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Ari Goldwag - Pinchas - Spiritual Patience
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What was the great wisdom of the daughters of Tzelafchad? Why did they wait until they were in their forties to get married? What is the concept of inheritance and how does it relate to one's personal purpose in life? Why did Moshe have to wait 40 years to rectify a mistake he made? What is the idea that the 'son is an extension of the father?' Find out in this week's parsha podcast.
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and I would actually like to go to the
end of the parsha which speaks about the
concept of the Venice Slough are the
daughters of to love God these were five
women who at the end of the 40 years in
the mid bar in the wilderness Moshe
Rabbeinu was involved in the concepts of
evil in the constants in the novel
concepts of one person does this if
someone passes away without any heirs
what happens to his wife what happens is
his inheritance and the daughters the
Salaf code said look they were five
women five daughters no brothers and
ordinarily the in Jewish law so if the
inheritance goes to the children to the
sons of the math I will see soon what
that's about what is the idea of
inheritance and the notes to love God
said we would like to make sure that the
spiritual inheritance of our father
within the Land of Israel doesn't get
lost
so Moshe Rabbeinu didn't immediately
answer them but but instead he turned
Tosh Emmy turned to God and he asked God
what is allotted in such case what is
the law and God responded and said
indeed they're correct these women are
speaking correctly they do indeed get an
inheritance from their father and
therefore as we find also later in the
Torah other members of their tribe also
said look we want to make sure that the
inheritance doesn't leave our tribe we
want to make sure it stays within the
tribe and the daughters to love God
ended up marrying men who are how gunam
appropriate for them now that could
share with you some ideas from a
crime-free been there again this week
and it's just really some mind-blowing
thoughts and some of my own conclusions
based on what he says
the first thing that he says he points
out is a few a few different things he
brings from Arkansas first thing he
brings is the gomorian Bava Batra on
that Scofield test we are heist a
partial Z partial matalas nicely cut see
valley dementia the whole concept of
this parsha of what happens if a man
doesn't have any sons goes his daughters
this should've been something which
moshe initiated a hollow ha and spoke
about in Time Rush's elphaba nice Locker
the next of all yoga but the daughters
of the lava had its course had a merit
and as a result of that merit so it was
written because of them it was miss Eyre
was aroused the idea came up because of
them lament Christian Magog Olympus tell
you there's a high it teaches us that
when it comes to a score so it comes to
a merit when it comes to revealing some
spiritual principle so it happened
through someone who is worthy now he
continues and says Lucille ahem Charlie
be shall you other Minister proportions
are like we said it was close it was a
merit that it was through them that the
partial was given over what was the
specialist close to the prime
Friedlander that allowed them that
enabled them to be able to reveal this
amazing concept that should be revealed
through them Iselle I'm alone so I'll
coach ammonium Kinkos PIMCO's and lark
parsha reverential mention anymore came
in a sub divers the daughters of silicon
are correct
he offered tougher when I select on
shikaku partial sue one of the more
amazing thing Hashem says this is
something correct they are they are
making a correct claim they are claiming
indeed that they should be the ones to
receive the inheritance this is exactly
what it says right here in the heavens
they were Maccabi to my das they they
line themselves up it precisely
Asha Adam shall become Idol devar of
praiseworthy is the one who Hashem
admits that they're correct
I just legalized ellenmilton shall hand
huzzah or sages also speak further about
their greatness
kana this is also there in the yakulani
cannibalistic money attained showing the
same the doors of Silicon were wise they
were intelligent and they would dharshan
they were able to understand things they
were able to understand deaths when it's
entertain they were righteous come on
ESA in the fuchsia the few shall
official a deeper amazing things they're
interesting thing when did they come and
speak
they spoke right here they spoke at an
opportune moment they waited until the
right time they were wise where mobile
reviews hub which one barely says let me
show you a moisture evaluation with
their partial judgment Moses was
speaking about teaching but the concept
of UE boom me boom is the concept that
if someone dies without any heirs so the
the brother of the person who died
marries the wife of the of his brother
of his dead brother and then the
children that they have are called after
the one who died Chennai marquee issue a
cumulative verse tells us when brother
shall sit together on rely so when the
daughters of silicon heard this rush of
emotional men when they heard that Moses
was speaking about this concept they
said in Kiev an unco Shubin if we are
considered like sons to not London last
log k bed give us a portion just like a
son in love if we're not considered like
sons if our mother is now considered as
if she had no sons in therefore has no
spiritual heirs to see our name you may
know me odd to see on me Amen oh I'm
sorry let our mother to evil let her
marry her brother her brother-in-law and
have children and thereby continue the
spiritual legacy of our father to love
cut me a very conscious responsible now
she'll immediately so Moshe a vain who
brought their question or their issue in
front of God and indeed they received
the responsibility receive darshan is
saying the message continues and says
they were darshan yes they were able to
understand concepts so he loyal I been
lo debar no because they said if our
