Ep. 53: The Last Sicha The Rebbe Edited L’eis Ato with Rabbi Avrohom Mann

And he and he realized that as that he's now by the reb like the say and in this moment he he connects to the he could walk out of the with the same and the same shinu change in his life. >> There's another integral component to pan which is called the mayan. If you want to learn more about what this is, stay tuned later in the episode. If you've been enjoying this podcast, please like and subscribe so that others can enjoy it as well. In addition, if you've benefited in any way from a monk podcast and would like to give something back, you can do so today at their.org/donate. I'm Yasi Cayman. Welcome to among an ongoing faban about life as our vibrant connection with the Reb and inspired living shaped by the way he teaches us each and every day. How are you? >> Okay. Thank you so much for making the time and um I would like to begin and uh I mean I I know you somewhat from uh many years ago when I was in MFA in Toronto but I never learned by you but I sat by some of your Fabangans. But before uh I would I would like to know uh from Makt where you come from and uh I understand your your father is alive. But I I know from your and there's a a history there. So maybe you can start off with that. So actually everything is come on. But says that was put into my father's story. You see it mish in a tangible way. He was some of his brother one of his brother which is and and then and officially was supposed to continue the program but practice they learn the that they so he didn't like it. He asked them to change it because he made a gun. It's time to understand he's a real estate agent. He's a businessman. It's part of his personality. He used to have a lot of money. So he organized and they were not ready to to change it. It was a good quality learning in was a good and what to do with it's a good not good so decided to go there. >> Yeah. And interesting that they changed then at after the already changed a different but my father was already the ready she sent him to that was that was the like the rest is history >> this like in the youths when is this >> that was in in the youths >> my father said something very interesting I'm saying it's that um that When came to Zion was then was the first time they knew what a is that a newb generation but they knew that passed away but they didn't know what what is the and the came they saw giants in speaking, you know, you my father told me then they started in our situation after when you see you see even a bal but you see You see that of the world. It's very interesting. >> Yeah. So he's ins and uh because of that is he fell he fell into labavage. That's >> so at that point he ever he ever came to the then or later like what happened then? So my father I say I'm saying interesting story with the person two times one time was my mother was also part of the but the and co that was supposed to get the husband used to get if he came along. So one of them was my father my mother so theb so he he came to the de the first time >> no no I'm going to speak about it soon I'm just general introduction >> about about I'm saying we mentioned before that he's still life. So I'm I'm just describing a story that brings it out that two and one with mother. So to representatives of the world land and the girl used to get also. So the same. So he comes out and he takes takes more than three says take three for myself and three I want to take for my lived in that was so my father used to stay by and he's saying now >> and he's going to walk even though you could say expression in like you know right but Anyway, back to the east of my father and then he got close to the heb and I think of he was by the first time. I know I know because he told me that he was there the I think the first year that they made by the facility instead of walking. So if according to this I think the first year was so he was and then he came to the every year or second year very often if it was three years ago was a big because my father that was unusual. >> Yeah. He used to have money no just no means someone just have money gives a lot of um is a cute story with that I discovered only he tells me one day you know it's a good friend of mine every used to come into my father's office real estate office still existing still doing He comes there used to come you lent me out money for a ticket to go to the and it was clear was we both understood each other that it's not meant this borrowing money is not meant to be paid back and was like one of the came to the this way >> to your father. >> Yeah. And then then he came to very often and he had a say that that he took his kids to the Rebe my sisters older than me and then and then came to was the first time he took me to the I was before mitzvah. It was mish amazing mish mish. I was 11 years old almost 11 years old. It was me as a child. I I saw that what you remember as a child certain things is nothing comparable to what you see later. In other words, I'm saying to kids that the certain things that and gets engraved in you and you see it in a in a very sincere and and MSA that you don't have it even later. There's few incident that I remember but that that the one of the that I s experienced and I'm very thankful to my father that he took me as a child and then after the bit >> I I imagine not many of your went to to to see the rebba at that age. >> Right. Right. Even though your had a very interesting thing that by them the was a very strong and says to go to the go to the to have passion a love to the was a very strong thing says was connected had a very strong connection interesting that not necessarily so much the didn't didn't arrive in those years so much but the rebb personally and saw him I saw the library started to publicize things that so it says over there from the lame that they went to a town inim is like a very officially very fry not from area and says that the driver was And because he had money, yes, he had a car and he drove the people. And I can't remember as a child that Friday he used to take me to Friday. He took me to because in other words, very interesting. But