Are You Ready For Elul ? - Rabbi Simcha Bunim Cohen

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You're not on vacation. you're talking to lawyers, you know, it's an answer coming to the and but if you looked at the sadikim from the previous generation, the question is what happened in America that is not such a serious time. They wanted to convince there was a he used to live in America. He was a rebears ago before my time. Then he became that's so they nudged him at when he was in the 80s turning 90 go away a little bit of on vacation take a break and they told him takes a break was was a big maj was a one from the maj says you think of is going to to to rest up. He's preparing himself for and then after his tal came and said went on vacation in the summertime in order to work through what he's going to do in he didn't want to be disturbed with anybody was one of the biggest he writes and you're told when I was growing up in Vienna in Austria of he says when I was growing up when you told the from you told them that we're now in either they started to cry or a face changed like a white face like you know a serious face the writes before before World War Who? They went to work. They stayed without eating was to perfect themselves that we don't have this no more. So we can't change it but we got to make a as long as we're talking about today is already something you know we're not going to be afraid not changing if Levenstein used to say there's two days this last day in and then he says if the first day ofishes is not already then you could kiss the month goodbye Doesn't mean you should give up hope, but you got to start off with a bren. And what did the do he made a big he made that the summer comes out. So it's very hard to get the bren when you you know when you're relaxing. We're not asking a person should get you know but a person has to has to ask himself what am I going to work on this? Does anybody have a plan for yet? What am I going to do this? I lived another year, almost a year will be 11 months a gift from And most of you sitting over here weren't in the hospital a whole year, right? You didn't break a bone. You didn't fall. You had food. You had air conditioning. You had a bathroom in your house. You didn't have to go to an outhouse. Remember those times? I don't remember it, but my father does. He did. He's not living no more. You know what I mean? My father was born in America and he went to Europe when he was 11 years old cuz his sisters went off to fry. He went to a place semi high. There wasn't one paved road. There wasn't electricity at night in the house in the streets and you had to go to an outhouse. It took him six months to get used to it. And in the winter it was cold. He says you had to go to a lantern in the outhouse. And this is a boy what knew what a bees was if you don't know about it. And we don't have to do this. Do you ever ask a question to yourself? Why is Hashem so kind to this generation? We have air conditioning. You know how hot was the summer was in Lakewood? It was very hot. I don't know about Brooklyn, but also was very hot. But you went into an air conditioned room. You have cold water all over. So the Aisha was kind to us 11 months and now you ask a person, you stop him in the street. So what's your plans for? Uh he didn't think about it. So if you could get just in this is to think about it to talk about it then you're already already on a on on a mahal of something if you don't want to be is the whole thing and you're just busy that's not the real preparation so I can't make a fright for I'm not capable I'm trying to do it to myself and I'm having difficulties but as long as used to say he says when it came to the mikdas we had A few weeks ago we were mourning the mikd says you have to tell the that I feel bad that I don't feel bad this famous words he used to say the likes when you're honest with him you got to tell the listen we're living in America there's no pocket from the once came into the with a k with a k they ask is everything okay with you he says I don't see no p of I want to walk around with a k to remind you something so We're not going to change it. But if we could think about it and come up with a plan how we're going to find favor I want to give you a simple thing but doesn't take too much effort and you can do it easy. Buy yourself a pad. Don't write it on your smartphone and your cell phone. Leave that out. This is a dodg. Buy yourself a pad and write down every day two things what you thank Hashem for in the previous year. Thank Hashem that your glasses didn't break, right? Thank Hashem you didn't fall off your bed. Thank Hashem for this and and you'll see how much you owe and you'll become you'll become humble to and that's easy thing you could do. It's not the person too much used to say used to say that is a time to get busy thanking and he used to say once called him up I said you have an for me I want to live another year so he said you say it in davening every day I was quiet said you don't know so I said no I don't know he says you say it every day in dining where do you say it says You say what are you going to gain if I go on the ground to praise you? So you see if you want to live a life you have to praise we have to know that learning is also a way of praising but not always could