as well but it's a shame those same exact character traits can actually cause a person to be missing something in the service of God Holly be life in such English McCallum it depends on the way that a person uses it with me guys and in his me die so the way that a person uses a character traits depends on the person Commissioner guemarah Lamar says Goren Chavez enough goofing on love hi Mandy Bhima Adam yeah giver OSHA Donna a person who is a reddish person or maybe it means a person who is born under a certain zodiac sign so that person is going to be somebody who's involved in spilling blood Amara Vashi um now Uganda Amala depends a person can use it in many different ways the spilling of blood commuters in a negative way it could be a murderer but it costs to be used in a positive way it could become a mile some of those circumcisions so it depends on the person and a sub was somebody who used his Kunis a nephesh who used his character traits in a negative way he had tremendous power he was he had the potential to be a great person he said he came out and even in a certain sense he was already complete you could have used that that greatness that completeness to become a greater person Jakub Aveeno he was more simple he was not as outgoing perhaps we could say Yakov Aveeno then they were both born into a certain circumstance Yakov took advantage of his circumstance took advantage of growing up in the house of of Yitzhak and rifki an amazing an amazing set of parents Asaph did not learn from them properly even though many times he did certain things that would seem to be it would seem to imply that he was great but it was only superficial okay let's see what he says evasive volume malice meanest akrura if ASA Buddhists have taken his meter his character trait of strength much damage balloon a sorry Sheila that's Anika Ducie he could have taken all the things that he ended up becoming no a murderer and and being involved in a way the Zara idolatry etc his meatus could have been used in a positive way if he would have taken them and use them in on the side of kedusha or ubud our gergovia yasser he actually would have been on a higher level now sure hollyrock Caiaphas tied him even higher perhaps than Yaakov Inu Yakko was naturally a good guy he was goody glee so this week he was if a sub would have taken his negative were the things that were he used in a negative way but used them positively so he would have become even greater much larger at Seneca douche if you would have used them for the side of holiness we caucus of Agra listen to what the garage says possession room Shobha our hats also a bish time relay also let me find that there were two great people one of whom both of them were kings one of whom did a certain sin as a result of that he lost his kingship the other one did two sins and he didn't lose his kingship King Saul Shah lamella I made a mistake he didn't kill King agog as a result of that Shmuel told him Samuel the Prophet told him he's losing his his kingship mm LF - to great sins and nevertheless he did not lose his kingship let's see shoukata hit it hard with my said agog a very rough Moon Usagi issue behind Shah used his meat of compassion his attribute of compassion to have compassion on a person who is an evil person a GOG the king of the of them awake him allowed him to live also a maluca as a result he lost his kingship Lumas ice david cotta bestia varus as opposed to King David he did two sins my said real my said a SATA there was a story that he did he caused Rhea to be killed the wife the husband of a Chava so that it would go retro actively that that she was not married to worry at the time and my said I thought that there was some kind of SATA not sure exactly what it's talking about well I know cook on me Manohar maloja despite these two great sins he did not lose his kingship no Indian who explains the grow the idea is Kiba David never who had mining oui madame King David was somebody who was a red he was a red person meaning he had inside of him in nature which would lean him towards doing things that are wrong okay see buddy Akash malli he had a very tough nature Tammy she loves arias his nature was to be cruel Licata by shmuel base Shahrukh lost upon it very interestingly when samuel the prophet saw him made a mistake he thought all this can't be the one who's gonna be the king he rusty voiceover shoot if I could have a Civ he thought that he had a similar nature to Asaph who heavy army nice about call but King David was somebody was able to overcome his yetzer Hara his evil inclination in all matters but I shall wash and I'm like every McCormack I'm like also like much I'm gonna call him out on my dice of a cool light even on these two circumstances he did not manage to overcome his nature he made a mistake in these two circumstances but since throughout his life he was always being Marv around me they saw he was always overcoming is it sahadevan clinician so in these two places that didn't diss sins that he did didn't cause him to lose his maluca to lose his kingship love it here bill Xavier army dice of that was no clunky negative up ever has something died Civ but overcoming his ysera we're coming is in the natural state his natural way of being so he worked hard at that he fought re palming harami thyself there's napalm lights they have to times yes he didn't succeed what kind of Shema holy for this reason ashen was forgiving while Shane Kane show but which it was not the case with King saw Shyama been Shana shawl is Natan his natural state was to be or to be a good person to never sinned conventionally Tom Tom Kate he he was like a 1 year old who had never tasted a sin wherever me does say uh toy on the raw but what did he do in that