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Have you ever wondered why it is that
you were put here in this world? I mean
that everybody has a purpose. Everybody
has some reason why they're here. Now,
we have a collective purpose. There has
to be some type of purpose for humanity.
There's some purpose for the individual.
There's some purpose for me, but how do
I find my unique purpose? What am I
supposed to be contributing to the
world? I want to talk to you about
discovering yourself because I truly
believe that once a person finds their
purpose, they will live with purpose.
Let's talk about it.
What's up, everybody? Welcome back to
the Naseem Black Show. I am discussing
today one of my favorite
topics, I would say, which is finding
your purpose. A lot of people over the
years have told me there's no way to
really find out. You'll never know what
it is that Hashem really wants from you.
You just sort of have to figure it out.
Whatever you're doing at the time must
have what to do with your purpose. And
to some degree, there's some truth to
the fact that, you know, wherever I am
at that point in time could have a lot
to do with my purpose. That I will agree
to. But, if somebody's going to tell me
that there's no way that I'm going to
know, there's no way to know what it is
that Hashem put me here in this world.
I'm supposed to go through my life and
not know what my God-given mission is. I
mean, nobody's going to be able to sell
me like that. Nobody's going to be able
to sell me on it because when you look
inside of the Torah, everything is with
purpose. Everything that each movement
of everything that's going on inside of
God's word is showing us that everything
and every person has a purpose. And this
was done in this unique individual
in this particular story
was only brought through this situation
in order to have or to in order to bring
about that person's actual purpose. Case
in point, Joseph. Joseph at Sadiq or in
English a lot of circles refer to him as
Joseph the dreamer.
God revealed to him over and over again
in his dreams
a lot about his purpose, about who he
would be, what his mission in this world
was. He has a dream at one point that,
you know, the sun and the moon and the
stars are all and 12 stars are bowing
down to him, right? He's represented a
bit by his father Jacob who asked him,
"Should I my and my wife and and your
brother, we shall all bow down to you,
right?" Uh another at another time he
has another dream that his sheaf his his
wheat sheaf is there and all the other
12 sheaves bow down to him and he goes
off and he tells his brothers, you know,
there's many different commentaries that
talk about why and what and if that was
okay and whatever the case was, but I
don't want to discuss that. I want to
discuss what Joseph saw.
And Joseph saw his godliness. He saw his
greatness. He saw that he was something
special. He saw that he was going to be
in a position of leadership and for
whatever reason he saw those things very
early on and God allowed and slowly over
time I would say God allowed himself to
be revealed to Joseph in more and more
ways and ultimately his purpose in life
to him, what it is that he was here to
do. And we see Joseph make his way, uh
you know, from the pit and from the pit
being sold down into Egypt and once he's
down in Egypt, he ends up as a
slave in the house of Potiphar and there
he's you know,
you know, tried on fragile and charges
and then he finds himself in prison and
from prison he he interprets dreams,
right? So we see a connection between
him and dreams him and his connection
with him and dreams,
you know, later on leads him
to to being in front of of the Pharaoh
or power Pharaoh. I don't know I forgot
how you say say it in English even. Um
but he stands there before him.
And now
because Joseph or Joseph was a dreamer
and he had this gift, this God-given
gift of being able to interpret dreams,
which later on leads him to being the
viceroy of Egypt. And ultimately, the
whole entire world region, world is
saved because of Joseph. And not only
that, what he dreamt came into fruition.
His brothers came and they all bowed
down to him. Even his father bowed down
to him. So, we see that there is some
purpose to every single thing that
happens to a person. If you have a
dreams, don't just take them lightly. If
you remember the dream, you should
understand that God communicates through
dreams. Now, I would say a lot of times
we dream about whatever it is that we
thought that day, we thought whatever
came our way, just anything that passes
through our mind. You know, I can't say
just because we had a dream about it.
But we should understand that sometimes
there are significant dreams. There are
things that happen inside of our dreams
that we're not necessarily thinking
about, things that come from left field.
