Metzora - Enduring Embarrassment

you're listening to the weekly partial podcast with our Eagle drag recorded recorded with ashens never-ending assistance in Ramat which is rel 57 79 2019 this piece marches participant surah the tour continues in our parsha with the subject of the previous parsha which is the concept of sarah's special the special spiritual leprosy which person would receive for a number of different sins a number of different ways of manifesting certain bad meadows certain bad character traits and just as last week we spoke about the concept of Russian Hara of gossip and how to protect ourselves from it and not speak of others even if we feel like they wronged us we spoke last week about be talking and I would like to read to you some more from the habit I'm about the concept of Solano's which means patience and it also means besides for patience and hand in hand that goes with being willing to be sovel to withstand and to endure challenges to one's ego okay and if we work on this concepts as a house climb so then that will help us in our ability to to safeguard ourselves from speaking loshon Hara okay so this is in the eighth chapter Shara Oona Bolivar meet accessable Anasuya of words in a column of a nicer we're gonna learn an amazing thing and if a person is SciVal a person is patient a person is willing to undergo challenges to his ego so such a person will all of his sins will be forgiven amazing thing oh geez Irma a person needs to be especially careful maja Gillis has my witnesses of lowness to cuss himself to the character trait of patience of being willing to undergo difficult difficulties and challenges to z go Seamus rats of the coma Cheryl a person should be okay with whatever happens to him the eCos therapy Nelson and we find it obviously nothing Buzzelli shanem having la mode lockable suits our person should accustom himself to being able to endure difficulty in pain if he Michael al Blanco a person should forgive when someone else embarrassed them.he anak Alya Alakazam either schmear solution and by doing so it will be much easier to protect oneself from gossip and gossip and negative speech the lab hockey circle is gabrielle yet sweet amid the person has not accustomed himself to being willing to undergo or to let go of the pain of someone insulting them so it will be very hard to overcome constantly his use of Harrah's evil inclination shall little left us of a sovereign luck and measure how you been I've been plenty not to tell them what happened between him and somebody else I mean these are Bay is there I feel unless a pair would be careful about which way to say it right there's better ways to say it oh I won't say name I won't mention it I won't say anyway which is negative all these come out but because a person is upset and a person feels insulted and they feel slighted and they're not they don't have the ability told themselves back from saying what happened Ponyo not success I hate surprise I ate three and that's kind sometimes a person will be able to overcome and see it so hard as evil inclination and other times the evil inclination will overcome him a few I've got you - oh the fun of and even if somebody speaks negatively right in front of your face no Yasha Blake I'll first time informs us of an amazing opportunity and very difficult one at that which is that if somebody is somebody is saying something negative to you don't respond via KOCO miss havesham whoever nice of a person should know everything is from a Shem because of a person's sins I have a nice of hey ma'am - I say it's really person sins that are insulting him or I would say another way it's not what the calms time says but when person sins so so there's an opportunity for them to be cleansed though since we cleanse through the the insults of others she yeah Mikasa dinner lots maybe a mess when a person accepts upon himself that this is indeed a shams will this is the judgment of a sham vehicles for clear I'm Karen Amala offers Elizebeth Maybach a person who's willing to accept discard these kinds of insults they can be assured that if they recognize that it's a Shamu these challenges they'll peak everything will be well for them both in this world and in the next question would see no it's automatically shown like we find about King David Fischer Shaquille elation bangerra of ee para saber offer wen Shan even Garen salted him not only insult him he cursed him and he threw through dirt on him rod started over the kind of boy that was that and the servants of King David wanted to get back at showing bangerra LOI near clammy didn't allow them to wiki will allot some I had in bottom right and he accepted upon himself that Hashem had judged him and he said a shadow more like Hallel it was Hashem who told him to curse from a result she shows up a level yes I reveal irregular Merkava then at that time because of his willingness to endure a challenge to his