the reb attract them. The reb. So, so you measure before and sometime it's very hard to find to organize people should not just you know people should be with you not just people officially but people should answer to So he was thinking maybe this year not going to go said listen come we're going to help you out with him because money wasn't the issue but the technicality to organize a minion two times a day it wasn't easy so they told him come we're going to help you and he came and maybe the he got was in this year was for him not easy to come >> and he got this special maybe finished. We don't know what's happening up there and down here. But it's a good lesson that when you go to the Reb when it's not so easy, it's even a bigger accomplishment. Oh, okay. And uh and but I'm imagining from the Yuds and whatever's letters also back from the he got I'm imagining. I don't know. >> Yeah. I think um there's for sure letters And even I figure out that I could close with my mother of the And of my mother's mother wasn't so excited about some technical reasons the technical reasons originally, but you got the answer of the Reb and that's what made it. So they got a they got a letter of the reb that the reb is masking to the >> she wasn't right. No, not she was >> Yeah, she was knows that she was very close to his name was villain. He was very very very close to the he said about people complain to him how come he speak about he was said how come speak about everyone knows that in the expression whoever speaks about it doesn't know whoever doesn't know speaks about it so how come the speaks about. So became serious and he said the of the was given to the took the tax of so the speaking about he could trust she was very close to him. So, but the was years later and she waited for the when the Reb said it. Okay. So, that's one letter they know that the Rebu made, >> right? >> So, what was it? What was the catch? I imagine you learned in the what was the the kesh with theb while while you're in and what brought you to come to the reb was that whole whole thing so the since I came to the base it was a different connection to the even though I was 10 years or close to 11 years old is youth I was born of which means touch base. I was 10 years old close to 11. But I told you before was pushed like whatever you see as a child is nothing comparable. We loved being by the Reb. We love the Reb and we love being example. I remember when we missed a push as a child. I felt bad because I wanted to be I I remember is that my my parents want to make you know child entertainments to go to interesting attractions that you have in New York. I was fun. It was absolutely fun. But I remember that the big bad was a mortgage marketing. We love the middle. So when they came back was ukups big for blankian it was so so in the cups they I came to the bas in the morning then for 77 9:30 we asked 3:30 4:30 depends on the time so it was we came we came and we listened and I wrote to myself more more than I was Even especially after my mitzvah that I understood even more but um a member of one of the bim gave me an interesting advice he saw that I listening and I down to understand he says a practical thing to hear the and I tell the today I'm in Toronto with the so I tell him the same idea when you hear of the especially of the later years when the reb goes into a topic don't try to connect what is the connection before Listen to the moment and try to understand what Reb says right now. Then later on after the try to connect the dots. It was a very good because the used to go into a lot of interesting sightings or the used to go off in or off the but you got how things came in so at least you didn't get lost time just to describe the that we love bring >> so by the time you by the time you came to 77 permanently you already were used to the signing of the And it's >> for sure for sure >> even by the I still remember was the touch base came. So the I remember the spoke so sharp and harsh. Why don't people do it? So I remember the understood I don't I'm not remember I don't remember said but ideas and shbing from I understood what's happening whatb wanted to bring often actually my father was very excited about a satellite. They used they made satellite them with a lot of money. So he figure out that it's going to be it's a big expense. Today internet it's nothing to see something alive that speaks but then it was a lot of money for every minute. Even a phone call was a lot of money for sure to see the life but they did few was there even nothing was interesting to see a live from from a different country. So he fig that they going to send after the for recording the video going to come together and he paid a lot of money to buy the machine and he did it together with vers just passed away his son and he >> Danny >> Danny Danny took care of the practical thing and father sponsoring it for him and and over the rebies into right after the Fabian few days after the Fabian they ship over the the recording and the video where it was done to see then I came then I came to every from every came >> no not from Yeah. >> And I got a set of my brother-in-law, future brother-in-law, you know, very famous. So he had a younger brother that he was a brother. I'm saying was because he passed away unfortunately young. And so he gave me a set of few months before. So that's was and then wasn't today. It wasn't common people had other saw him was not coming in and from day one and then next came to the first So that's the time. So >> Okay. So what when did you so how what was the story behind you came to the permanently that was for what was that >> I had a big to go to the machia to learn by I wanted to stay but I got answer the guy going to learn in Montreal told me I learned. >> Yeah. So after Ibre was a very very good from Montreal today. So he was then took care of me but was and then after was didn't work out scammer coming not good didn't work out yeshiv So I wanted to go to different is so a group of went to Montreal to learn Montreal and and I and I asked I knew the reb is not going to let go to a different place without the shoes of