And not only do we dream about them, but
these dreams stay with us and they
linger. And there's many, many different
ways that God has of communicating with
us. I'm only using dreams as this
example right now because we're talking
about Joseph. But a person has to
understand that Hashem is communicating
with you all day long, all throughout
the day trying to push you on the path
of what your intended purpose
for you to be in this world, what you're
here to do. Now, one thing we know for
sure is that every single thing in this
world was created, God said, for the
sake of his glory.
So, that means that there whatever your
purpose is, whatever your unique gift
and talent or whatever your unique
mission is in this world, it definitely
is rooted in the fact that you were
created in order to glorify God's name.
I hear this a lot from, you know, new
emerging artists that they are trying to
always find, you know, which sound what
it is that they should do, you know,
what what type of marketing and they're
thinking about all these different
things, a lot of external things. And
one thing I ask people all the time, are
you ready to make music that is going to
glorify God? Is that it at the top of
your list, right? When a person goes
into a career path, whatever it may be,
whether it's something that may even
seem mundane to a person, does a person
walk into that place saying that I
ultimately I know that I'm here in order
to increase the kavod, the glory of God
in the world. And this is the reason why
I'm here. Ultimately, this is it.
So, one of the ways that a person will
find a purpose is through personal
prayer, through honest conversation with
Hashem. A person has to get to the
place, and we all have to get to the
place
where we say, "Master of the universe,
show me who I am meant to be." Having
honest conversation with God. Rebbe
Nachman of Breslov tells us that if a
person persists and sets a time, a
considerable amount of time with Hashem
every single day, you will not leave
this world without knowing what it is
that you were put here for. A person
will not leave here. I mean, secluding
oneself and engaging in conversation
with God will ultimately reveal to you
what your purpose is. This is the main
key, this God is the main address for
personifying.
So, if a person speaks to God in his own
words, it will bring clarity. It's going
to align you with the will of God
because you're constantly talking to
him. It's just like this, if you have
two friends that spend a lot of time
with each other, after a while you'll
notice that these two friends almost
become the same person. They laugh at
the the things,
Uh they they begin to enjoy the same
things, same type of music. Uh they may
use some of the same jokes over and over
again that so much so that if you have
one person that knows them that doesn't
know them together, but he knows them,
you know, exclusive from exclusive from
one another. And you see one person,
you'll say, "You know what? You really
remind me of this other person." And
then it isn't until afterwards the
person says the name and goes, "Oh,
that's Of course, that's my best
friend." And they said to them, "I could
tell you guys spend a lot of time with
each other." So, what happens with us is
that after we spend a lot of time with
Hashem, then we begin to mimic him. We
begin to reveal more of God's light into
the world because we're spending a lot
of time with him. And because we're
spending a lot of time with him,
ultimately, we are led into the treasure
house of God. And we're able to get in
and be able to find more and more, not
only about the workings of God, but
ultimately, what it is that our purpose
is here in this world. And so, this is
why engaging in real and deep and honest
conversation with God secluded away from
the rest of the world. And it's key that
your person listens to me when I tell
you this. You have to be away from other
people in the world when you engage in
this conversation. It is beyond uh
effective. It is beyond um
the greatest path and the greatest way
for you to actually be able to find your
purpose. So, what what a person will
have to do in order to do this is set
aside the time every single day
uh for daily real unfiltered
conversation with you and Hashem about
your struggles, about your desires, and
ultimately, your purpose. And it's okay
to ask God, "Please, Hashem, show me
what it is that I'm here for. God, why
did you put me here in this world? I
want to know what it is that I'm
supposed to be doing here with all this
time." I mean, think about it. A
person's allotted a certain amount of
time to be here in this world, right? Uh
if a person is not cognizant of what it
is that their purpose is, they can
ultimately spend a lot of time wasting
time.
And who wants to waste time? So, there's
one particular prayer that I pray to God
a lot of times when I'm secluded with
him.
