Bitachon 79 - Getting into a Bitachon Mindset

you're listening to the 79th edition of the be talking podcast we continue image Russia be talking ideas from our sages that have to do with be talking is King David says I will pour out my conversation from Hashem I'll tell Hashem about my troubles it's very interesting it's very beautiful the message tells us you know some people might be afraid to say in front of Hashem complaints or maybe they're not afraid they're not sure if it's the right thing to do but says the majors it is appropriate for a person to pour out their conversation pour out their feelings pour out their troubles to Hashem that's what the righteous do Philadelphia says there's a prayer of a poor person and Ani right as Mary sashiva points out the word Ani is unique when it comes to referring to a poor person we don't call him a beggar we don't call him any negative derogatory term we call them Ani which which means somebody who is someone who has pain someone who has troubles the prayer of the Ani of the poor person the Moana the one who is in pain pours out his conversation his feelings in front of Hashem the mother of the mother of the Prophet who would bring to us King David King foreign she spoke with anger she spoke with upset she wasn't afraid to say how she felt to Hashem she didn't say it in a way which was questioning Hashem she just said it in a way which was upset she poured out her feelings that is the way of the righteous what is hashem's response to the Sadiq how does Hashem respond to this righteous individual who indeed pours out his his feelings he expresses to Hashem all of his problems responds to that person throw upon me all of your troubles and Hashem promises that he is going to sustain that person the troubles that we have it's not a sin it's not a problem to tell Hashem that we're not enjoying the troubles that we're going through it's not a problem it's a good thing to do we have to of course be careful Hashem is our King Hashem is the Master's Universe he knows what's best for us and sometimes we need the troubles the challenge for whatever reason to perhaps clean off some sin or perhaps because Sasha wants to be still on us very great blessings and we may not deserve it but in any event while we're going through the trouble we're going through the difficulty it is appropriate to spill out our feelings spill out our guts in front of Hashem to tell them how we feel and indeed subsequently throw all of our troubles onto Hashem that's concept number one throw upon us from your troubles let him take them over his shoulders are big enough to carry them all second point would sign him procla it another major this is a magic also in the Shaker type another major says like this get to the page with silicon chocolate do you want a defending Angel a a advocate for you that will stay forever all you need to do is trust Hashem if you trust in Hashem the very fact that you trust in him is something that stands in your good stead not just now in the world in this world but also in the world to come of Israel praiseworthy is the one who the god of Jacob is there to help him he places his trust in Hashem so how do you know that it lasts forever is talking about the fact that we're having been talking how do you know that this is something that stands in your good stead in this world and in the next time because do you know says the Magic in whom you are trusting Orange you are trusting and the one who created the heavens and the Earth from the moment that I stretched out the heavens and I laid the foundations of the Earth have they ever moved there's nothing more solid than the earth there's nothing more intense that represents right like we said right we refer to the heavens and the Earth as something that will last forever there's nothing that's more powerful and more enduring than the heavens and the Earth have they ever moved from their place on so the posix says first it says praise really is the one who places his faith in Hashem is God is the one who created the heavens and the earth and the message of the magician as explaining the message of the passages that when you place your faith in Hashem besides the fact what we spoke about previously that Hashem created everything and therefore we can do anything and he can solve all of our problems but at a different level the posseck is telling us that when we place our trust in Hashem we have accomplished something which is equivalent to the heavens and the Earth and that equivalence is that our trust stands in our good stead forever and ever it's something that cannot falter it can never fall it can never be lost just like the heavens and the Earth are powerful they remain forever human being and a million years from now who knows what will be right what happens in the earth will still be here so too or be talking is something besides with the fact of course and this is something I like to reinforce to remind ourselves of besides the fact that of course I'll be talking is something that helps us right here right now gives us a different mood it gives us a different hope gives us a positivity and optimism besides so that this is something that changes who we are spiritually even if our prayers don't seem to be answered but we're different people because we are people who trust in Hashem or different people because we are people who have concern for our