Master Criticism: Compliment First, Then Discuss #shorts

one idea. It's really an idea that's universally applicable to anytime we give criticism to another person and certainly in a very close relationship between husband and wife. And one idea is to begin with a compliment. You know, I I'm just thinking about PUM coming up and I'm remembering the last few years. I'll just uh sound like a broken record here, pun intended, you sang so beautifully at the suda or you know, I I love how you're you know, you take the initiative with the driving around giving out the Michelmanos. I love how you say Torah. Always make sure you know say a couple of compliments that you genuinely appreciate before then transitioning into I was thinking a little bit about the drinking like could we discuss that a little bit and approach it with a respectfulness and wanting to engage in conversation avoiding accusations certainly accusations of character where it's you are you know not not a not a good person on you know something like that but more talking about the behaviors. So, it's starting with a compliment and then easing into the conversation.