And I say to him is that
you've already revealed cuz I've I've
gone down this path. You've already
revealed to me, God,
a lot of what my purpose is.
I'm able to see things in a very clear
way.
Please, what whatever new thing that you
bring my way, help me to be able to have
the discernment to be able to understand
or to be able to know of whether or not
this thing is aligned with my purpose.
And if it is not aligned with my
purpose, please save me from wasting any
time with it. Because anything that has
nothing to do with our purpose
ultimately will be
aiding in us wasting our time.
It will be taking us taking us away from
what our mission is in this world. And
one thing that we have to know more than
anything else,
what is even deeper, the deepest level
of purpose, right?
Will be not when a person understands
necessarily who they are, but it's
knowing whose you are.
Knowing who you belong to.
Who
who's giving you life.
This is what we're here to do.
Another thing that will help a person
find what their purpose is and
specifically and if you could do this in
your time of seclusion, that's really
the best time or even before a person
lays down at night, uh it would also be
a great time and something called uh the
accounting of one's soul.
Going deep within yourself. The first
part with talking to God, we're asking
God to reveal our purpose for speaking
with him. We're asking him to uh you
know, to help us in whatever it is that
we are we're we're engaging in that
relationship with God. What I'm talking
about here is a little bit more specific
to the person, to the self. It's making
accounting of one's soul. A person
thinking about what it is that they're
doing in their life and whether or not
they should be devoting their time to
it. Speaking deeply not only to God but
to oneself. What we will call in Hebrew
cheshbon hanefesh, taking an accounting
of one's soul. And and and looking at
yourself from the sake of
character. Am I developing the proper
character that I should have? And as
it's brought in the book of
Lamentations, it says, "Let us search
and examine our ways and return to
Hashem."
Each time that a person engages in this
accounting of one's soul, of looking
deep within themselves in their own
personal devotion time, I'm talking
about here, not with other people, not
around other people. This is you to self
and reflect on yourself. Every time a
person does that,
you are going to ultimately reveal more
and more of your purpose. And in these
times, we're able to see certain
patterns and certain things that we've
done in our life that Hashem has been
trying to reveal to us. We start to see
and understand the way in which God
communicates with all of us. Finding
purpose requires deep self-reflection,
regularly examining your thoughts, your
emotions, all of your actions, and
asking, "Where am I falling short?"
Person has to be honest enough with
themselves to ask themselves,
"Where am I falling short?"
The next question is, "What traits, what
character traits do I need to fix?
Where am I going wrong?" And the next
question after that is a very, very big
one.
"Which habits do I need to change in
order to grow?"
And you can even ask the other question,
which is even very much so in the same
ballpark.
"What is it that's holding me back
from being able to be close to Hashem?
What are the things in my life that are
that are inhibiting my relationship with
God and ultimately
stopping me from being able to find what
it is that I'm put here to do.
What is my mission here?
And so for some people this can be very
hard. So what I recommend is that a
person keeps a journal. Journals are
always good and you will always hear me
talk about them because I have one. I
have a little book that I keep with me.
I have one that's filled up. I have
another one that's not filled up, but
journaling is great. When you write and
you reflect on your thoughts or your
emotions, character development, things
that you want to achieve. There's a book
called The Path of the Just that was
written by Rabbi Moshe Chaim Luzzatto,
famously known as the Ramchal. And where
in which he instructs a person to make
for themselves an image, a selem we
would say, an image of the perfect you.
It means to visualize. A person should
close their eyes and visualize the
ultimate you. What does that look like?
I'm talking about with the perfect
character traits,
with with the whatever success that the
person desires to have, you know,
primarily spiritual success. But
whatever it is that a person wants to
accomplish that you would make for
yourself in your head an image of you.
What, you know, what do you want to look
like? Whatever the case is, you make
that image of yourself.
And in this accounting of one's soul
that every day a person is engaged in,
you would measure yourself where you are
today
with that image that you made for
yourself. And every day that a person
does this, you look and see how much
closer am I to becoming that ultimate
person that I wanted to be.