ego so the result was that he became the fourth of the rod lay hammer cover the fourth of the of the the throne of Hashem as until then it had three legs that were holding it up as it were and this of course is a muscle of course that there were there was a Miyazaki Nico of the meet those three meters Abraham had to do with the concept of Gugu of that said yes I was goroh Yaakov is to Ferris his ideas very deep but they held up the throne of Hashem and now there were only three legs of course the chair can stand on three legs but there was a fourth one that came mm I'll speak excuse me became the fourth leg to hold up the throne of Hashem why because he was willing to accept upon himself someone's curses and he didn't he didn't allow his servants to respond guy I got him a lot of other and this is true for every single individual amuse kilometres over Shlomo's and not show the Austin may Hashem is broth so if a person merits this completely so he will be considered in the future from those who love Hashem the ergotism iguras a big hoorah say he will shine like the Sun coming out in its strength wish our Hazael like house I'll say I'm sorry an eleven van on oil oven seanny karpas - even people who are embarrassed by others but they don't embarrass those people back those who hear insults but they don't respond i see me novice making me Suren they do out of love and they rejoice in difficulties and challenges I'll have a glass of a Marissa - Watchmen Grasse Sukumaran Shaba stuff pas page 88 about them it says that they are like they're like the Sun coming out they are the loved ones of a Shem were like the Sun coming out in all of its strength he brings down a story here because of his saber told us are them japonica's nuts a Telekom's almond Tamina Shilla grow in walking about going up climbing of illusion one time ribs a man who was a student of the grub brother of Rahimi of illusion they were traveling together by Heba viola Milan when they came to a particular lodging DVI tambala Malenko so nothing to him welcome la lune the owner of the lodging of the lodge spoke to them very tough and he didn't give no place to sleep because sure no Sammy Shawn when they travelled on from there by Arab famous up he was almond being a boy their time saw his brother of Zalman he was crying I'm really LaMotta by faith he said why are you crying ribs almond I sound totally closed every how ish is it is it that you took to heart what this person said you got insulted when you learn to satya Libya and pay attention anything I said honor of Zalman Zalman said like this a nanny boy that kalila alga neutrally really know how each he said I am not crying because of what the person said about us the negativity that the person expressed either gosh team at cave Lamy Deborah Harish but I did feel a little bit hurt because of his words boy honey I'll shallow he got ya down the malice and 11 venom 11 Smitham Eucerin he was crying and he didn't yet reached the level where he could receive such an insult and it wouldn't hurt him where where he would be insulted and he would be embarrassed by someone he wouldn't feel any anger in his own heart so we see an amazing level it's possible I said we're talking about Coney Island the students of the garage brother of Crimea vulajin but it's an amazing story it's amazing support to hear such a level and here the first of all such a thing is attainable and second of all it's such a thing is is a goal something to aspire to well para Shama fortunately Kailash of Khan shalosh major agus fortune explained that there are three levels here in this regard Shaina I live llaha very fear mahatma clarify a lot of Lea's she Asha the first level the lowest level is where a person is insulted he doesn't he doesn't insult the person back but he does respond beige am I not allowed to mention little harsh if he holds himself back from responding of all the father sleeve of my Rosa but his heart is still bitter about it my middle last mushy little hush a key - oh yeah suggest he resigned all your days in a cup hearing he holds himself back from answering because he knows that he will get more embarrassed you'll be will be more buzzer e to the other person so that's the second level but I mean I was making he's through the highest level though is where a person does it out of love and he rejoices in challenges and difficulties perish mush animation I mean Santa Avila Shem when the first to circumstance he's not responding because he knows he's not gonna win the third circumstances he's not responding because he recognizes that it's a code of sparkle who is doing it to him recognizes that it's a sham and he out of his love for Hashem and his recognition that Hashem loves him as well Kali is sworn a là-bas simcha and he receives his challenges with joy she my geometry gosh leashes a from the cover herself the person reaches that very high level third level he merits to all