Shemos - Appreciating Life

you're listening to the weekly partial podcast with Ari Gold lag recorded with the shims never-ending assistance in Roma Bhishma Israel 5780 2020 I like to share the Oh beautiful piece from replica shmoo Levites from secrets muster and it's always fun and exciting when the idea or the lesson that you feel like you're learning that week comes up when you open the safe for the first time to the partial okay I have a thought from remember Levites and I also have a thought from Irish in his safe our Marty toda vendo shotty which I received this week from a friend of a music friend Menachem Herman who lives in my neighborhood amazing musician breslav er gave me this amazing idea of appreciating the value of what we have in the face of not receiving that which we want how do we deal with that okay so that I received and that I felt like was the message for this week for me personally and I feel like this is exactly what Redemption will novice is speaking about here Oh Cheryl kindness is the joy of life how do we appreciate just the fact that we're alive how earnest hoc male so in our partial partial schmoes so the egyptians see this rapidly expanding nation of the jewish people and they're afraid and they're afraid that they're gonna be overrun by the jewish people and they said let's let's do something about this let's be let's be smart let's create some kind of plan almost a dollar so you just tell us it's up it's a good morning so good a few Dolloff i'm an olive should I show you boys eight sir when pyro said to his advisors I want to create some kind of plan to deal with this Jewish problem so there were three advisors who are his main advisors bill um the eiv is right the first one was bill um the famous bilham curses tries to curse the Jewish people ends up blessing them layer in the Taira ye of job according to this opinion he was the one who had tremendous challenges in his life difficulties in his life it was a righteous person he had been one of the advisors apparel as well and the third one was gyro motion rubbing his father-in-law so now each one of them took a different approach when it came to giving advice about how to deal with the Jewish people bilham sure jyotsna Rock says gazelle our sages say that bilham he gave negative advice he said kill the Jews kill their babies etc so what happened so he was killed yoshua sock knee time you saw him he was quiet and what happened the result was that he as a result of being quite didn't say anything he was silent so he received difficulties he received challenges yes we are famous the difficulty is the pain of job yes we shibaura what did you throw do he ran away since he ran away zakhm you've been a bond of Jewish religious ago so you won't have anything to do with it he wouldn't be quiet he wouldn't show his his that he agreed in any way as a result he ran away and his great great grandchildren were to be of course the children of Moshe I may know his great grandchildren and they would be those who sat in lishka psychosis in the temple from the great sages of the people of Israel he neighbor aren't you shall build him certainly discussion in Earth Michelle you've so replenishments asked an important question when we look at things on the surface so it would seem that yo've did a better thing is silent bilham did terrible thing he advised power to kill the children to kill the Jews and what happened bilham didn't get such a I mean he got he died I'm saying it's bad but he seems to have gotten a worse punishment he bilham yachts rallies Ravi Liu Yu Shu Suk bilham gave bad advice it was quite little irony or shanshu shot you've come around watch the show bilham what's worse to have a life full of pain and difficulties in children dying and terrible sicknesses bill narraboth Arif the one was killed that's it one two three is done if you need any swim or even a rush a mechanical asylum ye of God terrible punishments terrible difficulties terrible Eucerin I don't know if it's punishments but terrible challenges and difficulties person can't withstand such type of difficulties so how do we see cockades out how does it how do you understand this that bilham who gave bad advice so you got a pretty quick death and you have had to go through all these challenges and difficulties so he lays down a foundation for us an amazing foundation it's so amazing it's so deep need to think about my assign an autumn Higuera hatov what can a person complain what can a person complain about the fact that he has certain things that he's not his life isn't the way he wants what can you complain about he's alive perish rushing rushing condition enough payment basics points loveliest rime automatic cars have voice Olaf why is the person complaining about the negative things that occur to him after the clock has it shiny our car has a shiny oyster emotional side of the crime after all the kindness that I gave to you Hashem says I made you alive you're alive you're in this world you're alive and of Rashi end quote reply beloved says climber - Hawk I'm hacker get dealer the gift of life is so big it's so great actually we must take all your sensual man of Shamma Lamma mumu when you compare that with the fact that a person has difficulties and challenges in life when you compare that with the fact that you're alive you're here you can talk about it yeah it's tough yeah life is tough