Growth Shouldn’t Come With Guilt

I was far from the perfect high school bucker. We learned bestcase scenarios. Other words, you shouldn't be doing this. You shouldn't be thinking about that. You shouldn't have any thoughts, concerns, etc. about movies, telev etc. All these other things. And all of a sudden, we say, "Well, I'm really not living up to who they want me to be. Does that make me a bad person? It just segus right into a lack of self-confidence." And yes, of course, the reb are shooting high because that's what rebum do. They want the best for us. And maybe in a you know best case scenario Arabi will understand it won't but the bottom line is understanding that there's a place for growth without guilt growth in a healthy way that I think myself as a teenager would have taken away a lot of angst and a lot of feelings of inadequacy that felt at that