you learn sometimes you have to work and while you're working you have to thank that you could work you have a job whatever it is so I think that's a a a m of a plan how we could come to this how we could use this for if you have a different mahal is of other good but if you don't have then follow this program of thanking and that's what Rab Miller said somebody called him up called him up and asked him I want to live another year she says you know what you should do onash when you're walking home from shul smile put a smile on your face and the guy asked him are you for real he says if you walk around with a smile then you're proclaiming that is is a is a walking around with a smile. But if you walk around like like with a sad face that you're complaining about a if you if it was a hot day and you complained in front of Rabbi Millet that it's a hot day. If you said the word nasty day, you got it. What do you mean it's nasty? Doesn't do anything nasty. If it rained, he went excited with you know somebody I don't know since he was nif anybody gets excited over rain. You see it's raining outside you start clapping your hands. My mother-in-law tells me when she was a kid, she was growing up in her father's house, when it was rain, he used to pot, she used to dance. She asked him, "Papa, what's going on? Raining 70% of you is full of water. It's the biggest gift greater." Now, you have to understand the but that's what the Gmorra says. So, rain is thing. So, people complain. Oh, it's so hot. Who do you think made it hot? How kuresh made it hot? Why they didn't make it hot for I don't know ask him when you get up after 120 say you want to have an audience with but people complain when it's hot the average person in Flatbush in Lakewood Morap and Willie hot okay now we want to say something else what you should do in you ready for this it says is something what nobody does either. Now you have to know when something is so important the haram my good friend puts a damp on it and we don't do it. It says in let's read it rashi together. Why did the Tyra put Miriam when Miriam spoke against Moenu next to the she spoke against they didn't take m so we see from over here that you got to learn mus Right. They saw but they didn't take M. Now let me quote you a little bit from some to know how how it is how important it is to learn Musulapian. You all heard of him Lapian. He was a big majik. He was in the end of his the year towards the end of his life. Me learning said, "Right said that if you don't learn and he praised the certain yeshiva Everybody opened up learn so when he said no basically said no said a place where I learn mus I feel you know on the east side the old men used to it's not no bimson no more you don't remember those days the old men used to the east side they used to offer you a little tab in the morning that also died outmec they did it you remember that you you remember that no not in Lakewood I never saw anybody walking around with ameck thing often what in they have it still okay but said if you don't learn mus even ameck is not worth the yeshiva now could I ask you a personal question you don't have to answer me that did everybody anybody learn mus today does anybody have a say how we're going to come to the next world after 120 beautiful but where's the most Now the you heard of the Mr. Bur brings him down a thousand times. I want to read you the writes. You got to learn forum of it's a big than all you're learning. Even if it will become nullified if you're going to learn mus you're not going to be able to learn. You got to learn the mus what is from you to be afraid of him. Now, we're living in a society that we don't have we're not afraid of nobody. When I was growing up, that's about 100 years ago. I was afraid of my father. Not that he beat me up ever. Maybe a few times I got a patch, but I was afraid. I was afraid. Today, there's no afraid. The fathers tell me they're afraid of the kids today already. That's gonna be an of the I told him you can't argue with it's gonna say can't argue with is not going to be found and it's going to be other which I don't want to say openly but all the we have we see already says and he writes in you want to hear what I'm ask you my children We wrote in his will you shouldn't hold yourself back one page that goes before I went to my uncle the m I said you belong to that right before each they should learn the should learn five 10 minutes m he says you're very right but I it's not going to happen. I asked my uncle because the is not going to let because it's so important our greatgrandfather every day before the learned did it I want to read you heard of the nas was in the time of one of the biggest we had listen what he writes in this is the last will what they're writing the will you know the will you go to the law you write a will I'm warning And our hearts became like stone and if you learn m it will soften your heart and pass like that in simmon olives. says and writes we know that so we have two we have a two two parts to our program we're going to thank we're going to write down two things so we're going to have to think don't ask AI what you should thank our auding to tomorrow night. That's Wednesday night. Uh show you this is Thursday, Thursday, Friday. Shabas don't write you write much of Shabas and also join