Your life is more important than our rules.

I tell parents, tell your kids that your life is more important than our rules. That's your par your life is more important than our rules. We have these rules. We don't want you to violate them, but if you do, your safety will always come first. We'll talk about in it later. Um, doesn't mean that we won't change your things because of that or discipline you, but we're not going to we're not going to yell at you when we come pick you up. All we're going to say is, "I'm glad you're safe." And that's it. you have time to talk about it 3 days from then, a week from then, but the immediate reaction should be have them get away out of this so they [music] can get home safely. >> I think that's fantastic. And I would add to that even taking it to the next level. I would tell the child actually if you make a mistake which I we hope you don't but if you do and you go against the rules that we're setting for you if you come and you call us up right away and tell us we are proud of you. The way we're going to respond to that is we are proud of you for reaching out [music] and contacting us cuz that's not easy. It's not easy to pick up the phone or find us and tell us when you might be embarrassed or you might be worried and you did it anyway, [music] which is the most important rule, right? It's one of the rules. If you break the rules, immediately reach out to us, especially in this in this idea, this genre of rules where there's a danger involved like you like you said and you you um outlined, tell us, call us. And the first thing you're going to hear from us, and then the parents have to make sure to follow through with this. The first thing you're going to hear from us is, "We're so proud of you that you called us to tell us, and now we're going to come get you.