Ensuring Safety: A Father's Lesson on Boundaries #shorts

A woman ensured my daughter's safety. Her vigilance taught us appreciation. An Orthodox Jewish woman went over to her and said, "Are you feeling safe?" She didn't know that I was a father. Our daughter said I got really offended. "That was disgusting." She said, "That's my father." And I told her, "Darling, go back and thank her because she didn't say your father's doing something this person is a creep." She did it in the I thought it was I thought it was very thoughtful that if we see people in our family or or generally speaking that that some um boundaries might be might be getting eroded. Um it's okay for us to tell ask the kids, you know, are you feeling safe? >> that I've heard that I really like is the kid says to the parent, "I'm having one of those one of those stomach aches." Um so you know, it's kind of a normal thing to say but if you unique one of those and I like to set it up beforehand for some private time with the kids. That makes perfect sense, brilliant. So that's one example.