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Very important practice. It's something
that everybody should implement. So, the
next thing comes to no comes at no
surprise for anybody, which is to study
God's word. Study God's Torah.
Ultimately, if a person wants to find
their purpose, you have to be looking
because the Torah is a light. It's the
light that shines, and it will guide a
person's path. Just as it says in the
book of Psalms, "Your word is a lamp to
my feet, and a light to my path." So, if
a person wants to know on which path to
go to, for sure, studying God's word who
God is the He's the God of purpose. He's
the you know, of all purposes of all
purposes is God. So, if He's giving a
word and a mandate into the world, it's
very, very important for
for an individual who wants to be able
to find the purpose to look inside of
it, to to for themselves. You're looking
ultimately for yourself, you know,
inside of God's word, which is very
important. So, the Torah is the
blueprint for life for a person. It's
the blueprint for life for all of us.
It's guiding us towards our mission.
Studying it refines our character and it
reveals Hashem's will for all of us. So,
if a person could learn every single day
some type of portion of Torah, whether a
person's learning inside of the, you
know, the five books, the Tanakh,
Mishnah, Gemara, Musar, which are books
that are talking about developing our
character traits, which are very, very
important. I would tell you this right
now,
more than probably any type of study.
People are busy with
with many different type of
books and different things and the legal
works,
the real truth is is that if a person is
honest with themselves, we should be
spending way more time in books that are
talking about character development.
Things that are going to ultimately help
us fix who we are. Because a person can
learn and study Torah all day long and
still walk away from whatever it is that
whatever house of study the person
learns in and be and still be the most
cruel, vile, and nasty individual. So,
why would it not be more important for
that person to probably shelve what he's
learning and to learn things that are
actually going to help him develop the
character traits. Because after all, if
any person has spent any little bit of
time reading the Tanakh, reading through
the prophets, seeing and learning about
God, and this is it. I remember when I
first started learning myself, I began
learning the Bible.
I was um
very
enthusiastic about finding out more
about God. I remember taking a a Tanakh,
a Old Testament, the Jewish Bible,
and I I put it on the table and I slid
it across as if somebody else was on the
other the There was nobody there. But I
was learning so much. And And at this
point, I was very confused in my life. I
didn't know which path I was going to go
on.
And I said, "You know what, God? I'm
going to read this book from cover to
cover,
but I only want to know your character.
I don't want to I don't want to memorize
verses. I don't I don't I don't want to
be you know, use it for scholarly
scholarly reasons. I only want to know
your character. I want to know what you
love. I want to know what you hate. I'm
going to I'm trying to learn you, right?
I want to learn about you."
And I remember engaging in that. And
there are key things that if a person
spends time
reading in the prophets, reading, you
know, inside of the like there are
certain things you are just going to
know about God. You are going to know
that God loves the widows and the
orphans. And and you are going to know
how God feels about a person cheating in
business. That The things that really
tick God off. And you'll see that there
will not be as many mentions about a lot
of other things that we may do that are
very ritualistic, right? As opposed to
the the corruption of a person and when
a person becomes more corrupt in the way
that they behave with other people and
how they treat other people. These
things
are the very things that upset and
got them most. If anybody spent any time
listening to you know, a lot of these
stories they have a lot of these
what do you call them? NDEs, near-death
experiences. No matter what religion the
person comes from. I've listened to a
lot of these and one of the biggest
patterns that I've heard from people
over time is the
the fact that they were taken to task to
how they treated other people.
That was the main thing that they heard
about up there was about how they
treated other people.
And if any person is honest with
themselves and we're reading the Bible
and we're reading the Torah in order to
get to know God, we would know
what it is that God loves, what he
hates, what he desires, and ultimately
by learning about God, you will learn
about yourself and God. You will have be
able to understand more about yourself
and ultimately you'll be able to find
your own purpose. So, you have to
incorporate this into your daily uh
learning Torah every single day in order
to find some type of understanding and
clarity and direction in a person's
life.