the current a very very strong consistent sheet of the if you want to know we're good to go next year you have to have a of the finale you have So I wrote to the Reb to go to Montreal and I asked the Reb if it's the if it's the best thing for me. So the Reb didn't answer after the answer after the after the so the gave everyone a dollar accepted and the Reb said and the Reb gave a dollar. So I asked the rebre but I want to know he says it's a tablebuse but if you want to have advice what's the best place for you and he told me that they told me if you understand it doesn't work for you to stay in but not to go to Montreal they gave me a better different to him I learned after I came back I went to loot based on instructions so as ate the table then I know time to go to L I went to L and from there I went to I went to Katic G three years and then go so I was supposed to be but the patience was too much I can't I couldn't not go to the push I came to the I want to go to the rebus and was shabas before and I want to go to the But there's many technical things that didn't wasn't wasn't in place to make it. And I see I think that now said even though usually you say so you don't rely on said over here it's Because of that's part of you should rely says that means that the animal leaning on it. So you lean on it said use the same expression right after we got them. I said I'm going to be by the reb next Shabas. I didn't have I didn't have a passport like I lost my passport. If you don't have a pass, you can't have a visa. The travel agent tells me everything is booked because the couples want to go to the parents. So the flight are full to go from to us. There's no place in it. I said fine. The Reb said, "I'm going to be like before and I came to the Shabas for you could see it and had many but listen never spoke before such great atheists after the use the same wording the same bill the same explanation same wording later on but the atheist the first use such that was disobed and shabas is also is in the world is part of because seven days and part of the union of kings and part of the seven days is shabud that himself against but it's part is 11 11 represent anything I am never said when you don't speak about himself any expression you can say about himself is limited why because you're describing it so there's no way to describe himself the only expression you could say is 11 because you don't say what it is you say what It's not he say is higher than 10 higher than anything even atmos expression is expression the only way to express it is with the idea of 11 is the highest of all the highest thing possible can't even After such a fraing, the Reb discovered to ask what is a mini and then the Reb used the same expression is 11th month and and started again. But the the the the base for everything was this shabas shabin shab that's >> there's a whole thing with shisma right that that right right there was a and they made a different thing they picked a different thing from the made included spoken in the middle of and was interesting went up to give theb And after went up to the steps, so the Reb showed him to go down. In other words, the is going to go down and he's going to go down and he's going to give a so interesting two explanations of I'm saying you could call it think that's not says that he's not saying he's on he's benching Eden show them what are you coming up and saying over here let's go to secondish yeah oneish anotherish said what do you think is not that I'm on the stage and you come and giving me a broken I want to be together going down for the stage I'm in the same level the same place you know mixing then give me and then that's a second >> you see the video of it it's a very interesting scene >> that's exactly what I tell you after The after after the Reb answered back with and then was saying and the Reb was holding down the time out of was looking for a short moment but you saw the love of the rabbiting to the rabbit. It was a short describe it. So I thought I for I remember this vision is standing like this and like a smile but big another smile but I always spun him like happy face like a face and sing the is looking singing. So I I in my op you saw the rabbis love to see him to the rabbis and then my brother-in-law is in Brazil in Brazil. So years later and then we got married. My sister got my two sister. So years later he tells me that in California. So he brought up a group of to go to the Reb. So he said one of the they said that they saw this moment coming out. He saw the love between just came to the tobently. It's objectively this was to capture the moment >> right >> to see this >> and I was saying that you can you can see something special in that video >> holding first is down like you're describing and then says right says it's like a whole whole expression over there and then it's a very special scene and it's and it's a video also. >> Yeah. Okay. So, so you came to the test permanently and with a bang. So, I imagine that it was it was a total different experience once you were there permanently than it was in. >> Absolutely. Absolutely. Then was doing the and you stand in front of the shabas or During the week the roof picks you up to different give you an interesting experiment a little bit to describe it right. So you could say a little bit could call it in other words I want a little bit share a little bit my person my personal experience it was and that's also that you could learn even like I'm going to say soon but was spoke about and he says and it wasn't just one line was all and build up. Remember that after the after we used to make after I wanted to ask you about that I wanted to ask you about that more so whatever yeah we'll get back to >> discuss it later so you pinch you know sometimes you want to pinch yourself is it true is it kind of is it correct what I'm meaning the said In other words, a human being like us. And someone between us said a secondbre says the says you But it didn't come true. And how comes what going to happen? And he says because he brings it out the brings it out. So the person already starting means you see it in see that this