Lech Lecha - Bitachon-Trust in Hashem

you're listening to the weekly partial podcast with REO - I recorded with oceans never-ending assistance in Roma emission is real 5780 2019 this week's part shows partial o'clock oh and I would like to share with you some thoughts actually from my Russia Shiva rabbi pear and I'd like to share with you some thoughts of my own based on our parsha author movie no Paragon usually think of as the paragon of cast said but which means kindness but what I'd like to show actually this week the shams help is that he was a paragon of betta home of having absolute faith and Hashem that all that he had all he would have was ultimately from God okay so at the very beginning of our parsha like to read to a few silken Valmer Hashem al-haram God says to Abraham left likami article go away from your place where away from your land room a lot italy base of e for the place you were born your house your father's house art so shereika go to the land and i'm going to show you it's called a good cuddle and i'm making it to a great nation valve our africa a godless America via Baraka I'm going to make you great I'm gonna make your name grade you're gonna become famous and there will be blessings okay those are the tube silken now what is the idea here so I'm gonna read to you from my Russia Shiva have a little pamphlet here from a few years ago rabbi pear vibrato means eshelov of Venus actually points out when pear points out that Avril Lavigne who leaves everything behind and the Pacific tells us as a result of that he's going to have blessings cassava Rashi Rashi says we asked our legato the V Shahdara glare Emma / Lucia the Forum says Rashi very interestingly going on a path traveling causes three things well I had this preview Arabia causes a person to be less likely to have children Maya this is a moment it ordinarily causes a person to have less money but this is a shame it makes a person less famous the kaku's couple of Schiller's brothers hallelu shifty canola bottom bottom Amidala Shem that's why I need three blessings in this verse one is to tell him that he's going to have children as a result of going to hurt zero seconds is going to have money as a result of going there's Israel and third of all he's going to have he's gonna become famous so yes this was bad Tamura hi amber Kosovo Iraq Amala Smasher cost early a lead any co-stars canal yes an amazing question he says that what's the point of the blessings is the point of the blessings just now the fact is that he's going on this on the path and he's gonna have less kids he's gonna have less money is gonna have less fame so don't worry you'll get it get it back you'll get back what you're missing is that what the blessing is about the blessing is about just getting back what he's missing but they can't be they can't be it sounds like the blessing is it's a blessing that's gonna be much greater boy additionally much like oil is era yes an amazing question the second question he says the fact that our movie who didn't have children what was the reason it wasn't because shallow it wasn't because he was about to travel shallow high yellows era know how you know my concealers drop him sorry it wasn't because of the fact that he was traveling I'll show you from this surah Carly doesn't Avram and saw Abraham and Sarah were unable to have children that was their nature and they were they were [Music] unable to have kids it's a cleric on shameless Arab issue immutable closer so how can we say that since is gonna be a mute is gonna be a lessening of their ability to have children as result of going going on the path following God's Word through that you're gonna be blessed and you're gonna have children either the Canada can what's going on here so it says an amazing thing listen to this Munir the first Avada you say the Isetta soo-ji yesh lately autumn coma should sort of came in my mind a bizarre wish my a person this is a foundational concept every single person has all that he needs when it comes to his wealth his money when it comes to his children when it comes to his level of Fame when maila EF shall hasten resumed army none about a ludic far yesh like echo a person it's predetermined Hashem has already decided each and every person how much fame they're gonna have how much wealth they're gonna have everything is to turn back kodesh more clue via Sheila Hisle a lnk Averell of matzo shall mats of shell kiss Erin Murray Shiva says an amazing thing the only way to change it the only way to change what a person has to upgrade to a higher level is by actually going into a place that looks like the opposite it's counterintuitive you go through some kind of trial some kind of tribulation some kind of difficulty you go on a place where it seems less likely that you're gonna have children less likely that you're gonna have wealth less likely that you're gonna have fame does agami like a shrine knowing beautiful thing by the way when I college one who is going to to fill it up you know like your York Lee is now empty your your cup is now empty now because you don't have there when a sham pours in that new measure of goodness of wealth of children etc you call a high level of gamma psycho so this is an amazing spiritual dynamic that occurs now that it's being refilled your cup is being refilled it can get to a higher level than it was before the Zetas varlam or Shiva says that's the nature of the world that's how colors work who built the brihat he built the creation so Aravena was instructed to do something which seemed like he would lose out on but rather instead of him losing out he merited to reach a higher level as a result Mariah Lisette Marcia Shiva says my pair