The next thing I would say is that a
person needs to work on rectifying their
bad character traits,
fixing who they are.
Who is strong? One who conquers his
inclinations.
So, your purpose is tied directly
to you overcoming your weaknesses.
When a person first re- be- through
their accounting of their soul realizes
that they have certain weaknesses,
and they see those weaknesses and those
things are exposed and a person begins
to do the work
of freeing themselves from those things
that have them bound.
And a person does the work of uh you
know, releasing and escaping from those
things that have the person imprisoned.
Once a person does that, they begin to
reveal who they really are. And by
strengthening themselves, you're going
to be able to see sometimes not only in
your particular situation, but how it
affects other people who are around you.
And you'll begin to see the the
influence and you'll be able to see the
light that you are shining in the world
the more and more you pull away yourself
or pull the darkness that's covering
ultimately our light cuz all of us are
some form of light. We come from God.
We're created by God. God is is a
awesome and bright light.
So, the more and more that that light
shines in in you and you begin to see
how it affects other people, you'll
begin you'll begin to be able to see why
it is that you were created, what it is
that you were put here in this world to
do.
Every soul has a unique struggle.
Your struggle can be one thing, another
person's struggle could be another
thing, but every person has their own
unique struggle, whether it's anger,
uh whether it's jealousy, laziness,
arrogance, lust, whatever it is, each
person we share you know, to some degree
every person shares all of these things,
but some people have to deal with one
thing more than the others.
And fixing these traits bring you closer
to who your true self is.
Ultimately, if we are to say that the
the ultimate reason for the world to be
brought into the into existence is in
order to glorify God, then that means
that ultimately that you have a purpose
that you are here to glorify God.
And so character traits
that would deny you that opportunity
to reveal God's light into the world,
those things
once they're removed will ultimately
reveal your purpose in this world.
And you'll be able to fix these traits
and they're going to bring you closer to
Hashem. You will be closer to him as a
result of you fixing all of these
traits.
So you should identify your main
negative character trait. Find it out. I
They always say that you know, when
you're surrounded by people and you're
and you have a bunch of
uh people trying to uh attack you, what
do you do? I was always taught you knock
out the bully first. Whatever the bully
is, that's who you you hit him hard
enough and everything else will start
running. And each person has to know
that attached to that bully, what I'm be
talking about, that negative character
trait that is unique to you. You
struggle with it more than other people
than you that you know. But this is your
one thing or your vice, your whatever
the case is. I don't care what language
you use. But once you are able to
conquer that, it will ultimately make
the rest of everything else around their
way. And you'll be able to find what it
is that you were put here to do. And all
of these things collected, another way
to be able to find your purpose comes
from Rabbi Nachman of Breslov.
He teaches that through reciting
Tehillim or the Psalms with sincerity,
one can find his true purpose and path
of repentance. And repentance literally
means returning. How do I return?
Well, returning to God
and by returning to God, we're returning
to our ultimate selves. Right? Who we
are in God is the real you. I tell
people all the time, the real you is not
the person who's struggling with
whatever you're struggling with and all
of whatever addictions that a person is
fighting against, whatever it is, those
things are not the real you. And the
more and more that a person
accepts those things as being them, the
further and further you will be away
from finding your actual purpose. Once a
person realizes that the real me is the
me that I am when I'm with Hashem, when
I'm seeking him out, when I'm when I'm
in prayer and when I'm fighting against
all odds, against all the negativity or
all the different things that are there
fighting me to try to push me away from
God, those are the things that are
blocking me from my ultimate purpose in
this world.