the program. And the second program is there's no excuse not to learn Muslim just like without art scroll nobody would learn to have the shar in English from Rabbi Miller and art scroll has Rabbi Miller has many already in English beautiful there's so many now don't tell me that you listen to these speakers today and this one that's very good but it doesn't come to the shore The shash was written every word the said if he would have been in the times of he would have walked just to have one word from the shash. So start tomorrow night and you'll see what the mash teaches you and you'll climb the ladder slowly but slowly even if it doesn't make it then this alone that that you're learning mus I want to tell you something the say as follows. If there's justice done down here, then the looks away. That's what happened with Pinas. Pinas went and did what he had to do when Zimi and this s now it saved the whole one person saved the whole Mafa. Why did one person save the whole? Because the cloud is says if you learn you're going to live because you're doomed on yourself. You're looking into your actions. When you learn you don't look think about think about yourself. So now you have a guarantee that you I can't there's no guarantees that you live another year because you're doomed in on yourself when you learn m you figure when you start reading the words of the person came down to this world for the next world I want to tell you a story what happened with me and Rabbi Miller my wife's grandfather is he had a in lakewood's son-in-law had a boy and they wanted me to convince Rabbi Miller to come to Lakewood. He was born in America. He was never in Lakewood. So I came I went down to Flatbush. I had to ask him something anyway. Whenever I had an opportunity to go to him, I went to him. I wanted to speak to him. So he says to me, "They want you to be cobb." He says, "Aren't you a Coen?" I said, "Yeah, but they didn't ask me. They're asking you." So then he says to me, so I said, "You'll speak in bismaya." She says, "That's the last thing I want to do." I said, "You'll see you'll see you'll see the in Lakewood Lakewood was quarter the size those days." He says, "Could you promise me more oil if I stop doing what I'm doing? I come to Lakewood." So I said, "I don't I don't own I don't own Haba to promise you more or less." He says, "Then don't give me any advice." That means every time Rabbi Miller did something with Mik what the mashim said came down to this world only to get to the next world and he was maka never came to like never made it there believed to 92 and a half now I'm not saying you shouldn't go there but him and his and his didn't have time to do it that's what the teaches us and you say it to yourself a thousand times you're walking and the street shabas there's no there's no cell as of now there's no shab cell phone yet they're going to make it soon and there going to be an argument between the watch it another 20 years they're going to come out I don't even know 20 years right you have people ask me why am I so against cell phone I'm not against cell phones personally because but doesn't let you think in the street you're walking in the street you could think you can look up at the sky people tell me they went Switzerland or they went to Morocco. They saw something valdic. So I was in Campura this week. So I took out the boys. I said, "I want to show you something. You know how old this thing is? It's 5,786 years old." They were looking at me. Yeah. Let me see it. Look at the moon. It's 5,000. Say, "Why do you have to go to Switzerland or Morocco to see something old? I could show you the moon, the sun." So when you're walking in the street and you look up and you see the sun shining, who made the sun, how does the sun go in and out, it's all hashem. But when you're on the phone, you can't think. And that's what it accomplished that we lost a thinking process. And that's what AI is going to do eventually. What does a person have over an animal? His thinking process. If you're going to stop thinking then what do we have then of now once we're on this already I want to explain you why the made I want to read you from a cyer the is called living with haba the makaba is a young man in lake with rabbi he so I they gave me the safer somebody gave Give it to me now. What's the big what's the pushes the man's? What's the biggest ta for a person? Not talking about food. What's the biggest ty what a person has? Tell me what does the masham say is the biggest ta what pushes the man's heart more than any other thing in the world. Five. covered. I was once speaking to a guy he tells me he does everything. After 15 minutes, I convinced him everything what he does is for cover. And at the end, he agreed to me. I'm a I like cover. So I could now listen what he says over here. People love cover. I'm quoting you from Rabbi Miller brought down in this cyer. I heard this from Rabbi Mill myself from the standpoint of cold logic. This is a completely irrational desire because it seems counterproductive. Every living creature is imbued by the creator with certain instinctive urges to eat, seek shelter that are necessary for the preservation of the individual. Every instinct serves a beneficial purpose. You're hungry. The made it you should become hungry because you got to eat. made