yeah things don't go the way you want but you're alive you're here to talk about it right you can't you can't complain it's just a you can't complain your life well we don't understand crime is real time sure lives is gonna explode we don't understand the value of life how great it is to be alive we think that the challenges of life are so great we don't appreciate life that's why bilham died he died he lost his life he lost all the opportunities that come with life with the fact that we're breathing the fact that we're we're around that we can do things we can accomplish specifically we're gonna see mr. Schine will see in Swiss and performing the commandments in learning attire all these all the opportunities that we have the fact that we're live okay we have challenges we have difficult these things don't go the way we want we don't make the money that we want we have certain pains verson can be sick a person get so many difficulties but we're here are alive we're in this world okay let's see we're let's evite there let's see on a gurney Moodle M cos means it's all here Michele's Iceland unleashes a cub is a few Lavagirl review that Glassman Glassman gave a muscle an analogy for this person won the lottery unbelievable excitement a million dollars is on its way now let's make it bigger fifty million dollars are on their way to his bank account he won the lottery the government has already taped you know after what the government takes fifty million dollars right voice the Shah as he walk he walks out the door to go to do whatever it is to get the money nish muricata hobbies so he's walking out the door and he accidentally knocks over a Vaz no $100 Vaz ayakashi with Saar moves every shot says simcha Darla is the guy care broke of us who cares oh yeah oh you should not have a selca methodically sheets are katana by Mark III my own you don't care about the little things that happen in a day that you're so joy is so excited fifty million dollars are on their way to your bank account who cares about the 400 olive oz big deal it's not a big deal Kahala other than a haggis professor definitely a cool - were cool in the same way a person needs to to recognize the amazing fortune the amazing good fortune I college bro who bestowed upon him that he's alive some costs IV ash right sweet funny Iceland k2 sheer the person's Joe needs to be without it without limit thank you a sham a Marty toda vanish a teaser of Irish thank you a share the fact that thank you for the bad thing I'm alive thank you for making me alive the way he puts it thank you i coulda swore i know that everything that you do for me I believe I know I know I could work with you my loving father everything you do for me is good so if this bad thing is happening to me thank you for this bad thing it must be for the best for me thank you thank uhm Thank You Hashem that for a week I was sick and I couldn't learn thank you sir I don't understand I want to learn retire I couldn't thank you hm thank you I shown that I'm not making as much money as I want Thank You Shem that my my kids are screaming in my ears Thank You ash um Thank You Hashem unbelievable everything I shouldn't does is for my good some all this is this is a part for me it tolls for me it helps me out I just heard last night for my Russian ship for a pair he said I'm Marshall from LA I believe it's woke up this time that guy comes up to show me I'm after 120 years and they you know they bring out his mistress they bring out the melaka my angels that were created for his missus and they put them on one side and there he's very skinny very skinny not he didn't do the missus with so much you know his Lavos he wasn't so into it great these little you know skinny little my lock him then they bring out that various my luck on that he created from his a virus and they're these big hefty fat my locking angels that you know because he did a beer with a with tons of dish mac he was very into it and he's like oh my god i have no chance i have no chance and then they bring out the Asuran they bring out the challenges they bring out the difficulties those who says bring him out and those guys are really heavy those guys are zaftig as he said if fat and they're juicy and they stand on the side right next to the missus right next to the angels that he created with his commandments and all of a sudden he breathes a sigh of relief he can breathe again because he knows that although he's a very so very heavy he's got more you sewer and he's got more challenges he lived through so many challenges and difficulties and to the extent that a person's Makabe be a lie he receives it with with love they become stronger that was my laughing that we create by going through the challenges Thank You ash um for my challenges thank you I shouldn't we don't Davin that we should have them but thank you much um for the challenges the fact that I'm alive coming back to replenish we live it's the fact that I'm alive I also heard from Irish Kashif he tells of my so that this guy came to him on time you know he called him on the phone he said have a very important question to ask you we didn't know what the issue was he came over the guy / and he said you know I had this cousin that I'm dominant for all the time he's free for years I don't know a decade more you've been sitting in his chair he can't move and you know he can't really go out you can't you