of the honor kami does a Bala auto meets a caduceus a nephesh because reaching that level and again of course we're speaking here about a level which is extremely exalted for righteous people but it's important to know that social level exists it's important to know that there's something to aspire to so when a person reaches that level meets a caduceus a nephesh it comes because of the holiness of his soul my Manasa tire of a sham so much Gayle called Raghav and in his abs belief is absolute faith in God that God is watching over every single thing that he does overall this path squash recursive like the verse in job says chapter 34 verse 21 okay and I'll call darkish God's eyes are upon every single way of man well he's had call it Ivo say excuse me and everything that I showed us is for the person's good the eastern measures tompoma this is in the measures tokuma actually the parentheses here points out from Rohini have ski that it's actually in the supreme partial sense kana newsela shine a serif and I'm Lisa matheus when Yasir math.min hot Eva person needs to be more rejoice and we need to rejoice more when he faces off with a challenge more than when he received something good to feel other with type of column of even if a person has good all of his days like nymph aloha i have one issue the other doesn't accomplish for him anything in regards to the sins that he has person wants his sins to be forgiven it only happens if a man named collide be suing the only way that it occurs is through challenges through difficulties already the desert circle of a hot stick to vodka the support will be punchy swim bottle off person needs to thank God when challenges come his way llama chaser moistness autumn because the difficulties that a person have has draw the person like Kodesh bahu closer to God she's never Marcus I'll show you how you have a chamois fef there's a verse says and the verse says in Mission a prayer gimel you base in proverbs chapter 3 verse 12 the one Russian loves gives to kapha - he gives he gives them challenging situations subhana Allah doom Yama by Vica blame on machines safely mountains karan prison should receive him accept them because there's no end to the reward for a person undergoing those challenges it's very interesting Lahab hill in in the book by viktor frankl the meaning the i'm blanking on the name of the book man's search for meaning so there he said he speaks about the the power that it gives to a person when you give meaning to a person's difficulties when a person is sick a person is terminally ill but they face it with with 42 it faces with challenge it gives meaning to the difficulty that's going on that's just on a superficial level as the idea of meaning but on a deeper level the comes time is speaking about that when we recognize that it's a sham and God is doing it for our best and in order to clean off the asou and the challenges the challenges serve to clean off our sins so then it's a very deep thing it's a very beautiful thing time la chemise Hollywood be quiet when person right it says bye-bye iron a kind when his two sons died on Nimish meanie if they the first day of Nisan when is when it was the eighth day of the Mishkan so they died it says Edom irony is quiet so it's an idea of being quiet in the face of challenge Darla Shannon Scylla boy Safina Kadosh Baruch oh look to God in hey Bjelica ult MF I'd buy him Allah have McCobb lon ha leland person should receive them like like a like a hollow hollows is something that's hollow I can assure my COC Avenue McCauley swimming canal nice to me obvious name is around the idea of Eucerin person if he has to endure challenges in regards to being embarrassed by others so such a thing is a powerful Eucerin a challenge and difficulty and such a thing there's a gift from God this is a Hobbit's hi and just to bring it back to what he said at the beginning it's that by doing so that by being willing to endure challenges to one's ego by being willing to enjoy endure someone embarrassing a person so it helps a person to be schirmer's Russian because why does a person want to get revenge to the why does a person speak Russian or it's to get revenge a year's southern was telling me no social sub low knows when person wants to attach himself to this meda to this character trait of of patience it's more than patience it's being willing to endure of endurance to endure the challenge to see you go he's playing tell me but goof - obviously you hanim about Google person can think of us is pretty heavy right why this is what it says a person needs to know what's going on in Ganim person needs to know that that that when they get to the world of truth the child the difficulties that a person faces as results of the various that he's done as a result of the sins that he's done right the person's soul needs to be cleansed from those sins we have no idea the results of what we do here we don't