Are You Fighting Against God Accidentally? - MUSSAR Pirkei Avot (60)

[Music] great to be in Miami we are running a little late but we're here and uh another sh we are now up to bem number 60 in the series uh a lot of good feedback have a couple of Amazing Stories which uh if hasem desires we remember them and tell you m real life stories that are happening right now of people that are watching this musar series that I had to read them a few times to believe them uh really amazing stuff amazing results one is with a uh a young guy Yesa student and uh his friends what happened with his friends and another one is with a marine a marine that's uh mamash in battle and uh how the shim areash saving Souls all over the world regardless of where where you are and hasem wants to uh reach you he puts no limitations so uh before we continue we have to uh do the questions but also the so uh she will go to the mar of Michael Coto andu ruven Joseph Ben Rifka SAR Batar Gladis Nunes edin magero Josephina Matos Rachel and Monty Sandler Wes ransi Yoshua Mikel Ben hadasa nany deesa Patricia valman Michel valman Sonia Suarez Nicole valman Augustine Hernandez jge Hernandez Isabel bentur banur Liliana ante bonil giberto menes jaini roas Roger pra yah Garcia Pablo Lorenzo Miriam batara uh ravalon Ben anet uh Joseline Ada Vasquez anid Vasquez suncha Vasquez kenter Bob Resnik Sarah Gutierrez Diego Hernandez Lon haris jacine roas Dalia Romero Lindsay misers Patricia valman and Emily which they get double because we said them twice uh and Doris David benim andit um and Leana bat all of is that uh we didn't remember to say their names all of them have a so as we started already doing over these last couple of months with questions and thenm somehow connectm will help us connect or actually connect the whole thing to the sh itself where in which is 4 six talking about K and so on the significance of all of it and we also have a lot going on but we also have some really good questions so the first question I know was in regards to David uh science versus Torah what actually happened so that we started already before the Shure but we'll actually say the answer on the Shure itself uh next question you had a question about M what was the question how do you how do you make sure it's right or something like that okay so accounting which kind of answers the question um next question question I already made a blessing before okay to okay so but we don't remember which one we're talking about okay so put next if there's questions online you could U look tell questions onl because everybody likes questions online the we all know well it says you want to be you have to ask questions okay anything online questions quickly not yet not yet okay said if they ask questions along the way if it's something significant if it's connected to what we're talking about even if it's not if you think it's significant and you want to know it tell me uh okay we go into this mishna a and it's a one of those Mish that uh when you understand the significance of it you understand the meaning of this mishna it's a uh life Cher but it's also kind of scary I don't mean to be scary all the time guys but T sometimes is not all fun in games someone asked me today why is it that uh if the whole wig situation is infested with idolatry anyone that's wearing these wigs with real hair is pretty much guaranteeing themselves that they're wearing idol worship on their head so she's asking me why is it that the rabbis are not saying anything I said they are saying anything anything no one's listening she goes which rabis so well rash which was the made such a big stink about it that he sent someone all the way to India to investigate and he confirmed for a fact that it's all idol worship she said so what happened after said well after people listen to him initially and um many righteous Jews went into the took their wigs off their head and made a big bonfire in yam in New York in different places around the world they made big bonfires of all of these wigs because they know that Al says when there's an issue of idol worship you're not allowed to benefit from it in any way shape or form not allow to benefit from it in any way shape or form to such an extent that the only thing you are allowed to do with it you're not allowed to sell it you're not allowed to wear it you're not allowed to eat it what you're allowed to to do with it you're allowed to destroy it it's the only thing you're allowed to do so she said okay so how come we're not hearing about it anymore I said yeah you are hearing about it now it's just that you're hearing more of what other rabbis are saying too so what are the other rabis saying said other the rabbi saying it's allowed I said why she is asking why said because the other rabbis are making money off of it she because but if it's idol worship and they know how could they allow it said Ah that's a sh of its own that's a of its own so also there's a few other about the whole issue of wigs that people need to understand as uh what it comes to sometimes we see that uhem gives us so much free choice so much free choice that the line that separates K and is very thin but he gives us so much free choice that unless we're glued to the tah we're always going to make the wrong choice why because our natural inclination is to want things we're not allowed to have that's why said stolen water are sweeter stolen water and water that you bought from uh CVS same thing why stolen water sweeted he says because you have a little bit of Joy the adrenaline rush you got from stealing that makes that water taste better for you it's all psychological it's all but the tells you that water even though they're both I don't know Avan or whatever other water companies out there says Spring Water this one spring one on the other one the stolen one will taste better for you why yet is convincing you that's what it is so when we look at this Mish and also this par and some of these questions you ask we see that the solution to all of this is just simply understanding the significance of what it means to sanctify aem's name and what it means to desecrate his name so says the following says this is a different ran there ranan that we talked about last night was the famous raban yanan that uh was the rabbi of RAB hinos who was the rabbi of RAB AKA this is a different r a different T third generation T RAB B he was also a with which we actually did a sh about him here a few weeks ago so RKA says whoever desecrates the name of Hashem in secret in hiding in a private room no one sees you figure if the guy is making a sin in public it's a big deal what's worse someone drives on Shabbat and everyone knows he's driving or someone's smoking a cigarette in his house according to someone that drives in Shabbat and everyone knows he's driving it's much worse than if he turns on the air conditioner at home and no one knows it's much worse why because it's called Faria it's public sin because has an additional sin on top of Shabbat of desecrating hm's name meaning you're publicly going against hem you're advertising your war against hasem whereas when you make a sin in private it's not a public War it's a private war but here he's saying something very scary he says whoever desecrates the name of Hashem in secret the exact they will exact punishment from him in public meaning that when Hashem finally punishes him whenever that time is going to come he's going to make sure that everyone knows the punishment even though you did the sin privately the punishment will be public message to everyone it's going to be a billboard on sham just like in sham you know what happened in Mount sa why how did everyone know that got the Tor when ra ra the the wife of yeshu she wasn't always a Jew she was a righteous convert before she was a convert she was a prostitute she wasn't exactly the biggest sadik in the world but then she saw what happened in sh so when Yeshua sent the spies to isra she said yes we heard what God did for you what do you mean you heard you got a text message you saw CNN they don't talk anything good about Jews how could you hear about it they probably said we uh we invaded Mount sa and killed some Arabs how did you hear so no no we heard the message from sh mem made sure that everyone saw saw and heard everything that was happening meaning when he split the sea he also split the coffee in in Japan the cup of coffee split also when the words was shown in sham everyone saw these things so here B is saying in the time that hm is going to punish those who desecrate his name in privacy thinking that they could pretend to the world that they're sadik but in reality the you know those people that wear Jewish clothes or some other type of religious clothes and they look like righteous people but in reality they're molesters they're rapists they're thieves they're Liars they're all this garbage of the world but they're in privacy so to the world they look like says oh fine no problem when I punish you I'm going to make sure not only to punish you but to bring this to light that you are a big sinner we'll talk about why in a moment and he says just in case you're not sure about the significance of what is tells you he says unintentional and intentional are both counted alike it's the same thing whether you if you sinned for example in Shabbat Shabbat Foundation of Judaism no Shabbat no Judaism so now if someone drives on Shabbat it's it's on purpose he's driving on Shabbat it's on purpose he's making this it's intentional sin he's smoking on Shabbat no one's forcing him to smoke it's an intentional sin in the days of bet mikdash he would kill him there's no Coban there's no chuva from that if there's Witnesses they warn him and he continues to do it they kill him and the worst possible death penalty there is and it's a public death meaning everyone watches and who's killing him the ones that witnessed it they're the ones that are throwing the rocks on him they're the ones that throw them off the second story building very vicious horrible awful death but deserved why because he publicly went to war with hem but now if somebody makes a mistake by mistake he turns on the light he forgot at Shabbat or it's a reflex you know sometimes you leave the bathroom it's like a natural reflex to just turn on and turn off the light accident that you bring a Coan you bring Coan and that's your chuva why because you're going to see the animal gets slaughtered that's reminding you that in reality hasem has mercy on you but in reality it should have been you that's slaughtered right now hm should have killed you but hasm has mercy on you because it was an accident it's an accident and on top of that it's you're making aah which is Breaking the Chain of sins which we talked about the we talked about last week I think it was in your house so here we see that a public sin and a private sin are two different things the punishment for public sin is much much worse to immediate death no share of the world to come awful awful things and someone asked a question online last week one of the Michael he always asked very good questions God bless him and he said what about the guy it says it says someone that gets the violate Shabbat has no share of the world to come someone that dies a Shabbat has no and goes to Gom forever and it's a really really awful awful situation we're not going to expand on but he says but in the days of bet mikdash if he got the death penalty he still lose his because he already got a big punishment death penalty got his life was cut short and that believe it or not is a m meaning it's a debate it's a debate between RAB AKA and RAB Yuda says no share of the world to come death no death he's dead he's gone why that's a cre aem's name public sin like that he doesn't deserve anything and says no no I think he has share of the world to come they debate meaning it's 5050 of whether this guy is destroyed forever punishment forever or maybe he's G to come back in a gig like a reincarnation maybe it's a cat that lives in a sadik's house so that's why the says that when they used to have and they used to have the mikash the uh killing them killing a sinner violator of Shabbat was actually doing him a favor why doing him a favor he says because at least he's going to have he agrees with the lenient side says at least now he has a share of the world to come he's going to suffer for it but at least he has a share of the world to come he's least he didn't lose everything so it's but now over here is saying when it comes to it's much worse why there's no difference between intentional or accidental sin no differ difference once you violate the the name of hem you desecrate the name of hem it's counted in sh as the same which when you the more you wrap your head around it the scarier it is why because desecrating hashem's name is much much easier than sanctifying his name honoring AEM is much easier it's much harder harder than desecrating a shame his name why what's desecrating his name let's look at a couple of examples if let's say the uses a few examples if let's say for example a rabbi he's a rabbi he goes to the butcher to buy some food for shabat and the guy that owns the store it's a student it's a student he goes to his beet every week every day goes to his beet and the rabbi got to the cashier and he realized he got his wallet he doesn't have money on him so he says listen I'll just pay you back I'm not going to go all the way back home bring my wallet and then come back buy the meat I'll pay you back on Monday on Sunday some other time says that's why is it because everyone else is not going to look at it that way they're not going to know the whole story a person that knows Tor a person that knows AEM has to assume no one is giving him no one is giving him the benefit of the doubt they're always going to think the worst of you especially if you're religious why