can't do anything he's he's a paraplegic I believe he was and I para said to me you know does he look out the window I think so does he see that our birds flying by the window and does he hear them chirping said I think so he's like do you understand the value of a moment of life just being able to look out the window and see the blue sky and hear the birds chirping it's so valuable it's so valuable we don't appreciate how how valuable life is we think that if a person can't can't do anything that his life has no value I should why should I dive him for him that was his question should I be diving that he he that he be well that he continued to live the life like that and she was like that's you don't appreciate the value of life so that's what he's saying over here looking at you looking at bilham bilham had no life few Z's he got killed but yo still was alive so he only had challenges and difficulties at least he was still alive some Costello shirts weekly a st. Kate's bashir person joining speak without end I show y'all casually a garish the clock charisa boys a love I love person shouldn't even notice the things just like that guy in the marshal he won the lottery reason needs to feel like wow I woke up this morning I won the lottery Orlovsky says both in jest and seriously I asked him about it he said I saw him recently at a simcha he says when they asked him what's his favorite mitzvos isn't until I see a time in the morning when I get up I'm happy that I'm alive I appreciate that I'm alive it's my favorite Mitzvah Hashem I need no shame like they say in Israel thank God I'm breathing call it Curtis a boy so love I feel Eve soon get done about Summa mercury-arc even a great challenge as a person can go through I am at UK F is Akash Loomis I gotcha so I shall at some kind of fact that I'm alive the joy that I can have in the fact that I'm alive thank you i shun that I'm alive that joy it's it has the potential for us if we focus on properly to take away the sadness of these through in the jail the challenges that we go through the sale a parish this is what it means we wish I were done I'm Ella called a Shaolin King David said yes so he certainly covered I'm always learning tsunami God gave me challenges in difficulty but he didn't leave me to die after a shambles from you darlin what is that what does it mean was the first mean it means to say that even though Hashem has given me tremendous challenges the King David had tremendous challenges things like Mulan Lama Vizsla and son honey she didn't leave me to die lyonie I'm still alive okay let Argost be some cloud I don't have to notice all of the challenges and difficulties other my mr. Imus I know math colicare boys love when a person complains about all of the difficulties and challenges the car upon him the like Kali bulimic Marga sh-sh-shark i'ma go softly doesn't appreciate the amazing good fortune that he has to be alive I love a customer Adam Adam I'm sorry I'm gonna mess up how you read this on the media Carla Yavin near sugar Bahama Sneden a person who I mean it's be care a person criticizes person who doesn't appreciate what he has he doesn't understand he's like an animal was the idea I don't V care I don't care he's just hi-yah chemically Tommy be are dying doesn't appreciate what he has been loving and you just understand named Jackie Bahama snip new cashew hockey Bahama Mama heal it he's living like an animal he doesn't an animal doesn't understand anything doesn't know what's going on doesn't have consciousness doesn't have awareness so a person who doesn't appreciate what he has doesn't appreciate his life what's it worth what's it worth for Leigh Ellis Automation America Reyes a shark eye model of Sedona Cameron person who doesn't appreciate it properly he could lose it completely he brings out a magician amazing shot nimesh going back to the toy yaakov of being to parshas to go Rocco Vivino comes into power comes into Pharaoh and Pharaohs sees this very very old man 130 years all you system how old are you what's what's the story in Yaakov Avena says I'm 130 years old and and my life hasn't reached age of my father my grandfather you know yes live live to be 180 Jakov rome lived 375 I haven't gotten to be as old as them and my life is very bitter he started complaining you had a very tough life you had problems with a sieve running after him he had troubles with love on you've a problem with Dina yeah the eyes of you didn't see for 22 years you know about to complain about Hazael Telesur as a result of this complaint he only lived another 17 years he lived 147 if you count the words of these cooking from the word by Yo Ma para Aliaga from where it says that para spoke to Jacob there are 33 words corresponding to the 33 years that Yaakov lost because of his complaint yak who didn't appreciate obviously on Yaakov's level yeah I didn't appreciate the life the goodness to the fact that he had life and as a result to the fact that he complained about it 33 years were taken away from his life he could have lived 180 just like his father he only was 247 lost out so it's so important it's essential to say thank you I could the schmuck who for my life appreciate the fact that we are alive appreciate the fact that we have so many opportunities to serve a college bar who even a person who's going through challenges in his life there's so many opportunities but I said to do