Bitachon 15 - Too Much Effort

you're listening to the fifteenth we talk on podcast and before I get back into the safe air I would like to make a plug for the Vita home groups that meet one group right now that's meeting we had a second group that was meeting for a while want to get that back on track we cannot learn we talk on the same way listening to a shear as when we work on it as a group the altar of Navarre Tech speaks at length about the power of a group the Hibou raha Goya he calls it when you have a group of people even though we all live in in different situations socially good people around us for Hashem good Jewish communities but there's a difference between living amongst people who are living the ideals of be talkin of Tristana kodesh Umberto who are believing that coach Moore who is with us at every step seeking out his help seeking out his guidance as opposed to just living amongst people who are not even thinking about it and so it's so essential and important to involve ourselves with a group that's focused on speaking about working on beat often right now the women's group meets on Tuesday evenings and there's between at least three if not four or five six consistent people who are coming so I encourage you to reach out either to my email Ari Gold wag at Gina comm or the betta home group at gmail.com we'll be talking together I believe is also one of the emails of the betta home group and Gmail calm but there's just a mad I mean you can't compare working on it by ourselves as working out on it as a group so what I encourage everybody to to get it together with the men's group so we had it going for a while we had at least two people coming consistently kind of dwindled down we had sometimes three four five but I encourage you to reach out to me our ego lega gmail.com to get involved in the be talking group and let's get it back up and running so that we can work on this together listening to a shear is good it's significant it's important it's essential helps us think about it helps us be aware of it working on it together as a group is a completely different place different space I felt it when we had that group going and I would like it to start up again now I'd like to get back in here we had we had taken a little bit of a break from the actual chapter would be talking and we had spoken about the concept of manuka serenity etc so now I want to get back in here he's talking about notice a facade that he talked about the harem and the Talmud the person who thinks he's already wise the way that he does things everything is already you know what I do is already good alright that's the Hotham but the Thomas Holcomb knows that the ways that he's going may or may not be correct and sometimes he'll make a mistake and I learned from his mistakes right so he's talking about the fact that yo savate Sadiq he said it twice he said remember me don't forget me so the first time it was a mistake the second time already he reinforced the mistaken became a way of going and for that reason you know safe at Sadiq lost his level of beat up and lost his connection to Akash Miroku and ended up in jail for another two years now we see it as a punishment but the truth is that it's just it's kind of a natural repercussions a natural and natural consequence of the fact that his baton was lacking and I could have swore who the only way that he would be able to get out of there was would be with full faith in Hashem full be taught him that that very deep in high level so he continues became the holy son Shakti mataira lo you on your mom and bad smite you know let's go let's go back to beginning of this paragraph but soon Navin I had a lock out on being Kim's a car Tania Lovato vanished a poem we can understand the big difference between saying it one time versus two times keep his heart Ani I reached in here I hate all Derrick Micra the first time you said it so it was it was a mistake him a massager it goes so high so avoid it means sweet talk and he really had a very high level of be talking question see no Rachel aha aha ahaaa schemata Erin Nell had a sign on right when it came to going to find his brothers he knew that they were ready to kill him parish Rosh Hashanah Marshall Ayres from all of Roberts an argon when he approached this man who knew his brothers warmer and he has somewhere where are they and he said they've gone to sign on so Rashi tells us that he made them all he made it yosef aware the fact that they were looking to kill him because it's Hollow column nevertheless he went to them miserable trying to cause a panic over sure you know I tell son has ABI never but he was very strong in his trust in a college bar who he's trusting God that nobody can caused him damage nothing can happen against God's will well abruzzo very everything is in the control of a Shem the Creator but him Liepaja clock a whole lot Helene therefore he wasn't afraid at all and he went to them they came holy son Shakti material how your mind bad swing when it came to any challenge of fulfilling the Torah he didn't trust in himself a lot Asaf commits a satire he did whatever the Tyrus said very clearly very specifically when she automates asia's pretty fair to vat Oliveira displace a big boy like he did when the wife of Potiphar tried to get him to sin with her she grabbed his clothing me at Vienna say it's a hoot see right immediately he ran outside but like butter how cut like him I've been his son he didn't he didn't trust himself that like you know he could stay inside and he wouldn't give in to her temptations and I borrow Masha Maharaja he he did a powerful act to run out of that place she had taken off his clothes so it was an embarrassing moment for him obviously but he did it anyway because he felt that that was only way to get away from her he showed that he was interested in action when it came to the Torah wants okay neither she yo shav asana basis sire so therefore after he was there he resided in the jail for ten years so boy I love his dominance Kasia bellavia's dumbest when the opportunity arose oh hey league on Cain Layla Nutella Todd his dumb no see he should not have lost the opportunity when he had an opportunity Kela yo-yo like Klum bill T richest a beret the opportunity here wasn't an opportunity to ask the guy to get him out the opportunity here was to completely trust that Coolidge for who's going to do it for him because share your subordinate circle his dominance as ice and when Hashem wants so he's not gonna miss out the chance so I had sarcolemma so the reddish Douglass's ice he should have run away from this effort you shouldn't have put in any efforts here okay it's very interesting because the altar is explaining us according to his sheet according to his understanding that when a person puts an inch toddlers when a person puts in efforts in order to get a spiritual attainment or a physical attainment whatever it is so it takes away from his belief on a coalition who takes away from his faith that Akhilesh work who is going to do it for him as we mentioned and as the altar brings down even the sheet of the harvest olive of us even according to the opinion of the heavy syllabic who holds that we are supposed to do if that was supposed to put in efforts not supposed to depend on an ace on a miracle but the heavy saliva is according to his opinion it's still absolutely true and necessary that we completely believe that the results have nothing to do with us that the efforts that we have put in are incidental it's for a side