father would have had a son would have
spoken up to come Iain they were
righteous shall learn it sue out of the
house in the head amazing thing is
majestic looking at this carefully it's
unbelievable that they only married
someone who's appropriate for them Tony
are eligible Yaakov if you look at our
Emily needs his Kusum airbrush marijuana
Shana the youngest of them to not get
married before she was 40 years old they
waited until an older age to get married
they waited until now Amy
Kamara the measure shot that is that so
mark is Denise's Kusum about this room
let us achieve shame we have a general
principle her krishna says if a woman
gets married before she's 20 so she'll
have the ability to have children until
she's 60 pots swimming when she's
already 20 when she gets married you let
us set our volume so then she'll have
the ability to conceive until the age of
that's our volume but if she gets
married after 40 should any allegis she
doesn't have the ability to have
children anymore so what's going on he's
woman waited until they were 40 to get
married but let me tell you to Tony
insane aunt Ellen May's Keo covered
amazing things since they were righteous
so a miracle was performed for them and
they were able to have children despite
the fact that they got married in an
advanced age now very interesting what
is the idea here so it's it seems
strange they waited all the way until
now delayed it all the way until this
time in order excuse me as I turn my you
see they waited all this time in order
to get married why as we're going to see
because they weren't sure exactly what
they were supposed to do they weren't
clear and what their spiritual heritage
was what was their spiritual task in
life but with the purpose in life and
therefore they waited until now in order
to get married so what's going on here
they there that's a righteousness that's
a good thing to wait so long
like they're depending on an AIDS
they're depending on a miracle we're
going to have they're going to be able
to have children
yo Kevin who had children advanced
issues 130 who said that that miracle
will be performed for them so he said
something amazing Clemson and there he
tells us a general principle I has to do
both with
the daughters of to love God and to do
with the idea of inheritance and all set
to do with the idea of Yee boom the
concept of the brother marrying his dead
brother's wife if they don't have any
children and that general principle is
that when it came to the inheritance
when it comes to the inheritance of the
land of Israel so when we spoken about
this in years past in other podcasts
when it comes to the idea of inheritance
so we're speaking about its spiritual
inheritance as if I'm a Yahoo Vivino
when they came to giving the brothers to
his son the motion was really a
continuation of those bras and we find
at the end of safer devar when Yaakov
Aveeno gives the blessing his sons he's
giving them each he showing them each
their spiritual target their purpose in
life who they are what is the essence of
what their purpose is and how there's no
suppose how they're supposed to man it
as godliness in the world
so Moshe Rabbeinu is giving a spiritual
inheritance he's giving a piece of land
a piece of land is not just a butyl and
for examples of woman we say about in
Illinois Amish going part of his
spiritual task is to be involved in
business and was able to support his
brother Esau fr who's sitting and
learning right so but he has to dwell on
the hoof of other by the shore of the
sea so that he can be involved in
commerce so each person the place where
he lives is a significant factor in his
being able to to manifest his purpose
now so the inheritance amazing idea is
amazing idea and I'm so lit up by this
amazing idea the spiritual inheritance
of the person represents
his purpose why does a child why does
the Sun get the physical inheritance of
his father and the reason is since a
crime-free lender because broker da hua
there's a concept within the Torah that
the son is a continuation is the legs so
to speak of the father
the spiritual heir of the father is the
child and therefore since the tools that
the father needed in order to fulfill to
manifest his purpose in life were these
tools yes this piece of land is this
particular location all these things so
the child continues that and therefore
since the child is continuing that he
inherits the piece of land that the
father had and it's true on an
individual level and it's true on a
tribal level between each of each of the
tribes of the Jewish people and it needs
to remain within the tribe and it's true
on a vast level on a national level as
well we as the Jewish people have a
certain spiritual purpose in the world
and we continue that through our
inheritance through living in a land of
Israel or our spiritual purpose is
fulfilled to the best of our ability
within a land of Israel Erickson so is
that place where we fulfill that so
that's for the concept of inheritance
and it's also true when it comes to even
what is the idea of people idea bibim is
as the Torah states that the brother is
going to give seed to his dead brother
he's going to take the wife of his dead
brother you're going to marry her which
is the only time that such a thing is
permitted and he's going to the child
that he's going to have he's going to be
named after his brother brother who died
so what happens the spiritual heir of
his brother becomes that child so
there's a transference and really
because they're brothers so they both
share the spiritual purpose of their
father so they're all in the same line
they're all related so that's being
continuing here so but that was the
essence of what the Vanille of God
looking for they were looking to to
manifest they were asking do we continue
how does it work they waited subscribe
we landed an amazing thing why did they
wait for 40 years
why was the same incontinence why did
they wait for this miracle to happen
again should be able to have children
even though they married after they were
40 and he explains an amazing thing he
says that they weren't sure what their
purpose was they weren't sure what their