what are they going to think they said the says they're going to look and say oh this Rabbi this why is he getting uh uh you know this meat he's getting it for free he's not even paying he's not going to come back why is he getting it for free because the owner is giving him the Kosher meat so he can actually tell the m of the butcher to let the T go sell it it's kosher put a stick of kosher on it he's gonna the rabbi so he's connected to he's going to help them he's going to help the owner get a ex get a kosher certificate for his non- Kosher meat so he can make more money that's the argument of the Satan and that's the argument of everyone in the store everyone that's watching that's not glued to Hashem and does not know that this Rabbi is holy of holies is thinking the same thing don't think at all what's going on here why why why is he getting it for free why is he nobody believes no no he's going to come back he's going to pay me on Monday nobody believes that nobody believes that says that's that's go home get the money why you're you're risking everything for it what's another another example another example could be the um cautioned one of his students said listen you have to be very careful with watching your mouth not desecrating aem's name keeping this keeping this keeping this and the student said listen all due respect I'm not a I'm just a regular guy so what I keep a few I have a I just did CH so why I'm not a big I don't think that all these I don't think I have to worry so much about I'm just a regular guy says no no my son when you do something good and you go and rebuke somebody you see somebody driving on Shabbat hey hey you know hasem said you're not allow to drive on Shabbat heyy you you know Hashem said you're not allowed to eat n kosher if you're a Jew heyy you know you're not allowed to wear nothing in the street you have to put clothes on as a woman and a man today you have you have to wonder if it's a man or a woman sometimes but either way they have to put clothes on he says when you go and rebuke somebody you fulfill one of the 613 MIT and you rebuke Somebody by telling them the truth everyone say hey hey who do you think you are or you some big who you are he just did cha 6 months ago he just started keeping shabat who you think you are but if they see you failing in something they said look look at the religious people look at the religious people they're all Sinners it's all lie it's all fake it's all this all of us son look at this what this big sadik is doing what big sadik the guy just did CH last week but he had a keep on everyone considers him a sadik why because he did something bad the already says this he says when you're doing something mitvah no one wants to listen to you they're going to say you're nothing like you you're saying you're nothing about yourself they're going to agree with you you're nothing why cuz you're trying to do Mitzvah but when you do a sin everyone say look at this big Rabbi big Raab make a big headline in papers big Rabbi of a giant KLA somewhere in America just drove on Shabbat the fact that he was saving somebody's life because the woman was in the back going to to the hospital they didn't mention that in the article why are they mentioning in the article big rabbi dve on Shabbat big rabbi did this big Rabbi who's this big Rabbi you know his name no he's just a mysterious M all of a sudden the guy we're going to keep us big Rabbi so he says you have to you're obligated when it comes to you're obligated by theah in a way where it's not about reality it's about what people view how people view you the perception of the public there's something called means that you can do an action you could do something that could lead people to believe that you're sinning so in also also three several different places at least a half a dozen places it mentions the same thing where the sages made sure that people knew that people's perception is very significant and whatever you're not allowed to do because it looks like you're doing something bad you're also not allowed to do it in privacy so for example we are not allowed to drink blood or eat blood of animals we're not allowed but now you are allowed if you have that kind of a taste bud to drink the blood of fish you're allowed why the whole fish is kosher you don't have to slaughter a fish fish once it has fins and scales you could even eat it raw you can eat alive if you want I mean it dies is moment later because it has no oxygen but nonetheless the fish with the F and scales automatically is coaster you don't have to kill it do nothing sushi sushi but even if it's even if it's alive it's still moving you could bite it you don't have to cook it it's kind of strange you I don't like fish even after it's cooked but if you like that kind of fish enjoy Sushi kosher if it's if it's if it's a Kosher fish if it's eel then it's not Kosher fish so now you're allowed to eat the whole fish which means that even the blood you're allowed to eat so if someone has the taste bud I don't know somewhere in Russia or some of these countries that you know they like fish they may have that taste bud where they like to drink fish blood because of the mitvah obligation of of what people see you have to make sure that you put the skeleton of the fish next to the drink next to the cup so anyone that passes by doesn't think oh look he's drinking blood there Jew with a keep he's drinking blood of a cow he's drinking blood of a lamb he's drinking blood of I don't know something no no look it's blood of a fish you have the skeleton sitting right next to it understand so and things that why because the whole issue of is what people View and what people view can lead them to a big sin of desecrating aem's name because once people see a Jew sinning they publicize it immediately it goes to the world especially today with the the world of social media any Jew that slips on a banana the wrong way someone is there to catch him someone is there's actually actual organizations that that's all they do they get donations they get money they get supporters they get all types of help why to find Jews making mistakes of course it's Hashem doing it Hashem is trying to help us do Chua but nonetheless many Jews are constantly found doing really really bad awful things and they desecrating hashem's name so kazal said that just like you're not allowed to do it in public unless you have certain uh certain measures that you're protecting yourself you're not allow to do it priv in private so here we see that the whole commandment of honoring aem's name is a very big deal very big deal in sham now who honored aem's name better than almost anyone in history if you reading your you prayed m a few hours ago and right before amid he said this 145 right after fortunate are you sit in your fortunate are those who sit in your house you know is telling everyone that fortunate are you to even be a Jew but then in uh Psalm 145 he starts to he says the following he says praise from a praise from David I will exalt you my God the king I will bless your name forever every day I will bless you and I will praise your name forever so first he's already saying Hashem this whole song is just to praise your name that's it great isem and he is praised highly his greatness is unfathomable generation to generation your Works will be praised and your Mighty deeds will be publicized and so on and so forth he continues honoring hasem in a way that is unfathomable in a way that's unfathomable to us where we have to ask ourselves a question has any of us ever sat down and wrote a song about hasem anybody ever sit down stop and just write a song forem a bunch of them but not just writing a song Hey Hashem you're great hey Hashem you're great read the same thing 80 times he R verses from the Tora different secrets in it he Hades but the V his entire life he spent honoring aem's name because he knew that that's the number one most important reason of why he came to the world so now to answer the first question about what actually happened between Goliath and David most people know the story that you saw in like a cartoon or a story of some kind that someone told you many years ago where D threw a couple of rocks threw a slingshot hit him in the head and this big giant fell and died that's kind of the story but it's not really the story because first of all you have to think about it Goliath was huge like he wasn't just huge like he was bigger than most people like you know sometimes you see the the center in in an NBA team he's 7 feet tall and everybody else is like 66 okay so he's six Ines taller great he's big they're also big though no no no no here you have a situation where he is several sizes bigger than an average human being it's Giant and David wasn't exactly so big on top of that David was very young on top of that David was hated by everyone except God and David was writing these songs praising hashem's name his whole life so his whole life his whole being was to continue living in order to fulfill a single Mitzvah sanctifying hm's name k so one day his father sends him to go bring food to his brothers that are in battle right before this happens the king king sha and the Philistine King he said listen why are we going to continue battling killing each other you bring your best guy I bring your best guy whoever wins wins that's it finish whoever wins if your if you have your best guy beats my best guy me and my entire Army all going to become your slaves if it's the opposite all of you become our slaves finished why everybody's going to kill each other this that for weeks for months for years for what let's just have a deal sha didn't know about golat he didn't know that Goliath was alive or anything the the Philistine King which is different than the Palestinian Arab terrorist that we have today it's very different terrorists were just created in the last couple of decades the Philistines were a different Nation from a few thousand years ago there's no connection between the two even though they sound the same so the Philistines were very excited Goliath comes in and no one wants to fight him so already a lost battle how you going to fight this big guy not only big his sword was bigger than a human being just a sword and it was tied around his arm in a knot that put that knot together and no one could unot it meaning there's no way that he could let go of his sword like you can't like hit him in the arm and he'll lose the sword which is a very common thing that would happen in battle on top of it the helmet that he had was steel complete steel so he's full his whole armor with steel so it's not it's not enough that he's just so big you can't go into him there's no body there's no flesh showing so everyone says he's bigger he's stronger he's this he's do it's a waste of time we lost the wall might as well become slaves no one wants to fight him arrives at this moment and he gives the food to his brothers which were ungrateful at this moment because they didn't think that he was really their brother it's a different story for a different time they actually thought he was a Mel and he leaves but as he leaves and he's walking in the woods the mid says that that golat came from it actually says also in thear inar it says that golat was an outcome of his promiscuous wife and a promiscuous mother his mother was with everyone they didn't even know who his father was every day it was somebody else sometimes multiple people every day sometimes at the same time the worst kind of person on Earth so they didn't even know who his father was all they knew is that his mother was a was the biggest p in the world the biggest prostitute in the world and he came out someone that comes out of seed like that someone that comes out of such an action is automatically a a badish so what did he do he would uh he was waiting on the field not only making fun of but cursing aem's name cursing hashem's name so who his whole life his whole being is to honor hasem is hearing these curses and he starts crying hysterical who could possibly curse like this he runs through the woods and he sees this giant is cursing hashem's name he runs to the camp he goes I want to fight him he goes to sha I want to fight him he doesn't know that there's a battle they're all waiting for someone he doesn't know anything all he knows I want to fight him I want to kill him everyone starts laughing in his face this little guy he's not even he's not even like a big Warrior you going to go fight him I want to fight him I want to fight him no no go you just gave us lunch now go back home please no come on no no I want to fight him what do you care and then he they find out that nobody else everybody looks at the like nobody else wants to fight him at least we tried says okay listen you're brave young man here's my uh armor here's my body armor now sha was very bigid small but once he put the armor on on him miraculously the armor went around David's body like as if it was created for him everyone was very impressed was very scared why scared of everyone's too impressed like I did it a miror nothing it has nothing to do with me what does he do he takes off the armor no armor because I don't need armor I need AEM he goes into the battle with these two little rocks now was not only KES was not only very very holy he's also very smart so now anyone that's not even smart any you go to the street right now you ask a guy listen if I throw a rock at steel really really fast what happens to the steel nothing the steel is harder than Rock nothing's going to happen to the steel if it's good steel it's not even going to be dented so has a couple little rocks what's he going to do with these rocks the guy has armor of Steel listen goli do me a favor to make it fair take off the helmet so I can hit you between the eyes take it off for a second what is he gonna do he starts praying he starts