What You DON'T Know Can Hurt You: Embrace Therapy! #shorts

I think that there's a uh one of the questions we need to ask ourselves and we do this as clinicians Robi which is what don't we know like you don't know what you don't know right but one of the things that you want to be aware is like again you don't know what you don't know so what what what is he not telling me what is she not telling me what don't I know what are these all these assumptions but I didn't know about the cell phone and I didn't know about this and I didn't know about that and I didn't know about this I didn't know about that and often when I have children in my office or young adults in my office and they were brought either for pornography use or something other that they got they got busted for whatever it is right away I say well what else what don't we know what else are you not telling me you know but I think it's important to know that like depending on the parents reaction are you going to force your child into hiding more right because here's an opportunity for transformation right here's an opportunity like you were saying transformation not amputation right here's a here's a here's here's I once heard in the name of BB Netanyahu not going to get into politics, but he said, "Never let a good crisis go to waste." You know, here's an opportunity for rupture and repair, for strengthening the bond, for education, getting someone help if if they're in need of