says we can Xia's you read us it shall have Raveena let's rhyme when Abraham goes down to Egypt what happens why did he go down there the violet Lord I'd show you a master of his own life emeritus rel it was because of the fact that Avril Lavigne who didn't have anything to eat in the Land of Israel right what happens she lucky man welcome she's welcome it has to be that way because there was no the reason that he would leave you wouldn't leave the place a shaman told me you have to go to this place there it's Israel let me try and look who I see study the history of Sagada what happened they took his wife that's an even greater loss right it's a tremendous trial that he went through we'll be safer turmeric will mr. Paris before at he likes a Nabokov a commercial office of a sinus goo Mallon the result of them taking his wife was what the result of that lost that seemingly that scene the terrible thing that occurred team what was the result the result was that he ended up rich and got wealth Gaddafi a kadai the fire someone should reclusive boil it if it's running this is to teach us an amazing lesson that where do the blessings come the blessings come because of the fact that we have a loss whenever we see that there's a loss whenever we see something has gone wrong whenever we see that something is going not our way there not the way that we want it to go we should wait we gotta wait expect something good is going to happen afterwards whenever we have something I could lose my cool so to speak gives us a patch Shawn gives us a negative experience it's always followed you can look back in your life you'll see it's always followed by a positive thing a blessing comes into it this is s-seem on the bottom of the sea swirl the ash layer autumn cohosh it sorry this is a sign for us for the children the truth the people of Israel we need to know avril lavigne oh just like it was true for him we also need to know that a person has everything that they need and cluster line as om sai lebryk acai ball of lawsuit a person is missing something this is the way that our college one who brings him a future blessing amazing thing ok so I want to bring out from here is to you say this we're gonna see there's more here but this side foundational concept this is to strengthen our be talkin we need to know this how do we know that we can have faith in God because we know that there are certain spiritual rules built into the Brio built into creation one of them is everything that we're supposed to have we have that's number one number two is whenever something negative occurs whenever it seems that we're losing we're not losing we're about to gain ok be talking the ation elesif he says another thing an amazing thing waiting out hair but cv Shelikof amazing thing he says like this that when a Shem said Tim let click all your colors were formerly little FSL hearts of Chaka Lord Pearson welcome Hashem says to avril lavigne go to the place I'm gonna show you he doesn't say where to go it doesn't specify with the places the place I'm gonna show you my fall Peking cost of a puss ik the puss a cave I ate to the LucasArts canine the verse tells I said where did they go where do they leave to they left towards the land Kanaan Land of Israel have they know if the other Avram look having that smile or some welcome you sir me Shaka how did he know that that was the place to go to any any more than any other place in the world Shem says the place I'm gonna show you could be anywhere and you're the fire age but Russia Shiva says that it would seem like this show might seem safe precious laughs we find that it says at the end of archers nock mieka tarik has Avram benign a slight Bend Horan been burning and then the last week's partial took him before what we just read it says that Tara IRAs father took Avram and lote Pembina s-sorry colossi ashes are annoying took his daughter-in-law i ate sweet on me or cousin Lucas our second and there was a plan tariffs had already decided that he was heading towards Arras cannot for whatever reason well what about karma issue some they didn't reach their destination they stopped in Horan and they stayed there okay what's the idea I'm a force so we see explicitly shimmy Crichton let's see Vishal o'clock on how your arm Aveeno higher cleric anonomys it's even a sake of a harem we see explicitly then originally the plan was to go taraskin an ROV no had been on the road to the Land of Israel he stopped whatever reason it can in in Horan he was got stuck there musicians Tov our mother left us with a protocol is roughly is a mahkum so Hashem says to him now I want you to go when he doesn't say we're to go Bovada rats nebari who shall I say Direction York Varnum Cebu it must be that he was to continue on the path that he was already found la Haine y8 silica starts looking on why did he continue to cannot because my son doesn't specify it must be wherever I was already the trajectory I was already on that's where I should continue this Zen limitless row says rabbi pair an amazing teaching for us this is a teaching for the people of Israel Adair's for all generations Kassadin in some part is dramatic Ioffe when a person is at a crossroads in his life many they are Marcia show me man he's not sure what does Hashem expect of him once God want me to do what am I to do at this point I feel confused I feel lost I feel I feel stuck I feel stuck in Karan Johar chicawa docile Iceland actually all of the person is obligated to continue on the path that he had been going until now my right side is work with the Baraka I am a da Hashem gives people signs he gives us direction throughout our life exactly where to go if you're not sure there's