The SHAME of DAD's DISGUSTING Look #shorts

I just caught on that nuance and I and I reflected that back to him. I'm like, "Your father caught was Is it more that you were watching or was more that you got caught by your father?" You know, and when he was telling me we're we're going inwards, we're doing we're doing deeper work today, and he the way he said to me, he's like, "I got He goes, 'I was watching porn and I got caught watching porn and my father caught me.'" Like the emphasis was on not that I was watching porn, but my father gave me a look, you know, and and I noticed like the emphasis of his words. I'm like, "So, it's not so much that you were watching at a young age." I noticed [snorts] your emphasis was on my father, you know, "My father gave me this look of disgust." He said to me, you know. And I just caught on that nuance and I and I reflected that back to him. I'm like, "Your father caught was Is it more that you were watching or was more that you got caught by your father?" You know, but the thing that made the impact on that he remembers many years later into his young adulthood is this attachment piece. This thing that that I disappointed my father and he was disgusted with me. So, the message I got internalized just by way of consequence, just by way of being and not by anyone's fault, was that I broke my father's trust.