particular year is a year of energy extra energy. So this energy I'm saying my own language if it's going to come down here it's going to be energy of so it doesn't come out the way it is sometimes extra negative things happen because extra energy being used not in a proper way to be negative and some extra good things the four cases in because it was a year of a caseb said if it can The is not just it brings that wobbling something with your lips gives them the actual thing that he says it he brings it down and then expression I'm telling you couldn't believe my ears that's why the that after this particularly interesting post I'm not going to obviously I'm not going to mention names but it was called like a well a little bit a joke ination of sometimes not in a proper way >> usually when the speaks about it's not positive But one time is positive. You're going to see a positive interesting positive. I was also from not gonna go into was very going in from off topics said don't they don't like that shabas and the reband then before the reboot stand on the side of the stand which means touching after was not to be with the foot they made a different stand for bringing. But then the rebate and the said you're not allowed to know that you don't know even though the say that there's a whole back and forth about it. So the said and the but the still said I'm not going to and the said and the questions so much the sleep like this from question answer saying and the went from here up to the almost to the elbow from of Shabas from the noting of Shabas. But on the same kuf theb gave a positive statement about very interesting thing the said that that I'm not saying the whole background it's going to be too long but that and the fact that means the gave positive. >> I think I saw I think I saw I think I saw someone made a of all the references that I think I saw it around. >> Interesting. But then if you check the context do you see that the spoke about someone that doesn't accept coming soon that is not like in other words from the is a good thing if you happen back to with your friend who's he went around and he asked you You know all the and people that know the such a of the I will admit there was like a unique meet them all right after this after the says the goes to the and knows the And it was a car accident child got killed and flying riots. The riots is crazy. >> I want to mention something that's a big part of writing a pan to the but that sometimes is forgotten and that is the de May pan the money that we give with the pan. If you're wondering why we give money with a pan, we can actually find the explanation in the explains that our livelihood our is where our energy is invested as he refers to it. When we give dean, we're giving a piece of our physical essence. That's what creates the vessel in the kali to receive the brahas and this connection and hisashas we're asking for in our pan. It's a long-standing tradition from the times of by giving this sedaka together with our pan. We're making the request real in the physical world. So when you send your pan this year, make sure to include the May pan. You can do this through magbus.org and through clicking on the tab for demay pan which ensures that these funds will go to the same place that the rabbi would deposit the money that he received in the panim which is the institutions. It's a small step that makes a huge difference. >> So the isol we felt very very down the right danger to go on the street but besides this wasn't the physical danger fell down. How could it be such a thing in the that cannot go in the street proudly as to be afraid? How does it make sense? It doesn't make sense that it was hard for us to accept such an such a go such a goal situation that you have to be afraid to go. It didn't resonate with and especially said such amazing mash is coming and the belt is ready and everything and such a patch you know slap in your face. never came back from Da after it was two two days after >> this is like a middle of whatever towards the end of the riots but yeah >> no no no no >> after finished >> no it just started it just started it just started unfortunately >> I think it started or something okay whatever not sure yeah >> I thought it started yeah >> it started Theb came back from there said that why does it say it should say you have a fight with your enemies not your enemies said is this has nothing to do with You have to go to the you have to go to the melt. So you're going down but it's not it's not a fight with you. That was one of the things that was in our generation and it was it was already revealed when it wasn't just about said that's why it could be the even though the says only then after but it could have now and interesting is The reb I'm telling you some unofficially amongst you could be a little bit open. The reb was very very careful things that was the said in abran or things that the reb was ma and went to the newspapers and things that the rebb said during the week. But the reb was very very careful. certain things said or and even in Yam the Reb was to say it in a time that there's no other people is the famous the stopped look at the and the reb is using our opportunity the beginning close to the beginning of before other people come to the and say yeah has a bunch of >> explain to me because a lot of people left. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. And this said in during the week that you have a video recorded you have a voice you recording a video statement. >> So what are you trying to say? We felt before the I personally felt so down after the finished we felt there's no riots there's no there's no who cares we felt in like you say in the seventh heaven the stones still flying was still dangerous to go in the street but it was not smoking we were pushing the never picked So game I felt that's one of the many experiences when you bring when you walked out of I'm telling you everyone is right but when you walked out of you felt you're not going to mess yourself up inim you just experience And these I'll deal with is going to listen to a proper means that he's going to put himself in a mode that right now is bringing with and he's going to eat it with aius. He's going to listen to the withmus. It could have the similar but the same you listen to shows of the maybe it's the discussion now I could show you also from my experience one word of the push it in one keep one little word you can make a whole m of one vote of the reb my own experience I could share to you initi not for now for this moment but that's in which is very important but of like it says about is light and energy if you want to have light and energy you have to bring it but you have to a little bit prepare yourself to be in the mood to be in the massive when you put yourself in this even but if he puts himself in in the mood it's going to push it with it's going to work out a different person but the tells him he's going to it's going to it's going to settle in his mind it's it's going to be it's going to make a certain a certain engravement a vote of the and it's going work out differently. That's a just a little bit experience. Another the same another that I see another exact from the same experience the same same vote. It was stick before when the reb came back from the oil riots going on. So they pushed to make police and osis watching the old pathway with cows come back police and theat should not you know this you have to be careful with racism we're not >> it's not the point people that were braver with anti people so anyway so was standing and then a car came. It was Osis touching the old pathway policeman and so then came out was recording the pray not going to go into it very very strong those years encouraged it my my friend is a He was one of the people that worked on it. I'm not going to go into it now. >> He got he got from the crazyb had it in the I think once. >> Oh, exactly. Exactly. So that relates to to my >> Okay. So the in that the Reb came back from and we saw it's to show respect for we know the took the to go to the oil of the was you sat in the rabb's come to see them. So for it wasn't just part of the was like you know sometimes you have one or paragraphs you blow up and see people see it. So like this check it out said comes over the person and he tries to kill him make him crazy. So the say he was a rich person he was lived in and he was a came to make him crazy to said you're starting with me you know am I I am of I have connection with the government he's the that went out of jail supposed to go to his house and the mistake house didn't So the said if you're healthy if you're a normal person if you're healthy you don't put your thought you all smiled you understood but the said in the about the >> but the took this opportunity that we did even the president of United States if he's going to take a person that's for honorary is going to run in front of him he's going to ran he's going to run in front of him you're going to say what do you mean you take taxes people's taxes and you and you spend on such a thing that the president United States could have 50 people running in front of him for honoring commission you walk out of this yeah you're the only of of for the ch is a completely a different perspective. The expectations from yourself is a different expectation when you're going to make a little you going to do this you think about yourself Mr. I want to say that the experience of being by the reb to the a little bit make it a little bit more sense picks you up. That's a as you see mentioned before the whole during the riots. So if you watch the video you see you know way it worked those years is that there was a then there was dancing said there was dancing I mean it could happen every other day but whatever but you see it doesn't make sense outside there's the riots and in 770 theatans so you're saying that this is what this is what was doing with the and this is doing now also exactly you just have to you just have to access Exactly. Exactly. >> Okay. So, I wanted to ask you, I'm sure you have many more and more more of the So, I from what I know and uh from what I heard so far is that the you were that you were there, you weren't just there. You heard everything said. So I spoke to today and I told him that I am going to have a conversation and if I bring him with you they said oh I remember him from someone someone around your age I don't know if but I remember so what is that all about you you're part of what was that I tell you after the shabas most shabas So he made in English is the best. So if someone had to always welcome anyone and and so and in the I used to and after the so I'm going to say that there was a three publication coming out from three was shabus it was especially later that soon as possible. So was a new institution. It's called and was few my age very more or less was in his basement actually and tells he was in charge of the logistic fox it was a fox I can't say but see the machine of fox internet and then I came a little bit later but I did it together with a means dead of a ji. So the way it worked that I wrote one part of the FBI like of the FBI like few of you he wrote the other the other part of I checked out is and he checked out N just to make sure that makes sense and we wrote we wrote how many was besides a few paragraphs of the of the was and then ended. >> So you did this after >> Yeah. was afternoon used to stand in >> because the those years were shorter. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> And then and then Sunday came out and long of the mug. was an office and not by the time the came out the is basically that's right that came out two blue and still existing two blue sets a set of two story blue that's built in Rashidarim So what I did for myself after Sunday when I came out the technical I used to write to myself any pieces that I think they missed or even the sed of the drawing sometimes they put it together should be more clear but I wanted to have the original the way the reb said it and they can a lot of resets I have a lot of that I wrote against M full that um but they didn't write and changes from things that they wrote it like and then they used to give the long and the was and then was the short version brought right after Shabis. So the encouraged it very much interesting two things. First of all, I remember when I started, I wasn't involved yet. The was the first time said even though it's the encourage and someone came to the Dallas video, he said that he gave out Sunday that he gave a donation, gave a machine to make it the added something interesting. said to make sure that I don't remember the meditation was to make sure any of so we thought to myself like what is obviously waited after we said so since then we made himself before So one of us made and then we wrote right away that was one time second was but it wasn't in the wasn't on our paper but we didn't get it because it wasn't actual on our paper was a general thing for the message and then the last so far I was the only one to write because walk his foot technically. So he couldn't be close enough for bring it back. Noisabbl was a fox to accept it. and gave it to the rabbit. Usually there was no response but then this shab send it right away out and they reprinted with a new version and unfortunately happened on Monday after so said that the wanted to the knew that's not going to be the long opportunity to be at least in the in the general that was >> and that's the last thing that And um also that isn't I remember Klein father was a big talker he wasn't he kept secret remember I know for like exceptional thing and he said everyone knows I'm not a big speaker but I could tell you one Yeah. Incident with the Reb question. Reb answer and then and then situation came up again but a little bit different. So he asked the Reb because the situation is different is the what should you do like what the Reb said before or different? The Reb didn't answer. So he figured out because situation change. So he did he did not full time something else but right after the as what's happening with this this reflect what happened. So he told the what he knew from the that since the didn't answer and the situation changed. So he did differently. said became said in have to know that when I give something a message that's the message you should always go along with it even if you think the situation changed that was the years ago but I'm saying that's so spoken B that's the violet the last message of the and if you look at spoke two points one point is about started and that's very very strong and the second said that even someone that has to be strong that he has to have some liquid of toughness but the You have to go more than even covered certain areas. If you look in the finish spoke about kind of that the reason why you do it is for right reason said even you have to show that you pretend you have to make a you have to use the but the was that even if you think that you that you have to be if you look in the so he and that's that's the two that we have to stick up to it completely anyway that's for this >> right and also the whole style of was very different than than typical for that right >> yeah that's right that's right you have to cop in other words Usually, yeah, it was easier to follow or something was much harder to follow. Depends, you know, sometimes and we got we understood it better. Sometimes much harder to understand. But I think it applies after speakings you know in a certain sense was more by the and even especially I'm saying the empist this time started between the of the youths and the and that you felt the The is you felt more shows you, he knows you, shows you, he gives you attention, he gives you his time, gives you and then the time passed the gets also technically got busy more institutions, more mess didn't have time. I want to tell you something interesting that I saw it then and I was thinking about it then and I see it even says after that said this that even though individual I have few interesting that by Dallas by Dallas. So it was a split moment but the the look of the a cook but one cook of the could change completely especially if the made and he went and he made a little bit before he went the could able to change his life in and I think the same thing goes to he goes after and he and he realized as it is now by the Reb like the Reb says and in this moment he he connects to the Reb. He could walk out of the air with the same and the same shinu change in his life like and even spoke interesting experience. I'm not going to say names because maybe it's not nice but is very interesting. I was by the rabbi. The Reb said one sentence in about going a beard and I know him close to the you going to call him that for for some reason they didn't have a beard and they were close to theb in the early years they didn't change to have a beard when the said this statement in the middle of you can check it out option I know three of style of Eden started to grow up. They said I remember this guy said that he thinks that he's going to go to businesses without a beard is going to get you know it looks I'm not saying he looks more no more no more and people are going to give him business going to let him out money says but he realiz that's all episode and after the it was three of that started to grow a bit and of attention gave $110 as a encouragement for this. So you see that you know but at the same time but it's telling us it's a lot of telling us that we have to just tune in to the wave kind of if if we tune in to the wave so we're going to get who the isb at least the is you could live on the same on the same page kind of that's just one interesting incident. >> There's something there. I remember um I remember once hearing from you uh a nice uh with a with a fly. >> Oh wow. Scar. Thank you for reminding me. I I don't know if this has to do with anything that you're saying now, but something that you want to say for this story. So a lot of times I feel that could you speak open or not? Oh, you know the recording you could you could cut off pieces. That's like I'm going to rely on you wisdom. We know that Lavich is like many many levels, right? And then you have many many until right and one of them did that such you seeb is going to be close-minded people that only ever picks the wouldb design theb made it that you could be