spiritual inheritance was ordinarily of
course each woman has their own
spiritual purpose in life which is
unique to her but because everyone who
gets married she becomes a unit with her
husband of a very great part of her
purpose the way that she manifests her
lot in life or her spiritual purpose in
life is by supporting her husband in
helping him be able to manifest his
purpose in life that's a great portion
of her purpose so but the question for
them was how do we view our purpose do
we look at it as we are to find husbands
and then based on our husbands we we
support them in their spiritual purpose
or do we look at ourselves mainly as
children of our Father and since a
father had a certain spiritual purpose
to manifest he had no sons to continue
that manifestation so we are the ones
who are meant to take it over
that was their question and that's why
they waited amazing thing that a
spiritual question and they waited for
their spiritual answer 40 years until it
was time to give out the inheritance
which really meant it was time for
people to find out what was their true
spiritual purpose in life
that's what motional Bain was was giving
people at that time and so they waited
till this point and at the point when it
became clear that it was not clear at
the point that it became clear that it
was not clear they stood up and they
said we want to know what's supposed to
be done we want to know who are we
supposed to how are we supposed to
manifest our spiritual purpose as a
continuation of our Father or as a
support to our future husbands into this
once you're being really told them both
are true both are true
you need to indeed be a continuation of
Shem
firm that they were correct need to
indeed since your father has no sons to
be a continuation of your father's
spiritual legacy and you need to make
sure as the tribe requested that you
marry within the tribe and so that you
your husbands will be people indeed or
continuations are the same spiritual
legacy of your father in this way that
spiritual legacy will continue within
the tribe within your family and you
will receive that piece of land which
represents the spiritual purpose which
is yours
and your families now there's one more
interesting point than comfy Linda
speaks about and that is the way that
has all set up this idea the way that
they set up the whole concept of this
the fact that we have the daughters of
selected revealing a concept in the
Torah which Moshe Rabbeinu didn't merit
to reveal similar as he points out
something that we find regards to Pesach
Cheney
we find that there are people who are to
mainland officialdom they are impure
they were unable to bring the carbon
case up the special Passover offering
why because they come in contact with
the dead and they said why should we
lose that why should we not be able to
bring our corporate why should we not be
able to bring our sacrifice in Moshe of
a new term to God and God responded and
said indeed a month later there's
something there's going to be a
consequent place of shading is gonna
make up for someone wasn't able to bring
that cover in the first time in the in
the correct time the idea is to bring it
the following month on what's called
Pesach Sheni
second pace off but that Allah who is
Miss Eyre
it was awakened it was brought down
because of a spiritual request because
of a Shifa of a desire very interesting
it's very much parallels what was going
on here the doors of club club has a
spiritual desire they're not just asking
all we want to make sure that we have
our piece of land our Father we deserve
it no it was it was a spiritual request
we want to make sure that the the
spiritual purpose of our Father is not
lost that's what they wanted they wanted
to do ashrams will they care about God's
will so too when they came to the people
who requested that there be an
opportunity we going to be able to bring
the common face off
they also through that she that
desire
they merited to have something revealed
through them if you think wanted God's
will and God's Will was indeed revealed
because of them but there's something
small that's happening here between is
to understand the feliner points out
which is maschera Boehner ordinarily all
the other hot losses all the other laws
all the other ideas Moshe himself Moses
himself reveals but here it's not
revealed through him in fact he doesn't
know the answer yet to go to God and God
has dumped they are correct so what's
the idea here what's the basis of this
what's the foundation of this amazing
thing he brings a measure I'm not gonna
read it inside but the message tells us
that that there are two people king
david moshe rabbeinu
both of whom there was something very
fine right a Kadesh bocal God is very
exacting when it comes to the tsadikim
it comes to righteous people she was
very careful she wants them to be
perfected to the to the enth degree to
the highest level so if there's a little
thing that they've done wrong so a shun
gives them an opportunity to fix that
summertime ellika gives the whole
example let's do it with the RN with the
Ark etc not going to get into it Moshe
Rabbeinu there was something that he
said at the beginning of the forty years
they're interesting he said something
which he didn't mean it in a way of his
gnosis of Guyver of ego in an
egotistical way we know Moshe Ben was
the owner of ecology was the most humble
of all people but my shabbiness said
something which on his level could have
been perceived as a negative thing
what did he say well sure Ben was said
sorry
he said I'm having trouble finding it
here but I'll just tell you what it says
outside I'm sure Ben was said at the
beginning he said that he set up a whole
series of courts and he said that the
problem you first to bring it to this
group if that's not if they don't
understand it into the next group the
higher-level court
higher level higher and if something is
too difficult for anybody else you'll
bring it to me and I'll answer the
questions so most of it of course is the
one who receives the tour directly from
God and therefore he has no authority
to say I'm going to be the final
