Kids Hide SHAME In Secret! They NEED To Be Caught? #shorts

often when a child feels like they have to hide certain behaviors. Every day I hear in my practice, you know, how long was, you know, whether it was pornography use or whether it was cell phone or whether it was shabas breaking or whether it was some sort of sneaking thing that they felt they had to hide. The reason why they're hiding is because they really feel ashamed. There's a tremendous amount of shame that happens and they feel I'll be judged if I tell my parents or my parents won't understand or often they're struggling with these things weeks, months, years prior for it to being revealed. And sometimes even this is not in every case it's not uncommon that I'll hear almost from uh someone who got caught and they end almost like a feeling of relief like like now I could speak about it with someone you know the more person shame grows in secrecy. So the more a person has to go into hiding like you were saying rababi the person they wind up living a double life you know it's just the child feels forced into hiding and they're ashamed of what they're doing and they themselves are struggling.