Chayei Sarah - Getting Used To It

listening is a weekly partial podcast with Ari Goldberg recorded with oceans never-ending assistance in Ramah HMH Israel 5780 2019 this week's precious precious hi Sarah I'd like to share with you a beautiful piece from from the secrets muster of the Russia Shiva of the mirror climb small Levites talks about the media's highest a gloss we'll see what that means he says like this beneath ionic a - it's called machine Massino have they'll be Nirvana Sora in the beginning of our show we know that sir a man who dies our Vivino purchases Marisa Michaela from been a case from AfriNIC ET and so how did sorry I mean who died our sages tell us that what happened was she was informed by the Sutton the Yitzhak was about to be shifted he was about to be slaughtered as a result parkland schwa suppose see what is the difference between Avril Lavigne who asks for primal Levites what is the difference between Avram and sir how come Aaron was able to withstand the akkada the new scion of placing his son on the altar being ready to slaughter and how come star wasn't able to withstand it and she passed away if anything sorry I mean it was the meter sag vara she was the one who had the strength of her Vino's to meet us at her said that's the important question let's see this inside be necessary anak a decir so much see new head of a novelist Sarah Aramco vicious Rock'em of Muhammad elevators maniacally Alma's MAF Aaron was willing and ready to overcome his Rafa means mercy upon his son he was ready to slaughter his son he looks or tries to get a little bit of who yes me I'm wrong we find it sir was on a greater level of prophecy than Avram Aveeno came is just show me chanooka from another shaquita I'm a Leo Mesa sorry may know when she heard that it was happening she died even though she was on a higher level of prophecy come over ish Marsha Spicer marvelous but let's play the star look I saw Adam came to eulogize and to cry for his wife survived because of rush even its promises are like a disease when Rashi explains why were these two parties placed next to each other Vaishali de basura cicada the commercial initial partition wasn't met almost like we said she found out from the malecon obvious from the Sutton about what was going on she died we've seen it with Arianna Sun the targa Anderson says the same thing she has suddenly mysterious arlesheim strategy it's got the same when and told sorry may know that this had gone on that Yitzhak was slaughtered remains some Arabs are she died of intense pain but Mia raba maybe not have been Avraham the phenomena I'm at labor bits are hozhet Weiss is there in between Avram and Sarah how comes Sarah couldn't withstand this great pain okay so he says an amazing thing and it's a powerful idea we need to know that it's true because we need to understand it how it affects us in a negative way and how we can use it in a positive way okay now Avril Lavigne oh he's nice our cottage park who would take honey sign I thought when it came to this challenge Hashem took Avril Lavigne oh and he's slowly edged him into this challenge Misha bearish Rashi make recursive the garage explains the plastic it says why mr Cochrane has been custody fit cashier half this useful take your son the beloved son your only son the one you love Yitzhak lesbian call your son or less name one time you said to him my two sons it's a cute car the only one power lies a hidden rhyme is a definitely this is Ivan responded and said this one is the only one of her mother of his mother and this was the only one of his mother oh yeah sure I have two one you love me less name on you he said I love both I'm a light SCS well I'm Nagila let me kill a widened e Y&T just save straight up why did he give him a whole you know why was there a whole conversation she liked the arbor voice I'm with Tezuka died I love a teacher off so that he shouldn't be astounded and shocked and and and go mad hari Alana Sheila Gila College Park will Avraham Italy washroom Avakian Allah Kakaako Dallas Iloilo we see that Hashem would have revealed to him from the onset that he wants him to slaughter you took his son I said I didn't eat reversal of Allah how you offline have any son he wouldn't been able to withstand the challenge he would have gone mad came in ship all of his son because it came to him suddenly the feel of Gil RAIM it's a double teaming teaming therefore I'm revealed to him the matter drop by drop between on my lawyer asked me first he said your son mr. Bob realization Muto look I've heard about him he realized okay I'm gonna have to take one of my sons I got any damn me ma'am he didn't realize immediately which one Herman Cain on my last hit be sure after slowly easing him into the concept I see Isis dogle Avram through this pause each of these pauses so Avram was able to get used to the idea obviously an uncomfortable idea Caligula's Guevara La Havas early it stuck he was able to overcome his love for you so with a college semester by Manu probably removed us he's able to accept the command with equanimity without getting all confused in his mind turning his mind churning actually I mean he's certainly huckabee's Vanessa oh man schmooze Barak he was able to withstand the challenge and he was