praying and he knew the name and he commanded one of the angels to come down and help him which Angel the angel of Steel every every um thing has an angel supervising it the grass has an angel that tells it to grow the grass has an angel tells it to grow steel has an angel Rock has an angel the sun has an angel Earth planet earth has an angel everything has an Angel that's responsible for it so knew different things that are Beyond even our comprehension and he knew the name of the angel of Steel and he says I command you to come here angel of Steel comes he says what can I do for you he says listen we have a problem he's got steel I got rocks so I need you to make I'll make a deal when I throw the rock you're going to let the steel become extra soft to let my rock in so it hits him so the Angel's like okay that sounds like a nice deal for you what s it for me why am I going to do you this favor why cuz you're David for what so I'll make a deal with you the king promised a lot of things and I also know that I'm destined to be king of am is so I promise you when I get to a big position I'm going to change the law in the Torah the law in the Tor ofit until this moment until this moment in history of David was done with a rock rock technically is actually a better cutting tool than steel believe it or not if you look some of the uh really really highend knives that chefs use it's from rocks it's not from steel the stuff they sell you on the internet and on you know the Japanese knives and so on it's not the best actual smoother better cutting knife much more expensive is from Rock we tried it we tried to see it we actually bought some years ago we bought some it's amazing problem is they break you know they chip and it's you can't sharpen it the same way but anyway is I'm going to change it until that moment when they would do ble they would do it with rock says if you do this I'm going to change the law they're going to do with steel that's exactly what happened he flung The Rocks the steel opened up like the Sea of reeds hit him in the head he died that's the deal until this day 3,000 years later we do B with what Steel with steel metal so that's the of that's a big part of the story not the whole thing but why why did David Merit such a greatness because his whole life was dedicated to sanctify aem's name his whole being whole purpose was to live and honor hem got it says a person a Jew that doesn't find a way look for a way try every day to honor hashem's name it would have been better had he never been born meaning this is not a once in a lifetime obligation you're going to have your own DAV Story one day when you get to sh thear says you're obligated to look for a way to honor hasem every day and if not if you don't do it meaning you don't even think about it you're too busy playing cards you're too busy being a doctor you're too busy fixing cars you're too busy playing on Facebook you're too busy doing other things you're not busy trying to find a way to honor hm's name the says better you would have never been born why you're not fulfilling your purpose your only purpose to come to this world is to honor hem you lived one day this day is worthless you come to sh say why' you live that day why' you live that day for what why do we bring it to that world every day hasm recreates the world why did Hashem include you in his creation on that day when you didn't include him in your existence so here we see the significance one small way of seeing the significance of honoring hashem's name on the other hand we see that desecrating his name is just as the opposite to such an extent that ran where's the list of questions is saying that the violation of is so bad so awful that whether you do it intentionally or not is irrelevant the problem as we just realized from some of these stories it's very easy it's very easy to make a SIN number one when you're born you're only born with a no you have one Angel navigating where you go when do you get or for a woman but so automatically knows you better he's been around for longer automatically he's stronger he's more full grown so the only way you're going to be able to even have a chance to be them is if you include a lot of T because you're creating a lot of angels and a lot of spiritual power without T you have no chance you're automatically by theault going to lose every day so is saying that you have a very serious issue here because one of the most significant sins in all of Judaism is a very easy sin to make the sin of desecrating aem's name now we have yum coming up and also everyone even non-religious Jews celebrates these holidays to a certain extent they like the food we eat on and they like to see all their friends on Yip in the Beet what people don't understand is that Yip is the appeal it's not the trial the trial is is the real D day it's the real Judgment Day also says that hem decides what he's going to do with you on until the next how much money you're going to get whether someone's going to live or die whether someone's going to get married or not whether someone is going to have anything good or bad is if you don't see a friend that you care about for a year you don't see him for a year you have to do Reviving The Dead resurrecting the dead now if you want to let's say drink this nice iced tea that you guys give me every couple of weeks you have to say if you want to eat an apple if someone died someone died and came back to life died and came back to life you said if someone was at risk car accident and died and came back to life the near-death experience type of thing you say if someone was in danger flew he went to New York three-hour flight came back to Florida three-hour flight when he comes back he has to do why hasem saved me from from danger so even if he died and came back to life it's still be but if you didn't see him for a year you have to do the blessing of resurrecting the dead why the sages explain the M the ma explains almost 500 years ago he says if you haven't seen your dear friend for a year then of course of course passed and based on the average it's against nature it's against nature for him to not have made at least one sin like where should have killed him on the spot which means the fact that he's alive a year after one day after and you see him and you're happy enough to see him it's already a miracle it's like revived the dead he survived it's already a miracle people go sh they're excited about the food they're excited about pomegranates they're excited about they have no idea what's on the line here says you don't see a friend for a year you have to do a blessing resurrecting the dead so people don't even think that R is a big deal they think Y is big deal so we'll play along we'll play along and say okay the case but you showed up to the case not prepared you have 40 days of if anyone can give me a tissue please you have 40 days of to prepare and you showed up to the case that's okay that's just a napkin that's fine thank you you showed up to the case 40 days no preparation you 40 days to prepare for the biggest case of your life 40 days gave you aul you showed up to the case you forgot your homework the dog ate it you know you little kids you never did the homework you were playing some video game or you playing baseball or something you go up to school you finally realize teacher the teacher wasn't joking says where's your homework oh my dog ate it somehow every all the students have a dog and a dog likes paper dog ate it so you show up to the biggest case of your life 40 days after biggest day of your life I'm prepared the dog ate my homework hem says listen I love you so much I know that you're gonna play this game thank you I know you're gonna play this game so I'm going to give you a chance to appeal I'm going to give you yum yum that's the appeal that means that if there was judgment in Shalom death penalty Shalom you're going to be sick Shalom you're going to lose all your money become poor Shalom something bad supposed to happen to you you have now the 10 days between and Yip including Yip to appeal your case to change the things around so everyone bets everything bets the whole house on yum even the most secular people fast on y everyone fast on y someone doesn't fast Y is usually not even considering themselves Jewish anymore everyone fasts on even they don't keep Shabbat they fast in Yip which by the way Shabbat is much much more significant than Yip much bigger than Yip most people think Y is bigger than Shabbat Shabbat is bigger than all the Y in your entire life one Shabbat but anyone most people secular like I used to be they think yum kipo is the biggest day they bet everything on yum kipo I'm going to go they go to B at night they stay there late they go home they get there early the next day they stay there all day they don't even go home even during a break they stay at the synagogue why should I waste my time going back home they stay in the synagogue all day all of a sudden everybody became basali the whole synagogue is basali day later they're all back to being ham but but today here's the problem here's the problem there's a couple of big problems there's a couple of big problems that we need to mention to the is a very special day it's an appeal it's an appeal process doesn't do two things for you one someone who says I'm going to sin and then I'll do Chua I'm gonna sin and then I'm gonna do Chua I'm gonna violate chabbat this week but on Monday I'm gonna do CH I'm sorry I did a barbecue on Shabbat but listen it was all my friends I told him I gave him RAB your own CDs and the barbecue on Shabbat why you couldn't do on Sunday no no but everybody was there hem come on it was uh you know we make excuses for ourselves Hashem I went to synagogue yeah but you drove to synagogue on Shabbat not allow yeah but it's the synagogue don't you want me to go to the synagogue no he doesn't want you to go to synagogue if you're going to violate Shabbat to go to synagogue don't go to synagogue why to go to the synagogue is not an obligation it's not an obligation to go to synagogue it's good to go to synagogue it's not an obligation keep Shabbat is an obligation it's Ten Commandments so now someone says I'm going to sin but then on Monday I'm going to do Chua then on Tuesday I'm GNA do cha how about this I'll save it all up for Yip I'll do sins the whole year I'll save I'm gonna do I'm gonna become I'm gonna become looking at me like ah look at that he's going to be jealous of me down here I'm going to do everything K says someone that makes such desecration of hm's name such a joke of hashem's name to such a way says I'm gonna sin and then do chuva I'm gonna sin and then do chuva I'm gonna sin do chuva meaning he's already planning the barbecue on Shabbat on yum Kip he knows he's going to violate the next Shabbat on yum Kip he knows he knows he already has a trip set up ski trip set up for next weekend K says not only is the punishment that they don't actually let him live long enough to ever do CH doesn't help him doesn't wipe out any of his sins nothing he came T he left T he came ham he stayed ham just with a smaller mustache called Hitler nothing changed if anything he gets an additional punishment for the so someone that's planning on continuing to be a sinner Yip doesn't help you go to the beach you're better off enjoy your last moments in life if you're not planning on at least trying to do chva you're going to continue driv to every weekend you're going to continue desecrating hash's name on a regular basis eating T stealing money beating up your wife yelling at people all this stuff being continuing to do it regular you have no intention to do CH y will not help you one second nothing you came Haman you leave Haman but at least ham knew he was Haman you just think you're mhe so that's the first thing we need to know by Yip second thing we need to know by Yip is page 886a it says all sins are forgiven on yum if you have an intention to do CH all sins are forgiven on y if you have an intention to do CH I'm not going to continue violating Shabbat I'm not going to continue going out with the Goya I'm not going to continue going out with the go I'm not going to continue eating T I'm gonna do it I'm gonna do CH this year I'm gonna do it I'm gonna keep going to the sh I'm Gonna Keep listening I'm gonna keep reading I'm gonna do it I'm gonna try I'm gonna try I'm gonna do it I'm not perfect I'm still a baby but I'm going to try to do something about it you have an intention to do CH all sins be forgiven on except one no forgiveness only forgiveness for for begins at death meaning part of your CH you must die there's no forgiveness for while you're here why it's that big of a deal it's that big of a deal you took the name of and you Des created it you treat it like it was a on a tissue knew this that's why theid his entire life was to occupy himself with honoring aem's name when you occupy yourself with honoring hashem's name you have no time to desecrate his name so here is giving us some breaking news he says there's a lot of mitv in the T many many mitv in the T but there's one specific one you really need to make sure you have an understanding of its significance and that's honoring hasem because as a Jew even the go call us the chosen people Hashem calls us the chosen people his firstborn my sons and so on but everyone knows we're the chosen says being a chosen you have a responsibility you have a responsibility meaning you are the representation of Hashem no one says that the Arabs are the representation of God even the Arabs themselves don't say that they're the representation of God no one says that the Christians or the Catholics are the representation of God even they themselves called the Jews the chosen people no Buddhist in history said I'm the representation of God everyone agrees the Jews are everyone agrees meaning that the world will always view you