relationship with Hashem and this is something that like that happens in the Earth stand in our Stead for all time next section also it's a major measure Garden parties by the story of Joseph Yosef we all know he was stuck in jail he says to Sarah mashkin please remember me don't forget me and because he placed his trust in a human being Joseph was on a very high level he should have placed his trust completely in Hashem you should have seen that the salvation is nearing you shouldn't have said anything extra shouldn't have said it twice says the result was that the Sarah mashkin did not remember Yosef Zeus this message also brings that same pasok praiseworthy is the one who places who knows that who is the the who is the one who saves him where does the Salvation come from comes from the god of Jacob let's see the difference between somebody who knows that who's going to be his Patron interesting word here used in featuring I means his Patron who is going to be his Patron if I seek God to be my Patron versus someone who seeks a human being to take care of him first of all not only when you place when a person places their faith in a human being not only he's taking a risk that is that his desires will not be fulfilled also that person becomes included in the concept of R there's a curse on such a person could exceed because it says in near me right next to the famous person praiseworthy blessed is the one who trusts in God right there it says some Busters really early curses the person who places his trust in a human being and he believes that the strength of a human being is going the strength of a of a flesh and blood person is going to take take care of him right so there's a curse that comes on somebody who places his faith in a human being what happens to the person who places his trust in Hashem Hashem is my Patron not only does his or his needs fulfilled and assume is blessed he's blessed which means that your whole life is a different life it's not just that you get what you need but you're in the Rut you're in the you're in the you're in the flow the good things are on their way you're in a different place the person who trusts in a human being they get stuck in a rut not only do they not get what they need from that human being they don't get anything they're in a space which is disconnected from Hashem is blessed is the person who trusts in Hashem Hashem will be his trust so he has a blessing that comes upon him his life is blessed he lives a different life because of it and his request is fulfilled the measure finishes off with a with a chilling statement yesterday Joseph placed his trust in human beings in flesh and bloody don't forget me don't forget me said it twice my name is a double language Yosef was not remembered by the Sarah mashim he was forgotten so there's a deep there's a deep rut that a person gets into when they trust in human beings and Trust in Hashem his whole life is transformed okay so that's Point number three let's see together Point number four Israel when the Jewish people heard about the idea of niggaim which is the fact that there are physical ailments that come upon a person who speaks lushanhara speaks gossip about others who has egotistical Behavior and I'll add something to this as we read it besides for that you see oh when they heard about the punishment when they heard about Saras these this this spiritual leprosy that comes upon a human being if they speak negatively about others if they act egotistically so they were afraid what's going to be what's going to happen to me says the people of Israel alticiaru do not fear foreign these punishments come upon idolaters I have a secret for you the Jewish people the people of Israel all you have to do is eat and drink and be merry why is who is the one who has these pains who is oppressed says in Taylor chapter 32 verse 10. it's the wicked person it's the one who does not place his faith in Hashem when you have been talking in Hashem we've spoken about this before but we so I believe in the basalavi all of the problems come you know why do we speak negatively of other people why do we Act egotistically because we're trying to grab something that we think belongs to us but when a person has been talking he knows everything that I have is exactly what I am meant to have if I have success if I have Fame if I have wisdom all of the things that I see that someone else has if I don't have those things or I feel like I don't have those things that's because Hashem does not want me to have those things the person who doesn't have be talking a person who doesn't have the proper Outlook and recognition that every single thing that a person has is exactly ordained on him by Hashem right that's that's what's going on here what's this Joy what's this incredible joy that as we go into circus we're so joyful we're so excited because we recognize that everything that we have is exactly what we're supposed to have everything that comes to us is because it was decreed on Rosh Hashanah on Yom Kippur and that's exactly what we're supposed to have exactly where we're supposed to be is where we are when you have that recognition I don't need to Lord over others I don't need to speak negatively of others I don't need to to knock the other person down not to feel better myself oh that guy this that guy that it's not necessary you don't need to be afraid the one who doesn't have