Are you being Tested or Rebuked by HaShem?

[Music] if you're being tested in life if you're having struggles even though you're serving Hashem you're still being tested you're serving Hashem you're praying every single day you're eating kosher you're praying you're studying toah but yet you're having problems in your marriage you're having problems finding a wife you're having problems finding a husband you're having problems with money you're having problems with health problems you're having all of these different issues even though you are serving hem that's a good sign why is it a good sign that you're being tested as tells us test those that he loves if he loves you he tests you if you're not getting any test you should be worried now in fact you're saying wait I'm getting tests but I'm not exactly righteous those are not tests those are rebukes meaning if you're not observing Shabbat if you're not being honest in your business if you're an adulterer and you're having all types of problems you can't sleep at night you have nightmares you're losing money your wife wants to divorce you your husband hates you your kids call you by your first name all types of disrespect then that's not because you're being tested it's because you're being rebuked when hasm is showing you that since you're not going in the way of T therefore these things are happening and therefore it's good for you to change