understand how to how how difficult it is how the the results of what goes on okay so I can hinge but she's been an author myself Tom 8 v 8 IQ gunky no you're not gonna be on my dimension IRA person needs to know that there's no way to get out of the punishment Roddy McDowall eyes when you have some time either has a sound environment days of tamid I'm so much much calmer now because but by recognizing that I have no way out except by going through a challenging situation of being embarrassed by people by being embarrassed by others that cleans off a person sins and so a person can recognize have this recognition Kamisha America's I like to say to say klimova I mean dice of a villa of copshop when a person is willing to undergo a challenge to his ego the person is insulted but he doesn't respond he's my family died so he overcomes his natural inclination to respond so such a person is forgiven of all of his sins she now as the verse says nicely I've evolved I'll pet pesha God forgives and passes over the sins limine I say oven to whom does he forgive those sins let me show overall Pasha somebody who passes over the sins of others someone who doesn't respond when he's insulted talk to me sure it's the Chavez morpheme Cola fuel up shop so if a person wants to be forgiven for his sins use argon Kincheloe yak would claw needs to be careful not to be mocked kid at all a feel of your idea of a severe negative a merit well mouches any crap Esha even if a person know that they did something to him let's say I know that somebody rebelled against me somebody did something wrong to me I need to forgive that person and by doing silk my Marshawn illa Mardan Zell okay so what happens to be a my second dish Marco Michael I I filled up shove to ensure Kosovo your lock up shop we're not gonna cut it nice the army should say to me that goes Roku what is the idea idea is that when a person forgives somebody else even it does something terrible so me that Cann naked meter there are so many times that we sin against god there's so many things that we do wrong we want to be forgiven for those things we don't want to have to endure the fires of Jahannam in order to have our souls cleaned off so what can we do we can receive the challenges to our ego with quietude with recognition that's from Hashem and by so doing says says the Gemara to come on rosh hashanah and says the house I'm by so doing a person merits that that day of the Hashem will forgive him neither can a khadeem either measure for measure if I don't if I don't hold against somebody else a sham will not hold it against me in fact ago more there brings here it is me does else law I don't angle it from him I said well you mean sometimes the person can live longer because of this I feel like Varney's I love Seamus even if he should have been even it was decreed upon him that he should i kitty isa the Gemara there says my southern food a breather gets you out the calash she was he was sick are you sure Rahul brother Joshua alright pop of the Schulich Bey Republic came in to see how he's doing heart attack of Liam he saw that that he was about to go he's about to pass over the to leave the service Elizabeth dosa so he said bring her death shrouds Soviet part and then whoever I'm sure got better I've become mixed to Republic Ozzy a when I'm a classes so he was embarrassed but pop was embarrassed cause he has to bring in the death shrouds because he thought he had died when he's about to die Byron lay mikaze is I'm Rene in hockey hava so he said to him it was true it was true I supposed to die Coosh Marku but a sham said to the best thing God said to the court that was judging my case Haarlem ooh chamomile and i Sakuma birthday since he doesn't get upset when others insult him since he passes over the sins of others we're going to pass over his sins I'll cast our father miss da become you mean that I shot Olivia toilet bazzetta therefore a person needs to be careful in regards to this Mita develop the ability the self-control that's just the self-control but the willingness to undergo a challenge to one's ego because by doing so so person then merit some should forgive him as well and also by doing sighs we said a person will develop the self-restraint it won't be so hard not to speak negatively about others why because I won't have so much to say because I will recognize everything that happens to me tells me ultimately for my son I want to bless you and ask you to bless me should help us to recognize that he's the one behind every single thing that happens in our lives some should help us to be able to be psycho to endure the challenges to our ego some should help us to have love for him and recognize his amazing love for us thank you so much for listening have a wonderful Shabbos this podcast was made possible through the gracious donations of listeners like you for more podcasts like this please visit www.rkphotomagictrix.com you