willing to bring his son as a sacrifice like Cain sorry minnow but that was not what happened with syrup and interestingly it wasn't a concern answers part obviously was her time to go we could you know I would want to try to perhaps understand why kodesh work who allowed the Sutton to introduce the concept M - sorry suddenly right but the point is that Sarah was at a disadvantage that it was revealed to her suddenly the rock davara chromosome a year so it was being slaughtered like I'm at Lieber polish monster her heart couldn't withstand it she passed away now he brings us other examples of this creates whatever is Emma's cinema cameras but my sitter banana know we find this kind of idea in a story in the good moring sewer so enough some basil vase she give a Chagall Allah Bhairav little might tire you on him he went into exile to study with Rob for 12 years okay chef cause her necklace of a sepia-tone when he returned to his house he had not informed his wife that he was returning it had been 12 years I said each day truth about Medusa his wife was in the middle of her work chemistry mine never raw so he said when she picked up her eyes and she saw him Rowley abolish Massa she she her heart stopped she we perish Rashi rah liebe what does it mean that her heart actually literal trailers her heart saw need men to leave a piston she's a baile her heart suddenly recognized that this was her husband weird on who she didn't want to leave us she said viola potentially Naboo hate today now she had a hair gift she had an emotional feeling this was her husband before her mind processed it Sheila why some of Kemosabe Berek Berek item because if she would have intellectually known about it before irish-american I am believe that distance between the eye and a heart Marta intellect in the heart Hacha Jose Mineta Shabana yes ayan LaVon a salad for hoia-baciu de las aguilas simcha gorillas the shoe shall by law so that small amount of difference that small amount of warning would have given her an opportunity to become accustomed to the fact that her husband has had returned show him it's awfully be shown and she was waiting for 12 years well option even building a pizza midterm chef Tina may know but now that she she saw with her heart so to speak her emotions experienced his return first before her eyes before intellect the eyes always represented intellect named Naomi Menasha highest achieving reassign Havana's a label Ebola her yarmulke so her heart wasn't able to withstand that she wasn't she wasn't pre-warned he gives another example well there's a eh the virus a my solution been done we find that this is true in regard to who shimbun an ocean bendin was deaf the gomorian situs says a story on a few Kimmelman ilovaysk were see a commercial failure when Yaakov Avena was was brought by his sons to be buried in Boris Mikhailov the us is to the kamati evasive came he said you can't take that spot it's my spot Yakov already used his spot for layer the turn Shama comic were shy boy if Sheila she I could corner me man when some welcome so they responded and said no Yakov had already purchased that place from him because a sub star McKeever says where is the document that says that you bought it I rushed earnest Minister and they said it was left in Egypt and I've told shoe cover ugly able to the obvious of stars and I've told you who is very quick he's gonna return to Egypt and bring back the star the marsh um what happened in the meantime who chambray did on time on hava who should the son of Don was there your Korean lady wouldn't he was deaf I don't know my I said what's going on I really come on rocky of high us enough to marry mr. I'm ASA we stopping this the the funeral procession from continuing until not Naphtali comes back from Egypt I really who bother us enough telling about arguments Rania RV a multi design in the meantime my grandfather Yaakov is going to be left in disgrace struck a cool for Mafia rachet he took a staff and he banged him on the head he killed a self not sure Nene his eyes popped out of enough la cara de archive and the eyes evasive popped out of his face and they fell onto the legs of Yaakov avi no I ain't some very interesting Gomorrah I have to understand what the whole idea means but Blair it's dark beer and he brings it to teach us this idea rip time says we need to understand my heaviest cushion Lakhani McQuoid avi avi I said a minute Yahoo shyam a conclusion Brendan was concerned about the honor and the disgrace of his grandfather more than anybody else over there what about Yaakov sons they weren't concerned well my lord you should cool it association was a Shia comma V immortal as she asked enough telling me have some time why didn't they have the same sense that it was a disgrace for Yakko to be left in that way until a knife thought it would return how come only Lucien Madonna had that push had that sensitivity come at what had gosh is like a merchant on how you ours no cavities he's understand why the tourist stresses that he was deaf okay Nero Jabir Bizet sister crimes will have it's an amazing thing he says that the idea is choco Vinayaka been a butter vanilla Nimoy all the other children of Yaakov and their grandchildren of Yaakov cabochon was your racial thermochromic