Rabbi Perr - Bitachon - Menuchas Hanefesh - Faith Brings Serenity

i saw something interesting that i haven't seen before in this piece that's the quoted by request to grew up i went to check it out in the michelle hagro itself and um part of it is in the grove but the rest of us really in the commentary on the on the group on the drawer uh where he brings the uh the gross town of the naga mendel's glover and um it is a word for word from there of course but there's something there that i want to look for in the first place because of something that i didn't notice many times that i've learned you know as you learn something you see more and more and more you just notice new words and things so it says over here that he said to the tayo the arab he said [Music] take your bundle the arab said to him [Music] throw it on my on my camel so when it says i thought it was just i mean it is usually in hebrew you have that and you have it anymore so that he was coming and taking whatever he goes it's an idiomatic expression meaning throw it take take your bundle and throw it something like that but he learns that with mahmoud says on this coil means keep the money that you should normally pay me that was something new to me i was just all the years that i've learned to save her i never realized that she's going to escape the money that he would have given me was a big difference of course because it wasn't just the guy came to him but he really profited him as we'll see later on he's not not that he came not the arab suggested to him only but that the arabs said keep the money that you'd pay me it's it's uh it's much more to it than that so and that rightly the altar says that does not require any hitchhikers there is any effort whatsoever nevertheless we we should understand what this means the hammock because in what is the reason and what is the reason why the doubles its expression why does it say um why does it have a double lotion this matters that was an introductory question now he's he goes into another subject will not i mean he digresses and he'll come back to eventually explain the first one why there's a double lotion if we think into the nature of batoche nimsa we will discover hitoyakula that is really a double goodness two two good things in pitta double goodness the first thing that we'll discover is we call terrorism the person achieves something called peace in his soul from all the things that trouble in the world now it's part it's hard to understand what that means peace in the world that we live in because the world is a very very busy world and if i just filled up at the gas station and i this thing called the gs tv yes station tv can you believe that and you stand there while you're feeling by pumping the gas and you watch tv because haas was showing you should be a second a minute without tv pumping into your head can you imagine that our heads are really just receivers of stimuli we don't even understand we can't possibly understand what it means peace inside our souls but there is such a thing if you get rid of the stimulus if you get rid of the uh various things that stimulate your brain for a while not in the beginning but for a while then you suddenly find that there's such a thing called peace there's such a thing called quiet is it interesting i came across some place where there's a place in the united states someplace where they give the geographic location that's considered the quietest place in the united states i don't know if anybody had a chance just to sit and listen to the quiet the dead silence but quiet is just about sound but there's also in the sign of a person and this is the person that i must i must i must i must i must there's calm down chill out as they say chill out so the first thing that happens is what this does is that just like a person who is uh has a deeper problem and they go into a neighbor or to somebody who's a friend and they say i have a tremendous problem says i will take care of it and the person who tells you that is very reliable and is capable of doing it if you walk out of that meeting you feel a relief a relief about attention that you didn't even know you had you feel a relief you didn't realize inside how intense you were so if you give it to the british level you can take care of it better than any other person you just give it to him if you're able to do that take care of it from me you achieve with your medicine you stop worrying stop worrying so the first thing that achieves menus san nefesh and called turdus island from all the from all the distractions all the troubles the pekla in the world who needs oil and he saved me piece of a nephesh he's an abstract scattering of the soul what does that mean that means you have to do multiple things because it has a lot of things to worry about he has to do multiple things and that's mufasa him you can't focus on any one of them because he's got to do this he's got to do that he's got to make this deal he's got to catch some flight he's got it he's got that whole list of things he's going he goes nuts peas are a nefish there's so much i have to do so if you have manufactures it saves you from pizza and average peas are an average scattering of the soil reflection nissan pizza in average yes um and also from a life of the dude of wandering over that's not to not wonder because he's lost he's wandering because he has to make discontent that kind of a third kind i know people i mean i have a password let it expire really but i know people have passports that have extra pages they're very very thick because they're always taking off and landing now they're going here and i'm going there that's their business down in dallas texas back to new york down to florida okay this when you're young you can run around it doesn't take a toll of you as