as the representation of God meaning whatever you do goes on hashem's account you act like a t a a some type of animal that's impure people going to say oh look that's look this is what God teaches them you're a thief they think God's a thief you're a liar they think God's a liar you cheat they think God cheats You're the representation now when you go to stores for example of these big companies whether it be apple or Best Buy or any of these companies that have big big Outlets not the small mom and pops but even some of them have it you notice something that all of the employees have all of them have something called a uniform UPS uniform Best Buy uniform Apple uni everybody has a uniform everybody has at least a shirt or a hat they all look the same for better for more or less why because they want it they're represent they representing the store but the first thing if you ever worked for any of these companies or you have a relationship with any of these companies is that some of these very big companies they're very very careful with who they give this clothes to meaning some of them they don't let you go home with this clothes they don't let you go home with your uniform they say no no we have a locker room you leave your uniform in a locker room don't take it home or if you take it home you only going to have two pairs you're not all to buy more than you we're not we're not going to give you more than two pairs why why they so why are they so uh careful with clothes clothes five bucks you're a zillion dollar company $500 billion company $50 billion company you care about $5 care about $10 it's the uniform after all I'm advertising you they said yes exactly that's the point that's the point when you're in the office when you're in the UPS truck I know what you're doing you're in a UPS truck you're doing the right thing you're representing UPS you're representing FedEx we know what you're doing it's under control even if you go Rogue it's under camera we know what's going on you go home on a weekend I don't know what you're doing you could be a rapist for all I know you could be a thief you could be going to casinos you could be hanging out with prostitutes who knows what you're going to do we don't want you wearing your UPS shirt while you're doing all this garbage that you do in your personal life why because you're a representation of our company we don't want the public to think that our UPS drivers go to these places hang out at these places act like this do this no who wants you what are you talking about they look at you like you're crazy why would you think you could take it home why would you think we want the responsibility of having you carry our name everywhere no no it's under control as a Jew as a Jew you have that responsibility 24 hours a day like it or not have a keepa or not at some point or another someone is going to recognize you are a Jew that means you have a responsibility why because the minute you slip up the minute you curse the minute you steal the minute you do wrong all the Satan around you going say look the Jew immediately all of a sudden religion becomes something important all of a sudden religion became the number one subject of the day they don't say oh look at the white guy they don't say look at the Indian guy or look at the Chinese guy no they don't say that they don't me say look at the Arab guy but if it's a Jew look at the jew why but he's a Indian Jew how do you know he was a Jew no no Jew we know if it's a Jew we know doesn't matter where if he's black if he's white if he's green if he came from Mars he has things coming out of if he's a Jew we know why it's a representation of God it's a representation of God we know that carry a certain amount of weight is telling you that weight is heavy why you slip up you have a sin you can't do trva for you have a sin you cannot fix on Yip so all these fools that walk around with big Jewish clothing the stral and the jackets and the long beads that can sweep the floor in the streets they look really really Jewish but you see them in casinos or strip clubs or bars and stuff like that these people have not just one sin they have a bank a bank the size of JP Morgan worth of sins a bank worth full of sins for attending one time I remember when I used to be all the sins I used to make I used to go to casinos to play cards I thought it was fun I didn't know it's not allowed I didn't know it's stealing cuz the guy that win the money from doesn't want to give you the money so in essence you're taking money from him against his will it's considered 100% stealing but how did I justify myself number one he agreed to the same rules I agree to that makes sense the other way I Justified it there was always at least one or two religious guys on the table there's always at least one or two religious Jews on the table sitting with us always I'm thinking listen me I'm not representing anything I represent me it's a secular person where I represent I love I loveed God since I was a kid but I didn't know the truth I had my own version of God like most people this guy says he's like mosenu he wears the keeper the hat is as big as the room he wears special clothing all this stuff goes prays a few times a day I'm lucky if I pray once a week what are you doing here I know why I'm here what are you doing here I'm not claiming to be a representation of hem you are what are you doing here playing cards with me what are you doing in these bars what are you doing in with all these prostitutes and stuff like that that people see they show the stuff they highlight these people what are you doing here what he's doing is that he is really empty inside and the whole thing that he has is just uni for he's the same thing as the UPS FedEx or Apple employee he goes to work with the uniform but he cares less about the company all he does he goes he looks a certain way but as soon as he has an opportunity he'll take whatever he can get the uniform looks the same for all what's inside is very different what's inside is very different and once a person person does not have mind a person does not have fear of the almighty that means everything inside is empty empty so now is telling you that this sin is very easy to make especially if you're a rabbi especially if you're a position of knowledge what are some of the examples those he said there's a few major examples that make things very easy to do for rabbis sometimes you can have a rabbi that makes everyone else life miserable by making giving them a lot of stringencies you're not allowed to do this not allow to do this not allowed to do this what about breathing no not allowed not allowed to breathe not allowed to wink not allowed to Blink not allowed to n everything is not allowed so everyone else is extra stringent but him for himself is lenient everyone else is not allowed to use everything but he for himself he's lenient says that's but now it gives us another example in essence says the same exact thing but the question here is is supposed to be something that is publicly desecrating hashem's name you're publicly announcing a war against hem when you're desecrating hashem's name the reason why hasem makes it it's such a big deal is because other people are being made aware that you are at war with God but here says says no no no whether you're making this desecration of hashem's name in private or in public it's the same thing it's the same thing and in some cases it could be carried as worse when it's private why when someone is a thief in plain day sight daylight it's a thief in daylight it's one level of sin but when he's a thief at night it's worse why when you went and you stole in public that means you don't care about what people think and you don't think you don't care about what God thinks everyone's the same to you you don't care about anyone like the Israelis say doesn't count anybody you're stealing plain D sight in the face of everyone you don't care about anyone not God not people when someone steals at night that means they care about what people think but they don't care about what God thinks that makes it even worse that makes it a private war against God this is why is saying whether you make desecration of hm's name in private or in public it's the same thing why because God is every everywhere and he sees it everywhere so in essence when you're desecrating his name in private where you tell everyone you pretend to be a sadik but when you go home you're when you go home you're really a when you go home you beat up your wife when you go home you're beating up your kids when you go home you're doing all the things that you tell everybody else not to do he says one of the main things that hasm is going to do to punish you he's going to make it public that you're R why because if he punishes a person that the world sees is righteous everyone thinks oh look at this sadik why did hasm kill this sadik maybe there's no justice in sh hasem says no no no at the same time I'm going to make sure everyone knows you're not only not a sadik you're R why so they know that I killed you for a reason they know that I killed you because you're rash not because you're sadik so this is what is saying is that whether someone is righteous or or Wicked in public is irrelevant desecration of hashem's name hasem counts it as the same so that's the first thing the second thing is that the me interprets this Mish and he says what's another way of desecrating aem's name it's very common today is anyone who even if he privately doesn't publicize his opinion but privately he thinks and he believes that hasem created the world like the Greeks say Shem created the world but he doesn't really care about the small things he doesn't really care about me keeping Shabbat or not he doesn't really care if I'm modest or not he doesn't care if I curse or not he doesn't care if I eat kosher or not he doesn't really care he's too busy he's too busy with other things bigger things why does he care about me doing anything M says that's also why you're limiting God this is one of the greatest Arguments for all these atheists that think that everything came from a molecule everything came from a cell that somehow went through the process of mitosis of meiosis split into two and then went to another two and it became four and four became eight and eight became 16 and so on and so forth and it expanded and expanded and 13.7 billion years later somehow I'm here the same molecule that started that long okay that's what they believe the problem with this whole argument that no scientist could ever answer no scientist in the history of mankind could ever answer is even if you're right even if you're right and everything started from one cell where did the first cell come from where did the first one come from let's say it all happened by the way there there is a page 12 talks about expansion of the universe which is similar to The Big Bang just without the nonsense that they say but let's just say let's just say it all started from a single cell where did the first cell come from now if you're going to say okay you know what all right you're right it came from God or they call something else they call him AEM they call him Creator call him whatever you want came from a Creator yes okay so if this Creator obviously his creator is bigger than the cell right he's more powerful than the cell he must be in order to create the cell he has to be more powerful than the cell smarter than the cell greater than the cell right yes so why are you limiting him to only creating one cell why can he create two why did he have to go through mitosis or meiosis and split the cell into two why he just create two husband wife that's it make kids make little cell kids and if he created two why can't he create four and if he created four why can't he create eight and if he created all these St why he just create the world and if he created the world why he just create a man and if you create a man why can't he create some chickens for him already ready doesn't have to have eggs already the chicken before the egg why does he have to make the egg why you just create the chicken and if he created a chicken why can't he create a lion maybe he needs to eat the chicken and if he created a lion he has a giraffe and he has a park and he has a house and he has this hey that's to he became a religious Jew why are you limiting this God M says limiting God you're limiting God you're desecrating his name because God is not limited in the book of Jeremiah chapter 23 verse 23 it says it says can man hide in concealment and I not see him the word of God meaning Hashem is saying to Jeremiah tell the people that are sinning in privacy they look like they go to sometimes they're rabbis sometimes they're just average Jews but they look like they're great people but in reality they're terrible I have a story right now that's breaking my heart breaking my heart honestly if I if I if I had a s right now I would go past judgment right now and and do what we have to do with this guy I have a situation right now with this rash wicked wicked among Wicked people pretends to be religious Big B gives a lot of money tons apparently he's in some business makes a lot of money gives money to every Rabbi that comes to him he gives him money so he looks like a big sadik everyone looks him look sadik is coming not the rabbi the guy why he gave the rabbi money the rabbi is scared to talk to him why he's par he has a keeper he has a jacket he has he looks like you and me what's wrong what is what is what is what is he hiding what is he hiding every day goes home and he beats his wife every day he goes home his wife gave him eight kids eight kids to this world brought eight amazing souls to the world what does he do he beats her up every day you know what the you know what the torat says about somebody like this you know what they do to somebody that