Laura when they heard the complaint of a sub and they said and they heard what he was saying that this is my spot hallo nice have a nice anymore they started to have a back and forth with him she will I'll call town I Civic over Gemara they responded to all of the things that he says about the hockey mahaki struggle not suffer shivakashi we presented with dollar they got used to the idea through this back and forth through the conversation they became accustomed to it Baram lucemon show you was no TV days but couch my dad was deaf so he didn't know what was going on he didn't have that back-and-forth leshawna's I sometimes Chicano he didn't hear what they were saying he didn't hear the the goings on the chemistry or up his name is Thiago Muto live in science since he saw the Yakama vino was standing there in disgrace we had Barra like in us convoyed of the above so therefore that fire of the unwillingness to allow this disgrace to continue burn inside him chuckle Coulomb a theory and therefore you want any killed Asaph so very it's very interesting so there's a possibility for us to use this in a in a positive way to get used to something which is difficult a difficult situation it's also possible that we could get used to something which is improper it becomes we become accustomed to it through this very concept and he brings now I'm not gonna read it inside but he speaks about the fact that not long before this safer was written which was in the 70s early 70s when he was speaking so so the Jewish people had gone through the horrors of the Holocaust and he says there are many people how are they able to survive the survivors how are they able to get to the end of that dark dark tunnel how could they the the death had surrendered them the difficulty of the way that the Nazis treated the Jews the Germans treated the Jews was just horrendous it was unbelievable nobody no normal person could endure such a thing how are people able to get to the other side and he says that part of the way that they were able to survive was because the fact that they slowly got used to it it slow enough that it became okay it was never okay it was always unfathomable but it was something that it's possible see human it's possible for human beings to get used to situations which are just beyond beyond the normal okay so he says like this he brings it home for us Meeta socialist aguas hat woman after she Laden Yesha he lila rights by Sherry McLeish Mattel's Callisto some time ago so this idea of becoming accustomed to something so sometimes it weakens us it weakens our inspiration shaloha Adam I sure Bashar Hashanah buyers militia ganas sometimes a person is inspired and he wants to do amazing things it's burning aside him to do what's right I can kill a fast man her left has read a eskimo camera but as the time passes so it slowly slowly gets diminished the alkane Shula AHA autumn leash Marshall a technology issue Cyrus a person has an obligation to make sure that the fire of inspiration doesn't get weakened the twice if Allah had care about tequila and he needs to make sure that it continues to burn as it did in the beginning the awesomest died a lot over there your Abraha Valley awesome remove severe Hashem person pays attention to it so and a person continues to stoke the fire that's inside of him to make sure that he continues to be inspired to remain inspired so then he's going to rise in his muster and fear of Hashem right I have to mention I just heard in the shear that my mercy Shiva gave yesterday he's talking about the fact that it's amazing thing you open up your Ted nylon you open up a Jewish newspaper and you see how many books there are beautiful books inspiring books touched by a prayer touched you know how to maintain praying with fire you know maintaining that inspiration and how many shoe and there are on tour at anytime that you can any time you want you can go on there you can listen to it you don't even have to listen to it as slowly as I'm speaking and compress times one and a half and make it go much faster so you can you can you can get an even more words of Tyra it's an amazing thing you can listen to it on the way to work you can listen to it anytime you need to inspiration Jews are looking for inspiration we want to maintain the inspiration and I must put in a plug for the Batak own group which bar Hashem the women's group has been you know consistently meaning more Hashem and we have the men's group starting up again brush and a tremendous amount of interest and it's so important to be monastic ourselves inspire ourselves I saw right now in my community in Roma Beit Shemesh a group is starting to learn Mooser it's called base Hamas or of the ICV ISIL named after the altar of navarre Dec amazing thing beautiful thing me to inspire ourselves we need to maintain our inspiration we need to not allow things to become a custom we can't become accustomed to those things just letting it letting it slide okay let's see some more of what he says Revere Shaq hosted eiv super key obvious cost of the virus Tomiko so how about their charts uh furnished activist yachts Adair Shar Negev above direction- yachts at their charts final Yoshi their hardship bah-bah-bah ki netic a yacht so yeah this is an