Ensuring Safety: A Father's Lesson on Boundaries #shorts

She went up to get something. And a woman an Orthodox Jewish woman went over to her and said, "Um are you feeling safe?" She didn't know that I was a father. I would daughter said I got really offended. That was disgusting. She said, "That's my father." And I told her, "Please darling, go back and thank her because she didn't say your father is doing something. This person is a creep." She did it in the I thought it was I thought it was very thoughtful that if we see people in our family or or generally speaking that that some uh um boundaries might be might be getting eroded. Um it's okay for us to tell ask the kids You know, are you feeling safe? >> An example that I've heard that I really like is the kid says to the parent, "I'm having one of those one of those stomach aches." Um so you know, it's kind of a normal thing to say but it's unique one of those for some private time with the kids. That makes perfect sense. Brilliant. So that's one example.