Rav Perr - Bitachon - Living in Today

there's an interesting uh question here about the print there were problems this was printed from contrasim [Music] you can trace some were written down by s uh brother-in-law i would tell you his name but the name you have to know is i guess that shows who he is his brother was killed during the war so i'm assuming that you know and then rabbi romi often sought to print it but doesn't mean that it was proof red the reason i'm telling you all this is because there's a question over here it said in my edition it says preparations which is very very true i don't see it either they put in that there's a on the page and this one has all the mistakes that have to be corrected and it's not there thank you so i use the word that he uses which is absolutely correct anyway as an idea the question what the original word was so it says in the other edition it says sakura they corrected it so i i don't know if it's correct or it's not correct i know which one is correct both of them are correct anyway we say sakura you're talking about um i don't want to get into all jewish history unless somebody want to tell you that jews were crushed economically you know like uh they put sanctions on iran they used to have sanctions on iran and iran was forced to negotiate whatever it is they won the negotiation but whatever economic sanctions are very powerful things so to get rid of the jews and crush the jews there were economic sanctions on the jews there were many methods that were used to crush jews beside anti-semitism beating them up and if they called the police the police came and beat up to choose more like they did here in new york in 1904 during a ride of claim against the jews so the police came and they smashed the jews to the floor so uh they did that in russia for sure and uh in other places uh one of the things to do was not allowed to juice to bury to burn to have the basic chorus so that prevents the jews from living there because you know if they lived they'd expect to die someday they couldn't be buried so when proud if i'm not mistaken they're buried six deep in one caver how many can you bury one cover other things were done plenty of things that were done so they were drawn so yin in order to survive did various things that had sakura in them there were smugglers they did other things they avoided the they said it did all kinds of things to survive so he says if you have a talk you'll have to put yourself into sakona but there were things of great security you didn't have to do you want to in order to have a meager litter [Music] if he asked for today he doesn't worry tomorrow's worries we all have such a sense of tomorrow's words of faith especially jewish people by the way and there are other groups that uh there's no tomorrow they have a few dollars to buy a car a guy gets off a ship as a sailor in the old days i can't tell you today but the old days the guy who sailed he could pay to get a sack of money for six months on a trip that he'd been away he goes into a bar and he's he's actually he stands everybody for drinks and he stands in for another round third round he's got a whole pie he's got a whole person full of money and finally gets drunk enough and he wakes up the next morning in some alley and the person is gone of course and he laughs about it i met an irish good he worked in camponotes and he enjoyed that idea i mean uh we spoke about it uh i saw that his teeth his front teeth were right across over you know about half so i asked him you know who hit you in the mouth with a bottle and he started to live of course it was true then and then a bar he got into a fighting i took a bottle smashed into the mouth broke all his front teeth into half evenly across very nice there's no tomorrow because today could because they're today they're not tomorrow because that today is so awful that they don't want to work safe for tomorrow put away tomorrow prepare for tomorrow a jewish kid goes to college he prepares himself he denies himself today in order to have a tomorrow you know my grandparents came over my grandfather came over here and he worked for 12 years here to bring over his family it was a script and he saved every extra penny that he didn't need to live on he saved into every place he could save a dime until he finally had the money to bring over his wife and children and it was 12 years he took them because they came 12 years later but i don't know if it took him 12 years to save up i think it was less than that but nevertheless that's how people did it they brought their family here by looking for tomorrow or they want to get ahead they look for tomorrow it's very natural it's particularly i said in our lit people we always talk about tomorrow we live all our lives looking for which is tomorrow tomorrow we're always talking about the future and of course we worry about our own personal tomorrow and it's very natural to us and i'll just says if you have beethoven you don't worry today about tomorrow's worries it's unbelievable exact it's counterintuitive it's the opposite of where our nature is even though that is then tomorrow's anybody worried about tomorrow so some people of course the oliver times as i said during the war or revolution or civil war which bullets are shooting all over the place you don't have to be alive tomorrow i wish they were though so we live today who knows who will be here tomorrow but this is what this is really talking about even people live in peaceful times that you know and for care and such times we do worry about tomorrow what's going to be it goes on to say he doesn't disturb himself but i guess maybe he's not going to have not going to have everything but but what he needs will come to him not to shot us he'll get everything he wants that we talked about the story with the golden watch but what he needs will come to him what he needs will come to him you may have dreams that you need much more okay but but it doesn't mean that you need much more as just you want it and it's going to bleed his goggles are siblings without this without turning the wheels of the sources i don't know what that means i mean some sounds like you know i know what it means