one circumstance the reason he wasn't easily forgiven he wasn't forgiven at all was because he went to the other way he he went he didn't do his natural way of being good and he went to the side of evil you use his positive trait his Romanus his compassion you sit in a negative way to have compassion on the wrong person he was he was Moroccan mala answer he was compassionate to the cruel heavier militarily Robert over at HUD la gente Oh God also I mean as a result of this so he lost his maluca with just one sin show Holly Heather had ever highlight ever show documents like we said he had this nature of being compassionate called Kunis America been shown a psychotic law we explained it's okay now so he says like the see though a subsystem crime field in there if a sub how your shiny dice of arrested toy but if he would have overcome his negative attributes and used them in a positive way are you either magic Australia car you would have been greater than Yaakov just as we see that David was greater than show already said shemitah Kunis time is Vicki home time Yaakov Suresh M with a natural tendency towards goodness okay and all I say it's against Morocco explains true crime feliner this was why Yitzhak loved a sub even more than Yaakov he saw the potential he rots Allah says let's call up shorty Allah is mentoring oh so he wanted to give him the opportunity to overcome his level to come to a very high level womanly other come a girl who Kurdish forces he didn't realize however how much of a mooshka see was how negative it was it wasn't so later after the story after yahoo came in stole the blessings and then Asaph came in and he's he saw Gahanna was opened underneath him that's when he realized that this wasn't the right guy but he thought that he was he thought that he had the potential which was true to use his negative inclination in a positive way meatus that usually are used for negativity in a positive way says no crime free that the furthermore a few sarah means oh research resources shall a sub gambali they be to Boccaccio at IVA an amazing thing the the the wickedness of Asaph came out that it came it came to to expression it was expressed in such a way that even though he lived in a positive situation an amazing surroundings cha Chi ba the positive situation that he was years talkin and riff cognac of his brother all these people said he come around him niala lucky seola Hollis is America's MasterChef did not help him to raise him up in his service of God us our caution that case with CEO Tom Curtis Tigers time Amina stylist in a certain way it's it's harder it's harder to be a good guy living among some good people why but it's Tiger Rag a Machado mother there's there's a great danger someone is a good person everyone around him is doing good here in a great situation you can become accustomed to doing it without even thinking about it I'll live Niceville Ollie says add some oregano kudu ship enemies in order for reason to raise themselves up to higher and higher levels of inner holiness but it's a sham Zoe hi so much ago social yaki this was actually the the level of Yacouba V know that even though he was on a very high level shall I shall hear like Caleb is Cielo but it's a share like higher gamma Shimano mondo Yaakov's advantage would Yaakov accomplish was that even though he was naturally you know he had a natural tendency toward doing good it could have become just habitual but he didn't allowed to become a ritual something that he did he was always been my Kaddish was always doing something brand-new he was making a new he was doing it in a way which was proper I'm the muscle itself however in comparison a sufficient of Kiev it is a sham hastily laka make a case of our own national average M his purpose was to take his negative attributes and to direct them into the service of a sham loci mr. shioma gallows so and not to live in his own a away its laser-like okok conscientious you attempt to say it for him it was actually easier for his surroundings to help him in that regard the cause lies initial issue say with a voice off so nevertheless even though he had more potential to be helped in in his way to become a greater person he didn't it didn't work it didn't have it didn't work out that way he didn't do that ok a bomb is Viva raw Ashley day Robin shall honey good Mullis not will it not take me see what Sara interesting he also tells us that if a person is a good person and they're in a bad situation right thing about Avril Lavigne who is you surrounded by people who weren't so good rifka I mean she was surrounded by regime sometimes when a person is surrounded by evil it also has the opposite effect that when a person tries to be good you know he knows he needs to fight against the whole situation that he's surrounded by so sometimes it can be to his advantage long invincible spirit igudala he has a connoisseur mooglies the problem is when a person is good and they're inside of a situation where everyone random is good so it can become easy to just become habituated to it like we said commercial casa de baño and i brings from the revenue Janish i feel your shaman colony is a tell her atom together maluma do that even when it comes to fearing heaven it's something i can become done without thought can we should cause of a possible here awesome I see mitzvos initial model is a plastic that says that the Jewish people had gone to a state where they were serving a sham even their fear of Hashem was such that it was just habitual ok so now let's see here we're coming to the wrap up I kind of sheesh saudan Attila raw meat sacrifice of choice of a shining when a person has a new Thierry has the tendency to evil because of his different car this is different talents