And finding who I am supposed to be
because the real me is the me that I am
when I'm with Hashem. When I'm feeling
very distant and the light of Hashem is
not, you know, shining on me the way
that it that I know it to be, that I
know that it could. When I'm in that
state
that's not the real me. The real me is
the me when I'm with Hashem. So, reading
through the book of Psalms and finding
all the different ways and paths of
repentance through these books and
finding your unique path. Meaning that
when I'm reading it, I'm not I'm not
reading the struggles of of someone
else. I'm not reading King David's
struggles. I'm seeing myself inside of
these Psalms. I'm seeing my own
struggles. Okay, I may not fought that
physical battle, but I'm fighting a
spiritual battle. We're all fighting a
spiritual war. And so, by reading those
things, and fighting whatever it is that
we have to fight in order to, you know,
get to the next place,
in order in order to claim a victory.
Those are the things that ultimately are
blocking our purpose. And by us fighting
those things, we will be able to reveal
our purpose. And that is why we have to
read the book of Psalms. Because
ultimately, a person be able to find the
path of repentance. So, if you could
read it every day, focusing on whatever
verses that there are that resonate with
you. Um and that's another thing.
You know, most people that have gone
through the book of Psalms are
at some degree are seasoned in it. They
know which one is their favorite. I
happen to love Psalm 37. That's my
favorite. That's My wife's favorite is
uh Psalm 51. So, each person may have
their own, you know, particular
preference. But why is it that you like
that particular Psalm? What about it?
Why is it that one that's screaming to
you the most? That that's your go-to
Psalm. Why is that Why is that the one
that you remember the most? Your purpose
is
is hidden right in front of you.
A person's purpose is hidden right in
front of them.
The Psalms express every human emotion,
guiding the soul towards its mission.
So, read it daily. Focus on verses that
resonate with you. That's the takeaway
from that.
The next thing I want to discuss with
you is
something I've discussed with on
different podcasts before,
uh which is seeking the right
environment and mentorship. It says in
the Ethics of the Fathers, "To make for
yourself a teacher, and acquire yourself
a friend."
Right? So, surrounding yourself with the
right people who elevate you, Uh uh
righteous mentors and friends and
Torah-based community helps you stay
aligned with your mission. This is the
you know, you will be far away from your
mission of glorifying God if you find
yourself in places all the time that are
trying to snuff out his light.
If you find yourself amongst people who
are not welcoming to the idea of of of
God and his sovereignty in the world,
then that's not an environment for you.
Hey guys, what's going on? I want to
tell you really quickly about an
organization here in Ramat Beit Shemesh
named Kolel Korech. Kolel Korech is an
organization that provides essential
support to kids with dyslexia and other
learning disabilities. They do
everything from making sure that they
have personalized lesson plans all the
way to advocacy, which is very
important. A lot of these kids have
fallen through the cracks in the regular
system, and a lot of them are
misdiagnosed. But Kolel Korech through
their assessment has found that most of
the time it's just learning
disabilities. Unfortunately, because of
the war, people have reallocated their
funds to different war efforts and
misplaced families, rightfully so. But
unfortunately, what it's led to is a lot
of these kids falling through the
cracks. And now this wonderful
organization is at the brink of turning
kids away. I will never advocate for
something unless I was able to
personally tell you how amazing the
organization is. I want everybody that
can, please go to kolelkorech.org
and make a donation. We must keep this
organization open and running and being
able to service all the families that
they service. For a long time, when it
comes to organizations, many people have
asked me, but unless I know personally
that I'm dealing with real people, I
would never ask my audience. So again,
please make a donation today to Kolel
Korech, that's k o l k o r e h.org.
And I can honestly say that you will be
changing lives. Okay, back to the show.
And you have to move yourself and do
everything you can. Sometimes I
I would even say that a person may have
to make big sacrifices to get out of
environments that are going to snuff out
the light of God in your life.
In order for you to reveal the true you.
I One of the biggest
decisions I've ever made in my life was
shortly after I at least understood and
knew that the path that I was going to
it was towards a Torah lifestyle.
