Build Trust: Encourage Honesty with Our Kids! #shorts

I think that's fantastic. And I would add to that even taking it to the next level. I would tell the child actually if you make a mistake, which I we hope you don't, but if you do and you go against the rules that we're setting for you, if you come and you call us up right away and tell us, we are proud of you. The way we're going to respond to that is we are proud of you for reaching out and contacting us cuz that's not easy. It's not easy to pick up the phone or find us and tell us when you might be embarrassed or you might be worried and you did it anyway, which is the most important rule, right? It's one of the rules. If you break the rules, immediately reach out to us, especially in this in this idea, this genre of rules where there's a danger involved like you like you said and you you um outlined, tell us, call us, and the first thing you're going to hear from us, and then the parents have to make sure to follow through with this. The first thing you're going to hear from us is we're so proud of you that you called us to tell us and now we're going to come get you. And just specifically on the drinking and driving, whenever I do presentations to students and buff and yeshivas, I always put the manal or the rebby on the spot. And I say, and if you're ever in a situation where there's a car and you're concerned that it may be driven by someone who had some something to drink, call the rebby, call the manal, call your parents, but even the rebby or they will pay for the Uber. They will come pick you up. And obviously to be stressed. >> Yeah. You know, I I I think there's something else that's also part of it is that to try to plan with your children to have a strategy