you get older you understand it takes a toll most of them you should know most of all jews were peddlers and why would you use peddlers because they like to battle because all the occupations were closed to jews you could not become anything there was one jewish doctor in russia as far as i know maybe there were more but i know one dr sergey was his name you couldn't get into school there were no schools for you there's no future for you okay who could set you up in a business you had no money somebody had to set you up most people wear old clothes i have a picture in my office bleeding or bringing it tomorrow to show you the picture of a fine young man posing for the camera at a photography shop you have to see how we look i was always get boots for the picture maybe we'll send somebody together somebody volunteer to get it okay he's on my on the break from my office top picture big picture with a boy standing there i wanted to see what it looks like what was going on so the people being peddlers were running they're always on the run that linux that'll knock on the door knock on the door you don't see that anymore my time he was at least full of brush man just go from door to door to sell brushes he had a suitcase full of samples and he sold i remember very clearly i never saw always sins peddlers you don't see it anymore but it was a high in a dude a life of this anointed and everybody has it in a smaller sense you may just go to the office and come back to the office and come back but the traffic is terrible you sit an hour and a half on the way back for a trip that should take you 20 minutes pressure hour and it's into the office and come on time and even time etc [Music] of your body and of your soul because when your body runs around your soul is running around the cup life i remember sitting years ago with a trying to have a conversation with a clustering match you have it look at that look at this picture guys though you come over and see it now i want to show you this is a picture that somebody took this was taken probably in uh i'd say 1920 or something it's a relative of mine i don't know who it is but nazis did a job on him he's a young boy because he's maybe about 15 years old and he's posing see the background he wasn't standing on any balcony that was the background of the photography studio it wasn't the balcony but you know if you're going for a picture you want to look you know nice look how he's already skipped you see he's got a tie you see his shirt there's no smile because pictures of european jews never smile only americans say smile because america is a happy land so in america you can tell when you see pictures hanging of zadie and bobby on the wall if they're smiling they're in america and if they're not smiling they're in europe it's a fact see this boy is not smiling and how do i know he's dressed up first of all in photography studios don't be able to photograph your studio you don't just walk in there's not a there's somebody takes it on a cell phone it's a picture you go you pose and you pay for like my mother took us for pictures one of the little kids to the photographer's studio i can tell he's all dressed up because he's wearing spats you guys don't even know what spats are but on the top of his shoes you'll have a chance to see he's got a special covering that's classy classy that kind of covering over your shoe so it covers the laces and it buttons up called spats nobody wears them anymore so he's always i bet she even owns the suit even borrowed from anybody good chance it's a good fear so high in it that is what they do of the body in what it's all about preparing all about preparing the soy music and using methods that are dangerous or there are magic that harm you you know a kid has to do it a kid has to do it amazing i mean you know yourselves the kid has to do a paper on something for college there's no paper so he goes to the local library or he looks it up he can't get it this is before everything's online now of course but i'm telling you my situation here in the ashima again before it was online to go to the local library he can't they don't have it so he has to go down and drive down and finds out he reserves the book in peninsula library all the way down there and he reserves the book and he comes in and he either takes it or he observes it what's it for for a paper he has to present in college for what to finish the class for what to get a degree that class is not a degree but and he might get just a b in the class if he doesn't present a good paper he wants to have this footnote in his paper that he's giving on he started writing a sociology course about tobacco habits among in the caribbean that's a brand new subject tobacco habits in the caribbean and he's going to spend a lot of time with tobacco habits and campaign and there's a book my travels in the caribbean which tells something about watching somebody smoke on page 743 if you can find it so you must go down to peninsula library take off a seder in fact go to peninsula library get that quote put it into a footnote and the teacher is going to be so impressed that the teacher may give him instead of obey a b a b plus which makes a difference that what is the difference of it well you know he's going to do a the girls want to see all those marks did you get a big plus or you should i want a minus you know what it was going to hire him he's going to look at that and he's going to say what did you get in sociology 201 what'd you get in it i can't hire you what's it about preparations for life and all of life is like that i know a guy who went to opi yeshiva i think he's not alive anymore so the first thing he did was to print letterheads and then he made a stamp that he could seal the letters he's going to write the old-fashioned russian shiva