beats his wife first and foremost you have to put him on what's means no one is allowed to associate with him not allowed to bring him to yesh he's not part of Manan you're not allowed to do business with them get him to go broke let him go homeless and on top of that if he continues his behavior they cut his arms that's T says someone hits his wife they cut his arms go hit her with the two little little elbows that you now have someone beats his wife woman brought eight souls to the world for you cleans Cooks looks at you and you hit her when not talking about hitting like uh talking about hitting like a boxing match but the rabbis are scared to say anything to him the wife came to a rabbi what the rabbi do made a problem even worse the guy came home and beat her up again instead of helping he made it worse people like this if I was God i d destroy the world on the spot people like this you want to kill them unbelievable to me that people like this exist but the worst part of it all is that the community at large thinks he's a sadik why how do they evaluate a person they don't evaluate a person what he does in hiding they don't know what he's doing they value him how he's to the Public Public you have you have you have who the guy that says 15,000 20,000 50,000 100,000 to the automatically by nature of everyone in the sh that's thead that's the biggest sadik of the city why he donated the most amount of money in the that's the reality we live in says the day is going to come and you will be exposed you'll be exposed in such a way you're going to regret the day you were thought to be an idea to come to the World by your parents you're going to wish they fulfilled this the sin of wasting seed with you that's how big the punishment is somebody like that somebody like that you should know that hits his wife is not only a but someone that is M evil evil but also the sin doesn't have to be as great to be so bad says that if a person does does give helps people gives them a right to the hospital all these different things looks like a sadik looks like a but he's not good to his wife he doesn't help his wife he lets her roam like she's in a on her own she married she's only there to either bring kids to the world or make him food he says when that guy arrives to sh with all the he saved this life he saved that life he gave money to this one he built a he built the Yesa he did all these supposable the the biggest of the he says he arrives to sh they look at him says oh your account is empty you have nothing you have zero nothing why you don't deserve what you did why because you did it you made aah in the way of sin how you tortured your wife not let torture your wife ofad unless she agrees that it's difficult for both of you you do this she does this everybody has a role it's different so unfortunately you're hearing horror stories horror stories from people of what's happening in all of these homes these husbands don't know how to behave these women don't know how to behave the the people mamash just don't know how to behave and the main reason is simply because they don't know how significant is situations continue to get worse people pretend to be righteous people pretend to be righteous says you're going to have a special special accounting you have a VIP account but the VIP account is awful of awful there's a convert that came to a m righteous confort most likely knows more T than most of us and I don't mean most of us just in most of us as far as there's a lot of T dedicated our life took it seriously didn't just convert for some boyfriend or girlfriend so as part of going to uh being a Jew she wanted to go to a mik but unfortunately certain communities are stupid and some communities in particular are not only stupid but they're actually making a big on a daily basis daily basis every day they have a sign in the opening of the sh says no converts Allowed no converts allow they don't accept converts so this woman came to the mik ready they rejected her no converts allowed in our mik woman could potentially sin with a husband cuz who knows maybe the husband can't wait maybe she can't wait you don't know you're putting somebody in danger of having K sin not allowing him to go there m because why because you don't believe in converts cuz a few big rabbis made a Tak 115 years ago and said that too many people are marrying Gentiles and they're pretending to be converts so we're stopping conversion in this community for now but but they made the Tak for their time to stop it they didn't make the Tak forever and people continue building this on this but they're making it worse than what the original rabbis did they're making it much worse so forget they're making it much much worse than what the original rabbis that were holy made the rule to to save the save the people and the reason why is because most most of these people that are implementing this rule never learned rambam never learned real Torah what they learned they learned stories they're nice stories so we're going to read some ramban we said it yesterday also it has to do with this it's very important so first and foremost the rambam says the following is based on ra it's not based on me chapter 6 number four talks about converts loving a convert who has come to Nestle under the wings of the fulfills two positive Commandments one positive Commandment that you're fulfilling is included by loving your fellow man you're obligated to love every Jew and we're commanded to love them here we we learn this from the uh T itself it's one of the major mitv 63 MIT but in addition to that there's a special in Deuteronomy 10: 19 it says you are obligated to love the convert you're obligated to learn love the convert which is actually in last week's par now the rambam expands on this and he says God has commanded us concerning the love of a convert just as he has commanded us concerning loving himself as Deuteronomy 11:1 States and you shall love God your lord the Holy One Blessed Be he himself loves converts and therefore he states he loves converts in Deuteronomy 10:18 and you shall converts but here if you read it plainly without looking at what I'm seeing here you don't look at the commentary you don't you understand that you should love a convert it's just another mitvah no no no no my friends here he's saying concerning loving himself meaning the here saying R specifically says here God commanded us to love the convert like you love God not like you love a Jew loving a Jew is one Mitzvah loving God is a different Mitzvah he says loving the convert is more connected to loving God than loving the Jew it's much higher level just like the love for God is unlimited so does the love for conred must be unlimited to such an extent that midan says the Holy One blessed is he says it was sufficient that they left idol worship behind and came to live among you that's alone a reason for you to love them because I love them but inph the ramb himself says he says the fact that the convert that made such major sacrifices to become a Jew was so is so pleasing to that hasem created an additional mitah just for them originally there were supposed to be 612 mitv not 613 he made a mitv just for them that's how excited he is about converts and the rambam says in a letter that he wrote a convert named Oya he says us Jews we could trace our lineage to Abraham and yob but you converts you your Judaism your connection to Judaism is dependent solely on God which is much much higher so just like the significance of the love for a convert is the significance of going against the convert so when an imbecile whether he's a rabbi or anyone else goes against a convert he's mamash desecrating hashem's name to the highest extent and he's declaring war not on the convert M he's has to go find a different mikve or she has to find a different mikve or a different sh no he's declaring war against God that's this is real life stories not me this is happening every day there shs that still exist kot that still exists that don't accept converts it's m disgusting 36 times it's mentioned in the toraat to love the convert to protect the convert to honor the convert and so on it's 36 times more than any other mitvah other than Shabbat 36 times hasm said I a special deal with the convert you don't want to go marry a convert that's your privilege you don't want to be friends with a convert whatever you're I know missing a screw or something fine no problem but to reject them publicly say you're not welcome you have to be ham if not you're Hitler if you're not Hitler maybe you're you're definitely not a regular normal Jew that it's impossible impossible for you to have and desate hm's name on a regular basis impossible this leads us to the next Point what about all those other people they're not exactly against converts they're not against converts but they're part of the community they don't say anything they don't say anything they're part of the community but they don't say nothing why cuz listen the rabbi is running the show I'm not going to tell him anything the gab is running the show I'm not going to say anything this one's there I'm not going to I'm going to sit quiet I'm going to come to sh I'm going to pray I'm going to do what I got to do I'm not going to say anything oh you have a different surprise different surprise what's a surprise this very same one in the previous generation almost 400 years ago says whenever whenever hasem is hitting you Hashem is giving you warnings and you don't do CH that's also Shem is constantly giving you messages some guy said something on a YouTube video you happen to watch it he talks about converts he talks about how you're supposed to help them how you supposed to love them and you still don't listen you don't tell your Rabbi you don't tell your K hey maybe it's time to change maybe it's time to change my friend you just viol you just desecrated hm's name why hasm gave you a message you're still not listening you're still not listening what do you think you're you're watching this video by chance you attended this lecture by chance there's no chances in real life only in The Atheist life there's chances so people don't understand what it means so all of those people that they're making a sin but it's private like no no we have a close Community Converse just don't come here we don't say anything but Converse don't come here Jeremiah chapter 23 verse 23 says is there such a thing as something that I can't see can something exist without me seeing it I know you won't accept them I know you won't accept the converts even if they came I know you'll speak bad about them I know you'll mistreat them I know what's in your heart I know you had the event and you invited everyone except them I know is there such a thing of me something happening in the world and me not seeing it that's also and that's a that's a sin that you can't do chva for on y y is not going to help you it's not going to help you so now in this it says it says when you will go out to war against your enemies and Hashem your God will deliver him into your hand and you will capture his captivity so here we see hasm is telling us you're going to go to war but if you're doing the will of hem Hashem is going to put the enemy in your hands put the enemy in your hands you have nothing to worry about whether it's golat or whether it's the Palestinian terrorist of today whether it's whoever it is if you're fulfilling the will of hem like David honored aem's name on a daily basis nothing to worry about which you should know also one of the things that's very difficult for us to understand is the wars of DAV are very different than today the wars of M very different than today I don't mean what most people are thinking right now no yeah of course no different than today we have f-16s today we have planes today we have atomic bombs no no no no that's not what I mean it's not what I mean what I mean is says when you do my will one person can kill 10,000 so when mosenu would send people to war he wouldn't send everyone to war he'd leave most of them studying Tor wanted to send people to warm said no no no let me give you some rules to limit who you sent to war if he just got married in the last year keep him home if he spoke between the of the Y and the r sa spoke didn't speak keep him home if he started a business gave him a bunch of rules of keeping a bunch of soldiers home why why keep them home going to war isn't it power of numbers why is everyone scared of China they have the biggest army in the world why is everyone scared of America they have the most weapons in the world people are scared of numbers here hasem made laws in the Torah that is limiting our numbers he's saying no no no less people can go to war why because it doesn't matter how many people you sent to war go send 30 people against all of America all of Egypt all of uh Japan all of China the whole War 30 people we're still going to win why Yem AEM decides you wins not your sword not your missiles not your bombs not your nothing one of the things that the uh Prophecies of the end of times of what's going to happen is they say that one of these countries that are enemies of T is going to launch an atomic bomb it's going to be like a something that's going to be launched at at and hasm is going to stop it in the sky the way it's described it looks like a missile that's an atomic bomb the way it's described by the sages and the uh commentaries someone's going to launch an atomic bomb that's supposed to hit Israel hm's going to stop it in the sky saying I run the show 30 people three people 300,000 people 50 it doesn't make a difference doesn't make a difference anyone that's having doubts of what I just said you have to work on it why because you're doubting Hashem you're limiting Hashem you're saying Hashem needs a million people army to beat a big army by saying 30 people as an army is too little not