part of and you know but the where you're holding or whatever the different levels of >> in other words but themes honestly the people from and it's hard for them to make the steps to become you know to become a fullb so obviously egg in a kinder don't belong to this. They should be in the in the right when he passed away then says he passed away that cried out but doesn't say not all the crying says so the praising comes she says no not exactly was crying after it was kind but he read it before if you're praising leave it alone what's the point of you to bring out sounds like negative says it says in the med was he was changing things of so that was no budging no so I have an interesting experience right so I asked him what do you think what is or none other words what story you learn from this from this Indian. So interesting to hear the respondent. Most of the cases I mean smiling to everyone accepting everything. >> Yeah. They say one second. Let's see what says the end of the like this for yourself expectation de from yourself from another smile to him accept him is I tell you the change coming to the Reb getting involved in that was only as good as a change when you outside them or in middle of 50/50 like and coming you see more positive not you hear such sharp kite, the strength and the sharpness of the but you get more involved the answers of the ex like oh when the expectation from Eden that meets this even the expectation of the in every aspect even the rabbi said, "How come they make you know what is according to the expectations? How come they do it?" Because that's one answer of the you see the expectation. The expectations from the Reb that's included self and others is have a bigger dimension for yourself is completely endless expectation. So anyway, I thought this was a blinked, but >> yeah, it's also it's also we could think about this deeper, but sometimes there's a y that also needs and sometimes someone needs a little more whatever. Yeah, >> 100%. >> It's not black and white. It goes together. It's two in >> 100% 100% 100%. Give you an interesting illustration. The you know experienced by the interesting illustration that passed away few months before used to be in charge. So he was he was passed away. So you know everyone is pulling the string to his side politics. What's politics that made a between shekel lying and flattering and made and the baby was called politics. So I sobbing put things in to be about includes I'm not going to go into the details about the celebration should be such And the same scale of the Buddha said at the same time was very positive but very MS putting by we saw something very interesting also but in this very strong when woman came a children a childb smile when at came always the became very serious came out in this the gave out any anal member of the gave such a sharp look I'm telling you not I'm not going to say names again that he used to work before and he went to when he came by such a sharp look that's children the expectations should be learning now I'm going back to the with a fly after this you're still a Will you see it very strong is the Reb speak to kids when the Reb speaks to children very interesting today you're looking for psychologist for therapist for for this I'm not I'm not putting down sometimes you need it but from the spoke to children directly without any spoke to children I Every parents, every shouldbate with a story with a story before, a story after make it dramatic, make it interesting. But the medicine, the medicine inside besides the chocolate around it should be the way that he speaks to kids. Keep shopping. What do you see over very positive to to make properly so I think I know the didn't speak to and to in such a language as the Reb spoke to children maybe maybe because officially you graduated it. You already have it. You don't have to go back to the basics. But that's the basic. If you if you didn't get it in the basic, you have to do it at 18 years old or 40 years old to take the tomius. That's a certain certain combination of very positive positive that you bottom line the expectations is not going to have too much complaints. The doesn't man things in this >> doesn't speak healthy very healthy strong language for children there's also the rally older the rallies also for you know kids and time I don't know >> exactly right and then adults can't forget about the fly by the way >> and that's exactly I'm getting to >> okay is that um we have to also chel of our life as a child also of which is important like I said before the did a positive negative comments but also some positive comments but you have to have this like had a line that says in that there was one of the one of the that he was he said but so one of the a lot of times spoke we felt speaks about a child that described himself and that's the story that I'm getting to it was one of the rallies in those years this touchbas like like during the week like besides like every opportunity. So came back to the rebal when they usually left was the translator after transl one one of the was you know surprisingly so the only one was there he was there so he had to translate >> that's when the explained the mission of Yeah, it was also yeah one of the secrets in this time I don't remember who was the translator in the middle of the the Reb was standing on the stand and listen to the translation in English after the Reb said and a fly went by and the Reb stand a fly so the made a motion to chase away the fly so was very interesting stuff. It's an interesting vision because >> it's a it's an interesting thing that you never thought the did. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Thank you. of the you know because we love the also everything by the is exact >> exactly >> way comes into every time it's usually the same like exactly what >> 100% 100% I'm not going to go into it now but I saw in that it took me time to catch But once I a lot of details that was that kind of but was very interesting that the was didn't make a but to see it and to realize it was very interesting like you said. So it was interesting back then was very interesting. You could check it out. said itb knows a child knows there's only two things and explained I'm not saying the I don't know that he also exist when he makes a motion a motion with his end to chase away the fly or said other hand or another emotion in this case flying make it to fly with the blowing it up. So then he knows that he exists because by a child is only the soing that the is the ultimate of all of I can show you with one of the But the connection to the is like a child. Okay. So you're talking about what's another I mean other of you see like basically that you saw we see so I said before like speaks to kids you see it very very very strong. Um then another push I'm going to explain myself that sometimes I feel expectations is obviously means that is the only thing existing think is not smoking is not smoking. But in other words, sometimes you speak about a certain level of that you walk on yourself and you or you want to finish you want to feel of so says oh you have to go out even of this of right if not explain but is that is not just even That's one aspect of it talking about a lot that likes talking about that a lot like listening to and that um whatever if you have time you're going to sit and it's like speaking to those that have a lot of like They also should >> Yeah. >> And then whatever. Yeah. >> Right. Right. Right. So there's a that certain that you see in the Reb always also this in other words not forget about the basics even though it's and everything but to make sure to the basics. So on top of it that you do have to work on yourself and so even go out of your completely but the say in the beginning interesting statement says even though we speak about completely and how to but that's after you have which is you have a certain then you go even higher but in other words it's taking away from the from the basics the notion of the speaking to the children you see it's very clear that the develops the basic and then goes maybe I have to explain more I'm just saying not this but one of the is interesting that when a wrote to the Reb that he put himself into learning the Reb show not always like I said before the from expect they should do things not like I'm always smile to him it's a child you know from I don't have to l you I don't have to but there was some individual that they show a friend of mine. In other words, that encode very strong and of putting yourself into and on top of it you have forgetting about go out of even and but sometimes stage two you have to make sure to not forget about stage one if I'm explaining myself correctly there's something interesting that could stop that's a kind of person that for some people they like to have and so so they for the guest Which means the said every night every night spoke. I described one of them before. So it was it was the went to the to give to the guest. So the so the reb was the guest and the biggest went to those to give them a suk was the suk and the 70. So walks in the wanted to see the all this say the all land from from the end of the and the father of the you should lead him. So theb was insisting he should go in front of the kil. They used to go like this. >> That was that was the Yeah. was the stand anyway and and by the end of the suka they made a stage made a stage with a stand the stand facing to the guest to the len comes into the suk takes the stand instead of like stand pushing it aside the side is the wall of some empty two and a half people there instead of speaking to facing the whole crowd. It was like a wonder. But I was there a few minutes before. And I saw something interesting. Unfortunately, they they in the suka was lamps and wires, light bulbs, and the light bulb with the fell down instead of fell down not fell down like was hanging in front of top of the stand. So decided he picked it up to organize it and people were yelling against him was there decided he's allowed to do it unfortunately couldn't see it >> that wasn't there wasn't there but then we saw that took the from the interesting it's just one the stars of the I'm not going to go into other place but the reb Interesting. Yeah. So I was wondering what's the two things means a movement a movement you see it maybe even They didn't see it to actually see it after. So after the reb when when I was saw able to it after this was much closer able to see it more gave like a little look like a goodbye to the tites second a split moment the it's a small and now he has to let Jesus go a small a short moment to see it. >> Anyway, >> yeah. Okay. So >> speak interesting that a lot of he spoke before is not just a nice genius that says leaves and tunes and they say try the gives us the ability to to to pick us up to have a to leave the basician few days after this event after after I told you before biggest to try not to be a smart boy. So whatever they send you, you went. >> You went. >> Yeah. Yeah. Someone told me someone told me one set I didn't want to be a smart also not a stupid boy. I didn't go. So anyways, I went back but the way back is to run back like because every five minutes such a was one of the most every five minutes a different I came to I came and then said to sing all the exceptional thing Never happened before. After to sing and after me was I think maybe when he got married to the He came back from after me. So he comes like what's happening? So I told him that the sing is gonna happen. It's it's not by the end of all the right would be the series. like very happy if you could say like very like was yelling after the said like this we don't know exactly what's going to be the 10 of one thing for sure what's going to be all the idea behind it what's going to be the idea of the since started to sing basically and stood up and was dancing. So remember says what is mashia all about? What is all about? That's the of everything is going to come to come is going to do superficial things of your own connection to the that's the gist of it is the only that happened few days before it's all based on the same And they have to just leave it. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Okay. And through this it's beyond. So amen. Okay.