abilities beyond in a Moscow it's possible to sweeten them okay this is the take home this is a how we need to think about this idea a sub had these crisis is tremendous powerful person used it for negativity use it for bad use it for evil every single person has a mixture of different countries different powers different abilities different natural states different meters different character traits so there's a way to sweeten them it's a gum Tov kita but i session this is the purpose of a person in a service of god this is art this is what we here for Derek let me talk IRA how do we sweeten them how do we sweeten the evil inside of us I'll universities are about Russ Keeter traveling tomorrow conditioned on da flama Ralph says that there's an idea that a sham created dates around the evil incarnation within a person the negative attributes of a person sham also created an antidote a way of fixing the problem and that's the Taira the tire is the table the terror is the antidote a table nematic sa yetzer Hara it is the antidote to sweets in the it's a hollow - because it's an absolute I've heard I Rex is how to use our spiritual abilities and our physical abilities in the proper way I'll you they lean without area by learning the Torah without I'm a book and working hard at it zero there - laughing Humpty can say it's a hot rod this is the only way to sweeten eat Sahara interesting Lee there's a Gomorrah Tim I believe it's in mr. Shabbos that says that if not for the fact that the tire I'd be given to the Jewish people we were so tough we were such an we are such a tough person nation that we would have destroyed the entire world that's that's our nature to be tough the tire is what calms us down what directs our conscience so that we we do the right thing okay okay automation ijk on a low when that sells coca-cola Mateus who nice of Alec time him a person uses these utensils a person uses the tire arm and he directs all of his coaches all of his abilities he sweetens his negative attributes gun and llama say llama amazing thing even if a person doesn't completely succeed ain't enough fear came in to mild we had to move fall that I'm gonna see this fad but who knows so then a person like like da da da Mela there were times when he didn't succeed right so sometimes we won't succeed doesn't always work out for us but we try our best use the Taira we direct it with the tire this path we try our best if we found if we fail sometimes it happens a bird should cause it Rakesh kill all of the agiel a mechanical noise level rise but obviously this is speaking specifically a person has made every effort to overcome or to redirect he a Sahara has evil inclination and then there just to wrap up here is I gonna be stress out disposal and result he brings from your Vsauce Elantra the one who originated the Muslim movement if I remember Cazale he explains that which has all same condition of llama in probably Bahama noble is a mascara base image we find our sages tell us that if the a Sahara he starts up with you what do you do you drag him into the basement you drag him into the place of learning look all highly Wilhelmy the relish la space time inshallah the Franza every single negative attribute of a person walking through this message there's something to fix it there's some way to fix that negative attribute the Shani says Kuno Sarah to change that negative character trait before at Z how could the type in this specific area and to change it to good to use it for good leaving a monster who I love you Lana Zerbe salsa Lanter the me de the the I'm sorry the learning of Mooser learning the concepts that are contained in the message from mrs. Sharma clevis a la vez my Jamaican sir Adam as you studied together so these have a person to turn around to good who based her metrics live quiet - Tim - Molly this is what takes out the hardening of the heart the things that block a person from their spirituality from doing what's right regardless you Dalit high Safari the last final point he brings us also from every source Ilan Terry says in the 14th letter ok eyes half-closed me relative Billy moosari trying to change from evil to good without studying Mooser he can my back office area li-ion it's like trying to see something without an I wish me Eisen trying to hear something without ears Derek llama love Shania Cunha arise while he the aluminum sir how do we change our negative attributes it's like working on ourselves it's by learning muster but learning those books that speak about the character traits and how we're supposed to redirect them and focus them when we see something inside when we hear a shear when we read a safer it's extremely powerful and it helps us it's not just and sometimes we talk about things and we think about things we realize you're doing something wrong but when we read about it it's just a different thing it has a different impact on us it reaffirms our commitment to being greater people in their cars ELISA besides for muster says we'll be so cilantro says which I'm feelin there's not another way to change our negative attributes bottom line I want to bless you and I ask you to bless me I should help us to recognize the places where we need to improve to recognize the negative attributes of ourselves to realize that those very negative attributes can be used somehow in our service of a Shem we just need to figure out how some should help us to indeed figure that out to learn the rights form to hear the right shoe and so without we can become greater people thank you so much for listening have a wonderful Shabbos this podcast was made possible through the gracious donations of listeners like you for more podcasts like this please visit www.gfi.com/webmonitor [Music]