Minhagim Causing Family Strife? #shorts

I think we need to figure out a way to change the way Minhagim are addressed when it comes to Yom Tovim. How many families get ripped apart because the son-in-law doesn't do this and the daughter-in-law doesn't do that and now you can only go to one. I promise you Chazal did not want that we should use Minhagim and Gebrochs and not Gebrochs and this and that as ways to create Machlokes and strife amongst family members. And and that resentment carries on and then it goes to the grandkids. Why couldn't we go to Bubby and Zeidy cuz they do eat Gebrochs, they don't. I just think it's one of those things that I'm meaning again, not for this topic, but I I just felt the need to get it off my chest.