enough weapons is too little certain budget is too saying that hasem needs anything to win a war against anything is limiting AEM it's limiting hem and according to we have to work on it we have to stop to stop with this limiting of Hashem so people ask me all the time all the things you say about Shabbat wigs wasting seed slum by it even you ever hear a rabbi tell you a husband that hits his wife Al says chop his hands off hear anything like that put him on never they said no no we're going to counsel them we're going to talk to them what talk to them the guy beat her up she has bumps in her head she almost died she had a miscarriage because of him what what what talk to him should be put in jail if it was if it was allowed we burn him any man hits a wife is the worst person on Earth doesn't matter what what he does anyone that hits a woman this iable human being even in jail they beat him up even in jail people don't like stuff like that so people ask me the same question all the time where are these other rabbis how come rabbis that know a million times more than me studying t for a lot longer than I have where are they where are they how come no one else says it other than RAB mrai RAB ala RAB zon that's it yeah I don't know a few names maybe I I don't know I heard Rabbi wallerstein is very good he tells some decent things that are real truth of real M but in comparison to at least 15 to 25,000 rabbis in the English-speaking world if not much more than that you got three four five six let's say 10 let's say I don't think it's even three but let's say 10 that say that where's everybody else where where is everybody else so I came with a term that's funny and sad at the same time funny and sad at the same time carebear rabbis we have a generation of Care Bear rabbis that's no different than what happened right before hasem destroyed the the mikdash a bunch of rabbis that know the truth but decided that the the public cannot handle it for some reason or another the public has become deformed where we cannot handle the truth why can't we handle the truth I have no idea but for whatever reason or another at some point or another over the last couple of generations the leaders Among Us decided that we cannot handle the truth now if it's rabal mitv that are are extra stringent and so on and you don't think the guy out of the level to do it that's one thing but when you're talking about the foundation of Judaism and people are not telling people the leaders are not telling people about the foundation of Judaism idol worship shabat all these basic level the issues the issues of modesty you see I saw somebody uh that I know had over the last few days they put a seph they brought it to and they you know they took pictures and so on there was not woman I had to m shut off the screen there's not one woman one woman in the all the pictures I know there at least two 300 people a lot of Jews not one woman you're allowed to look at not one woman you're allowed to look at why no one's wearing anything but they're all coming celebrating T the Arabs look at us they're like that's the Arabs know it's Arabs no look at these people they're bringing the Torah they got from Mount sa and the woman is stilling up pajamas that's but no one's going to say nothing no one's going to say nothing so someone asked me a question I want to put this to bed once and for all as far as how bad we we are at this stage and how the only way the only way we can be saved the only way we could actually have a chance as a nation is if we the people stop relying on the leaders and start taking charge ourself start learning to ourself start doing chuva ourself start doing kir of ourself start making decisions and stop playing like little kids that can't handle someone asked me today if the wigs is such a bad thing why isn't many anybody mention it well let's just let me just explain to you now once and for all we'll put this to bed of how bad the wigs issue is because the wigs issue is not a problem for the secular World secular women don't wear wigs they may wear hair extensions but they're not doing it for religious reasons in a religious World they wear wigs as a form of as as a way of practicing their religiosity as a way of what they think is honoring hasem as a way that they think and they're led to believe that this is being modest even though the hair is three times our natural length much prettier much better much sexier and she thinks that this is somehow more modest anyone that actually says that they believe women that when they say this is lying to themselves cuz even the women themselves don't believe it they just say it there's a anthropologist wrote a book says the life of hair life of hair I actually think the woman is actually Jewish but it doesn't seem like she's religious and she did research about hair the wig in history and everything that we did research on which is what I did for almost 20 years on Wall Street was confirmed in this book could have saved myself a lot of time just reading this book bottom line what the book says the overwhelming majority of hair comes from India where in India those temples that have the Tantra where they shave the people's head men women and children as a form of idol worship it's not for I don't know uh summer uh heat they don't stand online tens of thousands thousand of them every single day waiting for a barber to shave their head clean like a bald little uh uh uh pool hle ball for uh for no reason they're not doing it for money they pay the barber why because they given this hair as a form of idol worship and there's several different Idols one Idol is some Idol that lost his hair so some woman donated a hair another Idol got hit in the head another Idol got didn't have money for a wedding all types of stupidity but they made a temple for it now how big is this business the richest entity in the world the richest entity in the world this includes companies this includes Apple IBM all of those entities richest entity in the world is the Catholic Church they own more real estate than McDonald they have tens of billions of dollars just worth of paintings alone tens of billions of dollars just for paintings but somehow they can't solve World poverty they you rather leave it on the wall and let people starve looking at them second richest entity is these Indian churches the Indian church that donates the hair that has tens of thousands of people waiting every every day second richest entity on the planet this gives you an idea of how rich these entities are how much idol worship there is India has approximately 1 billion people statistics show the average person has donated their hair to idol worship at least twice in his life in some cases there's estimates it's three times in their life that means three billion people that's the market a small portion of the market less than a percent comes from Russian jails they take the women they beat them up and they shave their head for the process and then even microscopic Market comes from a bunch of crazy hippies that like to donate their hair for some of noble cause they see some cancer patient they donate their hair to the cancer but that's like few three here four there five it's not a market it's not people don't buy this in stores they may get it as a private but the market and large is India idol worship so first and foremost anyone wears a natural wig knows for sure you're putting idol worship on your head how do you know because even though the hair the wig itself says made in China made in France made in England made in I don't know whatever it says but not India it's still Made in India why that's where the hair is sourced the reason why it says made in France is because the last part of the process of making it into the wig that's sitting on the head wasn't France wasn't England wasn't Italy wherever that hair is there's a new wig that came out she talks about it in the book says there's Brazilian hair Brazilian wigs she goes I went to Brazil I went to Brazil and I asked them where's the source of all the wigs from here and everyone got upset at me like you think that we would actually shave our head and if people say we rather die then shave our head die of starvation then shave our head she goes so I went back to the wig manufacturers I said you're saying it's Brazilian hair goes no that's just a name doesn't mean any doesn't mean actually came from Brazil means nothing could say Malaysian could say Brazil could say French could say whatever it says doesn't make it just nothing just for marketing purposes it's a multi-billion dollar industry so the first process starts at idol worship now let's say somehow you beat the system let's say somehow you got a wig of someone that went through the process but it didn't start at idol worship the problem is all the hair goes to a processing process where it's they put all the hair that certain length together and shorter length separated longer length separated meaning that there's not a single wig on Earth from natural hair that comes from one head which means that even if you have a wig that's 99.9% kosher somehow but there's a single hair that's from idol worship the entire wig has to be destroyed the only thing you're allowed to do with idol worship as we said ear excuse me earlier today is destroy it it's the only thing you're allowed to do it that's why when when he did his research on his own sent someone to India send someone to the factory sent someone all over the world to do serious research he you cannot wear it and people listened they started burning wigs in the streets they made big bonfires in y and in Brooklyn different places in the world why because they knew he's not joking around but a bunch of jokers fooled the market Satan gave them some uh waste some words to fool them and they created a new product called koser wigs where they're saying they're sending a bunch of rabbis to different places around the world and they're somehow koshering the wigs somehow the entire Market changed overnight one day for tens of years it was all coming from idol worship all of a sudden a day later not even enough time to set up shop for a candy store a day later we already have containers full of kosher wigs anyone that knows anything about doing business overseas knows just to get the container for example to get CDs we order it from China sometimes or we'll order some of the things from China takes a month and a half two months just to get it just to get the product takes a month and a half two months how'd you have it at the shore the next day you know how long to set up these a cards that I gave you guys we gave out I don't know maybe 5,000 of them over the last two weeks in honor of the grun family who having this big tun with their kids that a big car accident so people use this and do this blessing and for their Merit and actually do CH sanctify she's name but these cards people look at oh it's a nice poster it's plastic it's nice it's durable put it on the wall finished you know how long it took to make this took almost nine months nine months from beginning to end to actually getting it at the warehouse nine months design send it back send it back send it back negotiate prices send it back send it back 50 different types of samples different companies nine months so all of a son you have a container full of wigs the next day in Israel how how'd you do it wait Superman how'd you do it so now you know already if there's one hair of idol worship you must destroy the wig second point why do we have modesty laws in the first place modesty laws are specifically for a man not is not a Jewish man is not allowed to look at another woman especially if she's married especially if she's not Jewish especially if he's married and so on but even more so the first two as a matter of fact in this week's it says if a man rapes a woman that's already belongs to another man what's the punishment no it's not jail time no it's not uh cutting off parts of his body what's the punishment for a man that rapes a married woman or even is a woman that's already engaged not fully married but engaged to another man punishment is death penalty death penalty if he rapes her if they both conceded to it meaning she allowed it they both get death penalty the issue of of of of a married woman in Judaism inm's eyes is significant so now a woman that wears natural wig is replacing our hair with some other woman's hair how could this be better on top of it the woman that she's replacing her hair with is most likely married and most likely an idol worshipper it's getting worse and worse each time fourth Point only two women are mentioned in the Torah regarding their hair most famous one is in the section of the Wayward woman the woman that's accused of potentially cheating on a husband which I just said if she's confirmed to cheat on a husband it's death penalty on a spot no chuva if she cheated on her husband she and the guy die no chuva but they don't want to kill her they wanted to just admit it and then they'll let it go so they Tred to intimidate her the last part of intimidation the last step of the intimidation after they make her walk around and tire her out for hours they even rip her clothes which shows part of her chest the last part after showing her body is showing her hair meaning in hashem's eyes this may not be logical to you but in hashem's eyes showing the hair is more than showing the private parts of a woman as far as chest is concerned but made a he says you know what we're going lower and lower in generation let's remove this last part of showing the body let's just remove go straight to showing the hair it's already worse anyway so they took that last part out or the part out of showing of ripping the clothes off but showing the hair for someone that's considered a cheater they said even if she was a prostitute she wouldn't show her hair so now you replaced