kindness others to give sadaqa to give charity to learn Tyra there's so many things that we can do this so many misses 613 minutes is that we can fulfill and that's the amazing opportunity that we have let's not complain about it let's say thank you i'll kodesh beaucoup not just thank you for a life as viruses but thank you for the challenge thank you for the difficulty I know the opposition more clue you have my best interests in mind you care so much about me this must be for my good thank you I go did you borrow who for the challenge thank you for the difficulty okay he brings down something also very interesting he says I hired when marilla high advise channel I remember that lame or I'll tear a family mug in La Habra mode he brings down another measure the measures tells us that Avram Aveeno was reassured by others for who don't worry you have a great amount of state of a great amount of reward what was Adams worried his worry was local this Michael you saved me from the fire and or costume go Sparkle you saved me you saved my life I should have died in the battle with the four kings and the five kings you say you keep you you keep saving my life but you know protecting me I'm afraid to die from Ivy know that I'm losing my scar in the world to come I'm losing my reward in the world to come as a result of the fact that you're taking care of me now you're saving my life maybe I'm giving up something in the future Calatrava says don't worry oh this is a madness Keenan this is a free gift don't worry I'm gonna take care of you you're still gonna have them I bought you didn't lose anything because I saved your life and the question that I'm sure will of his asks is what's going on here what's he so worried about well what's the what was his concern what was his concern she says an amazing thing exactly the idea that that we said which is the fact that he got life the fact that he he could he could have and should have died and if all things would have been natural he couldn't I should have died the fact that a person is alive is so powerful and amazing the fact that Avram Avena was saved and given life that he perhaps didn't deserve that's what he was concern about perhaps I'm losing out in the world to come because that's how amazing and powerful just the fact that I'm alive that's how amazing and powerful it is venire mica I want to read that part inside Chiaki scar mister bahama let go even though as the Gemara tells us in condition there's no such thing as reward in this world for a mitzvah - Chicago LM cool I ain't but kid they harm Asahi's you can't really receive how can you receive you know the we don't understand what amidst is when we fulfill command when he gets it sucker when we learn Tyra so we don't understand how amazingly powerful it is and and the effects it hasn't no in the oil and sell you name in the upper worlds and and that the reward is knit is eternal reward so you can't really get that in this world right let me call my own yeah sure never equitably up Charlotte's car mister should leash now Mama's are there's one thing that you could be paid for in this world why Matt's mom the very fact that you're alive the very fact that a person is alive is so amazing and powerful so awesome good fortune giggling oh I should have claimed a tomorrow you'd the the the joyous fact that we're alive is so awesome commercial or like we explained again it goes through I'm not gonna read it inside it goes through an amazing thing with with the you know has I'll tell us it's a it's a mission in office that in a certain sense you have a moment in on haba if a moment in the world to come the the ecstatic enjoyment of feeling a cottage ball whose radiance of feeling the presence of a Kurdish worker who is so awesome and amazing that if you put together all of the moments of enjoyment of every single person who ever lived from the beginning the world to the end of the world you wouldn't even get one moment of enjoyment and I know how Bock in the world to come but seska's al you can't compare a moment here in this world of juvie and my sometime of repenting and doing good deeds you can't compare that to a moment in the world to come meaning there's something in a certain way being in this world being alive and using that life to do what's right to learn Tyra to do chuhwa repent to do good deeds using Bing McNutt cell using the the life to taking advantage of life to do spiritual things with it when we use the opportunity correctly so the result is that we live in this world an amazing experience which is beyond anything even in the world to come hard to understand what this means but that's what it says so he brings an example of really amazing by gross at table flippity Russell my husband sits Yosef it's a famous thing to grab before he passed away a baby no le oweme Vilna before he passed away he grabbed onto his citizen II held him in his hands and he said Oh bummer my yucker who I am I said how precious is this world should become a proto specialist case and missus for a few pennies a few dollars you can get them it suits it sis Valera Spanish latina and as a result of it you can experience the divine revelation I could borrow who feel the bite of my bow you have sure let's think about call Hine one person gets outta my bar there's no more opportunities like that this is the time this is the time and this is the place we are