Self-Care vs Helping Others

If you're a mess because you're running around all day helping everybody, not having a normal family life, not having a normal business, not having money, it's very little you can do to help. If you're successful and now you're going and talking to people and saying, "Okay, here is what you can do to be successful. I can lend you money. I can help you open a business." You have a lot more capabilities of helping. So, you want to always focus on yourself and remember that Hashem runs the world. You don't have to take care of everything.