your hair with hair the only woman you resemble in the entire Tor is the do never mention about our hair ra Le all the Ruth not one is mentioned about here but somehow the satanas convinced the generation of people to believe we need to look like the the Wayward woman that's what we need to look like on top of it there's another woman on Pet's wife on Benet was supposed to be in the crew of korak korak took 200 50 to go against M on was the first guy in the team of kak On's wife came to him and said listen what are you going with k for if he wins he's president you're still on if he loses he dies M's president you're still own nothing changes for you either way why are you goingon to go fight he says yeah but I promised I promised to go fight with them I promise to do this she goes no no why you going to fight I'll take care of it goes but what I do don't break my word goes no no you do nothing you come she gave him a little wine she got him a little drunk go to sleep I'll take care of it how you going to take care of it just a woman what are you going to do don't worry I'll take care of it what' she do she stood she knew she saw all the kak and 250 Giants initially they were before they became were 250 of the biggest rabbis in the world and kak came to onb Pet's house when they're 50 feet away they see see there's a woman standing at the door not walking around the mini skirt standing at the door and she takes off a shows a hair immediately they ran away immediately they ran away they say no no Shalom we will not have a person on our team that's such a r that his wife shows a hair to men even theim kak and his friends said we wouldn't accept rash that lets his wife show a hair to men he's not in our level so that's number five was very against wigs but was also a very big in regards to finding in finding lenan for to make it easy to make it easy for the average man that's not to get by to get to to vouch for him he looked for all leniencies for every average man he says you're not allowed to teach why so many you turn them into so many turn them into donkeys they don't know what they're doing left or right no no make it easy for them stay with the law but make it easy don't try to add stuff there's already enough laws that most people can't keep anyway there's over a million kids in Israel don't know don't know you're gonna give them stringencies you read his you must cry you cry you cry at how much of a sadik he was how big of a he was he knew the entire tah by heart he looked for leniencies he says I looked at the entire wig issue I found 117 Pim of the biggest p in history 117 po minimum go against wigs in all cases no real wig no fake wig no nothing wig not allowed to wear wig 117 p and he says it's only five that say maybe it's allowed and I'm very surprised that they even said it but what they allowed looks nothing like what's out there the permitted wigs were wigs that look like Carpets on that head brooms not hair that uh these runway models are wearing look nothing like it they brought a wig Toki they showed him a wig that's 15 years old 15 years old nobody uses wig last a year two years they get a new one 15 years old out of use wig looked kind of modest if if you think that there's such a thing as modest wigs this would be the modest wig it's short it doesn't look like it just came out of a magazine looks old looks whatever normal they show it to the ra kki they said is this allowed there's a video of this we have this video is this allowed it's not allowed this is not what they allowed this looks too much like real hair the wig they allowed looks nothing like real hair it's noticeably a wig meaning that if it looks like hair then it's not Kosher in this book The Life of hair that this woman wrote she goes to different stores wig stores barber shops of Jewish people that sell wigs and she starts asking the customers why do you do this why do you do this what's the goal what's she asking them all question interviews people so she asked everybody the same question say what's the ideal wig what's the ideal way that you want to leave here what's what makes one wig better than the other everyone's answer was the same for it to look real for it to look like my real hair meaning the actual objective of the wig is the opposite of what's supposed to be two more will put this to rest many people accuse the rebi bab rebi as the one who made AEL a full wide on all leniency on all women to wear wigs anyone that reads his books knows this is falsehood he did not allow the wigs of but aside from that let's think logical we're all logical people I spent a little bit of time in the secular world so I think like that also the rebi was an engineer re was an engineer very very smart person he wouldn't make a law and then tell his people to violate it so some people say in kabad that no the wig is so good that's it's in accordance to the Z that it hides all of the hair hides all of the hair whereas a a scarf on the head or or or a hat doesn't cover all the hair funny thing is they don't follow anything else the Z says just this one law they decided this fits them good only after he died though they say this not when he was alive but now they say no it covers the hair does this it does this it's very holy it's much better better much the wig is much better some people go to the extent of saying it's much better than a scarf or a hat some extent they saying anyone that's wearing a scarf or hats like they wear nothing why because you still showing a few hairs here and there which by the way based on said allowed up to three finger length three fingers you could show up there for example you could show it's no problem you could look at some of the pictures of his own wife raban you could see she shows even more actually so now they say that the wig is Holier is better as this is a very famous place called the oil the oil what's the oil that's the grave site of theab even though many people are still crazy enough to think that he didn't die point is there's a grave site he died he's there he's looking in geden right now he's enjoying himself but there's there's a grave site for him people go there millions of people go there every year they go to this grave site and this grave site is a very important place a lot of people go in and out they pray there they get learn there they do a lot of things there now they have two things in the entrance that's available to all to use while you're there it's a holy place right holy place you got to be holy a lot of secular people go to these places some religious too in the entrance what do you see it's a place for keepa not every Jew wears a keepa but when you go into a holy place what do you do you wear a keeper the place they have a keeper on the men's side the women's side what do they have they have a scarf they don't have wigs they have scarves to put on your head or hats to put on your head for women now here's the question this recently there was a documentary about five years ago five six years ago made about kabad about the business aspect of kabad 20 years after the rebbi died it's prospering bigger than what it was when he was alive according to the statistics of several years ago kabad as an organization generates over $500 million a year 500 million a year serious the biggest Jewish organization in the world today it's probably double that so you can't tell me you can't afford 100 wigs to put at the oil the number one site of your entire organization if you really thought if you really thought and deep inside the wasn't controlling the show deep inside you thought you believed honestly genuinely that the actual WI wig is Holier is better than the than the Hat why don't you provide the public wigs why you providing them the Hat why you providing them the scarf you have the money last but not least I'll give you a PUK from the Torah every Friday night was you're going to have K in K sometimes it's AAG for some people to sing the song of songs but most people sing the song of songs in aimim you sing inet sure so in Song of Songs it's a very very romantic song between and wrote initially the sages the says wanted to cancel out the song remove it from the tanak because they didn't understand the deeper meaning of it initially they thought it was between a man and a woman but then they saw the secrets thees that he used to write the song of songs and also which is Ecclesiastes and also Proverbs which is so had to write these songs deep deep meaning in each one of them deep Secrets prophecies and so on one of these prophecies have to do with what we're talking about today and the song of songs you're going to read on Shabbat you're going to read the beginning of it in chapter 4 verse 7 it says says my beloved there's no blemish on you uh you are I'm sorry uh you will be you are completely Fair meaning you're very very beautiful my beloved and there's no blemish on you there's no blemish on you in last week's par told us one of many times that when you bring me aan make sure theban the sacrifice you're bringing me is perfect I'm allowing you to do chuva but don't bring me the cow with three legs don't bring me the uh sheep that's missing an ear have some cab bring me the best I gave it to you anyway you just giving it back the least he can ask for so if the Sheep has a split lip don't bring it bring the one with a full lip the Sheep is missing in air don't bring it so what is it called to be missing something Bal when you have a deformity you have a mo mo is like deformity something that's missing it's out of the usual so here told us when you bring aan make sure there's no mo today as AEM said to the prophet to prophets he says your your will replaced with your the words coming out of your mouth so make sure when you pray to me on on Yip there's no there's no deformity when you're saying something you mean it when you're saying I'm sorry mean it that you're sorry don't have a mo don't have a deformity in your prayer you're saying but you're already planning to violate Shabbat next weekend you have the trip to the ski trip already planned or to canun no mo in your speech no mo in your but here's one other place it's one other place that hasem made sure that we have an understanding that a moon does not belong and it's in in Song of Songs writes here you're completely beautiful and you have no M you have no deformity what's the beauty about this what's the here if you look at the Gat the numerical value of the word m it's 86 me 40 v 6 me 40 86 wig is in Hebrew 86 meaning you can replace one word with the other you're beautiful because you have no wig you think this is a m you think this is a happen stance you think this is just by chance there's no chances in Torah is because when he created the world he already knew a generation of Care Bear rabbis are not going to tell the people the truth it's time to find out the truth it's time to fight for the truth if your Rabbi is not telling you the truth find a different Rabbi but either way it's your obligation your individual obligation to look for the truth why because every single moment you live as a Jew not looking for the truth not looking to honor hem you're failing this mishna is saying you are you're desecrating aem's name and whether it's by accident or it's on purpose doesn't matter it's not going to help you when you get to Sham it's not going to help you onip it's not going to help you so you get going get serious take the Torah seriously learn it open it come to sh get stronger start becoming better human beings we won't have a mo we won't have any deformity we could arrive to comfortable we're not worried that someone is going to have to say oh revive the dead on us why because we know we worked hard whole year should give us another year full of all the good things in the world good health why because all day we're sanctifying his name what happened to someone that Sanctified hm's name changed nature for him he changed nature for him he took the steal and made it into nothing why he Sanctified his name is saying only way for you to stop desecrating his name is by making yourself busy honoring his name any questions go yeah of that theed person was for former Heritage like culture ands and tradition completely repeat the the last part does that mean that what does that also mean that averted person must drop foral Heritage as far as what as far as let's say if he has uh if okay so the question is if someone converts does that mean that they have to drop their previous Heritage as part of the conversion the answer is your birthday your new birthday once you convert you're officially a baby the rambam says it in his book in one of the chapter 13 uh it talks about what happens when someone converts someone gets a New Soul officially the day they convert they are like a brand new baby their birthday is that day they no longer celebrate the other birthday I mean in general just you know Judaism doesn't necessarily celebrate birthdays like go celebrate birthdays the only people that celebrate birthdays in the T were and they had parties but specifically so Jews in general don't celebrate birthdays but if you know somebody had a birthday and he's a righteous person or she's a righteous person ask him for a blessing because a birthday is a time for hasem wants to give you a blessing so as far as the new birthday becomes that day that you actually converted uh the Hebrew date not the English date uh or Christian date it's the Hebrew date so you have to find find out what's the Hebrew date of your actual conversion but aside from that the rest of your life at that moment is that you are now connected to the Torah you're connected to the Jewish people and you're trying to acclimate to the Jewish people in the Torah as much as possible doesn't necessarily mean that you abandon everything from your past it just means that you are connected to the Tor as the first priority which