reason that we have to put in efforts but the the efforts themselves do not produce the results so kodesh poor who is doing it right but the author himself holds that no putting in any effort is is going to detract from my faith in a collage for who the spiritual subservience I have to Akhilesh miroku the surrender that I surrendered to Hashem knowing that he's going to take care of me that is the spiritual power that I have to get the things that I need because I could who wants to give it to me when I completely trust in him that that can be lost when were either estados the names comes out sugar on Rakim is a car Tania via scart Ani that when Yosef at Sadiq said remember me remember me I hate God I would be talking was a tremendous sin in his be talkin interesting uses word sin where hey it also means missing the mark right he was headed in a certain direction with his be talking he was on a straight path and he veered off he lost it the Shaheed shell Kim's the car Tanya recién and the sin of the first one the the the off the mark of the first time in keel a high-enough Khosla she asked arise the atomic Micra it could be he just said you know remember try to remember me and mention me to Paro so that's one thing if you just said it along the way it's because your armor Pam Cheney's second time he said it nice car Thani and you should remember me mention me bhai silly I forgot his dances Harvard Lakshmi min have has car Thani but miss reaction killing the hits of sushi as do I say right he didn't need to mention in a second time he should have not mentioned in the second time and show that the first time was just happenstance that wasn't the real thing but by imagining a second time he made a new path for himself he's obviously a haber there has come of a clot to shatter Kukoc there was a decision in the second statement which meant this is how I'm gonna go I'm going to go with her studless instead of completely trusting in a Kaddish for whole variety of operation Leo Marella Kim Jakarta Eagle VAD and the proof is that when I came to this the first time he just said remember me the like super like a lot / he didn't tell a whole story didn't mention a whole whole description of events of what had gone on how much a nice Iraqi gongoon aganetha made save him he went he went all out with his status he said I was stolen from the land of the Hebrews and it was unjust that was accused unjustly and it up here against you no it's not fair she kept a myrational use every derek maker didn't say that the first time because the first time it was just no in the conversational of a famish a nice community this year such else's eyes the second time so he had decided already to make this Dallas to make that effort he should inculcate Atlas and he completed his ish doubtless by mentioning the whole sob story the whole sad story of what had happened with name's Anna nosh for this reason he was punished and he was left in jail for another two years the youkali a shyness termination date on him and it has an amazing thing this is such an important idea that the punishment was for two reasons - issued certainly I smell it the first is that yosef at Sadiq is is going to be the king it's going to be the leader of the Jewish people the leader of the Egyptians well certainly is like Darth mr. Guevara a king a leader has to have a much higher path mushiya do I sure AM L of Turkey lushness retires we find then a king needs to have to severe taurus hospital one of them needs to be always next damn he has to keep it with him at all times but should surf yay so the crab it's Fila a king also has to bend more in his prayers initially sure is nassos because he has more of a highness he is our higher level he is above all the other people he is a leader in circle of shiftless such a person needs a deeper level of humility which causes a like I say just say I'm Elath came and shook our shoe ben azzai kiev that are say just say that once the king has begun his prayers once he boughs he boughs the entire time throughout the entire prayers as opposed to what we do we bow during Morgana run twice we bow my Tim at the beginning in the end he would bow the entire time to show his subservience to a college Markel his he's working on his ego and ok mr. Schock Elena might be Irish agriculture laissez once he passed the beginning he doesn't get up until he finishes his entire prayer Ciccone shoo gotta be a certain ela hash blossom yes sir whoever is greater has to be more on a deeper level of subservience turkish broccoli and certainly has paternity I saw Sean Missoula saying and therefore he has to have a deeper level of be talkin it's an amazing thing what is the idea of be talking according to what he's saying here he's saying that the idea of be talkin is I completely recognize that everything that I have is a coach for who I completely know that every single thing that I accomplished in the world could have spur who if I'm going to get out of this jail yes if it's a dick if he's gonna get out of the jail it's gonna be because Hashem decided that that's a certain level of humility that's absolutely necessary in order for me to become the king in order form to rise to that great level of his gnosis of leadership of being raised above other people has to be a certain not a certain a very high level of humility and so that's also true for each and every one of us you know to the degree that we have a leadership capacity whether it's a small leadership is around our families our children our wives spouses whether it's amongst other people in our community probably still at large whatever our position to the degree that we are miss na say we are higher than others in the hierarchy so we have to have a deeper level of humility and one of the ways again this humility is the author is saying is to be toughen be talking says it's not me it's not me it's not me but I'd says the after another thing McNish modulus amico my segovia a baby talking you must have at a very high level will be talking previously okay and Robert has see the fish more about Akashi Lahav semi-matte Ragosa Shamu is doing him a favor in a certain sense because that Kabul did not want him to lose his level of betoken he wasn't very high and deep level of trust in Hashem now he's trusting in this person very trusting in the Sara mask him you're gonna fall from your level to be talking I want you to remain attached to me a customer who we sing to Yosef Lulu know how your master initial station am but out of hate if you wouldn't if he would have come out there right away and you want to stay in jail for another two years enjoy you tell you black sharkish not loose say oh you know he could have fought he could have made a mistake to think that his efforts had helped him and then he would wrap roses shell Kim Sahar tiny Brown shades me miss assume it was that request indeed that allowed him to get out hurry nikolay dara mcconnell abortion rubbish salvarsan gotta martinez kim's a cart Sonny he would have come to a new understanding of the way to go in the world he would have thought that you need to put in extra efforts because look it worked that's what I did that's what it affected the the result that I was looking for okay so it's very important it was important for a Yusef exotic in order to remain his exalted level of connection to others produce observance to a customer who surrendered to a sham be talk on trust and faith on Kotaku that he not come out in order that he maintained that high level thanks for listening