i know that how the idiom works sea boys are sources for stuff his goggles means to make something turn around and around so it's very similar it's saying like you know like grinding a mill or something you make it where you turn it around and around and around in time and and it grinds his gallbladders use it all the time expression using the c vice to bring it about and you make them roll you roll them around making all the efforts to make the thing happen making all the other selective things happen and the tara had the trouble of working and the pressure that person has from living a life of lies and cunning was to get ahead you know a life of lies and cunning and insert it doesn't need anything he doesn't try that he should be popular by people they know him he doesn't have to come for them oh that you have to see you don't have to come for them some people have a nature they can come for i i grew up in a family that i couldn't see i never saw it agree maybe it's possible to do it i i probably can't do it i push you can't do it but uh i see that that other people that are quote successful around voices they're successful they succeed by comforting the people they they uh anyone know something i mean i don't begrudge them if i could do it i maybe would probably do it also i'm fine if i could do it if i could stomach it it's very hard for me to you know to say oh that big of what you just said you know you come and sit with a guy he said you say to the guy he said he said the birds are out it's springtime what else you have to say oh the sun shines this sunny kind it's sunny today you know there's things like that i don't have a stomach to tell you but i don't begrudge those who do and they do they do but obviously the altar when he says you won't have to come for people the altar had the same kind of stomach because why does he write it out you won't have to come for people and it made him sick probably also i know a story with the i had american mice in cleveland by the time i got married in cleveland and and uh i went to cleveland for the hassan and i was busy over there with the taking care of various matters and i saw there was one place left next to i think i told you the story no there was one seat left empty by he passed away already he founded a day school and i know which who he is and i rushed as fast as i could to get there and finish what i had to do in order to get to sit next to him i sat down next to him of course he was sitting around the table with americana guys you know what i mean and i'm trying to know where is the button you press to get him to start trying and i'm sitting i think to myself what's what's the button what's the key then i thought of a good thing i said to him he was sitting next to the person i said to him sitting on this side foreign you allow yourself to be called in you understand because the person who is named after was and they hybridized and made with nothing out of it but he hasn't no doubt he has a tremendous sense of tradition he knows who he is and they would normally have said whatever you come out to cleveland you call him the hebrew names like they say okay it's not in the game so i said i'm i'm bored that you're able to call yourself who should be a proud name that was the way it was he was known that was the button guys so you start to talk because it comes from a proven destler and kelm and kellum is it was you know from from the altar of kiln and this was although duck was younger than him and uh you know the very good kellen was like not the same derek at all but both were strong muslims are often so he got into the subject of the callum he got to subdue this he didn't stop talking i'm taking napkins from the table and making notes his his grandfather who was uh was his grandfather the uh who was destler was a very wealthy man and he was a son-in-law of he was a son-in-law of the autism of kellum and uh during world war one as the germans came into russia so the whole jewish population a lot of it moved further further east like they did this during the second world war also so they came to minsk and misguided he was a wealthy man or proven dove his name was he was a wealthy man and he rented a fine apartment and he bought it they rented with furniture with everything and the alto nevada was there in minsk and he came to see him and he was sitting there with a clean what a beautiful house and a beautiful apartment as a wealthy man even in god even in goddess he was a wealthy man so he told me that he that they still told the family that the altar came in to his father and it was a couch he sat on the couch and put his feet up on the couch with his boots on of course didn't take him off he said regardless of my family they said nothing regardless of his favorites are nothing so i thought myself a goddess of the altar that he did it why did he do it he did it to me fancy couch doors clean those well you never put your boots on it they understood his message to them and he understood their message to him they understood each other but anyway what i wanted to tell you was that when i tell you the story um is not looking to find favor by other people from he doesn't give away his opinion because and his opinion and to be silent about his opinion what's even changed his opinion between the zida doshin where does that expression come from is what aso sold his bachara to yaakov for a pot full of uh adolescent what is that dosha in english lentils so part of lentils i don't know if it's even a whole partner it was a bowl and a zitadore she said you know what do you get back from giving away a bachelorette it's pathetic what kind of deal he made it's pathetic friend is it adoration he gives away and when you give away what you are and what you hold from and what your opinion is and you're silent you give it away to others for what do you get back in return and they all do you agree with them what they're gonna do what are they gonna do for you what are you gonna do for you you won't speak up you won't correct people what do you get out of it a nice guy which requires a lot of courage to not follow the others takes courage because talks about what you do he's sitting in the group that's