if you don't eat you'll die. Why? That's a whole subject in itself. What do you have to eat for? You ever ask that question to your Rebi or the Rav? Why did they make you have to eat for? What's the answer to that? $5,000 cash. >> Humble you. >> What? >> Humble you. >> Humble you. But eating doesn't humble you. The Bakisa humbles you. Mill used to say, "Every time you leave the Bakis, it's a lesson in Anova." People don't think like that. If you would listen to Rab Miller, you'd have treasures in your mind. It's a sh. It's a pity. So why have to make you eat? That's a separate question. I could tell you from will blow your minds off. You might roll to Morocco and back tonight still. I'm going to tell you the shot in a few minutes. But but co is not necessary for a person's survival nor does it provide any tangible benefit. It has no taste. It's not nourishing and cannot be deposited in their bank account. I tell the guys in I give a shab hundreds of people come while I'm walking down from the beam I'm an empty already. What happened to the cover? You can't save it. You can't say I got covered yesterday, today's another day. It's never fulfilling. Ask anybody. It's now he says of it has no taste. It's not nourishing. Right? And it can't be deposited in the bank account. Yet everyone craves it. Often this need for approval even works that person. It works against them. Countless people are consumed by the efforts to win public admiration even engaging in a reckless behavior to attain it. Now he says like I just said and you never get fooled from it. Why did make it for? You know why made it for? You ready for the answer? But this I heard from Rabb Miller personally. He says, "Why do we have such a powerful insatiable drive for something unrelated to our needs?" So, Rab Miller says, "It's vital for man's existence. Cover is a mush that you want to get the real cover in the world of truth." So, made that you should have a desire for cover to remind you that you want the real cover for that when you come up after 120 all the should greet you and I told you according to you say you come into let's say would walk in what are you supposed to think you're in the stand and nobody's looking at you if you behave and you doem's when you come to the next world you'll get the in this world it's nothing made it such a ty You're never full from it because you never get full from the tin. So this is what do we do with this? We get bent out of shape. This one's waiting for and this one didn't desire didn't get the picture and this one all the nonsense. Everybody's bent out of shape today. All because of the desire for cover. And the whole cover was made only that we should want the real cover. So maybe did us a favor. You got it. Now I want to say on the same thing I want to tell you people don't notice. If people would notice then most of the we have would go to wayside there's a whole but they were a masterpiece of a masterpiece. Rab Miller once said a certain statement by Malav Mal by the last one of his life. He says something that to say your own ashkaf you have to know this you have to know this. I'm not going to get into that. So I asked him who you leaving us with that's why there's a printing press that we're not going to have these great people. So that's why made a printing press. So we have the we have the we have the we have the we have the we have all types of came and he wrote it and they were for him now he says as follows and he's at length great length in this people we all do sins not you but I'll give you a m how many sins But I'm going talk about myself a little bit now. Not for co. You get up in the morning, you wash my you wash. That's what we're supposed to do. We're supposed to wash, you know, three times in each hand. Some people put it next to the bed. Some people wait till they get to the kitchen. Whatever it is. Now, why do we need a cle for a utensil? When you wash, then you don't need a you can wash it from the sink. But when you get up in the morning, you have to have a cup. That's the den says the rajba. That's to remind us just like the before he did the void he had to wash from a he had to wash with a we're reminding ourselves that we're when we get up in the morning we are self-esteem the whole world is looking for self-esteem today you are a god you didn't do that today you did a sin you had a glorious opportunity made the uh Uh they used to make you how happy we have to be. You belong to the Jewish nation. We're the best people in the world. We're aristocrats. Nobody like us. Anybody like a Jew? I want to tell you what happened to M. I have a friend who works in a hospital somewhere not in Lakewood, somewhere else. He's leaving his work one day and Mary the head nurse, an African-American, a very nice lady. She tells him, "I got to tell you something. You know how lucky you are?" She says, "Mary, what happened?" I'm an Orthodox Christian. I read the Bible every day. There's a verse in it says, "God chose you people as his people." He loves blacks, too, but he chose you. Now, she doesn't know. She says, "You guys have those sat ladies know with the hats, they come in, they bring you a hot soup. We don't have that. You guys have a salah. We got to wait for an ambulance sometime 45 minutes and we most of the times dead when they come. You ever thank