amazing thing we find class I'll tell us it's a mission in pure chaos that when you come into the base humming - when you come into the temple you go in one entrance and you go out a different entrance you wouldn't come in the same way if you came in from the north you go out of the South came in from the south you go out the north what's the idea behind that he says Suzy leshawna he Kirikou - bah whoo Sheela year I rushed upon him Peniche of a nourish Irish our baser person shouldn't become accustomed to the way that a person comes into this house there's only one entrance generally speaking in a person's house you come into that entrance you come in you go out and Bagheera come used to it when it comes to the base I'm English when it comes to that which represent spirituality you can't get used to it it can't become something which is mitsuhashi maloo maloo maloo mother something that we just become accustomed to when we do without thinking so easy for that to happen this is a warning this is a warning don't become accustomed to it do something new do something fresh find your new inspiration a new thing to think about the new a new way of inspiring ourselves there ash - right there are diverting a new a new Gemara teller a new shear that that's interesting a new idea something a new way of expressing that idea okay Rosella who in your clinical trial bit higher I all the tech much imasu bo was a sailor eloheem wish I'd been here - was it not oil Kusum upon her like Mara Mara the Jewish people they became accustomed to coming to the oil Moyet coming to the to the vase HaMikdash roof in that time it was the tabernacle and so most ravana said we need to take the Mishkan and put it outside of Omaha it can't be something that's so easy to get to can't be so easy to just roll out of bed and into the into the shoe it's gotta be something that it's got a little bit hard it's a little far it's a little bit requires you can't be used to it I am Sean Harris car - ephesus or oil in the base our basic you consider Shara bias that's the be a certain fear a certain certain shaking when you come into the base on Mick - when you come into the shul we can't allow ourselves to become accustomed to it I can't bring my device I can't bring I have to say this because it bothers me a lot I can't bring my device into the base mattress I can't bring my phone with my sms and into the shul where I'm vomiting and pull it out during Dominator I can't do that why because I'm just then this place is no different than my house I'm gonna saying it from from I'm saying from a very simple perspective this needs to be a place where I realize that this is I leave my phone outside I can't bring my phone into the basement or even a kosher phone I don't need my phone ringing in the middle shamone SRA I need to leave it outside I personally don't put my phone in my pocket I only bring it I don't bring it with me to the basement I don't bring it with me to shul my phone stays in my office yes it's a little bit hard to get a hold of me but at what cost is it easy for everyone to get a hold of us why do we always need to be gotten a hold of we need to also we need to have time to ourselves we need to have time for a relationship with Hashem this is exclusive this is a place where it's only about a college bar whoo okay okay they shall issue morality read Colorado she liked our food in order that we not become accustomed to it we need to have that that Colorado women coming to me some English he commits a coach mo cuishle a to Daryl I say how shush Nicholas but you can't come in and out the same you can't go in and out the same entranceway it brings another example but I want to just read the ending mumu tell Elena mini hot Sara we the people who value Jewish spirituality we who are the Bening Tara those who study the Torah Hakadosh barukh who it's incumbent upon us less Daanish make sure the eights is a when I get a hate beetle Tara we'd be careful when it comes to bit entire I'm sitting and learning I'm sitting and learning Chiaki Toshiba Cletus has man gremlin or Leo's reason Mishka this honeymoon at the beginning of this man the beginning the time of learning so sometimes we're very inspired often we're very inspired we're very focused we're very into it right it was a human call reggae shop little toy were careful not to waste our time it's arcane while you're there go the it's a comes onto our doorstep and he gets us used to it oh it's okay you're used to it you're not as excited now here goes zachanassian sumo they're becoming accustomed to something when it comes to spiritual matters is a great danger Jihu machia cushion it stunts our sensitivities I feel about hate Hummer has a brutal terror even when it comes to a very Grievous sin like with dr. weights wasting time from learning they came home acaba kyle has the ability to destroy everything actually sir Avila feel a massive a guru be astir person can become accustomed to a very poor state very terrible Steven la la 8 says I suddenly eats Iscariot Lima almost McCauley immediately says what is the eighth sub how can a person overcome the eighth Sahara that causes our to become accustomed to doing things that are wrong its ruling would have Mooser it's by learning inspirational things