to be talking wasn't the one who doesn't have the secret of faith and Hashem and recognition that everything that we have is exactly what we're meant to have doesn't have that relationship with Hashem so that person is in Russia we call him a wicked person why because he doesn't have that connection so he's always trying to grab he's always trying to say something negative the wicked person who doesn't have a connection to Hashem he's the one who's going to end up with the negoem until he wakes up until he wakes up and recognizes hey there's nothing to say about anybody else there's no negativity in the world there's nothing that anyone can grab of mine that that belongs to me that someone else could take away from me exactly what I have is exactly what I meant to have exactly what he have has is exactly what he's supposed to have if I have that besides the fact that I live a more happy life a positive life I live in hashem's space there's no Macho even there's no pain the pains are different the Pain's different if I have pain I recognize this is also from Hashem if I have challenges and difficulties the bottom line of it is foreign be happy eat drink rejoice what a wonderful life we have we're so lucky we're so blessed I don't appreciate the blessings when you trust in Hashem you start to look you realize you're surrounded completely by blessings every in every direction from every direction unbelievable okay last point for today we talk about foreign can entail them sorry this is a plus against the film I'm a Zion pair gimmel trust in Hashem and do good dwell on the land and Shepherd faith because I would switch around the post because trust in Hashem and do good and he said like this read it the opposite way do good and Trust in Hashem what is the idea rhinos this is comparable to a an agronomist and a grandma she says here is a person who is like an officer who walks through the shook he walks through the market and he checks to make sure that all of the all of those who are selling in the market the weights that they're using are accurate so that no one gets ripped off this guy comes out the officer comes out he's checking through all of the weights of the different vendors in the shook in the market there was you saw there was a guy who's like trying to hide why are you hiding said the officer just make your make your weights and measures accurate you don't have anything to be afraid of so too said the madrish and this is an important Point here because we've spoken about this before we've spoken about the fact that even in Russia even someone who's not doing hashem's will as the ability to have faith in Hashem but here's another point and that is this is an essential point this is such an important one there are many vehicles and ways to get to be talking we actually just spoke about in an arbor talking group we're discussing why is it that it seems like we're talking you know when you're in you're you're in a quandary you're stuck in a corner you cannot be talking then and Hashem saves you helps you can I be talking without the pressure is it possible so the answer is that be talking there's a certain feeling it's a certain lack of egotism I would say right we saw on the last piece egotism is the opposite of you talking but there are other paths into this feeling of humility call it or of perhaps spiritual pressure the other paths into that feeling one of them is do what's right and you can trust in Hashem right like the guy comes in here and says hey are you are your are your weights and measures accurate are are you doing things right and the guy is hiding in the corner because he's always he's not doing things right start off doing things right you have nothing to fear right if we act in proper ways let's say a person has a challenge in a certain area I don't know jealousy of others we talked about it could be any area a person has a challenge on a certain area and he says Hashem you know I'm going to make a commitment to you I'm going to work on this area it's starting off a new year right we want to have something to work on I'm working on this area I'm going to do something challenging I'm going to say maybe a sugar with cavana a few times a day I'm going to say I'm going to say the first Brock whatever so you can pick a lot of this lots of things that we can work on that should be a source should be a merit I don't have to fear other things I don't have to be afraid perhaps that my flight will be on time then I will make my flight in time at the connecting flight I won't miss my connecting flight if we smoke about some time back Sean I'm making I'm making I don't want to say making a deal with you Hashem because who says that I sham is beholden to my deal but I'm I'm making a commitment to you and I ask you Hashem to to respond in kind and show and you are here with me because I'm committed to you I'm doing something hard I say Tafe Hashem says the magic we cannot be talking we can get into that space perhaps in other ways but this is a key a ticket inside into the world of be talking be scrupulous in a mitsu pick a mitsu to be so careful about extra careful about and see how could the shmoku responds to our commitment see how the commitment to us and our needs and the flow of goodness and the blessings in our life in our lives occurs because we've committed in that way thanks so much for listening see you again next time