no sign keep going in the direction that you were going until now unless of course it's something which is a negative direction that's not what we're speaking about but if a person is unsure you can look in the past you can say okay what has got me here and what has got me until here what successful things that I do in my sin my brokenness my spirituality in my going through this world how do I continue I continue in the trajectory that I was on until now okay and he has one report I'm not gonna read it inside just mention it was very interesting as well and that is that Nimrod the reason he says perhaps the reason you offers us a possibility of the reason that Erica left why did they leave war costume why are they head to her skin on originally the reason was he says because Nero is trying to kill Avram of you know he's trying to kill Abraham they had to run away the point of it the reason excuse me why Terah took his son Avram etc to run away why it was because to get away from Nimrod interesting you what happened in the end because I'll tell us that we know in the later in our parishes we're gonna actually see something there as well later in our parishes so there's a war between the four kings and the five kings and one of those kings was Nimrod meaning Aram and Nero were to meet up again so the idea here is Samara Sheba that if a person is meant to be in the proximity of certain people certain enemies certain situations person can try to run away from those situations but those situations may run after him if that's the will of Hashem okay so we have another two points here when it comes to be talking when it comes to trusting a Shem the first point is that we have to believe we have to know that a college vocal gives us signs along the way Howard to go what is our path where are we supposed to be headed and we can be assured if we are not sure if we don't have a new sign continue in the way that we've always been going rest assured that we're going in the right way so that's the third point the fourth point is every single thing that occurs in our lives this is connected to one of the first points every single thing that happens in our lives all of the interactions that we have all the people that we come into contact with it's all predetermined so I could have spoiled who sets it up everything is there of course everything is for our best everything comes from my kodesh brothel okay so those points three and four now I'd like to say one more point which is very interesting this is my own thought it came out of actually reading piece and sequels muster from Levites but has nothing to do with what he says but this is just the inspiring thought that I had so we had the war of the four kings and the five kings IRA may be no goes out to war he's able to save his nephew lote brings back all the people of Sudan he has amazing meeting Rumaki said that many more say just say was Shem and he means the king of Saddam and now the rules of war are very simple very clear if you win you win right if you win the war you get all the spoils of the war you get all the people they become your slaves value mmm else to them this isn't chapter 14 verse 21 buy your milk to them in a harem the king of Saddam comes out to Abraham and he says tell me I never shook ooshka clock he has a lot of hutzpah he says give me the people you keep all the spoils right I remember you know had rights to everything however everyone else is doing Iren says something very important to the king of Saddam hurry my co d Elish M K Lillian I raised up my hand to a Shem the highest God he makes an oath he swears coalition of orit's in me hoot bats Rick now God - I'm making an oath said Abraham to God the highest God who owns the heavens and the earth to whom belong the heavens any earth in the hood not certain I love him Jack McCullough is I'm not gonna take anything not not a shoelace not a leather strap for much from a from a from a shoe not gonna take anything that you is yours well it's not I'm adding in that word if I will take anything that's yours with life samurai near chartiers Avram I don't want you to say that you made me rich okay so very interesting very interesting thing that everybody knew says we do find in the parsha that Avram of you know has no problem taking stuff from from it's from from the Egyptians I guess they weren't gonna say that they made him rich what does he care so much about the Melek Saddam was he cares so much if the king of Saddam says oh everything that Abraham has is mine what's the big deal so on the surface of it our living who doesn't want to kill a sham doesn't want anyone to say something that's not sure he wants it to be very clear I could schmooze or visit him he doesn't want there to be any statements by anybody else to the contrary but I want to see something else I want to see something different which may not be the push-ups on the cooking but certainly is a lesson for me and I hope that it inspires you as well and that is that we need to be careful with our be talking we want to have you talking we want have faith in Hashem we want to believe to the extent that we believe it truly down to our core then a Kurdish for who everything that we get is from a Shem everything that we get is nothing to do with my Chi TV I tend not to do with my strength with my business acumen with my proper PR with my efforts and all the business knowledge and all of the people that I learn from in all the magazines that I read nothing to do with that I'm successful if I'm successful for one reason and if I'm not successful it's for the same reason because a college boy who decided I'm supposed to have a certain amount of money this year that's how