authority but in saying that it could
have been misconstrued as if he was
saying I'm the one who's got all of the
answers anything that's too tough for
anybody else I have all the answers
something it wasn't that he did it out
of Gaia it wasn't that out of pride but
it could have been misconstrued that way
and as a country that explains so it has
to be someone is it sonic a person whose
right has to be so careful that he not
even say something which can be
misconstrued so as a result of the fact
that he said this thing that whatever is
too hard
I'll have answered it for so when it
came to this question he didn't have the
answer as it's very interesting because
because I'll give us a picture and
describe the story describe this this
occurrence is first they came indeed but
not slept the first thing came to the to
the lower-level court and to a higher
level and a higher level and a higher
level until finally they got to Moshe
and Moshe said I don't know the answer
and he brought it to a shaman or to God
and God Himself gave the answer so it
was at equal social crime free Leonard's
as the menders is it tickling with the
rectification of the fact that Moshe had
said something which could have sounded
like his muscles could it sounded like a
prideful statement that he has all the
answers so I shall have to show him be
careful you gotta watch out even for
such a statement and what's interesting
and this is where it comes to the
thoughts that I have about about what
recovery letter saying what's
interesting is that it took all these
years for Moshe abandoned to figure out
to rectify the mistake he had made forty
years earlier the whole comment that he
made about setting up these courts etc
and finally will come to me that was
something when she had said to beginning
with forty years and only now at the end
of the forty years is it being rectified
it's very interesting what's the concept
and also with these women why did they
wait so long to try to figure it out
what what happened here it was all the
way until the end the most Raveena
speaks about this concept of evil men
he's giving out their novel is giving
out the inheritance not the inheritance
why they wait so long
what's the idea what's the depth of it
and and
the thought that came to me the concept
I think that's being relayed here the
reason is because it's teaching us a
lesson in patience you know person each
and every one of us has a desire I know
I have a desire and I'm sure many of you
do as well to try to do a chef as well
to try to perform my purpose in life to
try to fulfill that which a Shem is
putting in this earth to be to try to be
who I'm supposed to be and it can be
frustrating I want to do it already I
want to fulfill my purpose I want to get
to that point where it feels like I have
doing what I'm supposed to be doing not
just that I'm reaching a level of
perfection reaching perfection in my
purpose and here we've an amazing thing
we have a few different a few different
angles of it one angle of ideas that we
see that mushroom bono had to wait till
front from the beginning he made a
mistake 40 years ago and six forty years
later there's a lot of patience is
needed for person in order to get to
that perfection and amazingly also it
was something that shameless Maga a chef
brought the opportunity printer fix this
problem the Bennett's local as well even
even more challenging did you know who
they were they didn't know what their
purpose was they didn't know how to see
themselves who to relate to am I going
to be the support of my husband am I
going to be the child of my father like
who where's my spiritual legacy didn't
know they waited 40 years to find out
and when they finally found out I um
showed them it's not too late it's not
too late you can still have children you
can still have a spiritual legacy you
might have to wait a while but it's
going to happen
Shem Shem will guarantee if you're in
this earth and you're trying to do a
Shems will as well as luck would work
and certainly as motion Elena was you're
going to have the opportunity to fulfill
that will so it's going to get you there
it seems like I'm never going to get
there sure we'll get you there and you
might wait a long time a Shem will fill
up the time
Shem will take take care of make up for
lost time and another even deeper idea
is that the purpose that a person has
that I have that each having every
individual has
be or will not be completed by me I
can't complete it I need my children to
continue that legacy it's an ongoing
mission it's an ongoing fulfillment that
needs to be done manifesting a Shem in
the world it's never done it's never
completed my children continue that the
nice love could continue that it's
something that needs to take place
throughout our time on this earth but
not just throughout our time on this
earth throughout the time of our
children on this earth and our
grandchildren and our
great-grandchildren that legacy a
spiritual legacy is something which
continues and it's completed Asano's in
charge of completing it our job is to
try our best to search for God's will to
try to complete it to the best of our
ability but also to have the patience to
recognize that we don't always know what
it can be completed and it may not even
be completed in our lifetime but our job
is to do our best to do what we're
supposed to do a sham will give us that
opportunity maybe it may take a long
time a sham will give us the opportunity
rush em will give opportunities for our
children to continue our legacy and to
be able to manifest the purpose that a
sham has to reach our every one of them
I bless you
please bless me ah Shem to help us to
recognize on purpose to recognize that
which we are supposed to manifest in the
world
the godliness we're supposed to bring
into the world it should help us to do
that to recognize it to do it to be able
to bequeath that inheritance of
spiritual inheritance to our children
they should continue that which we begin
son shall help us have the patience to
be able to see the completion of our
missions in life I'd never assume 120
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