What does Hiskashrus mean for today’s Bochurim? • Rabbi Moshe Wolberg

I mean in today's world I think it's very important for Bakar to know that his shis I mean maybe it's more because of my background he he he has to really appreciate that he really has a with the very important like a baker should Understand you know Abbakr in the Yuds didn't have to impress upon himself that he had a shik with the Rebba was there for him was there he was ask didn't have to think that the Reb is the Reb knows who he is and the Reb is caring about him etc etc not and not Rabiel and not all these people were there and which was later but but as it went in the lamids. So then there could be a mitus of a bakar that wasn't really sure whether the reban knows who he is. There could be a mus of a bakar that wasn't really sure if the reb knows who he is and certainly the mems and then now there's now. So a buck has to understand that this this concept this understanding means understand he has to he has to really impress upon himself just like you know so a person has to know that there is a personal relationship between him and the it's not like the is looking at him as a just a number of of there's a mus that there is a relationship between every and every with theb and and that's a true and something which is true. It's not something which is morgish. It's not something which you feel it regularly naturally. It's something which you have to work on to understand that that's the truth. And and a person has to realize that the truth doesn't depend on arrogation because we have to realize that there's a truth which is not told in arrogation and you know we could try to be marish this truth. We could try to develop a certain you know a feeling of bringing this truth closer to ourselves but that doesn't mean that the truth is dependent it's not contingent on the way we feel and that's something which we always have to talk about. You have to talk about this idea that this that that that this every buffer and every person is very very dear and very personal connection to the Reb and and you know you can make a maybe a Reb spoke so much in the about the which is connected to the Reb aer which is connected to the Reb that is part of the Reb. So how much more so aid that's how much he's part of the reb if a safer is part of the reb so so a buck is part of the and he has to understand that and then he has to understand that he has and he has the ability to be able to to to bring that out and the idea is that a person you know the gives us the you know the idea of the theb wants to be knows we and the rebba are not two things. It's not that there's a and there's us and we remember saying over from that that uh you know there's a question if you ask to to beseech upon you you know >> so what about asking Abba. So the answer is when you're going to a Reba, you're not going to someone else. So the DMA is he says you have a problem with your foot. So your head is asking for your foot. Why is your head asking for your foot? Is the foot the foot like the foot is the problem? Well, the answer is because the head and the foot are one thing. If there's a problem with the foot is the problem in the head. The head feels the problem with the foot. So when a person understands that his relationship to the Reban he has to like it's not something which is what what I'm saying right now is not something I'm saying because I have a herish we have to realize the truth you have to realize the truth that there's the truth the truth the way it says in the way the truth the way it says in the way it says and then we have to bring that truth into ourselves to think about the truth and internalize the truth and to understand that that's our truth whether we feel the truth we don't feel the truth, we have to try to become closer to that truth. And I think that's what we have to bring about. Of course, we have to bring about doing the right things and knowing what what what's expected of us. We have to bring about that as well. I mean, everybody in his in you know going, you know, doing the things that are expected of him. But there's a certain general idea which uh is something which should also be discussed.