Child Safety: Teaching Kids to Say 'Stop' Empowers Them #shorts

I tell the kids if you don't like, if you're not comfortable, if you get scared if you're frightened by this or if you don't want just say stop and I'll stop that second. And they they actually the last couple of years the kids started really became funny. I do it the kids say stop, stop and I think it's great cuz it's giving them agency. But but what it's telling the children is that even someone we I know you love me and I I I get all that but if you don't like it just say stop and I and I and I'll stop right away. Probably should be avoided in general but especially the children need to know they can say no, I don't like you tickling me no matter even if they're very young. >> My daughter my daughter will tell me that I can't kiss the grandkids without permission. So or they say about tickling or anything else, I tell them this is a great opportunity to support what the children are learning. The reason the child safety education is effective because they're told that they have agency and they can speak up and if you give them a slobbery kiss and they don't like it and they come to their mother and the mother um can't get you to stop you're training you're you're undoing all the critical child safety information that that the children need. This is what they're told currently. They weren't told that we weren't told this when we were kids and you know, look what happened to to so many people. But in today's day and age we're living in different times. We're teaching our kids different messages and it's important that people understand it. But if we teach our children that they have the right to decide for their own body or their own feelings, you know, the book we spoke about, you know, Rabbi Horowitz many many years ago Uncle Willy Tickles. Right?