there we are alive how much appreciation we need to have for our lives and I think it's also you know you look at the poshest and we look at the challenges difficulties class I went through the Ovilus the slavery yeah we're gonna learn about the gula but let's appreciate for a moment the fact that clients are went through these deep deep challenges for a very long time she would lasted for four decades for decades and we were there for two hundred ten years but the actual difficult she bit lasted for decades maybe even even though maybe could say almost over 100 years and well you know like it's it's difficult to read they called out that there's more lose so tabbles why I shouldn't do that to them but we see that somehow we see and I personally seen in my life I'm sure many of you have seen in your lives when I could walk who sends us challenges those challenges make us greater we grow from the challenge we grow from the difficulties and we need to say thank you talk with a sparkle for that Thank You Shannon I'm alive Thank You Hashem for the challenge Thank You Hashem for the difficulty assuring somebody this week emailed me that that they had a whole difficult situation in their life and now the situation has has resolved itself to a certain extent and they're in love with the song Elaine of the Chabert song which was on my first album so many years ago Elena shove a ladder just so I made up I was about nine or ten years old my son sings it on her like a pellet album Elaine Alicia bass think I'll crush Baku we got through the challenge here we are on the other side Thank You Shem Thank You Hashem for the challenge itself it helped we grew so much from the challenge I just want to finish off with the last point of redemption Levites the cuss about consciousness fakest Bechet memory Moscato he quotes from the savor conscious of a kiss he says like this shame on y'all lollies I'm sorry shame how y'all oughta Mullaly social memory erased it's voicemail a scenario a person would go up to heaven and he would see all of the hosts of heaven suitum Yosh from how they're ordered there and how they're straightened doing the will of a Kodesh war hello hi I'm miss Anna glass agasa actually haina the sovereign a very smart girl who there is something unique about this world which a person does not experience in the world to come you said that in the world to come person is alone in this world and I'm has a you know the words will go out to the word along with zeljana me you wouldn't be able to he be so excited to come back and tell everybody what he saw in sham I'm you can't tell anybody they're here we there's so much to appreciate about our lives we have friends we have compatriots we have those who are around us we have neighbors we have family we have relatives there is with whom to share we have a place like Torah anytime or all the other places I'm able to put up these shiron we have with whom to share the things that inspires the things that we're excited about the music which by the way I must throw in a plug please go to Ari Gold ENCOM slash new album I'm working on a brand new album and we need to get to the goal of 25,000 dollars it's a lot of money it's the foundation it's only the foundation of creating a new album encourage you to go there help me spread the message these messages the tire messages that's when trying to spread messages as a physic of being more I mean people bring people up Ari Gold like calm / new album take part thank you so much do we appreciate that we're sharing these things I said about countries has faker shaking their calm musculus Avenue ideal azules a commercial yes if you ask him I let him be not so a person understand something wants to share with others I read this beautiful piece I'm thinking about these ideas during the week I wanna share it with with all of you I'm partially Bodhi frames although he'd be a police who saw them it's not just coming to say all persons loneliness they know you can't enjoy themselves needs to try I don't exactly what is it's not coming from a low place a lot adorama zoo - other masculinism it's you so this is the way person is he wants to share with others Chen honestly I believe she shares Kaveri biosilver cigar sir person doesn't have a full enjoyment of whatever it is that he's seen he wants to share with others was to share his experiences with others that's part of being in a swirl and that's the opportunity that we have a unique opportunity that we have from being alive from being here in this world it's a Nuke opportunity that we have you talks about being a person who's in the Shiva surrounded by others who are also learning also searching also striving to be great I want to bless you I ask you to bless me that Kailash worker should help us to say thank you to say thank you for the life that we have say thank you for the challenges that we we often have there's no such thing as a person who doesn't have challenges to say thank you to recognize so much we have so much that he gives us whether it's the people around us whether it's the opportunity to do mrs. I shall help us to be able to take advantage of the opportunities that surround us because we're alive thank you so much for listening have wonderful Shabbos this podcast was made possible through the gracious donations of listeners like you for more podcasts like this please visit www.gfi.com/webmonitor [Music]