Joining the Jewish people, joining the
Commonwealth of Israel, and giving my
life over to God with uh complete and
unadulterated
undivided heart
I put into my path and my journey of
looking for God
and trying to come close to him. And
once I knew that and ultimately knowing
that in the future it would lead me to
convert to Judaism, I made a very tough
and difficult situation decision to uh
distance myself from close friends and
from family.
Not because I didn't love them.
Not because I was trying to get away
from uh
who they were and what they were.
I was running after something.
And that something
was so powerful
that it required my undivided attention.
And that was God. In addition to that,
it was
the idea of
being the ultimate me and being the
person that I wanted to be. I knew and
understood that as long as I'm in an
environment that
is not conducive to me finding myself,
meaning finding myself in Hashem,
finding myself with God. As long as I've
I'm in an environment
that is not promoting such a thing, I'll
never actually be able to achieve my
goal.
I Not only will I not be able to achieve
my goal,
I'll never be who it is that I was
supposed to be
because I will be in an environment that
all the time that is constantly showing
me and telling me who I have to be.
So, environment is everything.
The people that we decide to
put in our lives and surround ourselves
with
this is everything.
This can make or break a person. And
more than anything
finding the right guides, the right
people, the right friends that are going
to encourage you on this path. Doesn't
mean that, you know, it isn't over. I
love my family. I talk to my family now.
But, I needed that time and space to be
able to find out who I was. And I can't
be a person that other people want me to
be.
And so, in order to for you to find your
purpose
you have to fight. You're going to have
to fight to get out of environments that
pull you down. So, your purpose will
unfold on Hashem's timeline, not yours.
Not going to be on your timeline.
So, trust that Hashem is leading you.
You have to trust that even when things
seem unclear
Hashem is guiding you.
This is faith. This is trusting in
Hashem.
So, trust in itself
is another thing that's going to guide
you. That in itself.
Trusting and knowing that God will not
leave you in the dark.
We have to understand this about God. He
wants for you to know why you're here.
He wants for you to have purpose. He
says, "If you seek for me, you will find
me." Right? Where is God? Where Where
Where can we find the deepest and the
most awesome manifestation of God's
presence? It's deep within every single
one of us. Each one of us are tzelem
Elohim. We are an image of God in this
world.
God, we all of us are a piece of of
God's awesome and great greatness.
It's in each and every one of us. The
deeper we we inside ourselves, we will
find a discovery
of Hashem. We will find a discovery of
unadulterated and pure light that's deep
inside of every single one of us.
But we have to search for it. We have to
look for it. And we have to trust the
process. We have to trust that God is
going to do that for us.
But most people give up on finding their
purpose because they don't believe that
they can find it. They don't believe
that God wants to reveal this. And
because they they don't believe it, they
will never take any of the actions that
I just told you with real seriousness,
with a with the with the idea and with
the drive that I'm going to use all of
these things in order to find my
purpose. And the reason why they will
never do is because they don't believe
God will.
And there's a different type of
relationship that we have with God when
we believe and we trust and know that he
will do something for us as opposed to
when we hope and wish.
Or we just deny it all together. Doesn't
mean we don't believe in God, but we
don't believe in everything he wants to
do for us.
So, one thing that's going to help you
is for sure strengthening your faith by
reading stories of divine providence,
hashgacha pratit, uh reflecting on times
that Hashem did guide you, and things
that you did see from him, and that you
did know that he was there and pushing
you in guiding you in a certain
direction. Because God wants to do for
you.
And you have to know that when you take
small steps toward growth, Hashem
reveals your mission.
All you have to do is get in the game.