things that wake us up and remind us of the way that we really want to be and help us recognize that we may not be on exactly the path that we'd like to be let's get back on the path back on the path constantly drawing us back on don't become used to the things the negative habits that we've that we've started doing Zehra Zehra hama scares the other miss rich way Hakodesh it's that it's that sword you see we stick and then we say out whoever steps away from what's right needs to be thrust through with the sword brings that example because I was involved in the previous thing that he spoke about with Paul tibbitt lash I'm not gonna get into that so this reminds a person about the inspiration that he had oil Elisha le by email when a person is originally inspired to make some kind of commitment or some kind of symbol for myself that reminds me this is what I want this is what I really want Satya vamoose Shiva Batala to feel disgusted by wasting our time disgust by wasting our opportunities to have spirituality to learn Tyra chakashi hearing if she could share he's adding almost seeker satire because man this sweetness that we had at the beginning we need to hold on to them all your diamond hot headers Billy Boy through whatever it is that we use that commitment that we have or the symbol that we have of our commitment it reminds a person starts with all Shah Korea coal I see whatever's there I think about tell you dr. bessner have to remind ourselves that this is something that we need to stay completely far away from it's something that we recognize should be thrust through with a sword if we do something which is not based on our highest ideal okay okay shanon's button finishing off your couch in his bed madam are you talking the viola fire lady say hello should be in our room of you know Charlamagne you saying well my search approach must be show America so this is the difference between our manzara the Hina Erica's al you know you have you Ottomans ask me be nice and Shari mm l w Murphy's really be a smiley didn't you say I'm an extra person shouldn't bring themselves into a challenge yes we see our movie no he was slowly customed to the idea bank to slaughter his sons that was used in a positive way sorry man who didn't have that opportunity now person has to be careful not to bring themselves into any sign of erm welcome out hair Chicago debacle nice nice a autumn we explained in another place that when a Shem brings a challenge to a person yeah you man you say nice and like well I made white sham gives a person the power the ability to withstand that challenge okay and in autumn la javi hasn't been any sane person should not bring himself into a challenge give my fans le not know this line not snow lace insane I really need sunlight Socratic I'm you calamity but interesting this is a completely different point but it's also an important point and that is that there's any sign there's a challenge that when a college one who brings us into the challenge so then I could the trouble gives us the power to overcome the challenge but if we choose the challenge like Dom Dominic did we but Sheva so we run at an extreme danger of falling into the challenge because David asks for the new zone it wasn't brought upon him by a kodesh Miroku so meaning a collision or who didn't volunteer the nice I am now sham brings the nice another person so then it comes along with divine assistance but when we enter into nice and ourselves so then it doesn't come with that Cato Hasani so innocently Avram Aveeno doc ADA was this challenge a sham gave to Avram a yacht and a man assign it lamin boy so he also had the opportunity the ability to withstand it luma say sir Shalini Thelonious and Zell I need to lock her climbing but it wasn't her challenge so she didn't have the ability to withstand it like a novel be sure sir I secured I let me everybody would come welcome local army whatever so she didn't have the ability to withstand if because it wasn't her knee so just very it's very interesting it requires a lot of thought bottom line is the what we see from here is that there's an ability that we have inside of ourselves to become moral to become accustomed we need to make sure to use it correctly in the right places if it means becoming accustomed to something that's difficult in our lives whether it's a challenge that because we're always sent us whatever it might be some difficulty in our lab or whether it's the challenges of learning tomorrow the challenge of of everyday things that we do in our service of akkad of tomorrow who becoming accustomed to that so that's using it in a positive way not allowing ourselves to become accustomed when it comes to the inspiration to lose that inspiration we have to watch out for that as well we can overcome that by learning muster and by continuing to be inspired to search for inspiration I want to bless you ask you to bless me ashram should help us to use the tools at our disposal to be able to indeed continuously remain inspired in our service of our color sparkle thank you so much for listening I've wonderful Shabbos this podcast was made possible through the gracious donations of listeners like you for more podcasts like this please visit www.gfi.com/webmonitor [Music] you