Rav Perr - Bitachon - Having the Power

i don't know if you but you'll help me out with when you have it in your edition if they edited it out i have what we were up to so you have that next in your dishes no huh okay so i put i put parentheses around this section i wrote a little load on the side what do you say the sim card says over there without worry and without depression and he says about you he's not missing anything in the presence but what does he have for today he has acquired the meat of the tofu is that in yours also answer we can speak up yes i want to tell you what this means in the varadoc in other adore to be more correct so they used to do protein everybody knows dividing they know you're asking for nails everybody knows the drugstore nails in fact somebody wrote to the publisher and asking him i think was my one of my sons wrote the publishing asking for a copy of uh what exactly what had to do with a copy of a man over mind so he sent him back a little package of nails friends for music i sent it back from nails that was not done all year long by the way that was done inside each other it was in response to what it says in the megillah glycolyzer then when after the decree had come out and it looked like it was the end of khloe's room and homer went past him morocco didn't get up and didn't budge he didn't bend so you have to have the courage of your convictions and the idea of going in and asking for nails or various other things that they did is to have the guts to stand on your own feet who you are nothing should move it's an unbelievable training unbelievable training i saw from somebody who's not wasn't real he didn't remain in bed tired but he won't you could tell in three months when the buffet came into the yeshiva a guy who was afraid of a shadow the three months he was up gibber in three months a guy came in as scared of everything but then the nerve was scared in three months he was a different person mama transformed his personality why by these exercises this was the aptitude so my wife asked my father when i was there she said what was the use of these things you expect to go around all your life whenever you see a drugstore running and asking for nails what was the purpose of it so my father was said to her it was to put in your back pocket what does that mean it was to have it there it was to happen queen of the media you know if you're carrying a 32 in your pocket and the guy you know starts with you has a conversation with you and you know that you have right here a little thirty two it's not to be too big it doesn't have to tear you out of your pocket not forty five little thirty two and you know you can pull it out goodbye charlie you know you feel differently when you talk to the guy you feel differently you know he's he's pushing me around uses them i'm quite calm when you have something in your pocket the guy doesn't have to know about it but you know about it you know about it when you have something in your pocket the guy doesn't have to know about it you know about it i repeat that again you have something in your pocket the guy doesn't have to know about it you know now the same thing is true even if you don't have a 32 but you're a gutsy person and this guy's a big guy and he can beat you up but you know that you're gonna that you may get beat up you may get beat up you may get beaten up but you're gonna do a job with him anyway you're gonna do a job and he's gonna be sorry he started with you it's true he'll beat you up but you're going to do a job and it's going to cost him something so that also is like having something in your pocket you have courage if you have been talking in your pocket so the person is not concerned with today because he knows he has something he hasn't been talking in his pocket what are you concerned about most people are nervous that they're going to be nervous most people are nervous are going to be nervous you started being nervous itself but they're also nervous about being nervous if you're noticed you're not going to be nervous say if the problem is gone maybe three quarters maybe all of it because you're not going to be nervous because you have to talk i have been talking what i have to worry about that's what roosevelt said roosevelt said when he spoke to the people of america beginning world war ii in the beginning of world war ii so he said we have nothing to fear but fear itself it's a magical board for the boy i'm calling my william there's nothing to be afraid of you just have to be afraid of being afraid you know england was about to be invaded by germany and they were dropping all kinds of things on them and england had lost all its armaments and in dunkirk and they had no way of defending themselves really in fact i once had a little handbook that was given out then how to fight a guerrilla war against the germans when they come into england what to do how to sneak up to their cars when they're parked and pour sugar into the gas tanks to collard the engines all kinds of things like that very little interesting things to know they really knew they were in very very big trouble and then out of the blue japan on december 7th 1941 bombed not germany japan bombed uh in hawaii and winston churchill wrote that that night was the first night i slept in many years he knew the war was over how could the boy be over as many battles to be fought but he knew what it means the united states is in with japan japan is an ally with germany the melee germany is going to be more against the united states the united states is going to beat them and remain with mammal and baylor it's now a matter of time and of techno technicalities and a lot of things he slept he had been average for the first time that means he had no fear the fear had gone from him fear of lost the fear of this destruction of england was gone hard to beat there'll be no kind cesaros but basically the war is one i remember i didn't turn it i went to with a guy and i think i told you the story many times and i told him he was scared he was shivering the guy he asked me to come with him i said i looked over his papers and said the only thing you have to worry about is they should ask you when they ask you do you want to din they want sure if you want to din you're going to win flat out if you want you say what i'm sure so you're going to win something and he's going to win something so make sure you just say you want to do but my fear was the other guy would say you want some sugar then you're going to have a problem between them sure you're going to have to handle that out you might have never sure we sat down by the business monsieur and uh he said to him do you want a dinner you want him sure so he looked at me i said a dinner tim so shaking me he said look what it did see the other side of the table said he wants a bin bangle he banged something i also want to do just relaxed after that it was all over it was all over there's gonna be two hours of screaming and yelling and everything else but there's gonna be a dead that's all the dinners with him there'll be a lot of screaming this guy's wife is gonna scream with the other guy's wife you know all kinds of stuff like that and the business is gonna say sean stop fighting what was that's gonna go on but you know if you look to even know the case you know a little bit about looking you know he's gonna win the case he has the did and the guy brought a little lawyer i'm not a lawyer he brought me along they brought him away so business said a lawyer has no standing in the bed but you can advise him if you wish garnish golfing he wanted a din he was finished it's all over i just didn't know what he said the other guy said i wanted i wanted just relaxed says all over now just listen to the noise that is the shot you have been talking this is not what i'm doing i just i know what's the opportunity but you know the