means that if your previous Heritage is against the Torah you're no longer allowed to keep it if your previous Heritage and Customs are not against the tah enjoy what's an example an example is people that for example want to celebrate you know before they converted they celebrate Halloween once you convert as a Jew you're no longer allowed to celebrate Halloween even though it seems like an innocent holiday that holiday stems from idol worship stems from idol worship okay so that's one second thing is people you know their tradition is to have say for example if they come from certain parts of the world their tradition their culture is to have mixed dancing parties throughout the entire summer you obviously can't even attend one of those parties why because you're not allowed to attend a mixed dancing party why because it's causes a lot of sins you can't do it so if your culture says to do that you can't keep that culture anymore but if your culture says get together with your family be nice to people and have a barbecue enjoy the barbecue no problem so it depends what the culture is there not it's not necessarily One S fits off all cultures all depends what the culture is what's next oh yeah I never answered the question because I don't know what the you're asking about right oh and that's also the question go to the bathroom yes so every time it said that wash the hands is the the ritual way so so so you wash your hands normally so where you wash your hands inside the bathroom or outside the bom say oh okay so as far as the and washing your hands the and washing your hands you only make twice a day you make B when you first wake up in the morning you wash your hands and you make but throughout the day when you go to the bathroom and you wash your hands you don't do there's no you only do the you don't do washing your hands that's what I'm saying so one second so I I got your question okay I'm saying in general just so you know rule of thumb you only make twice on washing your hands one when you first wake up in the morning and the second time is when you're about to eat bread those are the only two times that you actually make a blessing on washing your hands if you go to the bathroom 50 times a day you have to wash your hands but you don't have you don't make a blessing you don't use aem's name as a blessing now the the reason why you uh uh wash your hands in the morning it talks about how you have a you have a evil or bad uh spirit on your hands there's always bad Spirit on your hands but this according to cabala and some of the sages also in um in says there's a on your hands that can damage you the name of this is the daughter of the king which king Satan so he says as soon says in Shabbat not on Shabbat it says as soon as you wake up don't touch your face don't touch food don't touch nothing don't touch even body parts go immediately wash your hands go immediately wash your hands and do now if you have to go to the bathroom go to the bathroom first with limited touching of your of your body go to the bathroom first and then do and then after that you do so now the blessing and the blessing you do outside of the bathroom you do outside of the bathroom so the way you do it is that you uh put the proper amount of water one hand one hand one hand one hand for example or if it's for bread three and three um and then after you leave if let's say you washed your hands in the bathroom after you get out of the bathroom and then you do the blessing now now in the bathrooms of yester year and you know the gar days the tal days there was first of all there was no ability to wash your hands in the bathroom because the bathroom in those days was a hole in the ground outside of the city borders the bathroom of today is like Taj Mahal in comparison to what we had back then so even um said that you're allowed to actually even say in the bathroom some bathrooms of today why because it's clean when obviously when there's no urine or or or waste or excrement of some kind in and the toilet is clean everything is clean you're actually even allowed to say like in a bathroom of today because it's clean it's so clean in comparison to the ones they mention in thear now in general it's still not the appropriate place to say the the the uh the and since the door is only one two three steps away from where you are you wash your hands you leave you do the and then after that you do so that's that's the way you're supposed to do it um as far as the um actually I have anything else with what's the other want let's say not intention to something so you say so next the the food whatever you and then you eat it no as you do it for going to the B that you did is for going for the morning if you're planning on eating if you're planning on eating if it's food but non- bred food then you do a separate blessing for the food but if you're planning on eating food that's bread right in the morning then you have to do again okay but it's a different type of n why because the morning is one one one one whereas the bread di is three and three so that's that's the so if you're planning after you finish the uh morning washing your hands and you can't eat anyway why can't you eat anyway because you can't eat before you do you're only allowed to drink as a man you're only allowed to drink water or coffee if it's going to help you but you're not allowed to eat before you pray you have to pray before you eat you have to pray before it so so you're never really in a situation normally where you're washing your hands consecutively twice for bathroom and for bread because anyway you can't really eat you could drink coffee but you don't need to wash your hands for coffee or water say Satan satan mean it's all the same thing there's several names for him uh that's not a person it's not it's an angel it's an angel that Hashem put into the world to do a specific job his job is to test us his job is to take us away from Hashem not because he wants us away from hasem but rather because there's a power of resistance there's a resistance if there's no resistance there's not going to be any reward you need some type of resistance so the says that he has several names he has the um Satan the Satan his his his role when he's called yet is when he's inside us trying to convince us to make sense his role as Satan is that after we make a sin after he convinc us to make a sin is to go up to hem and tell on us hey look look look look what y did look he did this he did this he goes tells on us like he go rats on us to to Hashem if he was an a mafia they'd kill him but he goes up to Sham and he tells on us look you giv him all this reward you giving him all this you're giving him all that why what look what he did as if hem doesn't know hm knows anyway but he goes and he heats up it's just like you know for example when uh one of the kids gets in trouble he just broke a couple of things and the mom is upset you know you should do this you do this you should do this but then the brother is like yeah but IMA he also broke the other stuff now the IM instead of being upset she has horns coming out of her head that's cuz the brother just tagged along and told her he did a lot of other things you understand so that Satan is that the second role the third role is after hasem says okay it's time frame to pay the bill I have to kill him who do I send to kill him the angel of death so that's just three roles but there's also several other names M also gave the Satan the name his name was RA evil evil but sages also call him six other names some say even more 10 other names but he has a lot of different names a lot of different roles uh as far as is also connected to and the reason why it's connected to is because people have when it comes to giving for some reason or another people believe that when they make money they made it so when it's time for them to give what doesn't belong to them they have a hard time giving Hashem says I gave you 100% not really for you to keep 100% I gave you 100% for you to give back 10 and so you keep 90 so your payment for giving 10 is to give n is is to keep 90 I give you 100 keep 90 as a payment for giving 10 what do you give 10 for 10% for you give 10% for my Torah publicize my Torah get people to learn Torah get people to get closer to me and so on not give tend to save the Dolphins or the elephant in the uh you know in some Zoo to publicize my Torah to honor my name so for whatever reason or another the is convinced generation after generation especially the generation that we're in today that somehow everyone feels like this is one Mitzvah that's no longer relevant it's no longer relevant so when you tell them listen we need money to print CDs we need money to build betet we need money to build a Col we need money to pay you know to give money for so they could survive and eat food like regular people all of a sudden everybody doesn't have everybody's broke the guy's a doctor lawyer a banker architect whatever makes a 100 200 300,000 a year it comes to never has any money or maybe has $18 but you made 20,000 last month you made 10,000 last month you made 5,000 last month you that's all you have $18 that's all you have just so you know when you actually do a real when you have it's very easy to give very easy why because somehow hasem makes it so when he knows that you want to give Sak he makes it very easy I know a person that makes I think he makes somewhere around $3,000 $3,500 a month $3500 a month call it not much money 30 $40,000 a year he gives $600 a month his wife kids but somehow and he lives in America he doesn't live in like I don't know in uh Kuwait with $3,000 he's the richest he's the richest person in uh in the city he lives in America makes $3,500 a month no more he gives $600 a month $600 he gives meaning he gives 20% almost 20% but yet you have I have people they make five 10 15 $25,000 a month they don't get $500 a month maybe they give 100 50 if you include the homeless people they make three four five 10 times him they don't make 5 don't give $500 a month always don't have why it's no in the money so when it comes to a person needs to know that if you ever want to have in your money you want blessing in your money you have to give says this is one place you're all you're allowed to test me you give M I will make you rich in your lifetime when he doesn't say but I'll make it in your lifetime and obviously hasm has Mercy he's not going to make you rich a day before you die he's going to let you enjoy it a little bit but the point is is that m is a very important mitah and even though it's not to the same level of stringency as when we had the bet mikdash it is very important for anyone that has and anyone that knows the significance of how important it is to publicize T to get people to do CH to get people to to learn to now M really is supposed to be done in a very careful way so you don't have the Satan interfere too much some people think have too much confidence in themselves and they try to give M once a year when they do their taxes they realize okay I made 100,000 200,000 300,000 50,000 whatever they made and they figure they're going to be able to write the check for 10% of whatever they made they made 100,000 they're going to be able to write a check for 10,000 and never works that way why when a time comes you never have the money because you already gave the Satan a year to figure out a plan he doesn't need a year he needs five seconds but you gave him a year to figure out a plan how to convince you not that you don't have you have it in the bank you have it in Ira you have it in 401K you have it in a stock account you have it in the house you have it in a million places but all of a sudden when it's time to give because you gave him a year all of a sudden you don't have gave him too much time so really the most ideal way of giving Mel is as soon as you get money you get paid every two weeks every two weeks you give Mel you get paid every week every week give Mel you get paid every day every day give Mel don't wait to the end of the month to the end of the year to the end of the decade to the end of anything be in a hurry and also document it when I was in the investment business we made sure we had a lot of documentation for everything we did all Investments all things that we did we knew all where everything went and so on it's very important to be organized but this is for this world this world you invest a million dollars you want to make sure you know where the million dollars went you invest 100 million you want to make sure you know where it went it went here went here went here went here you do the accounting okay we're missing we have $100 million budget we're missing $400 where did the $400 go we need to find it why cuz $400 all a sudden becomes ,000 4,000 all of a sudden becomes 40,000 40,000 becomes 4 million we're not like the US government where somehow the Federal Reserve is missing n trillion and no one knows where it went trillion no one knows where it went when you're running a business and it's your money you want to know where $40 went you take records but this is just this world this is just this world mitvah you want to make sure that you know where every penny went why cuz every penny is going to buy you a new world so document the more serious you are about and giving the more of a reason you're giving Hashem to give you but when you're stingy then you're putting yourself in danger because hm says I gave you 100% only because I wanted you to give the 10 I was paying you 90 as a payment for you to give the 10 now you didn't want to give the 10 so fine no problem you you keep the 10 I take the 90 and this has happened many many times in history when you see people lose all of their money this is one big reason one of the big reasons of why anything else I know as soon as I turn off the camera questions are coming at me [Music] [Applause] [Music]