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Stop Bullying: Assertive Phrases That Work Instantly! #shorts

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I walk up to the bully and I say, "You are being so mean by calling me that name. You've now invited a fight." "No, I'm not. You deserve it. It's not so mean." As opposed to "It's hurting my feelings deeply when you call me that name. Stop." Or if you don't want to make yourself so vulnerable and so emotional, you could just simply say, "I really don't like it when you call me that name. Please stop now." Firm, short, focusing on "I don't like it." "I don't like it." What's he going to say? "That's not true. You do like it." There's nothing to argue about. If you focus on his actions, "What you're doing, YOU'RE A RUSSIA. YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO DO YOU DON'T YOU REALIZE" He could just start arguing. "No, it's because of this. You're wrong. I am allowed" But if you just say, "I don't like what you're doing." You want to add in "It's really bothering me" or not. "I don't like what you're doing." "I need you to stop now, please." That's 1 second. I'll take questions in a minute. The