Start committing yourself to one act of
kindness, one uh
whether helping somebody, giving to
daka, uplifting others, doing something,
you know, and moving in a certain
direction. All of these things help and
aid in you finding your purpose and
knowing that ultimately God wants to
reveal it to you. I in my own life have
had many dreams. In some places when I
So, lecture publicly, I actually talk
about the things that actually happened
inside of my dream or my wife's dream
that I know that God is guiding me that
way. And people could tell me all day
long that they think I'm crazy. Well,
guess what? I'm living with Hashem. I
don't care what you think. I'm living
with Hashem. I don't care about how
much, you know, another person may may
believe, may not believe, or
any of that. Please, trust you me, you
will encounter many people that are
skeptical. Even people that call
themselves a believers. They call
themselves a person that believes in
God, and they're always skeptical of of
any story, or they ridicule stories of
of God's divine presence, or God
revealing himself in other people's
life. And and you know, there are
sometimes where those things, you know,
can be pretty outlandish. But
ultimately, what does it hurt you to
believe in it? What does it really hurt
you to believe in it? What's going to
happen? Somebody's going to swindle
money out of you now because you believe
it? The truth is this. Listen.
God will reveal himself in your life as
much as you want him to.
And as much as you want to keep him
distant from you, and what you'll see is
that most people that talk that way,
they never invested real time in getting
to know Hashem.
Because in their life, they have this
little bit of a feeling, and a little
bit of of what we would call of of of
dust, a
a whiff of atheism.
To where they they they say to
themselves, I wonder if the whole entire
thing is even true at all.
But for a person that's truly strong in
their faith,
they'll be more than willing to rely on
God. They'll be more than willing to
trust in God. To be able to look deeply
inside to find what their purpose is.
They'll be willing to go the extra mile
in order to find what it is that Hashem
put here in this world for them to do.
So, the truth is this.
Your purpose is waiting for you. Hashem
already it's already mapped out.
Everything is completely mapped out for
you. And your mission is already inside
you.
It's just covered up by all of the
layers of our character flaws and
character traits that we're trying to
overcome. Bad character traits we're
trying to overcome. All the distractions
and all of the doubt.
Doubting that God wants to reveal his
purpose to you and reveal your purpose
to you. Doubting it.
This is what is stopping us. And the
more and more you refine your character
traits and the more and more you align
yourself with Hashem and the more and
more that a person talks to Hashem, your
purpose will naturally reveal itself.
I am so sure
in myself
about
major major things. I would say 100%. I
I don't know everything, but I would
definitely tell you I can I can I can
say to anyone
with confidence that God has revealed
what my purpose is in this world.
He's revealed to me um in layers
the tools by which I need to use in
order to accomplish what my mission is
in this world.
And I say that because I have invested
if not thousands, hundreds and hundreds
of hours
of prayer and self-sacrifice
in order and with the belief
with the belief knowing that God is
going to reveal what my purpose is. It's
a confidence
that a person has to have that God wants
to reveal this to you. As I said, it's
already inside of you.
Speaking of purpose, one of the purposes
of me having this bottle here of
uh whiskey, Israeli whiskey, which is
mine's Halva. If any of you've been
following me for some time, you know
that in 2021,
uh I released my own uh
you know, bourbon style Israeli whiskey
that actually was doing very very well
until I got overwhelmed with touring and
touring went like crazy in Israeli
shipping. Everything went up like a
while so I kind of shelved it and I put
it on the side and I started touring and
I got very busy. We released it, you
know, I think it was four Yeah, four
years ago.
We released it four years ago around
this time. It was actually close to
Purim, the holiday of Purim. For those
of you who do not know what the holiday
of Purim is, go look it up and I'm sure
it would have absolutely blow your mind.
So, I brought it here to be able to have
with all of you just before the holiday
a little bit of I'm not such a big
drinker. I only take a little bit at a
time, but to have a little l'chaim as we
would say. I want to say to every single
one of you who have been watching the
podcast, taking in all of the content, I
thank you so much. I appreciate all of
you and I'm praying that every single
one of us this year going to be able to
reveal our own purpose to ourselves in
order that we should grow, in order that
we should reveal more of God's light in
this world. So, for all of you, I'm
wishing you a Purim sameach, happy Purim
and l'chaim. L'chaim, l'chaim. Baruch
atah Adonai Eloheinu Melech ha'olam
shehakol nihiye bidvaro.
Say amen.
And remember
to serve God
I'll live trying.
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