said they had these stamps they'd stamp a circular he made that also and he got the name he didn't have any time meet them he didn't have a place to open the yeshiva we made all the preparations a fellow called me up from yeshiva in queens you hired an executive fundraiser and the fundraiser has been working for seven months and he doesn't bring any money i said what's he doing for seven months my sister he said was making preparations i said to him fired a guy he was going to be making preparations for the next seven years a guy who comes into a job is a fundraiser whether he has a preparation not even who doesn't have a receipt book go out and raise money that's what you're there for don't make preparations but all of life when we fool ourselves preparations and what does that come from that comes from the nervousness inside and where does that come from that comes from not having any pizzagan so he says and they are preparations in using methods that harm you well the simplest example of that is the guy runs down to the library and sits there and gives up a seder he harms himself the guy who hires somebody who works for seven months he's paying a salary for seven months for nothing he's army himself making preparations that guy's making preparations and the personal heart was making preparations and through these preparations he can be he can fall he can be tripped beside me he can fall in his physical life his materialistic life because and surely in a spiritual life because you see we give up everything for the physical world it's the first thing we give up give up learning we can't diamond it's on our heads and what's it about preparations i gotta i hope the shots is not too long i gotta get out of here i gotta make the train i gotta run why are you doing that you know it's it's all really you know i have to strain out the desk in my office because somebody's coming to see me tomorrow i want to look nice he has enough for today that's the word he uses he doesn't worry about tomorrow's worries you let tomorrow worry for itself hi if you can do that you're a maid man you let tomorrow worry for itself do you have today now you have now you have what do you worry about tomorrow for what is tomorrow and i want to tell you the insightful void from the author of decipher it's worth it to give away all your tomorrows for one today the tomorrows drive you nuts it's worth it to give them away in order to live like a mensch today we're not worrying about tomorrow if you don't learn to do this you'll give away all your today's for one tomorrow every day will be the same what i have to do the statement i always understood when it says myerev as we finish the day and begin the day my roof we say take away the sutton of tomorrow it says what's going to be what's going to be the sudden of tomorrow take away milfona the one in front of us in the sudden of yesterday you can't do anything different you've never done anything different i know who you are and something tells me i know you you're not gonna fool me you're an outdoor guy i've got you i've got you on the string already so many years you're not getting off the string that's something behind us had yesterday decrees tomorrow but basically what he says is very true basically what he says is very true people who live worrying about tomorrow they never get to it tomorrow i have to tell you i've thought this frequently in my mind that is a sad thought i can tell you something sad i think frequently about the people that say and aisha shook the women who were worried about whether the dishes would be washed tonight and about the spots on the floor have to be cleaned up and about all the things that a woman worries about and in 10 minutes her life is over the president wanted about his house and his mortgage and 10 minutes from now there's going to be a knock on the door and he was no longer has to worry about making the payments because it will watch him out and shoot him and all that wasted worry of all those people the human beings that's how human beings are they didn't wear my dragon's head so they worry about tomorrow all that wasted worry all that wasted glory beside the death and the horror of and how they killed them and everything else just that wasted worry small matter compared to the rest but a matter that teaches or something what are you worried about tomorrow for so somebody came to ask i forgot who was here he asked the michelle about you know uh i forgot what it was i'll make up a child about whether you should look after now this will be helpful for him in the future said to him i want to ask you do you know if you're going to find a shirt for your daughter said rebbe what are you talking about i'm not even married but how do you know you'll find that you should look for your daughter after you get married and a half when she's 18 or 20. maybe 21. how do you find her shouldn't learn he said i grabbed me he said why don't you worry about that he said remy i'm not willing to worry about things are going to happen many years from now she hasn't been i'm going to worry about 25 years from now where should why am i to worry about 25 minutes from now what's the difference between i don't remember who it was tomorrow he doesn't trouble his soul it worries about maybe perhaps i won't have but because m [Music] so they corrected the same thing this one has the original they have this no they don't have the original one they use cycle there's something called cyclone this is this is this is the original one that was this was the first one not the first that was printed but first it was printed all together because they were separate he was a separate countries and of course there are mistakes and it was ash island and if they're not mistakes so you correct it anyway see here's locators okay guys