much I get no matter how much I bang my head no matter how much I try no matter what I do or matter how little I do it's from Michael Schwerner who I have to believe that I have to believe that fully but some myths what's called the myths we'll be talkin there's an obligation don't think correctly SMU also leaves colors that you're in trouble if you start to think that run away from that kind of thinking you gotta watch out for that kind of thinking and you kind of watch out for people who talk that way as well don't read those magazines that talk about the all of the different experts in business who say how they were able to accomplish and become rich don't read it you know why cuz it has a bad effect on you has a bad effect on me am i be talkin when I hear people talking about continued smelly that this is how they became successful and not true that's not how they became successful nigs are from a culture Sparkle on Rosh Hashanah they're gonna have a certain amount of money that's how they became successful that's why nothing to do with their efforts nothing to do with anything that they did it's not true it's a lie it's a checker of the gate Sahara watch out for it Iver Medina says I don't want you to say the king of stone that you made me rich there's only one being in creation that can make me rich that's how could this work who the creator himself if I hear you saying that you made me rich I might start to believe that that's a no-no watch out for that that's point number five point number six this isn't a in dark a be talking I just learned this today I wanted to share with you as well it's another point where it's connected here v zilla acre I'm reading from dark can we talk on my drag is out in the after of navarre deck Rosella it could be there could be talking a Sharada moukaku she like lot certs are a smoker says the altar of Navarre I need to be so careful not to be worried about tomorrow don't fall into that trap don't fall into the trap of thinking that that's my hair stylist is doing it for me don't fall into the trap of thinking that I can get away from what I'm supposed to have or what I'm not supposed to have don't think that way don't think about tomorrow Kimmi a degree of a Koosh see bow Mill Valley our vehicle DFC if a person is trying to figure out how can I make more money how can I be rich how can I be more successful how can I not only won't you succeeds as the alternative arc not only won't you get rich you will lose out keep big Lollis even there's a spiritual principle or the Archaea kasama Lukesh there's a spiritual principle if you run after something it runs away from you Kukoc Temodar this is the nature of the spiritual nature of reality Shammi charade of Arecibo Siva Barajas women when you run after a certain I'm gonna do that thing if I do that really well if I do really hard I'm gonna make money I'm gonna be rich the more you run after something the more it runs away from you okay before about grisel this is explicit The Grudge says it I go to Nevada well you owe me Vilna in heaven Schliemann Pyrrhic base section you'd kick come on call Mahalo go do lago de barajas new menu there's a concept that if I run after greatness if I run after honor it runs away from me kala Bhairava me naga doula Kaduna huzzah her off and if I run away from greatness it runs after me Kay McCallum either it's true about every single measure but every single character traits who behave oddly inhabit our home specifically in regards to be Tahoe it's true if I'm running after certain things I'm losing my beat Oakland IV I'm giving over to the spiritual principle then the thing that I'm trying to get runs away from me I have experienced this many times in my life it's a fact I remember I don't know if I've ever mentioned it here but I asked once more - David great singer how he became so famous how he became so successful he said it's nothing that I did I was at least likely to succeed of all of my brothers I called Asheboro who chose me who gave me a gift and this is true Kamiya Shanice I made a little about you dare question is my beat off my shame is marching with Atmos if you are truly looking to understand how to have beat Ockham says the author of Navarra you will see from your experience that the more you try to run after a Seba after a particular thing that you think is gonna make you the money that you think is gonna give you your needs it runs away from you okay so we have six points here I think all together and I want to bless you and I ask you to bless me the schmuck who should help us and we should recognize that everything is from him that if we're supposed to be blessed we will be blessed if things that are going on in our life are negative or seem negative it's cause we're cool opening up to give us more blessings because Rahu should help us to realize that no matter no matter where we are no matter where we're going he's guiding us and if we're not sure where to go I coach bro who should help us to recognize where we should go continue on the trajectory we've been on until now cuz all the shops to recognize that no matter what the situations in our lives are tailor picked for us because poco should help us recognize and realize that there are things that can prevent us from having be talkin and should help us to run away from those things not get fooled or sucked into those things and the Kurdish worker should help us to recognize that it's only upon him that we need to rely and upon nobody else thank you so much for listening our wonderful Shabbos this podcast was made possible through the gracious donations of listeners like you for more podcasts like this please visit WWE [Music] gold black [Music]