God that he made you Jew? It's a telling a Jew. You say the go a Jew is never left alone. Ever get excited that the chose you from the 16 million Jews in the whole world against 8 billion non-Jews? Go Google for me. Go take your smartphone and say, "What's the percentage that you'll be born a Jew?" Nothing. And you're one of them. You ever get excited over that? You're never alone. A Jew is never alone. Organizations upon organizations. What we do for people. You have a flat tire. You don't have to wait for a four hours on the side of road. They come right away. You got to do chew on that too that you didn't appreciate. I once ate by a mill Friday night. I'll tell you my mister what happened. He asked me after the fish. What do you think when you ate fish? I told him that the rabbit knows how to cook very well. He says that's that's true. But you missed a big lesson. It's a lesson for life. You owe me now a million dollars cash. You can pay it in installments, but I want it in cash cuz I'm going to tell you something which you never heard and you're not going to hear it again cuz I'm not I'm not coming back. I hope Mashia comes and next year who knows what's going to be. He said the Tyrus says you have to eat kosher fish. It has to have fins and scales. Why? Because your kesh your special every time you eat a piece of fish and you eat kosher chicken, you can't eat some ham. me I have to eat kosher is to remind you that you're an aristocrat you ever think of that he tells me I said no good thing you came that's a lesson that everybody could do you don't have to be a with deep for that it's a simple talk you could digest this I want another thing when I ate there Friday night he says you saw everybody uses youn Yeah, they use Peter bread, but they use two you need two Friday night. What do you need two for to remind you about the month? So, Rabbi Miller looked at the kalas before he made k shook his head. So, somebody asked him, "What's the doing now?" I'mazic myself from the everything was a li. Soon says people get bent out of shape when somebody tells them a harsh word. You know people get insulted. Human nature. You tell me you tell me after my was lousy wouldn't bother me already today. Maybe other things will still bother me. Why not? Because says brings down from the You want to hear this? He springs down his fellows. We want to do we want to have to wipe away is to tolerate when somebody embarrasses you. This is the malus. You know I'm old they used to give malus when we had a bezik and some still have them in that the shamas from the shul used to give the markus zman used to get marus we don't do this so much today but when you get embarrassed and you keep quiet your wife tells you you're such a schlamazle I sent you to to to buy two kalas and you came home and you and you smoozed in the street and the time you came to the store was closed now we have to eat matzah from last year pes and you got insulted He said you keep quiet you brat. I support you. So he lost out an opportunity from whom is from all you fasted a thousand days. Tolerating when somebody embarrasses you is worth more than all that. Put your mind to it. theapisha tells you my friend I want to give you want to lose all your money or you want your house to be burned down I don't want that child to die you want to get sick fever you want die. How you going to be and rectify what you were paging by doing a sin? What's the solution? When somebody embarrasses you should be considered you like he went to a restaurant and you ate steak. You ever heard this yet once in your life? I tell this to the therapist always. This is pages about that. And another thing he says, so you want to do now don't look for it. Don't I'm not going to go embarrass you now. Say I'm doing you. A guy told me know what he's going to do. Every time his wife is embarrasses him, he's going to say you're my caporus. I said that's going to make bias problems. You got to keep quiet and accept it. Say you're right. You're right. You're right. You're right. And then you get kaporus. Uh Ruff told me a story. He was invited to speak somewhere and five minutes before the speak they canceled his dr. They said you can't come. He was ice. He came to he said asked me what he should do. I said first I want to give you a list of be for all these and then I said to him you got kaporus. He says what do you mean I got kapar? I read him this over here. He he enlightened into so much like so that's another way of doing chuva tung chuv is now we're not looking for embarrassment but it comes our way no matter what can't help it you're supposed to speak but I see and they took it away from you I'm embarrassed you hurt it's human nature it's works wonders and and you get kapora I want to tell you over something for Feinstein. A frightening thing what he said. He said this in Europe in Adrashia. He says, "How come sadikim are always happy? They have difficult life sometimes and they're so happy." Sadikim have difficult a lot of sadikim had no children was son. They had three daughters. They all died in his lifetime had one daughter. She died when she was 17 and never had any children and so on and so forth. Had no children. Sadik closen lost his 11 children. Then he remarried had seven children. Three never had children. Difficult lives and they still walk