outcome is going to be good you know you haven't been talking you've been cleaning me there it's in your back pocket what's the worry as they say what's the worry smile nothing to worry about could you believe such a thing that people can go through life without worry people that are warriors go to life and i work in a couple of months you can change yourself there isn't a day without problems there isn't a day that you can't worry about something but you can be kind of beat up not worrying about trusting the merchant and that's what he wants you to do is trust him he wants you to do that trust me everybody i'm telling this to you i'm telling you to myself such a pleasure to hear me talk i say to myself you'd be such a physic that's why i'm learning this to renew to give another film on gasoline of the talking to hold the tank again because as soon as the serum says you don't gain much from reading at one time there's still you don't gain much reading at one time work on it you don't have to read it each time but you work on it think about it you which seems to be a repetition of the first one that's why i put brackets around it because the first one said we just what we just read i had brackets around because i think it should be moved down to the second one that helps him with those problems having better itself is a mailer what does that mean i'm sorry commercial manager let's say a person is able to beat anybody else in the world he's a boxer he's the champion boxer you've been anybody in the world he's a sumo wrestler he can knock down anybody with his belly i love those guys so he said the mile is greater than the rev that way you guys makes money on it is just happens to be something that that says a mile in his military he's not giving away to before he just got some money for it and i lost saying but the mile is his own mailer is just an extra filling that's an extra piece of whipped cream on the cake but the mild said he's a different person that he's a gibbon in other words he's saying is what betoh does to you as a person is a hundred times more better more important than the fact that you don't go around nervous it's not the same thing you'll be going through a human being you come down it's like i said you're not nervous you have a 32 in your pocket okay not nervous but there's another mile the other mile is that you are a different person you talk differently active when you handle different you're a leader you stopped being a mouse you become a man that's come on with the myla and he had that down to himself he's not meeting a man about the university you meant to be where you were many years ago garrison liebman was in friends he were from france he came to the issue and we had exclusive value here a number of times i think probably before before you gentlemen were born probably and insurance before you were born and i was invited by the good in those days i was more active than i am today i was invited by them to participate in the academic at the arrangement worldwide canisius that was held in do you like that before you're born right i was born in you like young chicks right out of the shell just hatched so on the way back from michelin i stopped over france i had quite a bit of a little adventures there in france but anyway it's not against the games that i saw what rejection had done but his partner was here also from israel propagation was in a concentration camp and they took them to wait on the table where they were having good food germans as opposed to the people in the barracks and he came in to bring the food to them and he saw that they were using for a table though they're using a talus so she yanked the thomas out from the tail off the table so the germans beat them to death they stomped them they beat them smashed and they threw them in a onto pile of bodies he take the next day and burned they burned all their bodies in the middle of the night somebody came he crept up to the pile and he found a little bit of life in regards and they pulled him off they carried him to a barracks and they hit him there [Music] and after we ended up in france and a fresh people to eight yeshivas in a small town be built i have to show you sometimes but i got that time in france from the various of he didn't advertise it in the world i said i didn't know about this he came to this little yeshiva rock where he said oh the vodka valdic that i came to him i couldn't believe what i'm looking at how come nobody knows about this those who went to france i didn't advertise it what for what for he doesn't need to advertise it he doesn't need the respect in the eyes of others nor to know who he is let me repeat that he doesn't need the respect from others in order to know who he is that's the second myla he never advertised in the whole world nobody knew about it i didn't know about at least in america i received stuff in the mail all the time from this place in that place this wasn't that way man built the world at his cavern there's israel which is not far from my father's amount there's a big monument covering the grave and a door in it and you open the door and you find this form to say tell him because people are constantly coming to the place that that bites together constantly and when he was alive yet unbelievable following and he didn't need anybody's respect he didn't have to become a worldwide person to know to believe himself who he is he knew the murder i swear wasn't very think about this is just like a different person transformation so that's the second mile and he says that's the ecomile that's the mind of the gibber or any guy who has particularly unusual powers and he makes a benefit he benefits financially from it but what he is beitsum i think the emotion is a very poor emotional i would like to think of a better emotion but i can't think one on the spot a guy's a world champion you know of course it's always in competition that's why the issue is initially here is he didn't pick a ball player for instance because he wasn't involved there without a team it's hard to find the mushroom because it's very hard to express what it means that you have a mile yourself but i will tell you that when you have that mile people meet you and they know you're special go ahead we'll meet you now you're special sometimes i'll say to you are all religious jews like you i need you to answer that's a good question are we religious shoes like you it's really special because it shines out of you really i don't know what to call it it's a substitute for not exactly the same thing it's called self-confidence that's an american void self-confidence that's true self-confidence is really a very poor substitute for the with the real thing which is confidence in the course self-confidence is a poor substitute for confidence intercourse it has the same effect maybe but it's not really the same at all and we have confidence intercourse barclay you are an elevated uplifted holy person you have confidence in yourself you gotta see yourself okay fine he doesn't have to see he doesn't have to go see a shrink he's convincing himself but it's you're not as uplifted [Music] as you are we have comments because then you become you you've become you've become an avid a different category of human being all together you're a holy person you don't have to grow a beard to do that okay to be continued but not tomorrow isn't saying that we shouldn't have self-confidence we have to have that but that's nothing compared to the template at least you should have a self-confidence strip garrison was a from the verdict or 100. years ago in europe and it was a a couple of pamphlets i picked while i was there what they had in paris what they had busier what they had in the excellent with that you know it's like unbelievable boys schools and girls schools all kinds of things we're in a small town they're built with 85 80 ounces okay