talking english in here people don't have the courage to get up and walk away don't have a coach saying this is a little short let's stop when i first got up and walk away i was sorry i said you should make up your mind i'm a cobbler you don't believe it so okay but that's because the average person is drawn after this fever it's very hard for us to be different than this we like to be different but it's hard to be different it's hard to be different but if he hasn't been talking he has nothing to lose nothing's going to happen to me they can't do anything to me which is very often true a little bit often surely they can't do anything he doesn't confuse himself with all the questions of life what's going to be i will take care of that what's going to happen what should i do yes he knows he cannot lose and he cannot add anything that runs from because there are now i feel the hotel sorry even the hair's breath now of course the the primary lesson of this was it says given to people late moon what's the significance of eating one significant one is that how much you collected or how little you collected was the same amount it's my as i told you we had a little group that asked urban to learn with us something special and he picked out to learn from kravis and from here i can't believe that he could have accomplished what he accomplished i think i told you a story we went to somebody and asked about brandeis college no i told you i didn't tell you yes i did thank you sent me a job you saw the he was right eye's gonna lose money he's not gonna lose money it's not bashar should come from this one that's all come somewhere else whatever i need it'll be you can't do anything with appetite you can't do anything with apatos anything really [Music] you go through periods where you don't have a talking you go through prayers where you're talking this week and you have to not be much destruction in the world wars you know we said here in america here about a war going on in afghanistan and syria okay you know maybe you hear about me don't hear about it pay attention don't pay attention and just discover they invented into killing 50 people a day in one of the prison camps over there no no we never lived in a time when they're coming around the corner where we live we never lived we live in a very safe environment but you're young because when america america really never had an attack on its soil it was a 9 11 okay 3 000 people were killed but people were very safe they are very safe but when you live in a time and in a place where they come around the corner at you and you know you're defending yourself and there's no cops either criminals or just enemy soldiers and you're hard for your life and you hope they don't see you that's the hero and your heart is beating so loud and you hope that they don't hear your heart beating it's so loud you can't believe somebody else doesn't hear it from fear and your mouth is dry you hunch down behind a wall hiding while they pass by foreign whatever is not decreed upon him that evil can't be fooled him now you notice he said about his personal safety he's not worried about his personal safety it could be appropriate to worry about the safety of clients through i don't know how to be mahalik having a person's heart you can separate the two of them into two different things but i think you could be concerned about the safety of clients realm because the love of clients feels much higher of you to worry about the welfare of clients most people's the other way around for myself i worry for classroom neighborhoods i can't you see this who always was a client through although this would be a classroom nothing like i don't have to worry about clients about me i have to worry but it seems the other way here but you you don't have to worry it's gonna be gonna be one way or the other it's gonna be gonna be one way or the other a mice a guy fell out from a third store in a hotel or something by accident and somehow he fell into uh something and broke his fool he survived short time later he was building a doghouse for his dog and he nailed it together and he was very tired he sat down on top of the dog house and he fell asleep and he fell over while he was sleeping because he fell asleep on the door house he fell over and he broke his neck and that was the end of him so he got the same skill and obviously he didn't do shove in between he should have the first time he fell out the window should have thought to himself like this as a kazaa what did i do why did this come to me we didn't so he kept living oh well everything's fine hunky-dory you know so then they gave it to him i real for real or a guy who went was one of the few people saved with a ship went down then some time later he was grounded in his bathtub you know i guess the same thing so you don't have to worry what's going to come to you comes to you bad or good it's going to be you haven't been talking that is good and sound good if you don't have it on something good at least you should know quiet so you should die for i claudius earl is going to survive for sure that's for sure my grandmother used to say you should die for glycerol and you'll be one of them and we'll be one of them because why are you dabbing for clay so far look what all this fill is all about clyde israel because you have to die you have to die about why israel that's he doesn't claim to die about christ to worry about lies taxarious and everything else the evil comes upon us we have to worry about them can we have to elect the president i'm a sugar but he's good for the jews is it good for uh for america is good for america is it good for america to have such a crack partner in the white house first time there's an ambassador from shabbos ambassador and there's this and there's that and i ain't there all kinds of good stuff all kinds of good they shut up the u.n they stopped bullying about israel over nothing very nice i am going to vote i was talking about clients really something that looks better for glasgow i know if it really is but it looks better for class looks better i'm going to vote for him in the match that's all nothing else matters [Music] okay we'll stop over here [Music] you