around. Watch the writes in the letter that all my days I'm full of pain. I have no timing in this world. The only tiny is when I do mitzvah and I do and I help out people. So says like this sadikim know that when you do a sin it's terrible mainly when he goes to sleep he doesn't he thinks he doesn't deserve to get up because he did a sin so he deserves a punishment that's the way sadic thinks I did a sin so if I did a sin I don't deserve to live so when he gets up in the morning he's so exhilarated what happened is because of his he wasn't supposed to live that's writing you hear and sad goes to sleep at night. He knows he did something wrong and he gets up in the morning. He doesn't know what to do with happiness. I should have been dead. They should have carried should have made a tire on me in the morning and they didn't happen to me. Zak is the happiest person. And that's the only way you could be happy. I want to tell you something else. You vital limbs, but you can't live without are inside. You can't live without a heart. You can't live out without a liver. You can't live without kidneys. You could go on diialysis for a certain amount of time. You can live without hands, can live without feet. You can live without seeing, you can live without hearing. Why did the make that your vital limbs are inside you? This is a what I said. Dish is teaching us happiness has to come from within. If it's going to come from outside things, you're never going to be happy. So you're going to go here and you're going to go here and you're going to go here and then you're going to go here. You go here. You're going to run after your tail and you're going to see somebody goes here, go here. You want to go also if you're not going to be happy from inside. said how could you be happy you could serve what bigger happiness could you have I know that every time I pushed out to the Misha's chair by doning in the house I felt like a million dollars I was masha Feinston I took office kapat I put him on his house called I could serve a kuresh shouldn't that be a treat you only could do it on this world once you in the next world you can't do anything no more so we have to be so grateful that we can serve But it ain't going to happen if you don't learn. What does doem is out of gratitude for all what he does for us. As long as you're living, you could serve and the list goes on and on and on. So now we have a program. First thing is we're going to learn ma every day. Second thing was we're going to take out a pad and write down two things and a pad. Go to the store amazing saving and buy one a little pad you can put in your pocket over there. Don't tell me you wrote it on your phone. I don't want this on the phone. This is another This has to be a separate pad and every day two things. So you got to come up with 30 times two is 60. If you can't come up with 60 things, I got to give you a list from Rabbi Miller. He had a list. They printed it after Lisa said of all sicknesses what a person could have and he didn't have one of them. When you walked with him you passed King's Highway is like a medical building. He would stop and read the sign. This I don't have. This I don't have. This I don't have. This I don't have. Oh, so I don't have cataracts. I don't have high blood pressure. The list goes on and on and on. Why doesn't that make us happy? because it doesn't make anybody else happy. We got to do what everybody else does. We desperately need the to happen. I have to tell you a cute story told me once that he hopes to live till Mashia. So I asked him, "Do you have a you have proof?" So he smiled and he says, "Yeah." He says, "How many people do you know in this generation. What gets right at the day they get the sh I said I only know one should protect you. You should be healthy. Your wife should be healthy. Your children, your whatever you have should be healthy. You should have your money. You should have your You got to now you shouldn't become now when you're young. You can't wait when you're 80. Then you might lose it already. Who dins for sanity when they're young? You have to know. I should stay well. I shouldn't get cancer. My family members shouldn't get cancer. My neighbors shouldn't get cancer. And then one last thing I want to give you another also a simple give encouraging words to people. You see somebody walk around with a I walk the shul a mile point too. Some people tell me good chabas and some people say good chabas. The goyam used to light list the light to wait for Feinstein to come into the building in the morning when he came home from MTJ from the shift because they got a good morning for Rabbi Feinstein with a smile. Rabbi Feinstein's legendary smile doesn't cost any money. Do you know that Rab Miller once said that the reason why he looks in the mirror is not to see how he looks. He knows how he looks. He wants to practice his smile how much he should lift from his cheek to the person's money. You don't even have to mean it. But it gives the person that's a and doesn't cost any money and you don't even have to mean it. Practice up your smile. big for the spiring. I'd give a big to the sponsors of tonight's share. Um, sorry, took the wrong paper. and Mr. Mrs. Ran Lily Nishmas have the great sponsoring or putting an ad in the journal. Call 7188518651 email.com 10:00