The Pain of Rejection and Success

So either you 8% 92% of people cannot handle personal rejection. So you either born some people are just born with a natural um comfort level of being rejected where they really don't care what other people think. But those people are very rare. I would say 2 3% of people. Wow. The rest of the the the other five six% of people who become successful it's not because they don't it doesn't matter to them. It it hurts them a lot the personal rejection. But the reason why they want to be successful is stronger than the pain of being rejected. Every time when a person is struggling with something, let's say somebody wants to quit smoking, okay, or vaping, they have two things. One thing is the enjoyment, the short-term pleasure of vaping or giving into the addiction where you feel you need something and you want to give into it. On the other side, you have the knowledge smoking is very bad for you and it's going to affect your health in in the long run, which he can't he can't see so far. Correct. Now, if you if you're able to make that being healthy, like for example, my grandfather used to smoke a lot still from the from the war. He was a Holocaust survivor. He used to smoke a lot. When he was 65, he went to his doctor, his primary care doctor told them, "If you want to dance at your grandkids weddings, you have to stop right now." And that was a valuable. He walked out and he never took another cigarette.